You say you want it, but you actually don't.

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Nicolas Cole

Nicolas Cole

Күн бұрын

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@Lindab___
@Lindab___ 2 күн бұрын
Cole, you didn’t need to call me out so loudly in front of the whole internet like this!! 💀😭
@nicolascole77
@nicolascole77 2 күн бұрын
So sorry lol
@jimmlygoodness
@jimmlygoodness Күн бұрын
I thought he was talking to me.
@aljahidlaskar7513
@aljahidlaskar7513 Күн бұрын
Same here 😅
@ebruergen7382
@ebruergen7382 11 сағат бұрын
Same here 😂😂😂
@darrynwilliams9360
@darrynwilliams9360 2 күн бұрын
Completely hear you on productive procrastination. Important reminder. People can stand in their own way for more reasons than "not really wanting the thing". There are a lot of things I want and am working towards. I stumble, not because I don't really want them but because trauma has made my brain a hostile place. A mind turned on itself. I'm still working towards my dreams. Just reminding the world that stumbling is not always about a lack of desire. Your mental health matters. Be kind to yourself and find the ways that work for you to "do the thing." Much Love and Light
@giovannitertulli
@giovannitertulli Күн бұрын
Watched the video, set up my Freedom session to block out distractions, opened a text editor and started writing. Thanks for keeping the video short (so I am not tempted by productive procrastination). You're the best Cole
@DeanReadYorkshire
@DeanReadYorkshire 2 күн бұрын
you’re spot on, so true 🙂
@RohanPaul-AI
@RohanPaul-AI Күн бұрын
Wow, this video talked directly to me .. Thanks Nocolas 😄
@teejs1087
@teejs1087 2 күн бұрын
Spot on! Thanks for the "tough love" and honesty.
@60secondmotivation91
@60secondmotivation91 2 күн бұрын
I am sorry, Cole, I left this video at 1:02
@nicolascole77
@nicolascole77 2 күн бұрын
good job
@KiaOrion
@KiaOrion 4 сағат бұрын
Loved this one. Gotta do the thing 👊
@SouthernStyleDIY
@SouthernStyleDIY 23 сағат бұрын
Yeah, this reminds me that I need to get back to the Online Writing and PGA courses that I fell off of this week. Great timing!
@davepakos1
@davepakos1 2 күн бұрын
Just what I needed to hear right now. Thanks, Cole
@Kobelovan
@Kobelovan 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for the rebuke. Much needed.
@Patrick-Messi10
@Patrick-Messi10 2 күн бұрын
Cole, I really like this kind of content. People need self-awareness. People need a right mindset to start writing and to start building things. They have so many faulty beliefs that hinder them to start working. So I really appreciate such kind of videos, keep going. Btw, 1-3-1
@nicolascole77
@nicolascole77 2 күн бұрын
1-3-1!
@Patrick-Messi10
@Patrick-Messi10 2 күн бұрын
@@nicolascole77 1-3-1 sequence of starting an introduction of a piece of writing. I've learned it from you. I just used it in my comment. Noticed? COLE ❤️❤️
@asiavacationhacks
@asiavacationhacks Күн бұрын
That is great and true......... I need to isolate myself for writing and animation. Thats is the way I get productive. We build so many distractors into "Smart" phones I only use my phone sparingly and for business.
@Stoic_J
@Stoic_J Күн бұрын
Ouch - that hit hard, but in a good way. My issue is a want too many things at once and whilst I have successful achieved (and obtained) many of the things I want in life; I need to take your advice and narrow down my focus and invest my thoughts and actions in the one or two projects. Thank you for the reminder to do less, better.
@rhodamurimi
@rhodamurimi Күн бұрын
Word!! Maybe we also need to find out the reason(s) why we are not doing the thing despite knowing that we should.
@ericthuber6724
@ericthuber6724 2 күн бұрын
I'm getting Shia Lebueaf vibes right about now.
@nicolascole77
@nicolascole77 2 күн бұрын
That's the goal.
@aaronglynnwalker
@aaronglynnwalker 2 күн бұрын
Uncle Cole on a tear recently
@KenMakunga
@KenMakunga 2 күн бұрын
🤦🏾Hi Cole, I have to go do the thing 😅
@lantzgd
@lantzgd 2 күн бұрын
Love it.
@wholehardy
@wholehardy Күн бұрын
Did the thing. Watched the video. Now doing more of the thing.
@edwigeolivier2892
@edwigeolivier2892 2 күн бұрын
Totally, I can’t remember the last time I had so many things I want to do but can’t do because I want to do the thing much more than anything else. I know that thing will be the thing that makes me a thing in my industry🎉 thanks you Nicolas
@ashleycordova9183
@ashleycordova9183 2 күн бұрын
I understand that, I think for me as long as I’m not working at it it’s still a dream, I haven’t failed yet so it’s not my fault if I do but that needs to change.
@infinitebreathyogatherapy
@infinitebreathyogatherapy 2 күн бұрын
Me, literally right now.
@worldtravels8627
@worldtravels8627 2 күн бұрын
I just got back from the ER after getting whacked across the head with this video. When you are right, you are right. Gotta go and do the thing!
@nicolascole77
@nicolascole77 2 күн бұрын
I hope your head is ok.
@worldtravels8627
@worldtravels8627 2 күн бұрын
@@nicolascole77 😄
@brightpage1020
@brightpage1020 2 күн бұрын
We all want the benefits... nobody wants to manage the responsability. Dho!!! ❤ 🎉 ❤ 🎉 ❤ 🎉 ❤ 🎉 ❤ 🎉 ❤ 🎉 Thank you for busting our chops in the best way: as honestly and forthrightly as possible. "It takes more work than most of us tell ourselves." Ok. I'm heading off to do the thing(s) now. Thank you! I needed this level of maturity. Because it's not about motivation. No motivational speaker can do the work for us. It's our work. But they sure will try to squeeze out our expense budget to tell us exactly that, eventually. And who can blame them? That's their work. More power to us all. Cheers to your success!
@spitbleach
@spitbleach 2 күн бұрын
Reading us all to filth
@patrickhennessy8022
@patrickhennessy8022 2 күн бұрын
Just a thought...but when starting a new adventure, building a new skill...keep your vision small to start. Find out if you want It. Get feedback and carefully think about It. It...takes twice as long, costs twice a much (even for Unicorns!).
@MMoavia0
@MMoavia0 Күн бұрын
man i want to be a good writer man like you. wow
@crowdsalad6814
@crowdsalad6814 2 күн бұрын
Oh you’re loud today. I didn’t need to be called out like that omg 😂
@MMoavia0
@MMoavia0 Күн бұрын
yes its true man i watch a videos like that.
@friendshipnerd
@friendshipnerd Күн бұрын
I think this often means that the thing is not right for you and you should pick another thing. I used to say I was gonna make content aboht comedy writinf and funny coouwriting but it just didn't excite me enough. Last year I realized I wanted something completely different, and this year I started making content as a friendship coach for men. I'm doing the thing, and it's completely different from the thing I thought I wanted. Figure out what the thing should be for you. What do you REALLY want? What gives you purpose? What truly stimulates you?
@slowlearner3785
@slowlearner3785 Күн бұрын
Interesting new direction, Cole. Did this grow out of frustration from saying the same thing? People do need to be shaken out of inertia. Loving the new direction!
@valentinokingthegoat
@valentinokingthegoat 7 сағат бұрын
Super
@QuizmasterLaw
@QuizmasterLaw 2 күн бұрын
This would be great when a person drops/doesn't convert. The reason is: it holds up the mirror.
@alimamujee1912
@alimamujee1912 Күн бұрын
Phew, thank god he gave us permission to procrastinate
@kayericwinkler
@kayericwinkler 2 күн бұрын
Yes, we are all prisoners of our ideas.
@ronretz1797
@ronretz1797 2 күн бұрын
What's your 'thing'?
@renaldfauzan
@renaldfauzan Күн бұрын
This video would be great if it added motivational music
@SilverXT
@SilverXT 2 күн бұрын
Listen buddy... SIGH... FIIIINEEE
@Mr.Akhilesh-ms5em
@Mr.Akhilesh-ms5em 2 күн бұрын
I say I want but I don't.
@ponniiyer9023
@ponniiyer9023 2 күн бұрын
What about work life balance. Vacations are so important to refresh and recharge. Obsession with 'doing your thing' only leads to burn out. Social media is not all bad ,so we can chill with music , interesting posts and videos.
@CeruleanCafe
@CeruleanCafe 2 күн бұрын
Uncle Cole out here's tired of all our BS as we proactively sit here not doing the thing 😅
@manuelabello2033
@manuelabello2033 2 күн бұрын
The thing awaits me but I'm telling it hold on a second k?
@thomasrendleman5387
@thomasrendleman5387 19 сағат бұрын
If I wanna hear shit like this I’ll go to church
@ElectroSheepDreams
@ElectroSheepDreams 2 күн бұрын
I love writing but i have not much of an idea how to generate money out of it Wanna see what i wrote? :D
@QuizmasterLaw
@QuizmasterLaw 2 күн бұрын
You look good with or without beard though ask the girls wait you just got married CONGRATULATIONS BETTER HOPE WIFEY LIKES THE BEARDY!
@thomasrendleman5387
@thomasrendleman5387 19 сағат бұрын
You’re right, I want to unsubscribe
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