sad!Us guys seem to cut everything off for relationships smh
@blessphiri2196 ай бұрын
It genuinely depends brother. All I can say is, it can happen perhaps depending on her beliefs , background and friend groups , or even religious conviction. But it really happens more often than you think
@Tarantulisimo2 ай бұрын
STRAIGHT LIKE THAT...FACTS
@guttaboyzayy2 ай бұрын
@@readymadeit5746faxxx huge sacrifices making good $$ just to lose it all and back in square 1
@Tarantulisimo2 ай бұрын
CLASSIC...She's dating you but simultaneously texting a squad of assorted exes, friend-zoners, bar buddies, work hubbies, gym pals, former flames, old crushes, & past booty calls -- And you're supposed to be OK with it. But then if you address or question it, then you are immediately framed as insecure, jealous, not man enough to let her have friends GTFOH
@evertcharles87878 ай бұрын
Your videos are really helpful. It now have me deleting the number of women who can't seem to make up their mind if they want me or not. You making great impact
@Ekjunior-y7v8 ай бұрын
Good move bro!,time wasted is never gained 😂
@Official_Suave8 ай бұрын
If she's have other options then we have to get our options too
@cmack37956 ай бұрын
Always , that's a must but they hate that for us lol
@PaoloTamburrino18 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊 i didn't needed at all this advice cause i can recognise when someone is really interested in me or not. And the fact that im still alone and everyone got everything, yeah, this make me think about the reality. The reality is that she never actually cared or loved me, but, she has me just for have a laugh with her friends.
@depressing_reap9698 ай бұрын
It feels like your head keeps telling you she never cared, and your heart is still stuck in it. I mean, if you were over it, you wouldn't have typed right? If you're ever stuck onto emotions and feel terrible- trust me I'm there right now. Hit the gym, It feels so good to put your emotions into something, and you'll be way more confident! Much love
@amaadomaatv8 ай бұрын
Jess this 2024 glowe is unmatched ❤
@okaforgodswill29068 ай бұрын
Thanks for this Jessica ❤
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
No problem 😊
@RodneyDailey-df7sj4 күн бұрын
Great content thank you Jessica 😊 🙏
@robertrotimi16608 ай бұрын
Point 4 though....spot on
@musakamara36948 ай бұрын
Jessica this is absolutely amazing you said all ❤..!
@paulnwogu93748 ай бұрын
Thanks alot Jessie, you're always delivering, love you and GOD Bless you. ❤
@rodger3kay8 ай бұрын
this was super helpfull… thx jessie she was all this.
@mrwnking5 ай бұрын
Social media destroys relationships. I believe if you truly love somebody, you should delete all social media's.
@brianbrino43108 ай бұрын
Thank you for your great video with such great hints and guidance to determine how real a relationship between the parties can become or level where they are! Cosmic blessings and a happy New Year 2024 to you and your loved ones!❤
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
Happy new year Brian
@brianbrino43108 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS 🌹🌹🙏❤️
@effortmsimelelo50598 ай бұрын
So in conclusion I'm about to be single again, damn..
@maxHalie11328 ай бұрын
Thanks for the grt advice dear Jessica. I like yr intellect over insights on concerns.
@marekknieshtschav63918 ай бұрын
@1 is funny to me, as my gf would at some point become the main initiator of text convos, but it always took her long time to work up the courage to text AND she is a terrible texter.
@Askaa888 ай бұрын
Hi Jessica, thank you for the good content. I have a question though: What does it say about a girl if she's in another relationship within 2 months of a breakup? We've been "happily" together for 3 years and she cheated on me with the same guy that she's with right now. Meanwhile, I took all the time I needed to bring back my self and reflect on the intense relationship/breakup. Now a better man than ever. But, does a woman like that (a sensitive type) have any moral sense or regrets? A 'church girl' stabbing backs like that? I am not looking for closure or anything. I'm waaay past that already. But I'm still curious about the psychology behind actions like that in order to learn even more.
@ianyimiah8 ай бұрын
I am not able to give any significant insight about the psychology of such a person. I am only interested in this because you said she is a church girl. I am a full-time follower of Jesus Christ now, but I used to only be fan of Jesus. I have been in the church for a long time now to know that many people who claim to be Christians are not really Christians. They are Christians in name only (CINO). But I also know that the church is a place for broken imperfect people. So, I expect to see some broken people in the church. But the difference between a broken person who is truly a Christian and a CINO is that over a long period of time, there'd be significant growth in the genuine Christian. This will be seen in their hatred of sin and love for that which pleases God demonstrated in their actions not only when they are in church.
@abonkayooyo1911 күн бұрын
Pls I need an advice, I'm in a relationship where sometimes she makes me feel happy and caring but sometimes hmmm it looks like it is the worst relationship im in. Regretting in it.
@samosborne60198 ай бұрын
I am breaking up with this girl
@terrelloliver97608 ай бұрын
what if she she's, I'm bad at texting and don't be on my phone like that?
@EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv5 ай бұрын
My count it is one Out count forever more
@sticknewtune8 ай бұрын
Wish I seen your vids sooner smh glad I’m hear now tho 👍🏾💯
@mohammednasirabagero56686 ай бұрын
OK maybe
@zamushodge45908 ай бұрын
That reminds me good topic 😅
@AyodelePeriola8 ай бұрын
Just write a book - the modern version of the Manipulated Man ---- ....
@wellingtonokilla55798 ай бұрын
❤❤
@fearless25676 ай бұрын
Your a great psychologist. Beautifully expressed.
@raymondansahsackey86548 ай бұрын
Jessica why expose the secrets of WOMEN
@geethamadhuri4.0338 ай бұрын
🥹🥹🥹
@ivo_okeke8 ай бұрын
Hi, Jessica..been trying to reach/o to you for some time now. Sent a mail, an X and IG message but no response so far. Please have a look and revert as soon as you can. Thanks.
@benniecohens2268 ай бұрын
In these days and times who cares 😂😂😂😂
@WarBadger8 ай бұрын
Lol no shit
@briar359818 ай бұрын
Hypergamy is real. Women always have a exit plan and someone in their past they would love to be with.
@gapyrodawg51815 ай бұрын
Technically that's Monkey Branching. Had she paid attention to Hypergamy she'd of dated up & more likely to stay
@makenocommento-kj4gq3 ай бұрын
@briar35981, Hypergamy is 100% CORRECT when it comes to women, but it's not always about money, it can be about Racial background and Culture, For example a Latino women in the U.S. only dating White Anglo Saxon Men, with a possiblity of having " Whiter" Kids, that's Hypergamy as well
@guttaboyzayy2 ай бұрын
Trueee been thru dat w my old lady long story
@stevenarps56002 ай бұрын
Yessir you are right
@Jeph_Theo8 ай бұрын
When she said ➡️ This is a tricky one.. "Social Media can often serve as a reflection of what basically is important to people, When you go through their posts.. you can almost tell who they are"... This is pure psychological thinking👏.. Thanks Jes🙏🏾
@emiemugreat17756 ай бұрын
Jessica helped me catch my cheating gf, once your instincts tell you she is cheating, she is actually cheating . Thanks so much, would have been in the dark
@Skizzybaby228 ай бұрын
I broke up with my ex cause of you 😂🎉
@IGBOisraelite8 ай бұрын
Good, you probably dodged a bullet
@justody18 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Skizzybaby228 ай бұрын
@@IGBOisraelite nahh Fr I did 💯💯
@Skizzybaby228 ай бұрын
@@justody1 😂😂😂 nahh fr
@Gilo1341778 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@samuelbonesdedzo20938 ай бұрын
Mine just happened today….. it surprised me though but I took it cool . Thanks for this video
@chiefgarban13498 ай бұрын
Sometimes I feel like when u watch a lot of this videos is either u will lose ur woman or men stay calm u use ur brain every woman and men are deferent
@smanoutdoors3165Ай бұрын
@@chiefgarban1349 good point
@danielp84337 ай бұрын
men, make sure its not your ego (and the fear of pain) that lets you ignore all signs. i did and paid. Never NEVER NEVER shed tears infront of her. She will shame (or just leave) you for it sooner or later. Go to a friend.
@DG-EditsYT7 ай бұрын
Very trusted friend or independent person who can keep things confidential
@kefasyusuffintan27328 ай бұрын
Your views on this subjects are spot on!
@noblesseraizelcoby8 ай бұрын
Drop a like before leaving 😊
@jakesanchez32024 ай бұрын
If you’re thinking it getting those vibes then most likely she is. So move on.
@Rootstar18 ай бұрын
My crush always force herself to at masculine around me instead of feminine
@gainwithusername8 ай бұрын
So Amina you're cheating on me 😢 Pack your things before I come home
@Jesusismyhope.8 ай бұрын
Take it easy bro
@darkest_magnum8 ай бұрын
😂
@pontianekakoro17378 ай бұрын
Happy new year Jessica. May this year bring you blessings in multiples🙏
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
Happy new year!!
@feez25438 ай бұрын
Always on point❤
@robertrotimi16608 ай бұрын
Jess i don't know how you do it, how you get inspirations for the right topics to discuss,🤔 trust me they are always spot on 👌.. I've not even watched the video yet, but the moment i saw the thumbnail i jumped right on it, cuz it just happens to relate with the current dilemma I'm faces with.... God bless you always 🙏
@ocramlibero71208 ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica!! I don't know what time it is wherever you are, but here is past 1am (already wed). Ive woken up in the middle of night after a stressful night. I was heading to block the girl ive been dating. There are so many things shes been doing which really make me feel she doesnt neither value nor respect our relationship😭😭. Ive been giving her second chances but i think its high time to create the NO CONTACT ZONE!! I basically want to block her. Ok?
@ocramlibero71208 ай бұрын
For instance, we agreed I pick her one morning to work. She asked me give her a few mins to get ready and she could then let me know when ready. Trust me, I waited for some hours till midday when she contacted me without explaining why she failed to let me pick her. I basically need peace of my mind... I need to block this lady...a lady I loved and cherished. I want to follow your advice of NO CONTACT ZONE.
@Ebubedike_0018 ай бұрын
Same mistakes lots of men make..Stop loving! just like & appreciate her for being your gf or mother to your kids so you can easily move on when things start going south You are clearly not her priority You are hurting yourself loving her I advise you to expand your circle and have more female friends
@calvinkibisu72135 ай бұрын
My ex would initiate all the conversations,took announced visit to her campus,....she's fucking a lecturer 😢
@abdulhye28 күн бұрын
If she asks for money 💵 and keeps distance
@ogbonnayaagom-eze68548 ай бұрын
Keep up the great work!
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
Thanks, will do!
@atangapriscilla49968 ай бұрын
This is about her but this is perfectly how he treats our relationship and I don't know what do or how to handle things😢
@Iz-jm8sq8 ай бұрын
I have always been an unlovable socially awkward and often times dumb undesirable nerdy guy. As an artist, this helps me rationalize my already sneaking suspicions to stop seeking love, I don't blame her though, she is out of my league lol.
@RUSIFPH728 ай бұрын
She wasn't out of your league other guys are making her more interested in them but don't worry they're going to soon realize that she is more interested in you now that you're out of the picture and trust me they always crawl back even when they get into their relationships they'll still send you pics even when you know you've started another one when they know you're worth it trust me it lingers in their minds forever
@sugar-spice388 ай бұрын
I had to subscribed to you because this was so true I found out that all this was true in my year long distance connection I use to be in last year I walked away with my dignity and self worth
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
Happy for you. Thanks for the sub
@sugar-spice388 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOSyou’re so welcome when I tell you I woke up out my sleep just to subscribe to you I stumbled upon your Channel I’m happy for me to I was wearing rose colored glasses You’re amazing at what you do Queen
@kevin3moore8 ай бұрын
That'l conclusion part hit me profound, much respect Jess🎉🎉
@Manolo-11798 ай бұрын
Love the advice and insight I pray 🤲🏿 your day is going great
@nelsongoncalves53798 ай бұрын
Great advice excellent point , I was in situation just like this before
@victorafe96408 ай бұрын
the tone at the end is cool , keep it
@christianamedzro41148 ай бұрын
PIAWWWWW Jessica God bless you ...this message is really mine ✌✌✌
@m.o.b.50118 ай бұрын
What if I'm interested in YOU Jessica.
@JerryKuevi8 күн бұрын
Je je I like you doing I like you teaching and I love you too
@lauriegarvey350212 күн бұрын
This also applies to men. What you are describing here is very true to the guy I am talking too. You should do some videos from a woman's perspective.
@TheMuuFactor8 ай бұрын
I love this woman
@darrellcook76168 ай бұрын
Everyone should stop voting.
@DonMega85Ай бұрын
An immediate red flag, for me personally, is the females that only text. Even when they are at home. I’m not about to have a 2-3 hour text conversation. Yea we not doing that. So once I see that that’s what it’s hitting for, I fall back. But the weird part is when they get mad because I don’t want to partake in that high school stuff. We are adults, pick up the phone smh
@karenmeacham7988 ай бұрын
Hi, my husband has said that my wife of 30 years is on a need to know basis, he's a lot more secretive he never was like this
@shedparker8 ай бұрын
Please edit your comment.
@darkest_magnum8 ай бұрын
On a need to know basis? What does that mean?
@karenmeacham7988 ай бұрын
@@darkest_magnum hi not sure, but he doesn't love me in the same way he loves me as a friend
@shedparker8 ай бұрын
@@karenmeacham798 Now that you’ve edited your comment: “on a need to know basis?” Sounds like he’s hiding something. If you’re initiating sex and he’s refusing, he’s certainly hiding something. Time will tell. Don’t be naïve, watch him.
@karenmeacham7988 ай бұрын
@@shedparker replying to your comment about he's hiding something, he has a secret file with another woman's name on it and I can't open it as he has a 2 step verification process also found a website for a chat from a pornsite, he also talks about an office member who smiles at him sweetly and looks at me with disgust, I've questioned it and I have been treated with rage and I was almost hit, every fibre of my being says he's definitely cheating or cheated, just not sure where to turn to as he has been my lifeforms 30 years
@carlingtonscafe10038 ай бұрын
Watching from Jamaica Loving your channel jeep up the good work please
@RodneyDailey-df7sj4 күн бұрын
Great content thank you Jessica 😊 🙏
@rohanwelsh99448 ай бұрын
Just started watching your videos thank you
@TruthTriumphs7868 ай бұрын
Hey Sis, my woman never engage in long conversation on WA and her replies are very late at times. She do invite me to meet whenever I ask, but there's no physical intimacy. She avoids getting close. She's 10 years older than me and I am madly in love with her. Shall I ask her about my feelings or wait. On one occasion she wanted to get physical with me, but I delayed cuz there was no emotional connection in this. We are building on it
@JaPaNeSe_MxD_7078 ай бұрын
Dam sounds similar
@Venom_741Ай бұрын
If she is Narcaasist all these will or can happen
@aaronhonore64882 ай бұрын
She is low level then❤ she has no experience in real men ❤
@davidlace857 ай бұрын
Hi Jessica my ex partner has dumped me 4 times now and she has hurt me and broken my heart and yet she still wants to be friends but i don't
@DG-EditsYT7 ай бұрын
Get space and time away, you will heal and be stronger for it and be immune to the emotional push pull
@morrislarneyosah1498 ай бұрын
This is so on time with the borgars leaving town😅😅
@chishibachisompola5468 ай бұрын
Happy new year coach .. Thank you
@HeisDarL8 ай бұрын
I'm here first, thanks Jess 🌹
@jideofor.brightbright44888 ай бұрын
Your abouzetly right
@troyehnisz99078 ай бұрын
Everything in my relationship seems to be going well but when commitment or direction comes up she says “she has no expectations” it is very confusing
@hsamzsd6 ай бұрын
men should never bring up commitment or ask "what are we." If she doesn't directly ask you, you can be guaranteed that there are other options in her life she is still interested in.
@benjaminjohn90338 ай бұрын
What if she does 3 of these 7 things?
@abassolalekan24408 ай бұрын
Let her go
@benjaminjohn90338 ай бұрын
@@abassolalekan2440 right.
@ifeanyinwosu268 ай бұрын
Leave her alone bro, go find another girl who appreciates you.
@effiya_ephya8 ай бұрын
🫶
@chudiksc8 ай бұрын
Thank you......
@dontaejarell5 ай бұрын
No need to be being extra give me patterns I'll leave you where you stand
@dvforextrades8 ай бұрын
Thank you
@nlmal48 ай бұрын
Thank you..... Jes
@awomansstory.20198 ай бұрын
Yup. My husband's married mistress stopped posting about her husband, their house, their common activities. And my husband never posted ANY mention if me or our family.
@jahbless4ever8 ай бұрын
Good tips
@Venom_741Ай бұрын
My ex never commented or likes or mentioned us on Facebook especially my page
@brunibani13138 ай бұрын
U are 100% right the Indikatoren are the 7 rules. 😂 .Greetings to my home guys from Deutschland
@MephiasLisengaАй бұрын
She can not hide her feelings on social media comments her comments can reveal that we are romantically involved.
@smokeyarmstrong82927 ай бұрын
Or, a delayed response could be the result of every single content creator is preaching "delay your response." This is referred tonasnanself-fulfilling prophecy.
@MichaelMasters-g6w4 ай бұрын
My girl has some photos of her almost nude. She won’t share them or talk about it with me.shes alYs on her phone. Otherwise she 100% loyal and acts like my wife. She’s 58 and says she’ll do what she wants.
@lovemoremunyenyembe3 ай бұрын
Jessica if l the one always talking , if l tell her to talk she no
@dallas62956 ай бұрын
Female that goes both ways. She's not the only female men talk to.
@matezproductions8 ай бұрын
Happy New Year Coach 😊
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
Happy new year!!
@adisdizdarevic29836 ай бұрын
Thank you jessica so much, your videos are golden. Wish u best.