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@gsdkid1827 ай бұрын
I learned that I could put all my soon to be ex wife’s issues into one bucket. I didn’t make her feel “safe” I changed lots for myself. Doubled my salary, stopped watching corn, got healthy, and watched Josh’s videos, became Superman in 4 months. I became “safe” funny about this video. She’s recently asked how I’ve been. My responses are “safe”. She knew what I meant too she seen all the changes I became apex!
@NTRSCHAND7 ай бұрын
Did this change how she feels about you? Is it helping you prevent her becoming your "soon to be ex wife"? Just curious, and also happy for you man! Keep up the great work 💪🏾
@marriagereset7 ай бұрын
LETS GOO!
@joedavid827 ай бұрын
My wife asked me for a divorce. I was so thankful that I watched Hudson’s video on letting go to get her back. So. I let go. I accepted it. I wanted to stay married of course. But I let go. And I opened my chest and reached in and showed her my heart. I had to whisper so I would not sob. I fought back the urge to breakdown and cry. I got it out. I told her I want you to do what makes you happy. I can be alone. I’m not some needy lil B--. I can be alone for the rest of my life. I’ll be just fine. I don’t need you. I WANT to be with you. She said she didn’t want a divorce either. We have been doing great ever since. I credit God and Hudson’s videos for giving me the knowledge to speak in a way that saved my marriage
@marriagereset7 ай бұрын
You did all the work brother
@Mrdmb4heels7 ай бұрын
How did you do this and at what point?
@joedavid827 ай бұрын
I waited for a moment alone with her when my 4 year old was at school. I sat on the bed while she was getting dressed and just told her
@ChrisWadwick7 ай бұрын
@@joedavid82i meant in terms of how long into separation or moved out did you do it? What type of status were you in, like was she resentful and hating? Or was she in a dual mindset?
@davidhanni2085 ай бұрын
I did the same thing last night exactly how you said it Joe and she said we will not even have a friendship just a co-parenting relationship cause I told her that I still wanted her and desired her . I’m pretty much screwed .
@marquis127Ай бұрын
That response hit so hard right now.
@joedowning14347 ай бұрын
I really appreciate this video (and many others I’ve watched). 2.5 months separated. So much uncertainty. So many opinions/approaches of how to proceed but I must say, yours seems the most truthful & hopeful. Thank you.
@marriagereset7 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@S1lverspike7 ай бұрын
I’m nearly two months brother. Went from she won’t talk to me to now if I call her she picks up first ring. I’m still giving her space and we have a child together. We started doing family things together. Take it day by day and continue to work on yourself. Idk what will happen in my situation but I enrolled in the course and my wife went from saying you can change to now she’s knows I can be a better man and she’s needs me to believe that too. Most encouraging thing she’s told me in months. You can’t see the forest from the trees but don’t give up you’re closer than you think. Focus on the here and now she’s watching trust me.
@keithribeiro83877 ай бұрын
Thank you Josh. Your videos lift my spirit and give me confidence to face this challenge. I need to remind myself to be thankful that my wife has given me this opportunity to step up.
@marriagereset7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@joedavid827 ай бұрын
This was a couple days after she asked for a divorce. Still living together w our 4 year old. She said I could take him. She was very resentful and hating on me. I broke through her wall with my genuine want and not needy at all. Essentially what I learned is she does not want a divorce. She wants me to change. She wants me to be a nicer and more patient man
@jeanfrancolaricchia4697 ай бұрын
Thank you !!! Josh and your team . …
@damonshine41417 ай бұрын
I thank you for your videos and your training. You're spot on and it works. However, not all women want to leave for another man. Many women just want out of a situation that they believe is untenable. But either way... your counsel is sound. Sincerity and follow through from the husband is paramount for the potential for success in the relationship.
@adambrown63637 ай бұрын
Do you have the transcript of that message that I could use?
@calvinchristopher90466 ай бұрын
Hey Josh yes please do a video going into your thesis
@vik19742 ай бұрын
This is amazing content.
@marriageresetАй бұрын
Glad you're enjoying it!
@cpe1704tks.5 ай бұрын
I want to read your thesis, seriously. I'm curious as heck. How can I get a copy? Let me know.
@JJVERI17 ай бұрын
Thanks
@marriagereset7 ай бұрын
No problem
@brianharrington76277 ай бұрын
This sounds like something that can be said in the beginning of when say says she wants a divorce. How about 8 to 9 months in. Would this still be an effective route to go in?
@josesandoval19667 ай бұрын
Same here brother.. divorce should be finalized in 2 month. One thing I know about her.. her pride is so big once she said she would do something she'll follow thru.. even if she didn't want to anymore
@brianharrington76277 ай бұрын
@josesandoval1966 same here. Even is my wife is wrong. She will never admit to it and will take it to her grave. She told me months ago that I have her permission to sleep with other woman. Which of course I did not. But just spoke about it the other day. She wants me to meet another woman but not sleep with them lol
@connecticut7307 ай бұрын
@@brianharrington7627 that's in other Josh videos.. Testing you.
@djohns198724 күн бұрын
Does that statement work as well in a letter? Or should it be states
@arishmccrary37207 ай бұрын
Why is it so hard to find the cost of the program? I am very interested and need to know how much money to make but after 5th page in seach engine I'm concerned on why its a secret. I already know it isn't cheap. Thats why i need to make a game plan.
@brandonlasage915 ай бұрын
It's almost $10K
@snaxandviolence4 ай бұрын
There's a cheap version for like under 3k. You don't need it if you're bright enough to read between the lines. The videos work real well. I do wish I had access to the Facebook group though
@dubayousee2 ай бұрын
I should've watched this before I filed for divorce.... ooops
@keithribeiro8387Ай бұрын
You can always cancel the divorce. Yes?
@vik19742 ай бұрын
This is wow
@WillFarrar-qf2gc4 ай бұрын
Is the Facebook group for costumers only or invite only? I'd like to join.
@lawrenceglerum19167 ай бұрын
Your thesis, please.
@AscendedMasculine7 ай бұрын
The book is called Social Savant
@paulkousis22066 ай бұрын
F….. amazing
@daniellinklater17797 ай бұрын
This is a good skill but women are loyal to their feelings these days! Love is a decision.
@SimpsonIII2 ай бұрын
I need to call you I need help
@marriagereset2 ай бұрын
Click the link in the description!
@SimpsonIIIАй бұрын
@@marriagereset I figured it out. I gave her space and she came to me and she opened up, and as she was opening up, she talked to me for hours, and I just listened the entire time validating her feelings through the entire thing and listening. I didn’t tell her what to think or what to do and I didn’t try to solve her problems, she told me it’s time to grow up and now I understand she wants me to become that man.
@Sup3riorr6 ай бұрын
Ive listened to alot of your videos but as I see it the amount of work a husband has to put is exactly what a bad boy or a simple f*ck would get from her, wich is beyond sad. the scale isn't working on the mans favore tbh. its kind of tiresome to constantly have to be on your guard, if she is the kind that cheats or has bad characters she will cheat on you no matter what you do, Women are emotional driven yes and the right emotion for the right guy with the right drink while she is on business trip and another will slip in. No matter how good you are. so in the end I would say marriage ain't worth it for men, the list you are making for men is beyond comprehension to what cost of the mans sanity ?
@RandomthoughtsRTPАй бұрын
Send me that text so i can copy and paste lmao
@hipowa9097 ай бұрын
how about the women improving??
@marriagereset7 ай бұрын
Women improve and change for men they admire and look up to