bro you explain Jungian psyche very easily , keep it up.
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot 🙏
@ManérgåTøneș2 ай бұрын
People often don't realise the 'mother complex' isn't about one's actual mother. I'm glad you highlighted this. I'm inspired to make a video. I love your channel. Interesting Jung is getting more into my algorithms!
@deathnecrobutcher321518 сағат бұрын
You explained this so easily that i don't have to watch any videos related to this topic. Well explained and the flow of your presentation is sublime!
@hypetiaff21142 ай бұрын
My ex-boyfriend had mother complex, now I could understand the whole thing. The relationship was like an emotional rollercoaster leading me almost insane. I wish I could send him the video.
@thatman31072 ай бұрын
hi, am i your ex? lol
@hypetiaff21142 ай бұрын
@@thatman3107 what is your name hhh?
@thatman31072 ай бұрын
@hypetiaff2114 well my initials are TC. However I was just commenting on the similarity of our experiences. I think modern Indian men struggle with the mother complex more than others.
@hypetiaff21142 ай бұрын
@@thatman3107 I understand, you are not my ex haha, my ex know my YT id 🤣
@Hanvvn2 ай бұрын
same and i feel you ..
@lllllBlader2 ай бұрын
Nice! I disagree with the other comment, your pronunciation is quite fine. I found the video very helpful, thank you.
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🙌
@atis90612 ай бұрын
This video has profound meaning for all men!
@sistergoodstuff2 ай бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you for clarifying things we can see and feel but not articulate . As a woman, I appreciate this very much
@DaPoofDaPoofDaPoofDa2 ай бұрын
Bro you have to blow up , this channel is 👌 you deserve so many more listeners
@janarhorton686Ай бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE DESCRIPTION
@caresword2 ай бұрын
My biological mother is a selfish, consuming dragon. I spent the first two years of my life with her, although I hardly remember those years now. Then, I moved in with my cousin and her mother, who took care of me. She was definitely better, but she had 10 another kids to take care of and hardly noticed me, and I only remember small snippets of the time I spent with her. In fact, it was my cousin, who is perhaps just 6-10 years older than me, who took on the role of a mother figure. She showed me true, unconditional love. I remember the time I spent with her vividly, even today.But when I was around six years old, I was forced to move back with my biological mother. I hate her. I've never felt any genuine love from or for her. I don't remember spending a single enjoyable day with her. She treated us like her slaves and workers while she watched TV all day. Now, I'm in my 20s, and my life feels like a failure. I have no contact with any of my family, not even my cousin. I don't have any friends, I didn't finish school, I don't have a driver's license, I have no achievements, and I have terrible social skills. There's nothing that keeps me going. I don't blame everything on her, but she definitely played a major role. I could try to fix my life-go back to school, get a job, save up, and get a driver's license-but I have no motivation to even get out of bed in the morning. Sometimes I stay in bed for 24 hours. If I had the means, I would have ended my life long ago.
@ritagordon98592 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear this. This is sad that you endured this and still feel this. It may help you. Also going for walks in nature as nature may give you another perspective Have you heard of the book new earth by eckhart tolle?
@caresword2 ай бұрын
@@ritagordon9859 Thank you, bro, for that. Yeah, nature is one of the few true joys I experience nowadays. And No, I have not heard of that book. I will take a look at it now though. Thank you.
@lovelace87022 ай бұрын
Wow I do not have words for how sad this makes me feel for you. I can relate to parts and know great sorrow can really mess you up. You could really benefit by exercising. Its such a mood enhancing practice. It has done wonders for me not feeling the dred of existence. My mother was and is cold and mean as could be. And Ive hated her for bringing me into this world still at 50. But exercising my body just does wonders for me. I had to make myself find ways to make it enjoyable. But when you do it feels so good and makes life look completely different. Bad days will still happen but you can do this. Have that faith in yourself. Learn to unconditionally love yourself!!!! Best wishes to you!
@caresword2 ай бұрын
@@lovelace8702 thanks for the kind words ♥️. And I agree, Exercise is magical. Gym itself became a little stale for me, but I have just signed up to a swimming hall lady week and am enjoying it very much. Was never a swimmer growing up, but just the learning process itself is really enjoyable for me.
@caresword2 ай бұрын
@@PostalDude_1997 I think you are spot on. I have been doing some research myself, and that sounds about the conclusion I also made; Neglect growing up. But how can you rest emotionally?
@danielm9782 ай бұрын
Thanks my friend, you choose to use your own voice, even your face. I have asked for that many times, it gives a personal depth to your presentations. I have read and studied Jung for some years now, and you are one of the best here to convey his work. You manage to maintain the the essence og Jung. Great job, looking forward to the next.
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
thanks🙏
@wedidntstartthefire12 ай бұрын
This was a very interesting analysis!
@melomateus_m.rАй бұрын
Please talk about the Father complex
@RogeliodiazofficialАй бұрын
Thank you so much brother 🙏
@joelmukabire69072 ай бұрын
hey philemon, thanks for putting yourself out there and helping us know a little bit more about the self, i was never aware of the mother complex, but now i know, i will work on it....
@starlight77722 ай бұрын
This is an amazing breakdown thank you
@NyuffykahКүн бұрын
I love these videos with your real voice! Those AI ones are hard to listen to.
@papashort13Ай бұрын
Great video. Keep it up brother
@rogerbeamirabent27872 ай бұрын
Very well explained, good deep psychology stuff
@divyanshsahu43812 ай бұрын
Great video man! Keep up the good work.
@sanjanaramachandran56272 ай бұрын
Can you create something like this for the negative father complex on women - especially how to deal from it?
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
yes will do soon!
@dani5639Ай бұрын
This ☝️
@Pupin5714 күн бұрын
@@philemon_ Similarly, but in the opposite constellation > women who have a father complex ... everything you said will also apply to women!
@Pupin5714 күн бұрын
Similarly, but in the opposite constellation > women who have a father complex ... everything you said will also apply to women!
@fchaves682 ай бұрын
Excellent! Clear, concise and precise! Thank you!
@johnhampshire252 ай бұрын
Thank you, very well said. Understand. I don't know where I'm, but I definitely want to heal so I can be with my other half.
@domovoi_02 ай бұрын
Great stuff brother. Love and blessings!
@L6FT2 ай бұрын
Feel I could use more insight into how these mother complexes developed, what types of women they may draw in, which types of complexes they may have, and how to solve it.
@entschnabler2 ай бұрын
Thank you, I listened to a lot about this topic but I think you explain it very well, very down to earth and useful. Keep it up! Cheers
@gilossal2 ай бұрын
You got a new subscriber. Keep posting!
@liltick1022 ай бұрын
I am only 20 seconds in to the video- but have read all of the works of Jung and many analysts- I recommend Puer Aeturnus w this subject and Jungian lens
@alexstone90992 ай бұрын
Very interesting and insightful, thank you. And you spoke well, the captions weren't needed.
@Thedrummaman762 ай бұрын
Yo! I follow you on Instagram. I'm glad this was in my recommendation feed 🙏🏾
@Pupin5714 күн бұрын
Similarly, but in the opposite constellation > women who have a father complex ... everything you said will also apply to women!
@RobertAllen-d7x2 ай бұрын
Thank you bold Sage! Boundless Love and Light to you my brother~○
@Vetiun2 ай бұрын
I just started talking to woman again and once i see them as a potential partner i screw it up. Overthink myself to death and ruin it. Never had a mother in my life since i was 5 and all i do is f*ck up every relationship i have. Idk where to go from here but i refuse to give up. I dont want to be alone anymore
@neil64212 ай бұрын
Great video. Watched twice. Keep it up!
@colinloh64272 ай бұрын
How interesting and ironic that I found this video whereby last night I dreamt of arguing with my mom.
@ninashirley4322 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@andriyandriychuk2 ай бұрын
What about Inner Critic? Inner Quitter? Why do we need MC if we have parts ?
@Th3eKidd2 ай бұрын
It sounds like you’re referring to IFS here. This video is about Jungian psychology, which uses a different schema to understand the psyche
@terencehennegan14392 ай бұрын
Excellent video. Thank you for sharing.
@manishkashyap58122 ай бұрын
Very informative
@ZenSei030422 ай бұрын
I would want to see all points writen. And look at them at ones. Without now needing to find them all out.
@VikrantSingh-se2zb2 ай бұрын
Deep Expertise. Thanks 😊❤
@PaanaPu2 ай бұрын
Great video! I subscribed!
@janarhorton686Ай бұрын
Even if he is an only adult child
@liltick1022 ай бұрын
Subscribed as fuck
@A_Me_Amy2 ай бұрын
I am a divine being and I have many die for me daily. The spirit shall slay all for me. There is no truth in any but me. Such evil I see. How terrible they are.
@billpetersen2982 ай бұрын
I didn’t feel accepted by my mother. Now I want my wife to touch me, in an accepting loving way. But beyond what a mother would, or should.
@ryoga50002 ай бұрын
What if a man doesnt have a good relationship with the mother and was dependent on the men in the neighborhood to raise him
@justaninja12 ай бұрын
Ok, so what do we do about it to resolve it?
@flaq52022 ай бұрын
right?
@fennyellis33662 ай бұрын
He said to confront your inner dragon!
@justaninja12 ай бұрын
@@fennyellis3366 I heard what he said. That's vague AF. I was asking him to elaborate on how to do that, not for someone to repeat what he said.
@fennyellis33662 ай бұрын
@@justaninja1 It's different for everyone. Read some Jung books and find out what it means for you.
@justaninja12 ай бұрын
@@fennyellis3366 🤣🤣🤣
@dani5639Ай бұрын
I think females can have this too. Can u make a video for women ;
@IuriPLago21 күн бұрын
how the man rejects a woman authority in the professional field if he is overreliant on female figures for direction? (according to the complex)
@AkiIka-j5d17 күн бұрын
Social rules and expectations about how men shouldn't be bossed around by any other females than his own mother. It's even acceptable to joke about literally every woman on earth but the moment that's your mother, you have to defend her. Meaning the rejection of woman authority happens so the mother (primary female authority figure)'s position as such is threatened to be replaced by someone else.
@SirJoco2 ай бұрын
Is there a similar complex a woman could have?
@andriyandriychuk2 ай бұрын
If we need by nature loving parents isn't this a request from evolution? Then why do we fail at it so much? Then shouldn't we not need this as part of our biology? Then why do we need loving parents? Pay attention how many things getting screwed if there's lack of love. Then what is it - from an evolutionary standpoint? If not the biggest evolutionary advantage.
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
I think the psychic evolution is somewhat different than biological evolution. In regard to the psyche, it’s not liner but cyclical. That’s why the archetypal patters repeats itself throughout history.
@kingagrad34362 ай бұрын
Like fractals, wider and wider@@philemon_
@ПОЧИНЮКУКУХУ2 ай бұрын
All biological beings fail a lot, being eaten by competing species, infections, siblings etc. Who knows, maybe psychically we are also being eaten by competing mind viruses.
@mmechrizma2 ай бұрын
Why would poe's marrying a child support the argument that it's possibly a result of the mother complex? If he married a women much older or overtly motherly, that would make sense but it's rather unlikely that a 13 year old would fulfill that role.
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
every projection have their own subjective roots. For some it can be older woman but for some it can younger ones.
@Christian-jt7po2 ай бұрын
Jesus. Be a therapist already. I got more insight from you than I have from my own therapists.
@danielm9782 ай бұрын
Somebody got triggered ha? Maybe you should take that to your next session with your psychologist.
@waitheramuthoni73182 ай бұрын
@@danielm978 I think Christian meant it as a compliment 😅
@avengingsylph2 ай бұрын
7:40 ....yeah, me.
@kazijamisima2 ай бұрын
Can women have Mother Complex?
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
yes
@lindamceachern54672 ай бұрын
Is there such a thing as the Father Complex?
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
yes there is. Will make a video on it soon!
@Yes_Im_Adarsh2 ай бұрын
Can you please make this video in Hindi as well
@Muslim123442 ай бұрын
I'm just so confused. Is she trying to ruin my life or did she actually care and if so, damn.
@melissaklemm99762 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@janarhorton686Ай бұрын
He is just SEVERELY USING HER
@ayomideadeoye44462 ай бұрын
can women possess this complex?
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
yes
@irempolat81372 ай бұрын
i love this do you have father comlex too?
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
Will make one
@jackalope23022 ай бұрын
The Inner Critic? Mine is like Sergeant Hartman from Full Metal Jacket
@ManérgåTøneș2 ай бұрын
@@jackalope2302 LOL
@melissaklemm99762 ай бұрын
He is to cling to his wife ❤ let go of the titty..no failure to launch here❤ he knows fear of the Lord is the first step out into the world. He will be chastised and he will be LOVED ❤
@eniggma93532 ай бұрын
jung was a genius, but this is not a science of any kind. i get the "ugabuga" vibe 'ere.
@RasKalevthesouljourner2 ай бұрын
Check Jesse lee Peterson to learn more
@FRFrass2 ай бұрын
💖💖💖💖💖
@NarrelleChain2 ай бұрын
Hang on, you just said that mother complex has nothing to do with our real mother and now you are telling us how these men were affected by their mothers??
@philemon_2 ай бұрын
in regards to real mothers, it's usually due to projection.
@jessewallace12able2 ай бұрын
There is no mother complex.
@FRFrass2 ай бұрын
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
@jesmm-p11h2 ай бұрын
Go find a baby girl complex😂
@RandomPerson283372 ай бұрын
My eyes are over here bud
@UpacoolАй бұрын
Oi kela axomiya niki
@marymc67012 ай бұрын
You explained well, but please work on your English pronunciation - it's off-putting.
@andriyandriychuk2 ай бұрын
Accent is okay for non natives
@terryvolbrecht93562 ай бұрын
I don't find it at all offputting.
@ManérgåTøneș2 ай бұрын
omg
@ManérgåTøneș2 ай бұрын
@@andriyandriychuk Im a non native and the accent was fine because i know people who don't live in the west who speak English have accents.
@Autolysis572 ай бұрын
Wow, unnecessary criticism or excellent sarcastic joke?