And a woman should not constantly complain about the same thing without wanting a solution out of it. No one wants to keep hearing someone bring up the same issues but don't want to do anything to change it.
@davidclayton.151121 күн бұрын
That's how women deal with issues. THEY TALK ABOUT IT over and over. They don't want a solution. They just want to vent
@bbaird19721 күн бұрын
@@davidclayton.1511then they should not vent to their man, knowing that he's a problem solver.
@Pedsonc0120 күн бұрын
Thank You ajdynamo6866. I've been married for 51 years, and my wife still complains about the same shit she complained about in the late 1970's.
@thevirtualstreetlife582616 күн бұрын
@@davidclayton.1511 dealing = coping. Solving is what adults do.
@colbyharris198514 күн бұрын
@davidclayton.1511 they want to be heard. It's also okay to say, "Hey, I ve listened to this slot. I care, but I m feeling drained on this issue. Is there a friend you can vent to this time?
@ArizonaAirspace5 күн бұрын
This was an excellent advice. And is 100% accurate, especially as you are a woman who has experienced these situations. I have learned that I tend to jump in and offer solutions and when all she wanted was for me to listen to her vent her frustrations. This is the part that was hard for me to comprehend in the beginning. Women are emotional creatures so her first impression of you when you met and you made her feel will pretty much determine whether she will go out with you or not.
@ModernDatingMastery21 күн бұрын
*Whether it’s a sincere compliment, a playful tease, or showing genuine curiosity about her, the key is delivering your words with authenticity and charm.*
@Sidewalkman121 күн бұрын
I hear you.😊
@paulguy254521 күн бұрын
You’re knocking it out of the park as usual Maya! It’s so simple!
@Ruben-vp3tl21 күн бұрын
So i had this female colleague at work, it was a summer job at a hotel, lasted about 4 months.. we got along very well since the start, lots of laughs, I genuinely loved listening to her, being empathetic with her, even as she went through a difficult period of time... i wasn't being deceitful, nor did i have a hidden agenda.. still, I thought i could leave a mark on her, create perhaps a friendship that would go on eyond those 4 months.. in the end, summer is over, haven't seen, nor heard from her in over 2 months...
@adamreyes538621 күн бұрын
Maya you keep blessing KZbin with your thoughts and advice! Gracias!
@oeyvind.721 күн бұрын
Beautiful message!🤗
@ZyRaMaxx21 күн бұрын
I’m in love you wtf stop being so good and amazing
@divisionmonarchy15 күн бұрын
Don’t simp to these attention-seekers. They care about clicks nothing else.
@smiles763122 күн бұрын
It is hard to understand what a woman goes through. I always want to fix what's broken so I most definitely did not understand this until the internet. I hear you! Thank you.
@MistahKurtzASMR21 күн бұрын
I hear you, Maya. Thanks for today’s video.
@giiioo623522 күн бұрын
another banger video, thanks maya
@JSFGuy22 күн бұрын
I say that anyway as an active listener. I'm already there. Hasn't gotten me any favors.
@mrjlee429422 күн бұрын
That’s best gay friend vibes
@kennethhamlin753322 күн бұрын
?@@mrjlee4294😂
@fergoka21 күн бұрын
If she is not sexually attracted to you, you are her friend. She appreciates it I am sure but that's not all that you want, I am also sure in that too. Pick the women who choose you.
@HarshKumar-tp5mi22 күн бұрын
Yes mam I hear you
@RB-gx4qg16 күн бұрын
Someone got to put the fire out! We got to hug in the middle of the smoke first?
@nikkydutta512316 күн бұрын
Be my friend😊😊😊
@sistergrimace156722 күн бұрын
It’s crazy you said that. There’s another woman in my life who told me the exact same thing. Ok it was my mom. She used those exact words. She said, “Just say, ‘I hear you.’” There’s something terribly wrong with men (and I think it has something to do with peace never being an option), but it never occurs to us that someone would seek our validation.
@BirdFlier19 күн бұрын
Saying "I hear you" while you don't understand... 🤣 I guess that's most men. Being in touch with your emotions as a man is not something that comes naturally... You can't fake it. You have to feel secure alone first and have extra mental space. I would recommend having good male friends as mentors so you don't put all your burden on a relationship. Same I would advice for women, spread your circle. That way you have space for her. So you can just be there listening and she will value it.
@bonifaciotrialmuseum970121 күн бұрын
I hear you...
@orlandoacontreras21 күн бұрын
Thanks.
@JSFGuy22 күн бұрын
That's better, got a notice this time on time.
@jrlamarcus20 күн бұрын
good mornimd
@fbushphone20 күн бұрын
I've been married nearly 50 years, what this lady says is true guys
@YepTriedToTellYou20 күн бұрын
Is your food bowl empty?
@derekshearer904921 күн бұрын
When she says back off old man I say I hear you lol
@KeithVan-up6wf21 күн бұрын
Truly grateful for you Maya and I 👁️ you. Thank you for being you.
@BenVanHeel21 күн бұрын
I hear you is a nice gesture, but hearing and listening are two different things.
@beyourself916221 күн бұрын
The problem is most women do not understand when men show them that they are into them. I always only hear advises and wishes from women to men … men should do this and that. The truth is with a woman’s its often never enough. They really have no idea what they really need. And what they need can change very fast. I say most women have a low self esteem and want to correct this from the outside world, which only can be corrected from the inside. I am not responsible for the feelings of my wife. And she is not for mine. Interdependence is when you enjoy being together without depending that your partner says or does the right things … that you can feel happy, or seen. Feel good without a partner first, when you can hold this the partnership is only icing on the cake, and you can enjoy it much more to be seen…. because you have realistic expectations in the thing called love….🎉
@JSFGuy22 күн бұрын
2:30 Right I will ask is this a solutions session or a venting event? This way I will not offer a solution.
@bgrimlan22 күн бұрын
Hmm... I think most guys recognizes all women emotions, they are human. Here's a secret, men have emotions too... is that a shocker. ;) So.... I think men assume that women already know that men have already took their emotions into account. That's why we want to go straight into problem solving so we can get her to feel better. Emotions doesn't fix things faster, problem solving does and she begins to feel better. At least that's men's logic. Soo... we may not say it, but we do take women emotions into account, if we didn't, that means we don't love them and I do think women know we love them. If we didn't, we would say "that sucks" and walk away. I guess we have to show it better by saying those 3 words. Also, when a man hears "I hear you", to him, he knows a "but" is coming. So... he doesn't want to say those 3 words to make her feel like he's brushing her off with that hidden "but" coming.
@pedrovillegas854921 күн бұрын
“Take my wallet” “Take my house” Take my energy” Etc etc etc! 3 magic words!
@latendresseaa19 күн бұрын
Work all the female time....
@fredclement505919 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@markbrown384119 күн бұрын
Then you're creating a gold digger. She won't respect you. Here's an extreme example, but it's still the truth. Does James Bond offer women things to be with him? Blank no, but women are constantly drooling over him. Why? Because he has his act together. He's in good shape, knows how to dress (look cool), has his own place to stay (nice house or apartment), drives a cool car (it doesn't have to be so expensive, just not cheap or common) because a guy that really has his act together is not so common. Also, he is confident in himself. Doesn't go around looking for, hollering at, or drooling over women. Most scrubs do that. If you have your act together, women will let you know they want you, and some will actually openly tell you they are interested in you. Just like James Bond or any other really cool guy on the big screen. Jason Statham's character in "The Transporter" movies fits the bill. Cool guy, in good shape, confident in himself, knows how to dress (you don't have to be rich), and doesn't go around drooling over women. Why? Because they come to you and you really don't have time and energy to add another one to your list. If you don't have one at the moment, that's the perfect time to better yourself. Time to workout, rest up, as in getting the proper amount of sleep, eating healthy, which will include taking the right supplements. All this helps you become healthier and more attractive. Also, get & keep your car in good condition, inside and outside. For example, the Transporter car that he drove can be purchased for $15 to $ 20k, in great condition, or similar cars. Having something that the average Joe doesn't have, even though it's not necessarily more expensive, is a plus. Just like the women who stepped into the Aston Martin with James Bond or the S8 with the Transporter. Women are turned on if you have your act together. People in general will respect you more when you have your act together. These are just facts. It works in all areas of life. One more example. Does Brad Pitt go around hollering at or looking for women? He doesn't have time, energy, or space to add another one to his book. Lastly, why would he in the first place when they've been coming to him his whole life.
@ThebestOne-sc6uo20 күн бұрын
for everyone scrolling and listening to the video, go read Hidden Laws Of The Game by Eric Cook. then come back and thank me.
@lanesniffin73021 күн бұрын
“I’m 6 foot”
@MarcRoman-bb1ju22 күн бұрын
Inspired! I hear you.
@Rustam469122 күн бұрын
If hearing a woman was so important, I wouldn't be single until I'm 33. I can hear but it doesn't help me.
@smartgenes121 күн бұрын
It was telling her you hear her, not hearing her.
@jacqueslee259221 күн бұрын
Only if you are alpha and high salary earner. I said these words and the woman just ignored me and gave a face of disgust.
@jamesyoung368317 күн бұрын
Maya, sagacitatem tuam altam aestimo.
@JaySmith-pv2mw21 күн бұрын
I am rich.
@EugeneKrabs-j4g22 күн бұрын
I'm gonna be honest if i were to ever say that to the type of woman I'm interested in she'd look at me like I'm lets say mentally challenged or a pod person or something because my personality isn't the listen and do nothing type that's why it's important to pick the right woman because if i ever do get an old lady she'll know what coming to me with a problem means for her
@jonsmith488321 күн бұрын
Got a Ferrari.
@madwax136022 күн бұрын
Ok, she saw Avatar recently
@tonyascaso625421 күн бұрын
Feelings and emotions come and go. Validation is just new age rubbish, don't swim in that stuff. Run don't walk.
@joegonzalez194117 күн бұрын
Look, the wallet 😅
@YepTriedToTellYou20 күн бұрын
“Building her attraction to you”? Seriously? Either she is or she isn’t. Who has the time for such games?
@riseup90221 күн бұрын
I can't build crap with a woman. I can build other things though and it stays. You can try building with a woman. but its probably built to fall
@mariotrujillo492721 күн бұрын
It doesn't work. You can't talk to someone who doesn't listen. And guess what? It's not men.
@Pedsonc0120 күн бұрын
Hey magicmaya, I sincerely hope that you're licensed to provide counseling services to the general public. I don-kno, you look like you're no older than 19.
@Magicmayaa20 күн бұрын
Never once have I promoted counselling I do offer coaching and these are 2 different things.
@juliacartman881920 күн бұрын
No such thing as magic words. If a woman likes you she will be around you. If she is not into you no words can get her to like you. Building attraction is hard and constant work. Women should not give men advice on how to attract women. If you cant be yourself around a women she is not the one for you. The key to having a long term relationship is finding a woman with similar values as yourself and both of you need to be kind and tolerant to each other.
@bbaird19721 күн бұрын
Okay but i need alcohol if im to listen to her bable on and on about the same thing and not want a solution.
@ezflash22 күн бұрын
you're such a sweetie love yeah
@Boni_Bmx20 күн бұрын
I love what you do but getting dating advice from a women is like teaching a woman how to cook😂she'll look at you crazyyyyy😂