@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone The comment here "No response is a response". I heard once that when we REACT towards someone and say something like "you MADE me angry" you're giving that person power over you, power over your emotions which I have done all my life. I have been emotionally unstable all my life, and after having found this channel, I hope I can heal and become emotionally wise, level headed and mature.
@lourdesecheverria62098 ай бұрын
"NEVER ALLOW SOMEONE TO BE YOUR PRIORITY WHILE ALLOWING YOURSELF TO BE THEIR OPTION." Blessings to all! ❤
@ILENENETERER8 ай бұрын
Yupe, that was me!!!!!
@TheDerangedBlood8 ай бұрын
EXACTLY. I had a "friend" who invited me to go out with her on a Saturday because she didn't have any plans. I sent a text on Saturday morning to see if she wanted to meet up in the afternoon. No response until Tuesday when she wanted something from me. I said, nope...you made plans to go out with me and then ghosted me. In her lying mind, she thought we made plans on Sunday and proceeded to tell me she had plans on Saturday to go on a wine and painting thing. She couldn't even bother to scroll up to my text to see I sent the meeting time on Saturday. I said, so you ghosted me so you could go out with your other friends to a wine event? She knew she was caught in a lie and I wasn't falling for her damage control BS. She even tried to tell me she respected my feelings. I told her, you really need to think about that because if she had ANY respect for me, she would have called or text to cancel. Yeah, we aren't friends anymore. I know the signs and I'm not falling for it.
@lourdesecheverria62098 ай бұрын
@@TheDerangedBlood Just blocked two "friends" who were nothing but users. I gave and gave into the friendship and realized they would cancel and be late and never valued my time or had any respect for my loyalty. Bye narcs! Blessings to you!❤
@TheDerangedBlood8 ай бұрын
@@lourdesecheverria6209 We seriously need to find better friends. It seems almost impossible this day and age which is really, really sad.
@kissmyazzbitches4wat8 ай бұрын
That part ❤
@goinghomesoon32107 ай бұрын
Silence suffocates the narcissist
@stephaniepiazzese26023 ай бұрын
Oh!!! That’s good. Great comment. Thankyou. I’m writing that down!!!😊
@Michelina22Ай бұрын
I wish I knew more about this before I started a relationship with him He was a completely different person at first until he got me trapped Upstate Just seeing a mountain triggers me I’ll get back to myself, almost there In the name of Jesus Christ Amen 🙏🏼
@teresak64638 ай бұрын
It’s like I dropped off the face of the earth. I’d rather be alone than be with people who are supposed to love and protect you just try to end your life. Keep strong and keep fighting my friend. ❤
@gerryberg54668 ай бұрын
I agree. I would rather be alone too. I am learning to love myself now.
@teresak64638 ай бұрын
@@gerryberg5466 It’s so crazy that by the time you finally leave you have to relearn your likes and dislikes and even hobbies. It’s painfully beautiful. We get to reinvent ourselves! ❤️
@amiblack82948 ай бұрын
Agreed. Am much happier without them in my life, and felt more alone when they were in my life because I couldnt count on them to do anything except aggravate me and cause drama.
@teresak64638 ай бұрын
@@amiblack8294 It was actually MORE painful being around the fakes than being sick and alone. ❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌😌💯🙏❤️
@enchantment87 ай бұрын
I discovered silence drives them crazy.
@Hannah-pc7hg7 ай бұрын
Lost many years for nothing. Glad to finally be free.
@monikaballah9316 ай бұрын
me too.
@giseladauer40972 ай бұрын
Me too.
@Gitte5858 ай бұрын
Silence and absence. And no communication. And stop romanticizing it🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌😌💯
@italyparis69758 ай бұрын
"Become dull,and boring and get off the radar" point taken 👍
@hd-be7di7 ай бұрын
I agree there should be classes in school focused on personality disorders, namely the cluster B's. Kids should be aware of how to identify mentally ill abusive people
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
😌😌
@KR-pp7wp2 ай бұрын
That would expose the Politicians, Dr's, etc. They would rather they remained hidden.
@danihannah44938 ай бұрын
Today was a good day. Feeling stronger. The hurt is less. Thank you Andrew and this wonderful family of kind people.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌🙏🙌
@TravelBits2228 ай бұрын
They want you to accept the disrespect, the lies, the manipulation without questioning them. Questioning their behavior is not an option for the Narcissist. It’s their way or the highway. There is no negotiation, no conversation because they are not open to any of these.
@michelleleeschaeffer34827 ай бұрын
They don’t see anybody as having their own autonomy. Everybody in their circle is just a snapshot of what they want them to be. Its their littke fantasy world and if you don’t play Then you have destroyed their little snapshot in their head, and it makes them go crazy. Everybody has a role to play in the narcissist life because they’re looking for their identity. It’s a very sick illness but unfortunately their victims suffer twice as much. I’m the mother of a 30 year old, female narcissist. I am going through it right now. I’ve been in her Stonewall discard phase for about 40 days. But this time it’s different because it’s starting to affect my physical and mental health like never before. I know it’s hard when it’s a partner or an extended family member, or a coworker but when it’s your child, it’s almost virtually impossible to close that door. The pain is ridiculous. And as a loving mom, all I’ve done is try to figure out where I went wrong believe me I’ve been studying this for six years. The only thing I came up with was that I may have overprotected her but still, if you knew the whole backstory you would be over protective too. But in the same vein, I had a strictness to me but I believe it was normal like do your homework can’t date till you’re 16. I think I was a pretty normal mom and I know I showed her all the love I have in my heart and now six years since she left she’s extorted over $20,000 from me and pretty much suck the life and joy out of me. But when I listen to these videos, it’s really not hard to put anybody in that seat whether it’s your child, your husband, wife, boyfriend, etc. the behaviors are exactly the same sadly they don’t. Care. If it’s their mom or even their own child, they really are borderline possessed.
@sagenosnibor91737 ай бұрын
Facts 👏🏽
@lios5838 ай бұрын
Knowing when to be silent, honoring being silent and choosing to be silent- is also how you win and take your power back. Thank you Andrew for your tireless efforts, I appreciate it very much! ❤🙏🐬
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌🙏💯
@marypalmer10628 ай бұрын
today, I stripped off all of the acctrimonts of gold and precious metals that I had been gifted to me,from my fam and had them melted , all the talismans with everything.. Forgive yourself. Turn the page. No more!
@lucasmichaels22047 ай бұрын
They all say the same thing: “Hey, you completely dissapeared!” No, I just don’t mess with you!
@faith52178 ай бұрын
Thanks Andrew- you are absolutely 💯 % correct. TIME is our most valuable asset. Don't waste your time or energy, once it's gone you can't get it back. Spend your time as carefully as you would spend your money. Please don't waste your time. 🙏 ❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome..🙏🙌❤️💯
@angelsusannoy8998 ай бұрын
19:40 "Your silence does the talking for you. It really does. So close the chapter. Block them, delete them, etc." "Do not accept a Hoover. Understand that Narcissist just wants to keep you in a manipulation game. They want to keep you trap in that cycle." "The more people they keep in that abuse, the better off it is for them, and the worse off it is for you."
@Nothingbutlovehere3697 ай бұрын
My daughter (40). After decades of trying to help her, lead her to health and light, love her through it all… I’m now choosing me. It’s painful. But I can’t allow it any longer. It tried desperately, for decades, to protect her from her father’s (narc) influences…and yet. She has become one. And I’m now letting it be. To protect my heart and my soul. To protect my peace. Sending love to all….❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@Nothingbutlovehere3697 ай бұрын
And thank you Andrew for sharing your pain and healing, and for being a bright light! ⭐️❤️
@richardprice89518 ай бұрын
I fell for the, "Oh, he's just an old high school friend". For 15 years she cheated with him until I caught them together. I feel so dumb for falling for it
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@Arcturus5498 ай бұрын
That's why I stay away from women with male "friends". A lot of these types do that to have men on the back burner ready to go for a monkeybranch, and for cheating.
@marcialussier24678 ай бұрын
Don't feel bad about it. You were masterfully manipulated. Of course you would not have known about it. Because you've never known people that do things like that. They're not like other people. Give yourself a break. At least you're out of it now, and just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Take care of yourself!
@geraldfriend2568 ай бұрын
It’s ok. You are expected to trust, and they are expected to be trustworthy.No failure on your part.😊
@ac-hk4fs7 ай бұрын
I understand how you feel.😢 My adult child caught their Dad cheating with his hs girlfriend. We are in our 50's. I had no idea- the humiliation, lies, devastation, etc. brought me to my knees at first. After some time and the most amazing support system, I realized I was way better than this and didn't deserve to be treated like trash. I wasn't the problem, he was. Two years later, I'm much happier and in an amazing place. I still have moments of sadness and reflection, but they are fewer and fewer each day. We are all worth SO much more. Don't let these fools ruin your life. YOU ARE AMAZING.
@importdoc78 ай бұрын
16 months no contact and divorce final last week to a total Narc. Best time of my life now. 🙏
@MM-kt4is8 ай бұрын
Enjoy every moment of your hard fought freedom! You walked thru hell and made it out!!!
@debbier95558 ай бұрын
Enjoy your Freedom!
@importdoc75 ай бұрын
@@MM-kt4is thank you and all the best to you on Your journey 🙏
@importdoc75 ай бұрын
@@debbier9555 I am. And thank you so much.
@SharonJohnston-l1o2 ай бұрын
“The pinnacle of indifference.” That’s where I am with my family now. It took 5 years but I’m at the top of that mountain!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 ай бұрын
😌💜🙏⛰️☀️
@amandahodge38098 ай бұрын
It took me a long time to realize my silence was so much louder than my words. But now that I know, it literally feels so powerful because I’m not giving any attention or energy to the narcissist, and our silence eats them up, they hate it! Stay strong! Thanks Andrew 🙏🏽
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌🙏🙌
@AstridAdams-h2x8 ай бұрын
There is no need to explain, they are not able to understand and they will never change. Even if they know they have gone to far, they will do everything to glue their mask. Nothing has been done/said only for you, everything was just for their advantage.
@sxfnlc8 ай бұрын
I have gone silence, block, no contact and it’s the only safe way. This whole relationship has been hellish. I am hurting. This hurts so much.
@a.howell7825 күн бұрын
There is light at the end of the tunnel!
@PaisChica8 ай бұрын
My narc continues to message me with how much he loves and misses me then turns right around and tries and make me feel sorry for him that I left. I refuse to answer and engage with him. He gets very angry when I don’t respond to him. He put me through hell and now that I’m finally free I won’t waste another minute on him. I have peace for the first time in my adult life.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
💯💯💪😌
@alonzomosley78 ай бұрын
Being late is a passive aggressive technique
@gratefultobehere8 ай бұрын
Silence is a friend to those of us who’ve come through. Thank you for the reminders. There was a broad list of all the things the narcissists want…how about we don’t give them what they want and just keep silent. Learning this is invaluable. Stay warm everyone. Mighty chilly 🥶 these days 🙏❤️
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
🙏💯🥶
@patriciasmith39738 ай бұрын
Nothing near their cold, cold hearts though.
@pauloloura28988 ай бұрын
It’s been almost two years since the narc packed her bags , she tried contacting me different times and gets silence, now I enjoy my peace and being alone.
@MildredMaldonado-p5z8 ай бұрын
It has been the best thing I have done radio silence,it’s so liberating. Take care Andrew.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@dianemaltese31717 ай бұрын
When you realize there is no reasoning with them, the nonsense that comes out of them at times is ridiculous. When you realize there is not one thing you can say at all the best thing you can do is stay is silent.
@adamroth7197 ай бұрын
I see right through them now… especially gaslighting you into a reaction to blameshift.
@mariahernadez97028 ай бұрын
The Narcissist in my life is in God’s hands I understand I can’t help & get hurt anymore 😢 thank you Brother & community 🙏🏼 for the support, love & push toward healing ❤️🩹
@EmperorSCOE3 ай бұрын
Your words cut deeply. Point after point after point. Thank u. Bless.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone3 ай бұрын
🙏😌💜
@jazstar46228 ай бұрын
My parents tormented me Most of my life !! Even when we always had distance !so I was a silent & stoic person,now they have left the planet, there is silence & peace !!! ,Its very strange that I can now break my own silence !!!!Its very strange To hear my voice again !!! To be free ...
@madelinehodges90098 ай бұрын
I had the last word, by not having the last word.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
💯💯😌
@danabarber74878 ай бұрын
Love that!!!
@arianstiebs66198 ай бұрын
Silence is golden...
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
🤫😌🙌
@huei-yipan8 ай бұрын
This resonates with me Andrew because I got gaslit and intimacy withheld from me by my ex Mark. I never knew when his next rage fit was going to be. I got hit too. I am so glad I am not with him anymore.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
💯💯😌
@patriciabrooks29157 ай бұрын
I’m doing this right now it’s so difficult because I’m used to talking to this person and when I do they pick through everything criticize everything cut me off and turn around and walk and do something else when I’m trying to explain myself but when it’s their turn I have to have complete Surrender to them. I have to listen to every word they say they get real close and get in my feed I don’t know and I’just had it so I’m willing to be silent because every word I say is either wrong criticized or manipulated why this is now in my feet I don’t know, but I need this more than ever.
@lilfairycupcake8 ай бұрын
im a huge fan of silence, and it works wonders.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
🤫🤫🙏💯
@glennrobinson71937 ай бұрын
Timely advice for one who has always thought it's best to be open and sincere, to talk things out, to vent, to be upfront and direct.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@glennrobinson71937 ай бұрын
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone ??? 🤔
@huei-yipan8 ай бұрын
My ex Mark is so narcissistic he is still badmouthing me to other people behind my back just to play the victim card…. Thank you for your videos Andrew. Reminds me that I am a woman of high worth and value and that I have a bright shining light. I deleted and blocked him from my phone and Cashapp. Namaste Andrew. I love you. ❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome..🙏😌🙌
@marybarton56518 ай бұрын
Well, the narc finally got his wish that I "move on. "... lol. Silence is golden... a hard lesson to learn and has been hard to do because there was a time when I was like a ghost. Invisible until he had a use for me in order for him to get something useful for him from me. That was forced silence. I have learned to speak out, but at times, I become silent for introspection so I can focus on how to become a better version of my true authentic self.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌😌💯🙏
@almosthome59718 ай бұрын
🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻 Keep healing!
@marybarton56518 ай бұрын
@almosthome5971 working on it every day, by the grace of God, who strengthens me... 🙏✌️❤️✝️😊
@JUMPforyourLIFE8 ай бұрын
Andrew you are shining bright and keeping up 🆙 you have so much energy and passion. I admire you! I look forward to these videos. Thank you. 🙏🏻
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌😌🙏❤️
@mbouquin3 күн бұрын
Andrew its amazing how you accurately describe my relationship with the narcissist!!! Sooo glad its over. No contact is divine! But only once we UNDERSTAND naicissism. Only took me 15 years. Better late than never ❤
@theredmeadow8 ай бұрын
I have been silent for 4 weeks and she came back last night. She sent me three texts, saying she misses me and other things. Then she called me. I didn’t respond or answer the phone call. This morning 9am she writes me a long goodbye text about how I make her smile and she’s been thinking about us for the past few weeks but that she’s going to delete my number. I haven’t responded. What is up with these people?? Stay strong.
@ThePonyd8 ай бұрын
Stay strong man! Take the validation and run
@joseenoel80938 ай бұрын
Stay strong and ignore her, if you don't you'll have to go through it, again, the discard, the pain, until you learn it's all rinse and repeat, it's your ego you're giving into! Next time she'll fling you further read farther and your landing will hurt more, block her, end the game, she's not going to change!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌💯💪💯
@emilywilson73088 ай бұрын
She is cruel and you don't need that in your life!😮
@rinnemichelle9467 ай бұрын
I just want to cry. Almost this whole relationship (and we live together in my home) he just disappears for weeks saying he is working and won’t answer the phone and barely texts and never brings home any money. I deal with it bc I don’t want to be alone. When he is here, he is the most intimate person on earth and we do everything together. But there have been so many lies and manipulation wirh money. I don’t even want to say how much I have given him as I am so embarrassed. When I question him about money he gets angry but has his hands out all the time. I’m in therapy now, but sooo trauma bonded. I’m such an empath. Do I have to act like a Narc to get love?
@KARMABELLA247 ай бұрын
Thank you for your life affirming videos. I met my ex BF almost a year ago. He was the first man I became involved with in 6 yrs. I saw red flags in the beginning and stayed vigilant. 3 weeks ago, he handed me a bouquet of red flags. We were riding bikes. I had not been on a bike in 10 yrs. While we were riding, he took me on a steep path. I stopped myself from crashing by leaning on the fence at the top of the steep hill. A week later , we were riding around his neighborhood. He was behind me, went around me, and cut me off. I couldn't stop and hit his bike, which ended in me taking a horrible fall. I landed hard onto the pavement and fractured my wrist. I need my hands to work as I'm an Aesthetician. He knew I was starting a new job in a few days. When I crashed into his bike, he had a smirk on his face. At first I accepted it was just an accident. A few days later, we were driving in his car. He was going 45mph. He undid my seat belt and pretended to open the car door. We weren't arguing or fighting in any way. He laughed at me when I became scared He proceeded to tell me a horrific story about a friend of his who had a wife jump out of the car, and he ran over her, and she died. Alarms went off. It took me a day to process this. I ended our relationship right then and there. Of course, he called me crazy and accused me of overreacting. I went no contact. I'll never speak to him again. He will never see me nor hear my voice. His sister begged me to give him another chance. She let it slip he has BPD. She stated that due to his mental illness, I needed to be more accepting. I told her, "I'm done." The year of mental manipulation and covert abuse led up to me being injured to the point of losing 4 to 6 weeks of income. People, malignant abusers will not stop at emotional abuse if we let them. They will physically harm us if we are doing better than they think we should be. Please love yourself and watch for red flags.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
Welcome..😌💯🙏🙌
@stephaniepiazzese26022 ай бұрын
Oh Dear God. I needed this one TO. DAY. I’ve been silent. I e been so silent it’s as though I died. But I haven’t died. The “ silent” is the hard part for me. I’m a very upfront/ honest/ loving person. I am the exact carbon copy of my beautiful Mom. With her gone,,, a part of me died with her,,, but I feel I MUST GO ON, even in silence. two of the worst narcs that hurt me so badly,, are neighbors. They walk by my house. A lot. Looking my way,,, it is hard for me not to wave or say “ hey”,,,, but I do not. Thank you Andrew,, yes, the wrecking ball, describes them so clearly. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. ❤❤❤❤❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone2 ай бұрын
Welcome..🙏💜😌💯
@glendaanderson11198 ай бұрын
Thank you Andrew. It's an oddity to some degree to be able to see people for the way they truly are. Myself included.😊
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌🙏🙌
@lalalovengun7 ай бұрын
I wish I heard this in my late teens/ early 20s!!! Thank you for doing these videos!!🙏🏿🙏🏿💙💙
@SharkE7478 ай бұрын
Andrew, I wish that were down there with you right now. It's cold here in south central Pennsylvania. 🥶 😅 But it's a good day to be narcissist free. 🙏😊
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌🙏💯
@elanaseger28688 ай бұрын
You speak such truth. Thank you for your love and wisdom ❤❤❤
@Luis-v7n8c8 ай бұрын
True True, one crazy thing I also experienced is, the X would wake me up in the middle of the night and accuse me of things I did in her dreams, I would have to explain myself to her on why I did what I did to her in her dreams. What was I thinking Hahaha
@AstridAdams-h2x8 ай бұрын
Silence and no contact is protection. I had a hoover and talked to him by phone. He was so sweet, so nice but it was clear what he wanted. Information, "friendship" and that I should do something for him. He wanted to tell me, that misses me although he had several new "one-time-supplies", that he has no money to pay the rent etc. Of course I am still his love of his life, of course we both are the dreamteam.. and he was in therapy which proofed that he is no narcissist only a bit manipulative....than I caught him lying. Immediately his mask felt off - screaming, shouting, using bad words before he hang of the phone. They will never change, their words are poison. It took me 2 weeks after the call to get this poison out of my head. The feeling of being abused was so present, the memories came back, just hearing this voice. He got what he wanted, he was back in my mind, I was thinking about him! I will definitely not brake the no contact again!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing..💯🙏🙌
@billiemunn8 ай бұрын
"They never thought you would figure them out." ---Andrew, NARC DAILY. This is so true! When I figured them out, they told my significant other, "We don't know what to do." Why? Because I withdrew and went full no contact. Yep, that really foiled their next step. 💕🙏👍
@kittensugars5 ай бұрын
My brother commented to me that my old place (where narc is) looks empty now. I informed him that it IS empty now. There's no human soul there anymore. All the color, happiness, and creativity that existed there, came with me, and left with me.
@hharuka98048 ай бұрын
Great message! You saved me from going back to this loop of Trauma bonds. I will keep silent. I will be strong to be myself. Thank you.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌💯🙏
@CharLotte-rj8cq7 ай бұрын
Just wow, this is so spot on and exact. I was so blind. Praise God for revealing the truth.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@freespirit23198 ай бұрын
Andrew I think you went through all your turmoil for a reason. You have enlightened so many people with such articulation and eloquence i can't help thinking this is your mission, and that's not taking away from your trauma in any way. How I wish I knew then what I know now. I was terrified people would find out my husband would blank me, not speaking to me for weeks at a time. I would say to anyone going through this " share and expose them" especially to your family..I kept quiet for the sake of the children ! Wrong!! Thank you Andrew.
@MrMartellSincere7 ай бұрын
I appreciate this message, Narc. I'm always quiet on something's
@Mollymolly3218 ай бұрын
I just adore you 😁 ur amazing Andrew thank you
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
😌😌🙏
@pattyrooney13237 ай бұрын
Thank you, Andrew!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
Welcome 🙏💯😌
@Willa44208 ай бұрын
Your knowledge and dedication is impeccable. Your videos are so healing.❤
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
❤️🙏🙌
@annicecaldwell12717 ай бұрын
Thank you. I needed this today. I am a recovering narcissistic abuse victim. Your channel is so helpful. ❤🎉
@sisirider19638 ай бұрын
Introspection is a quality I once thought all people had. It was inherent in our ability to be empathetic and to apologize for bad behavior. I now know that is not the case - the narcissist does not look inward, they just project their abuse outward.
@yvettemoreel42378 ай бұрын
So very true Andrew.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@Lexa_7687 ай бұрын
Great video. Love this part 6:19. And how you pointed out narcissist “want a pawn or a puppet or an Aaron person. They want an unpaid helper”!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
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@leilagomulka56908 ай бұрын
Stay warm and stay safe. You are an inspiration. I look for your podcast daily. 🙏
@crushingcolours8 ай бұрын
Your words continue to inspire to stay strong and stand firm. We will not be fooled again!
@clarity207 ай бұрын
This is one of the greatest videos I have ever seen. This is excellent. Thank you.
@lailaa66628 ай бұрын
I especially like when you talk about observing someone enduring a narc in front of you.. I wonder if we could talk to the victim privately and recommend a video to them?.. but otherwise I agree.. we come first second and third and there is nothing wrong with putting ourselves first.. ITS VITAL AND A NECESSITY TO SURVIVE IN THIS WORLD.. as you said last week “silence is golden”.. thank you .. I very much appreciate this video and I listened intently without browsing comments.. but now I am browsing as I finished 😂.. it’s early morning here.. and i got to watch the views and likes increase.. thank you ☘️☘️☃️☃️🥰🥰
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 🙌🙏😌💯
@MaryFlavor_kanini7 ай бұрын
The best thing that I have learnt is to point out on toxicity and or leave.
@ljmiles77 ай бұрын
Thank you! Thats exactly what I need to here. Trauma bond is hard to shake especially when you dont even realize its there. No matter what he says im going to continue to stay silent. 🤫👍I feel stronger every day and the simple joy of life is all around me again.
@aden29578 ай бұрын
Great video Andrew. Thankyou, I needed this. God bless you 🙏
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌🙏💯
@GordonPavilion8 ай бұрын
Intentional non-action, is an action. Same with holding your silence. Holding your silence, is a powerful action.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@vivian86398 ай бұрын
Silence says it all 😂
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@Impactful_Insights7 ай бұрын
I'll tell you, it's like prophetic insights coming from you, man. Truly. You are WELL AWARE of the details of these people. Salute to you, Sir, and thank God for you and others whoer sharing these insights. Much gratitude 🙏🏿
@ronaldspins8 ай бұрын
i LIVE NEXT TO NUTCAKE MORMON'S My silence is far better than me reading the riot act
@gab5geddy8 ай бұрын
Oh my condolences to you, I've had a brief brush with those cult members. They turned from fake nice to threat when I refused to say the exact words they demanded to be said during the prayer before they left. I told them to leave immediately and they did after a few strong cautionary words 😊
@rockstarofredondo8 ай бұрын
A trio of narcissists that also happen to be Mormons that my husband and I were contracting with last year tried so hard to capture us in their web. They tried to get free work out of us, steal thousands of dollars in final invoice payments from us, smeared us and others who wouldn’t go along with their abuse, stalked us, slandered us to clients and potential future business opportunities, broke countless labor and housing laws, (they work in property management) charged their clients for work that was never done, put tenants in unsafe and mold-infested rentals... We demanded our money and walked away. A truly nasty bunch I want nothing to do with.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@Cory-ej5jq7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir, you're absolutely right.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌💯🙏
@asalewin13228 ай бұрын
Oh, that is so true. I tried to help and defend my closest co-worker several times when another co-worker, a narcissist, treated her systematically bad, like a bully. I was chocked when my co-worker was defending the narcissist and put the focus me and turned it around like I was the bad guy! It broke my heart since I really cared about her, but I learned my lesson. Thanks for talking about this in the video 🙏👍🏻🥰
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌🙌🙏
@ExoticalT3697 ай бұрын
Yep! Damn straight it does. 👸🏻
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
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@bethpowell86807 ай бұрын
Once you get out stay out!!!! He’s 1000% right. A narc deserves another narc that I do know. Close the book ASAP!!!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
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@rebelrocker74947 ай бұрын
How Right You Are !!!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
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@IzabelaWaniek-i1x8 ай бұрын
We do not have to defend ourselves, we do not have to engage with narcissists, we don’t have to explain anything to anyone and we shouldn’t take anything those evil people do or say personally. As dr Ramani puts it we should go DEEP. Thank you 🙏 Andrew. God bless you❤
@alison55047 ай бұрын
Dear Andrew...thank you so so much...your damned if you do,damned if you don't comment...that was me...when I listen to you talk you are describing my life with my narcissistic ex partner..but now he's treating the son who I share with him now in the exact way and that's when I can't do Grey rock and react.i am trying so hard but when something as simple as asking him for a lift to school gets thrown back as dropping the phone and when he finally picks up and told I'm aggressive and he has to clean up my mess..I am at a loss in how to deal with him. You are doing so much good and helping us all ..I thank you so so much...big love and peace x
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌😌🙏💯
@lynnnelson8608 ай бұрын
Yes, narcissists definitely crave and enjoy the negative energy at least from one supply. They don't necessarily need or want to be loved, they want to be feared so they can manipulate and control you to get their wants and needs met. Put on the show to be loved/liked/or to fit in but with that one specfic supply, they will create fear in you to get you to take care of their wants and needs and adhere/believe/change to their way of thinking. That's my experience.
@kevinholmes52417 ай бұрын
Thank you for such beneficial content, brethren.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
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@jornfox35458 ай бұрын
this is actually the key to your happiness also, I never thought that would be the case. and then also saying no like you said is also the key. I'm finished being a walking apology and saying yes all the time just to keep from being bullied and getting anxiety attacks, done.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@kikianellaesther81188 ай бұрын
Ive mastered silence. Best feeling in the world, and non attachment. I never thought i would get there but I did. You can too. Take care of yourselves beautiful empathic people♡
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@tlamo8938 ай бұрын
I had no idea that anyone else could relate to this kind of abuse. It always comes out as confusing and frustrating. 12 year education
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@SarahJean5218 ай бұрын
Thank you for your time
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
Welcome 😊🙏😌
@PamelaSwain-u1j7 ай бұрын
Thank you Andrew, Your words are golden I will not to be too proud to listen & learn! And I do appreciate the valueable knowledge, However I even choose to apply it! I often learn and listen, But tonight I listen and learn; Thanks again!
@purposelypurple2757 ай бұрын
Your videos helped me immensely 💜🫂😢🙏🏾thank you for helping me heal myself.
@elanaseger28688 ай бұрын
Spot on -spot on -- spot on !!!❤❤❤
@lindagodwin36807 ай бұрын
❤ thank you so very much!
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone7 ай бұрын
Welcome 😌🙌🙏
@baileymorgan6358 ай бұрын
We win! I changed my number which was extremely helpful in maintaining no comtact.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@janherlihy83017 ай бұрын
This is a really good video. I appreciate it so much. Your source of support to actually three weeks today. No contact with a narcissist just walked away.
@mahatmadoo25668 ай бұрын
Wow. This was a powerful one. Let's not bring up weddings. Whoops.❤
@patsysummitt86188 ай бұрын
WOW ** No greater Words of Truth have been spoken 👍😳 Thank You 😊
@YAHAYAH_3697 ай бұрын
Thank You For Your Service 🌞
@lisarichards38538 ай бұрын
Its sometimes hard to hear the truth. Namaste.
@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone8 ай бұрын
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@bonnie87978 ай бұрын
Been my latest tatic
@alonzomosley78 ай бұрын
I struggle everyday dealing with the narcs damage esp being unfaithful . I did have a meltdown with my adult kids about her behaviour recently ,not proud of it .
@joruddock89508 ай бұрын
You are a genius sir.....every word you say is the absolute truth..my father is a sick man..I have used the silent treatment for five months to him and all the flying monkeys....it's very empowering...x