You Won't Believe How Women Destroyed Club Culture Forever!

[@darryljackson6813]

The club culture died when it was no longer a party! The dance floors were basically eliminated and turned into sections. No more dancing and mingling socially. The slow jams phased out.....all twerking and ladies dancing with each other, and popping bottles in sections. No more enjoying the moment. It's all for the gram or social in general.

[@17thN.O]

Everybody is an "influencer" these days.

[@ajgrand]

Nobody enjoys and savor the moments anymore. Everyone has to take a video or photo that they will never look at again

[@thinkoutlowd2909]

Fax went to a club 2 years ago the who damn club was sections 😂😂 I was like wtf

[@didactic02]

🎯🎯🎯

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

boom

[@Stupeaz]

Social media, tables and girl on girl dancing ruined the club. In the early 2000s there were NO tables. People used to interact freely

[@JustTweakin]

Females ruined the world we was having so much fun pre- pandemic

[@djairalert422]

You’re right!

[@PinkytipsByAstride]

And egotistical men afraid of reaction or just wanting a one night stand happened… Take some accountability

[@UrbanNinja123]

Xactly

[@K10House]

Tables were cocktail tables, and the only ones with seating were around the periphery. You were either dancing or watching the dancers. There was no fake table scene. It was about the music and dancing and socializing. Unlike these babies today, we were actually having sex and having fun instead of hyper focused on our looks.

[@jjayphilly342]

Phones and Social Media KILLED the club culture.

[@JohnDoe113]

Point blank period

[@aboutmyfathersbusiness6907]

And who's on those phones....... women

[@miyagifatghost2684]

Ong they just be there recording to show others instead of enjoying

[@justhomas83]

This is why I don't go anymore. It's phones Instagram and couches. No thanks waste of time

[@ktv9247]

Naw women did you don’t know what it was like before smart phones moccasin was starin at each other looking stupid 😂

[@djbabyfaceatl]

She said she wanna dance like the 90s but not rub her butt on you. That’s all we did in the 90s is grind on each other. The 2010 women messed it up when they started dancing on each other and no longer wanted to dance with men. The greedy club owners and promoters took out the dance floors and replaced them with vip sections everywhere. Along with social media. Smh .

[@kennethsmith6367]

Women are the one’s jumping to grinding. If girls wanted to they can start on a casual 2 step.

[@djbabyfaceatl]

@@kennethsmith6367 it’s really the big group of girls. Approaching alone will get nothing but hate unless the biggest group hater is getting attention. But after 25 most men not rolling too deep and single at the same time.

[@itsDjjayyArt]

Exactly 💯

[@PpSquaredProduction]

She has no idea of 90s parties

[@blackmiami3286]

Wuuuuud grinding and stricken on women.. it’s was the vibe.. just having a good time..

[@rainman198311]

in the 90s all women did was grind on a man. I was there, nobody cared, it didn't mean nothing. You didn't have to buy a drink, that was a step up playa move vs a requirement

[@rome8208]

True

[@judgefaction]

As a former bouncer in nyc social media killed the clubs

[@thetraveler1182]

Straight up! Former Bouncer here, I can attest to this

[@sylver-rain]

I think dating apps are a reason for the downfall aswell .

[@NQuiz52]

How? I agree, the club scene is dead, but I don't know what killed it. I left before the demise.

[@thetraveler1182]

@@NQuiz52 now these females don’t have to even go outside for the attention that they want. Even monsters got full DMs and OFs where SOMEBODY is paying them. It’s ridiculous

[@sha_black]

I'm with you on that!

[@phenomenal-xv4ey]

This conversation is the reason why the club is dead: - Women pretend they go to the club to hang with their friends but at the same time are mad that men won't buy them drinks - The music is garbage...that's a big reason...Sexy Red and City Girls music is all you hear - Men and women have to show mutual interest, that is why everyone is on their phone trying to act like the cool kids

[@didactic02]

Yea it’s ridiculous. Not the place for me anymore

[@1stone379]

This

[@samuelolufemiadeyina7698]

Like??… how you swearing you’re here to dance with your friends but upset af you’re not getting free drinks make it make sense

[@cedricmiller4370]

​@@didactic02Agreed it's no longer the place for me either I stopped going all together the beginning of 2023 cause I notice females dance with females instead of guys so its no reason for straight men to even visit nightclubs in 2024

[@tajdyer2803]

Man, this and other reasons why the club scene is slow. I am glad brothas are wishing up. Went to a lounge 3 years ago and women do it for their own weird kick.

[@JermaineSmalls-se4nu]

Let's get real...... You women have killed the club culture!

[@itsDjjayyArt]

Exactly 💯 😂

[@darknightemperor8174]

Women kills almost about everything. Club culture, gym culture, chivalry, men, themselves getting BBL’s the list goes on and on.

[@haydotzero3372]

Just like how they killed everything they are allowed in

[@sdmoore89]

I think it's more of the men's fault. We go there with this expectation of meeting women at one of the worst places possible. Alot of realized it wasn't happening and stopped going. Club promoters took advantage that men were going for the women and started letting women in free at some clubs in order to bring in the men. When the men stopped going and spending money clubs started dying. Also COVID played a big part as well.

[@dabeast9000]

Man the club seen was always trash, just a bunch of 304's tryna get free drinks and hooking up with a handful of attractive men. Your never going to find a loving faithful soulmate at a club.

[@mr.tooles9725]

Shorty with the blonde braids is definitely the last option when u leaving the club and ain’t nobody else to talk to😂

[@1stone379]

😂😂😂 beat me do it. And she knows it. That's why she's fiesty. I just asked you to dance, not a debate

[@9chilidog]

The other 2 are aunty level 3's... is the what's in NY clubs?

[@itsDjjayyArt]

Exactly 🤣

[@TheBobbyfresh09]

These stragglers in this video clearly go to the club to boost their egos and deny men all night then complain while leaving the club that niggas ain’t shit 💀🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂 typical 😂

[@tbj4855]

@@9chilidogmostly Latin chicks in NY clubs

[@panamera53]

Clubbing died a long time ago. It's not fun anymore. It's actually dangerous. Men are shooting men up over a woman. Then, when you do try to dance with a woman, it's usually then thinking the man trying to get some. I can't stand going to the club it makes me anxious asf and you have to be on high alert.

[@dappadondadda100]

Beta males should stay out the clubs

[@Senketsujin]

Finally, a comment that makes sense.

[@andrewwalker2153]

So it's JUST the men that are the reason.

[@jonasvolitsa3824]

Fights between men for women have always been there, that’s why I never went clubbing.

[@desmondjackson872]

​@andrewwalker2153 everything always is to them

[@kaofounder]

The thirsty dudes who did too much over a quick little grind dance helped kill it too. Also the dudes who would rather fight and shoot up the parking lot helped kill it too.

[@icebergnitro]

😂😂 niggas be mad they don’t get any attention from women gotta ruin the party

[@Perkydance416]

Yes bruh the diddlers and the demons are also negative contributors

[@scanlaslocc]

What clubs you go to with this ghetto behavior

[@slippyquack7672]

The "look at me, I got money/I'm a bad bitch" mentality killed the club culture. In fact, both of those mindsets killed a lot of aspects that used to be fun. Everybody wants to whip out their phone and show off what they have or how good they look to impress people they claim not to give a fuck about. When everything became about optics, the experiences died.

[@1stone379]

The first sentence tho

[@777YOUniverse]

Co signed!!

[@naeb9486]

So men shooting and over priced drinks and entry didn’t kill it? Sections didn’t kill it? Women killed it? Once again we’re being blamed for something that’s collective

[@slippyquack7672]

@@naeb9486 ... Where did I blame women specifically?

[@naeb9486]

@@slippyquack7672 “look at me im a bitch” so you’re talking about men in that sentence?

[@jayreazy1]

Imma keep it a bean … it’s been phases that killed the club … number 1 the Tables killed it (prices way too high) 2. Alcohol prices is ridiculous over 200$ for hennesy (wild) . 3. Women clothes have changed , they basically naked so they don’t want to grind . Then 3 too many rules to get in . 4 nobody wanna have fun and dance it’s all about the show and glow . Then the Covid killed it too shutting down all these clubs

[@frankjames6232]

The concept of " nightclubbing" has changed since the early 2000's especially in America : 1) the danger factor you have emasculated males get mad by being rejected by a female only to leave and comeback with a pistol and wind up shootin up the place 2) attitudes of the females that come into the club. They have this expectancy of us men buying them drinks and in most cases they ghost us after they get their drink 3) no one dances anymore cuz they're there for profilin meaning taking pictures with their smartphones and posting themselves on social media ridiculous!!! 3) the 2 minute DJ. You have DJs that will play a song for 2 minutes and switch to another song right in the middle of song previously played makes no sense. That's you have event venues or club special events . I wish i was on this panel for this podcast i would've given my experience of clubbin as participant and as a DJ

[@hvyhittah]

They weren’t dancing face 2 face in the 90’s, they were bumpin and grindin back then too.

[@nickming8738]

But still all of that was done on dance floors not these weird as sections n booths y’all have today!!!

[@edawg9962]

True, but no cell phones and social media

[@dewanewelch1744]

​@@nickming8738 it was on the floor and in the booths. Lol

[@MrTsukudu]

😂 I remember 3 times girls grinded on my thy to orgasm right on the dance floor. 90s was the shit.

[@kaofounder]

Social media may have been the weapon used but before that boom happened, those same women were cooped up in VIP sections *ACTING* saditty and fake lesbian... That type of club goer killed the club.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Fake lesbian

[@Cutthroatrah]

We don’t dance we just pull up our pants, and do the rocc away!

[@LeoDaShaman]

Now Lean Back!!!

[@DC4L1991]

“Rocky…Rocko…do the Roc-A-Wear…” 🤣🤣🤣

[@coachkeith643]

I watch these videos to support these brothuz, but the women they have on their show drive me crazy because they are always disagreeable and they never can answer a straight question without evading it with some bullshit logic. I can never watch the whole video before i tap out. They create new arguments to evade answering questions. The NEED TO BE RIGHT is off the scale. I lasted 3 minutes. Peace out!

[@jonathancue1584]

I feel you I'm with you bro they so annoying. It's like nails on a chalk board

[@emanuelclark443]

I finished cause I’m reading comments 😂😂😂

[@tajdyer2803]

I feel you homie. The sistahood/code is real annoying.

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

They were deflecting a lot lol but they did that because they don't want to admit that they're part of the issue with the club scene dying...you know they don't like accountability

[@RunItBackGunz]

Thata why i stopped watching this ahit they literally have nothinf but dumb ass bird hoes on here and it literally piss me off to listen to the bullshit they say im mad i even clicked on this video

[@TheMan-gg9xb]

You offer a girl a drink, she also invites her friends for drinks, bad look

[@LivinWLuey]

😂💯

[@mazengwe28]

Another aspect nobody covered is the lack of club bangers. Since Trap and Drill music is the predominant genre the current artists make music for, it's not club music. Trap and drill are double-timed or slower beats, analogous to club music, which is 90bpms or faster. So club DJs have to prioritize 90's and 2000's music, which doesn't fit the crowd of occupants in the club. The Gen-Xers and millennials grew out of clubbing.

[@Grind2Excellence]

There no more dance music

[@BjtheLawyer_]

I see why people say college the best times of your life because that’s genuinely one of the last times I went to a party & legit had fun. I graduated 2017, so idk if college parties lame now?

[@thisisthewroten]

Yeah I know

[@drama6446]

I just finished college it’s still living up to hits hype but a few things have changed from my freshman year all the to recently getting my masters. Let’s say social media has a huge effect on how everything is done compared back then everyone lived in the moment having fun

[@explainableai6975]

This is so true... clubbing during college years (especially student clubs) was genuinely about meeting new people and being open minded to even "boring conversation." Clubbing after college is just about numbing your mind with alcohol, even I don't wanna talk to random strangers, there is no point... it's a grown up thing,

[@BjtheLawyer_]

@@explainableai6975 I think the worst part is that nobody interacts with people they don’t know. Men & women not dancing together unless they in a relationship. Drinks overly expensive. The scene just be whack. That’s why I try to hit up events now but even that can be suspect depending on the event.

[@notreallyafamousartist695]

Yea h3ll no, covid killed everything I had one semester before college got killed by the pandemic

[@tonymontez2358]

The club has turned into who can spend the most money on bottles and get stories for their IG. It ain’t like back in the day when dudes would get a Wally and dance with girls everybody now is tryna have a vip section and smoke hookah 🤷🏾‍♂️😂😂

[@FatlaughsEnt]

Girls dancing on girls killed it

[@malik5531]

I cringe every time I see that 😂

[@tajdyer2803]

@@FatlaughsEnt yup! That or they reject until they meet their meal t9cket at the club 😑

[@tajdyer2803]

@@malik5531 me too bruh!

[@KL-ii6dt]

The answer to why is club culture dead is answered by these three women. Not their answers, but the personalities itself.

[@drcatrinaking]

No pumpkin. You just downright hate women, and haven't analyzed your own thought processes enough yet to realize it. 💛

[@rollingwithchuckg]

So it’s a problem when men won’t let you in his section because you bring nothing, BUT it’s all good when women reject men because they don’t buy them a drink even if they don’t like them

[@brothaleft8514]

Somebody see it..

[@justbodega3206]

She said "its weird to dance on a man in the club" but it's ok to dance on her homegirl.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Lol

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

they be doing the most sexual shit on each other but wont dance with a man ? lol smh i mean if that what they wanna do fine but its strange to me

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

I woulda told them if they wanna do that lesbian shit just go to a gay club smh

[@kevanbane]

wow so they basically saying it's mandatory for a man to offer a free drink on him just because he want to talk to her or dance with her... and they wonder why men even stop going on dates now, the entitlement is crazy

[@1stone379]

The one in white. Yuck. We know nobody's asking her for a dance

[@IAmElDaoud]

I'm GenX and here is my 2 cents. We originally went to the clubs to party not meet women. Chasing them doesn't work. You have to let them come to you. Back then, the coolest place to be was on the dance floor. Go to the dance floor, get your groove on, dance with whoever comes to dance with you, buy her a drink after to show appreciation and keep it moving to the next chick. You are guaranteed to get played if you don't let the women come to you. Once people stopped dancing and started posing for their IG, that's when the Club Culture died, in my opinion.

[@j.gonsalves]

Bang on. The camera & clout killed it.

[@K10House]

In Denver, if it was early and the floor was empty, all I had to do was get out there and start dancing, and the other girls would get right out there because the focus was on the dancefloor, and they didn't want me out there getting all of the attention for myself. And then it was on. The guys would get out there with us and we'd get all kinds of messy all night until the bright lights came on suddenly at the end of the night. It was beautiful and I'm so glad I was part of it. Went dancing every night except Mondays bc the clubs were all closed.

[@seensay2132]

4:12 - 4:16 wait, wait. Did she REALLY say “But these are generalizations! My thing is For Men and Women IN GENERAL…” 😳

[@nderren]

Women are not even in the top 5 reasons the club culture is dead. Dance floors being replaced by bottle service sections, dj's are terrible nowadays, the music being played is even worse, violence or the threat of violence scares people away

[@bruceleroy2335]

Women are the number one reason! All they do is interact with other women and dance with other women… That’s what killed the club scene.

[@TheIcemanthomas]

U don’t go clubbing much do u?

[@nderren]

@@TheIcemanthomas I’ve managed nightclubs for 12 years. I know what I’m talking about

[@tajdyer2803]

Man, i live in the bronx and i love that men are making these videos. I went to a "lounge" party almost 3 years ago. Unless you are a party promoter, the loud ratchet brotha, bouncer, or dance team member; you have no hope talking to a female. Like all the guys said, women have control over the setting and they kill it for regular dudes. RIP to all those who have died in the club scene.

[@Dredd2007]

Women destroyed it

[@lildel7698]

💯

[@jesussinaloa9300]

Social media and smart phones killed club culture. People are so busy pretending and posing they having a good time that the forget to have one. Another thing is, randomly dancing with strangers is not what it use to be. People are more self-conscious on who approaches them and attempts to dance with them. Also, when they killed slow jams at the end of the night

[@Life_oftheavregeman]

Club culture is dead because everybody wants a fucking section. There was a time where club culture where everybody was just out on the Dancefloor and mingling with everybody.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Studio 54

[@bh2980]

Sections killed the club culture

[@jovelhamilton601]

What happend to house parties🤷🤷🤷🤷

[@Apartment10LDN]

What killed clubs? As a former club promoter and cocktail bar manager - Expensive tables taking over dance floors - Phones and social media - Girls getting into clubs and all expecting free drinks (used to be only models and special guest tables) - Dating apps - Door policy only letting girls in and guys on a table. If a guy is dressed cool but not on a table he isn’t getting in - No seating area or dance floor unless you’re in VIP. No mingling - Hiring bad DJs who promote over a GOOD DJ who doesn’t promote - Clubs running the same kind of night EVERY night. Stale and boring

[@ucc_chef2431]

Everyone on this panel (including the men) are the reason the club is dead.

[@charlessmith9400]

Can’t play both sides of discussion to avoid blame The social media influence has ruined the night club. Standing around showing ppl you have money and showing people where you are the indirect priority of what people seemed to be doing in club Imagine going to a party and everyone is on their phones live streaming 20+ holding their cell phones say “ look where I’m at “ The music is bad now, club owners make it a point to make liquor bottles 4x than liquor stores prices (with 2 bottle minimum) no dancing no dance floor No having a good time just an opportunistic environment

[@focusedallday5620]

Clubbing used to be for dancing, but now it’s all about spending money, showing off, and acting more important than what you actually are. However, once again men are at fault for supporting these establishments. Theres a reason why women don’t go to all female clubs. Stay Focused!

[@bruceleroy2335]

The accuracy of your post bro!💯

[@bruceleroy2335]

My God the accuracy!💯

[@MrNigeriaboy]

Tables killed the clubs

[@ellyond.lucciano]

No

[@chadwicktyrone8894]

He tells her how it is and she says bit you’re generalizing 😂 heard this my entire life 😂

[@HewittShaq]

Y'all talking to retired lesbians

[@jayahoward1146]

😂🤣😂🤣😂😂😂

[@dewanewelch1744]

Lmbo 😂😂😂😂

[@jovelhamilton601]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Cudijay]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@KMaserati]

Women come to social event to be antisocial. Music is not made for partying anymore it’s either stripper music or killing/drug music Clubs are too expensive. Sections are too expensive. Drinks are too expensive. The club has turned from a place to have fun and socialize to a place to flex and take pix for social media

[@SYN4456]

Gen-Xer here: When we went to the club, the dance floor is where it was at. People actually socialized, danced, played pool, exchanged numbers, drank, conducted business, or listened to the music. Today too many folks are more entertained by their phones. Feel sorry for you younger folks who have no idea how to have fun in the moment.

[@uncannytheos2454]

Then these other generations of women ruined it for everyone

[@JustTweakin]

Ever since tik tok & city girls got women to hate men the world hasn’t been the same since. Too much division

[@chriskeepit100]

gotta love how they just feel so entitled to walk in someone's club section

[@MindMadnessGuns]

Clubbing died in certain cities as clubs didn't keep up with the "Vibe,"a new generation of DJs, and people untethered to the scene with obessive phone use. Also, people's priorities shifted, starting families earlier, chasing the bag $$$ and increased travel! On the downside, violent behavior has also affected the vibe! Now we just rather do house parties/ game nights, group travel, day parties, and / or nice dinners!

[@Hennybear600]

This was terrible watch. Smfh

[@steelresilience]

I think clubbing past 25 is whack. Sections, bottle service, $5 water (happened to me in ATL), no one dancing, fuck that place.

[@Grind2Excellence]

Why a man don’t hit prime till 35

[@bruceleroy2335]

I live in Atl it’s the worst bro smh…

[@ojsfour3]

it depends on the club you go to, as a latino the reggaeton clubs have all the women dancing but the “hip hop” clubs are all about tables and looking cool .

[@RickyPatterson-x8z]

Loved this debate. In the late 80's early 90's I was "in da club" 3/4 times a week. People danced face to face, and other ways too, but there's alot of extra "baggage" coming to the club nowadays. Too many agendas besides meeting people and having fun, people creating content and not being present, but engagimg with their "followers."

[@jasonwolfe3252]

I think that it was already on life support before the pandemic but got put out of its misery afterwards. Also social media played a large part. People don't even have to leave their house to meet someone.

[@MrAdversarie]

The Pandemic definitely accelerated the process. My friends and I actually noticed the difference, shit was crazy.

[@chrisbell6849]

This is why I've been salsa and bachata dancing for 7 years now. It can be a light hearted dance with no romantic expectations. Of course there's times when one gets the wrong impression from the other but in my experience it can just be a dance the conversation happens after

[@Stonecoldalston]

7:17 so basically you do expect him to buy you a drink she don’t even realize the contradiction

[@spazz-ok9nr]

💯

[@nicolemoore5033]

As someone that clubbed during the hyphy movement in NorCal all through my 20s and most of my 30s then took a break and went out in my 40s I'd say the top reasons are there aren't many clubs around but rather lounges. Tables are now in the middle of the dance floor. You gotta buy a bottle or get a section just to sit down. People literally stand around and wait for opportunities to go live. The younger folks are too cool to dance and don't want to approach each other because they don't want to look thirsty. Also no one dresses up anymore. The black girls are wearing Js in the club looking like boys. No sex appeal. Plus the music is different. We had songs that made u dance and often had dances go with them.

[@williamwheets6233]

They don't dance no mo , they don't dance no mo" - Goodie Mob

[@nickw4002]

The woman on the right is hilarious because NOBODY goes to the club to dance with other people. Dudes go there to hopefully get some action 100% and so do the women. That’s why they always throw it back on dudes. 💯

[@sdmoore89]

The women usually go to dance, get attention and get free drinks. That's why they still going. Men go in the hopes of meeting a chick. Most men stop when it's not happening for them.

[@haydotzero3372]

They rather go back home to play with their toys

[@haydotzero3372]

@@sdmoore89dance with themselves. That is all they do is grind on each other while men just watch from faraway because nobody wants to keep getting embarrassed. Can’t blame men.

[@sdmoore89]

@haydotzero3372 men be in the corner because they afraid to approach the women.

[@sdmoore89]

@@haydotzero3372 sometimes. Most of the time they have men already and just out for a good time.

[@sarahanderson8298]

Women like to go out with their friends not for male attention. Why do women have to go to clubs for dating it can just be hanging out with friends

[@brillyanse]

Go to the lesbian clubs, the are getting more popular especially in Detroit and LA

[@sarahanderson8298]

@@brillyanse I’m not a lesbian I’m a heterosexual woman. You do realize straight women can have fun and dance with their friends

[@brillyanse]

@@sarahanderson8298 I'm a heterosexual male and I went to the lesbian bar... And it wasn't half bad 😂♀️

[@sarahanderson8298]

@@brillyanse my point is women desire to go to bars and clubs not necessarily for attention or to hook up. Thats why some places have women’s only clubs. It’s not lesbian clubs just spaces where girls can have fun and dance together. And why would you go to a lesbian bar as a guy?

[@brillyanse]

@@sarahanderson8298 Sister bday, I admit I was nervous but it was cool.

[@anthonyhill6206]

These females out here playing gay in the club all the dudes turn into a rapper and smoking weed no mingles anymore

[@RussleMillaldinho]

Most women in clubs are in relationships or anti social so whats the point

[@insure4cheap]

The nightclub is not a scam. It’s exactly as advertised: create an atmosphere with excessive amounts of alcohol & drug use; incentivize the women the opportunity of artificially acquiring attention & validation from men by promoting sexuality; and provide the men who attend the offer of exchanging their money for the possibility of exhorting sexuality from the women who are there, bartenders included. It’s not a scam but it’s definitely an optical illusion 🤷🏾‍♂️✊🏾

[@inhumanjoey310]

Clubs been dead since 07 08. I tried again around 2012 13. Blood please. A huge waste of everythang. After 2016 when I moved to Dago. Dead as fuck

[@j.gonsalves]

Weirdly Facebook launched 2005 & KZbin launched in 2006. Correlation?

[@j.gonsalves]

Weirdly Facebook launched 2005 & KZbin launched in 2006. Correlation?

[@LifeOnAReel]

Feel like, Feel like that’s all they can say

[@zuberi17]

Saying twerking is tacky but then saying it's ok to dance on your friends is why clubs are dead.

[@canadianbrotv1303]

Overseas is where the club is at people move eapically when they dont speak english.. too many women gangsters in the club now a days.

[@vondrelwarren]

The men are here are blaming the woman for the problem. The women are maturely blaming both sides. The guys are really just trying to argue.

[@mIKE.TURNup]

I’m 47 I ain’t never went it club to get laid or hopes of it. In the 90s we was dancing with them ladies at the club it was a fun time. We ain’t have a section

[@kingkiper5233]

Man when i was younger the club was so fun! No smartphones no social media just pure partying! Didnt have to worry about folks snapping pics and recording everything..we was unplugged from the phones enjoying the moment and vibes

[@roo4051]

Stopped going to clubs at 26. And I rarely went clubbing to begin with.

[@treychow]

She wonderfully demonstrated how easily a woman will speak your business just to be right in a trivial debate. The confidential good time he treated her to was repaid by her putting it on blast in order to best him in the discourse. Lovely Liabilities

[@Fitblkdad]

Every time Knuck if you buck came on, it always turn into a fight, which is why i just stand on the side when that song comes on.

[@Fitblkdad]

Also to clarify when I use to go to clubs, now at 34 that ain't my thing now I am starting to entertain day parties more. From what I have seen those seem to be more enjoyable and social and rather great way to meet ppl outside of their routine.

[@Grind2Excellence]

Crunk music

[@onice33]

Partying is litt from 2004 to 2011.. after 2012, shit got 🗑 🚮 🗑 🚮 🗑 🚮 🗑

[@notmyradio]

facts!!!

[@canadianbrotv1303]

Facts I remember going in the club and every week I was pulling a new girl and I am only 5"7 . The women killed the club heck I went in with one woman and came out with another . No hating if my chick got pulled by another man..

[@nickming8738]

Big facts

[@dageniusmarketer6501]

From ‘88 to 2001, you woulda had massive fun, dancing with all the chicks you damn near could. Now? Ha. Good luck. She’s twerking on her girlfriend and uploading it to Snapchat while u Watch from the corner with your beer in your hand head nodding to the music.

[@trippyvannoir.333]

I agree with the notion of dancing in the clubs now is inappropriate. It is too close. Me and my girl when we hit the club we actually dance with each other. Two step, salsa, that type shit. Yes we do like to hit a lil bump and grind but that’s a rare occasion for us, why? cuz actually dancing is way more fun & interesting to watch. It sounds like a change needs to happen in what men and women expect when they are dancing with each other in the club. This is just one issue in the bigger issue.

[@lordsinister707]

Club culture was slowly dying ever since the 90s. Social media and societal influence just sped up the process

[@Whoa532]

They should have this conversation with people who was outside in the mid 90's and early 2000's they could answer these people questions easy.

[@Blurbbanner]

Last time i went to a club, i was like 31, im 43 now...i have no clue what they do. It was getting whack then, thats why i stopped going.

[@magyare10]

Depending where you are traditional night clubs have to contend with brunch day parties, rooftop parties, lounges, bars, and pool parties.... People have a lot of options to go socialize.

[@jesterarts734]

The ladies are talking about Ballers!! The men are talking about all of the women including the average ones.

[@CTEagleCeltic]

“Baby when we grinding, I get so excited”…. Baby we was grinding back then… they was babies, they don’t know.

[@misterzeno225]

As a person that haven’t been to a club in 15 years this is entertaining. Yall missed a great time back in the day. We used to have fun and meet people. If your shirt wasn’t sweaty at the end you did it wrong.

[@Longlivemosii]

Club cultured died when women started requiring men to have tables .. men spend money .. owners replace the dance floor with more tables … no dancing … good topics guys!

[@Blackrage843]

I was never a party/club person I went to my first club a couple of years back. The shit was not impressive and I don't see the appeal of it. Female doing weird lesbian stuff with each other

[@itsDjjayyArt]

They keep saying they don't want men

[@Blackrage843]

@itsDjjayy It's strange. I don't see the point of men even going to clubs if you're trying to achieve something in life or have something of meaning. Say f the clubs

[@jonathancue1584]

​@@Blackrage843exactly

[@tajdyer2803]

THANK YOU BRO!I live in the bronx and went to my first lounge party ( my friend lied to me saying it was an art show 😑), if you are not a sap buying them drinks, the dj, bouncer, the flashy dance team member, drug supplier, they will ignore guys and do some lesbian activities.

[@itsDjjayyArt]

@@tajdyer2803 wtf 😅😅 I think men should stop going to these weird events in general

[@eddiedelarge2673]

The FIRST Girl ANSWERED It.... With What She Said.....Case Close. 🤷

[@xxjonnyblazexx]

Wow… this show was very telling on where were are at with the younger generation. The women on the panel don’t even know how to dance with men!? That’s wild. Makes me glad I grew up in the generation I did.

[@ripewatermelonlol]

It might be an american thing. Canadian girl over here and we dont have sections (at least the clubs i went to) and people do grind and dance and talk, like idk it was pretty fun.

[@xxjonnyblazexx]

@@ripewatermelonlol word, my wife is Canadian! Met her on one of my travels.

[@thespafacial7972]

Yessss.. House Parties .. Private Yatch Parties .. Underground after parties 😅

[@thespafacial7972]

Lol

[@RolesofEngagement]

4:05 "But these are generalizations"... The young lady in the white top has a problem with reality and man's experiences. She fights at every opportunity and responds immediately without digesting what they say. Could you imagine trying to hold a conversation with her that doesn't fit The way she feels? 😳

[@Hussuki]

Went to, what I thought was a regular, Friendsgiving event with a friend. Turns out it was a house party. I’ve never been to a party at the adult level until then and, even though it was a cool experience, the vibe was lame. I wasn’t expecting to dance with anyone since I got social anxiety like that. But it sucked that everyone else was so lowki. Some people talked, but no one danced fr and the Dj tried his best to get everyone moving. I danced a little two-step but that’s when I noticed no one else was vibing so I stopped. I ended up on the stairs talking to one of the studs for a while until they left. I observed that none of the action I saw in movies and tv as a kid occurred at that party. Most of those people had partners with them, and they didn’t dance together either. So it was just people talking over loud af music. For all that, the host could’ve just played music from a Bluetooth speaker on a lower volume.

[@minfamous5841]

I’ve never been a big club goer but I’m so glad I was 18-21 before IG jumped off and ruined everything. I went to a club when I was like 26 and that shit was horrible like completely different no point in going to club anymore

[@bklyn706]

These women have contradicted themselves the whole time during this podcast. Modern Women have killed the club culture, PERIOD!!!!!!!!🤫

[@uncannytheos2454]

They cant stop lying. Its become like breathing for them

[@vincem2759]

"When you go to the club, you go to hang out with your friends"....THAT'S the problem.

[@planetdee3587]

I think the club culture was always headed in the direction of dying. The main reason is because nobody comes to meet anybody. Everybody knows men are there for the women. But women aren't there for every man. The clubs only work if women (who are rhe gate keepers) are there to meet everybody and not selective about who they talk with. I am not saying you sleep with everybody, but what I am saying is be social with everybody and see where things go. If 80% of the men do not have a chance, they stop going. When men stop going, everything falls apart. Now women say they go to be there with their friends but they do want men there. But as I said, with no interaction, it becomes just a females club. At that point it is no longer the normal club scene.

[@BlackTalkTv]

i'm 45 yrs old, back in the 90's we weren't dancing face to face either.. The men would simply get on the back of a chick azz and ride that thang. This was the culture by the late 90's..Side note: They STILL playing Knuck If U Buck in da A?!? when that song first came out nobody was dancing to it, all people did was throw stationary elbows lol...dont know why that song got club play.

[@sub-zero5983]

Knuck if you buck is 2004 in my whitee days and the go dj lil Wayne days I remember back then everything was already going down hill

[@BlackTalkTv]

@@sub-zero5983 facts...the early days of Future and Yo Gotti kept it on life support but it was still slowly dying

[@sub-zero5983]

@@BlackTalkTv true the Memphis rap scene had some hang time throughout the 2000s and early 10s but it was still overlooked and still underground which is hard to believe it seems that genre stayed under the radar but unfortunately pop music and early drill was taking over

[@Senketsujin]

Oh my god, its not just women that killed clubs.

[@BoogieShoogie]

The music really killed it.

[@ordinaryrapper08]

The conversation would be better if everybody was real and told the truth

[@mr.dccomics9018]

Keisha only wants Pookie. Good Men get Used. That's the truth. The music is all drill music. R&B is dead. Women act like men and don't wanna talk. Everybody Gang Gang now and you got now Players anymore.

[@kinduvabigdeal]

Glad I went through my clubbing phase when I did back in 01-08. The dance floor was poppin girls weren't entitled princesses, there was the obligatory fight but no one was airing the place out over something petty, people were there to have fun not be seen

[@mikekeyes78]

They go to the club and hold them phones out full video shoots in there

[@biscaynesupercars]

People still go out and have a good time just not at the clubs anymore. Brunch, restaurants/dinner parties, day parties, music festivals all replaced the clubs.

[@POPtheHOBO]

Ok. I think I recognize the problem here. And in short. Depending on what part of "club culture" we are talking about. Women AND men killed club culture 🤨.