"You only have one arm?" Korean Mom shocked by Son's New Girlfriend..!

[@King-ij8ee]

So well said "don't sympathize with her, see her as an equal" exactly this! There is nothing wrong with Nayoon. She is a whole human who had something very traumatizing happen to her but still a whole human being! The mother was real for everything she said and I commend her for not letting her feelings get the better of her - feelings being her potentially feeling sorry for the girl. It was as if she was talking to herself when she said that her son shouldn't marry Nayoon out of sympathy but because he genuinely saw her as not lacking anything.

[@zodkip3147]

I've lived by these sayings all my life and it is underemphaiszed in america. She is beyond correct. For marriage to work two people have to be able to live by themselves but compliment one another along the way

[@sindieltaylor2147]

It was really heartwarming to realise that the look of concern on her face was actually for how the woman would feel. And to make sure he's interested in her for the right reasons. She's an incredible person.

[@realyoyoweb]

Hum, i didn't see it like that at first. Thank you !

[@seanhand446]

You can tell, this mother has wisdom for sure.

[@h4rder10]

maybe compared to u.

[@marthamelchers]

@@h4rder10 💀💀💀

[@vibhutidev3973]

i'm happy that he's mother is quite straight forward and understands .

[@shinichikudoz]

we need more mother like her

[@jss.2020]

she can b yo mum

[@22ninja1]

I've seen Nayoon in a different video on this channel with Yumi and Kyojun (good times) about Nayoon's accident and struggle about being an amputee she even nicknamed herself Yoonus its a video worth watching if you never seen it.

[@oneforall3690]

can you give a link a video ??

[@22ninja1]

@@oneforall3690 kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6G1mpZqh7J3m7csi=XKrtAlUrBbyweRM0

[@22ninja1]

@@oneforall3690 there's also a video on Nayoon about her accident in full detail and also winning a fitness competition which is really cool by the way I'll find a link.

[@22ninja1]

@@oneforall3690 kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6G1mpZqh7J3m7csi=UWlg3PJCi1zHnFBC

[@22ninja1]

@@oneforall3690 okay something is very wrong every I give it a link it just disappears I don't know why.

[@Katisverycool]

The shock on her face😂😂

[@63xxamg8]

어머니 미모 만큼이나 마인드도 멋지십니다

[@oyindamolaadetola1458]

She is such a sweet mother😢😊❤

[@myglAU]

honestly before watching this video: i'll never give a fuck about what my parents would think about my partner missing a body part and you shouldn't too.

[@coi6211]

That's your mindset and not everyone have the same like yours. This video just prove that a mother concern is directly for the woman to not get her heart hurt. "The world is harsh" reality

[@myrielka118]

Well, some people care about what their parents think, some don't. Everyone is different. Whatever you choose it's your life. What his mom said what very wise though. It would only help their relationship. 🎉

[@sjv9147s]

The fifth commandment says, “Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you” (Exodus 20:12). This is the foundational premise.

[@AntonGully]

@@sjv9147s Exodus 20-23 “When you buy a Hebrew slave, he shall serve six years, and in the seventh, he shall go out free, for nothing”

[@myglAU]

Guys, I’ve watched the video, thx for the summery. It’s my partner- idgaf.

[@superhuman7581]

It's like watching Kdrama 👀 i thought in the end i can see her two hands

[@เส้นทางฝันของสาวน้อยขนมหวานพาก]

This is heartwarming when she said EQUALLY. My mom even told me that there is no way male and female would be equal. I don’t think their ages are not that different. Even my country seems to be more freedom than South Korea, there are baby boomers who stick with the same mindset😞😞

[@HatoriYamato08]

I think the mother just says the nice words to not embarrass the girl and hurt her.but in reality 100, she will scold her son when he gets home and finds another woman.

[@redrabbit2305]

Cant think positive can we?

[@HatoriYamato08]

@@redrabbit2305 it's a positive "FACT"!...

[@redrabbit2305]

@@HatoriYamato08 you got a camera in their home? Damn dude that illegal

[@HatoriYamato08]

@redrabbit2305 your illegal too.your mother and father baked you.😆

[@Bliss8191]

Exactly Asians are nice to your face but behind the doors her son will get it. They are the most judgmental culture on the planet. I mean look at her facial expression it’s so obvious but people commenting are so gullible.

[@loislindsay]

The shock in her face

[@HotDogPasta]

I’ll be very honest… I’ve not seen someone be discriminated against by a potential in-law based on whether or not they have two arms..

[@Mezman999]

So you have seen this scenario a few times hence?😂

[@Lmi.N]

That's very hard indeed, but one must face it as much as possible and win if can.

[@Yuki_Official_777]

Omg she was so sweet😭😭❤ And the shock on her face💀

[@elivile.]

I love the mom so much. So much respect for her.

[@mr.broccoli3776]

Mom looking at both perspective , good mom ..

[@lindencarlos4222]

All I got was a mother who wasn't happy because her son is bringing a woman who is defective in her eyes home. She the mom had to deal with it. Once she realized it was a joke she was cool and laughing and happy. But before she wasn't. What about this woman with no arm? What if they was really in love with each other? I don't get it. I know it's a different culture, but East Asians tend to be really hard on their kids. Just my thoughts on the matter. I don't mean to offend anyone. I just have an issue with the idea of this lady being seen as a problem just because she is missing an arm. Korea, for a people that has endured a lot of prejudice from other people (Japan looking at you), why are you so judge-mental of others? Again, Im not trying to offend Koreans here. I'm just perplexed by this. Watching that one arm lady laughing saying it's a prank, and the mothers look of relief on her face says it all to me.

[@gampamtt]

the mother wanted to make sure, that her son isnt just fooling around with the girl. she should know best about her son, maybe he´s more of a "player" thats why the mother was concerned for the girl.

[@Plez_Chill]

Apparently the English subtitles are off 🫣 bc that’s what I got from it too

[@lindencarlos4222]

Maybe you are right, maybe I am cynical. I watch a lot of these videos. After watching tons of these videos. It's always about the mother disapproving of the person their child's chooses to marry/date. It's always disguised as being concerned about their child's welfare, but it comes off as superficial. The mom doesn't like this person because of X. But I will disguise it with some reverse psychology, I care rhetoric. Usual because the person in question doesn't fit some standard of Korean greatness or beauty. When Koreans get mad at South East Asians their first insults are short, fat, dark. It's never about the character of the person, but the way the person looks. I know giggle is trying dismantle these biases with these videos. Like look mom I'm marrying a black person, or a person with Tattoos. But seeing the disabled woman hit a nerve for me. Because that woman is being presented as a negative that has to be proven worthy of marriage, and not just accepted as so. Yeah it could be disguised as her son being problematic. But I have a hard time believing the mother would be at odds if it was a beautiful Kpop idol like Bae Suzy or Sullyoon wanting to marry her son. She would be over the moon, and not looking for the bad reason her son might want to be with this person. Again I have seen way too many of these videos and it made me cynical of Korean Beauty standards to the point of frustratingly writing these post. I just need to chill and detox from these kind of videos. I can't tell if the mom is sincere or just trying to save face from her neighbors and friends talking about how her son has an imperfect wife. @@gampamtt

[@Hyunjinx4419]

I perceived it honestly as just the mother trying to make sure her son would treat her right. Not talk him out of dating her because she thought being disabled was bad.

[@alexlosada1478]

@@lindencarlos4222 Honestly after reading both of your comments it is evident you have a certain view and oppinion of the Korean culture that you are projecting onto the conversation that occured in this video. If you are cynical then you are likely somewhat of a realist and that is the point of view that the mother is taking. Without a shadow of a doubt having a girlfriend with one arm is going to cause difficulties in a relationship that otherwise would have never been the case and it is too much of a fantasy fairy tale ideology to think otherwise. She takles some of her worries of how the couple would interact and mantain a long term relationship in that conversation: 1) the logistics of her taking care of herself, being able to drive and not using sypathy as a tool to get more from her partner, 2) she turns to her son and tells him that you have to make sure you view her equally so no prejudice or recentment gets built up over the course of the relationship, and 3) she wanted to ensure that the woman wasn't going to get her heart broken by her son due to the potential of him being shallow and not taking this relationship seriously. These 3 points were brought up to ensure that they tackle marriage as equal partners. The mom never once mentioned beauty, wealth, or used reverse psycology. I want to make a point out of you complainning of the prejudice that is held in Korea (which although in many cases is true) it was not present in this video. So It is clear you are brining your own prejudice into the conversation. If you have to repeat in your comment that you don't want to offened someone it's because you are likely saying something that others will find offensive otherwise you'd have felt no need to preface your opinions. Be careful about what view you project onto things and try to be more objective and I think you'll find yourself being less cynical about things.

[@alanmendoza3872]

Fine with pretty couple ❤

[@user-ye3bo5vr1p]

It seems to me very ugly to involve adults in pranks and show their reaction to such shocking situations. Any mother, of course, wants a healthy and beautiful partner for her child. Her state of shock was evident. If this woman had not been so cultured, she would have expressed everything in plain text and this could have disgraced her to the whole world. Don't let adults down.

[@sevincisrayilova3230]

What a mom ❤❤❤

[@flamezodiac5736]

So many comments here sugar coating everything. She was not happy she was not concerned for her she used harsh words. If she was concerned she would not use harsh words in front of her. Seen a comment on here that mentions she's heart warming lol more like ice cold heart.

[@mabumarnauen7318]

do you speak korean

[@coi6211]

There's always people like you 🙃

[@drakelance7182]

What is wrong with that?? If it doesn't bother the couple no one else should judge 😊

[@Plez_Chill]

You can see the judgement all over her face. I’m stressed bc this is literally not a normal or okay reaction. The fact that it’s so normalized makes me sick. I’m upset for her and absolutely disgusted with this lady. I get it’s a prank but what if it wasn’t

[@carmendelabellemotte7865]

You are the ptoblem not her

[@madbruh123]

Bruh you didnt understand anything of what she said i guess.

[@iamxinyi]

did u even watch the video?

[@sleepy_dobe]

Ahh....ok, I can understand if you thought the mother was judging the girlfriend. I blame the translation for this, if you're depending on the English translation that is. It didn't do a proper job of translating what the mother said. Also, the mother's facial expressions are a little difficult to read correctly. So together with the bad translation, it can come across as the mother looking down on the girlfriend for being disabled. But that's not what's really happening here.

[@Plez_Chill]

@@sleepy_dobeyea! because from the translation it’s nothing but judgment

[@eddyavailable]

its ok. if he loves her, why not. Dont ruin itm nowadays its hard to find love.

[@John_Bull_]

The mother must be so relived that it is just a prank

[@patrickgallegos113]

Definitely the world can be harsh with people with limitations, but the people that make it harsh for them are the ones that make it an issue. This lady did make it an issue and it is brutal. Luckly it's a prank but in reality Koreans do have an issue with this type of situations. Even if you are missing a finger or an ear, that will be a mayor issue. And I know this because my wife is Corean and she told me this is a big flaw in the Corean culture.

[@PongoXBongo]

Honestly speaking, from the perspective of a potential grandparent, I was relieved when she said that she lost her arm in an accident. That way at least it's not genetic and I don't have to worry about my grandchildren being born with only one arm. Not that I would love her or them any less.

[@Sunset553]

What part was the prank? She is not the girlfriend, or she is the girlfriend and not disabled?

[@bunstructors8591]

Everyone says it's heartwarming but if you have an Asian mom you know she doesn't really like it

[@evelinecarolinelienhuaming1184]

I Feel High Intensity in Their Discussion!!! 😳🥵🥶

[@Jaykurosakii]

If she acts like that with a Korean woman missing an arm, I couldn’t imagine how she would react if he was dating a foreign woman

[@SimplyLuxWell]

her face looks judgemental. my opinion

[@Agent19D]

So.. What was the prank again? They're not together or the meeting for marriage was fake? Someone enlighten me pls..

[@music_amrutha]

Mom adopt me

[@uhu597]

Do all Korean middle-aged women look like the current first lady?!

[@coyotelong4349]

This was obviously very disarming for the young man’s mother 😉

[@michaelchang2750]

좋은 말 하는것 갔지만 저 아줌마 많이 당황하셨네

[@bgleqzprosh1687]

Next content, try making a video of zentai worn by women

[@Iuaena_.]

please Indonesia subtitle😔

[@madhuripatel2712]

Hello 👋👋💜

[@yirouvn9621]

Wait, so is this girl really disabled or not?

[@soulknight89]

she is. her YT in description

[@soulknight89]

[@_Tanya28_]

First

[@MichelYang-fz6vm]

This bullshit😅, not real korea

[@yasmin_the_asian]

u're comment is bs

[@SK1UROKPark]

I am not impressed the lady and her prank.... definitely dont marry this woman.... if the mother was in on this for ratings, its different. but if she was unaware of the serious joke, shame on the son and his girlfriend... this is no joking matter... the one armed women is probably going through hard times but she was too forward with the mother, IMO does she even have one arm! i cant tell when your joking about such serious matters...anyways, i hope you guys get what you want....

[@aina9999]

i don’t think you understand think correctly. they are joking about dating each other to see the mom’s reaction. the girl IS disabled, she got into accident and lost her arm. they talked about this in one of their videos here. go check it. she did not joked about losing arm, the joke is about the guy dating a disabled girl and to see how the mom would feel and react

[@SK1UROKPark]

ok. i did not understand.. my bad...@@aina9999

[@AntonGully]

@@aina9999 Either way it's pretty fucked up.