I was diagnosed with cancer when my two younger kids were 1 and 3 years old. They are now 15 and 17 years old now. As a mother, the worst pain for me was my children living a life void of my physical love: absence of my loving hands and my kind words to them. I'm so sorry for your's and your son's loss, especially the baby within your son who had to live a life without his mom's physical touch and kind loving words. I keep saying the word "physical" because spiritually, your son had and will always be dearly love by his Mom.
@siavang78704 жыл бұрын
Thaub aw xav tias yuav tau nyab na ha tseem tau poj dab xwb yog tsis zoo ces nyias nyob nyias xwb tseem tshuav cov zoo thiab txhob tus siab
@muamnkaujlig4 жыл бұрын
Been there done that. A life with a step mother or father, people who hasn't experience it have no idea how hard or difficult it is. That's all I can say.
@H2HReading4 жыл бұрын
I havent experienced it, but have seen it with my.own eyes. So sad.
@shimmervang10694 жыл бұрын
The one that come sit on you is not your wife! Wild spirit pretends to be your wife to come get you.That's why old people say tsis txhob kho2 siab thiab seev2 tsam dab qus yuj tau no na. It's good that you move..
@monkeybanana92694 жыл бұрын
Yep. I agree. There are some spirits out there that can mimic your love one. Once they are gone, got to let them go no matter how hard it is. By trying to hold on to them or speaking of them, some other spirit can hear and pretend to be them.
@maileelor32074 жыл бұрын
My dad pass away when I was 15 to this day I still wait for the day my dad to return home. This is such a sad story 😭😭😭.
@hliyaj12204 жыл бұрын
😭
@uaibsiabhlub25604 жыл бұрын
tij laug nws tsis hlub Koj tus tub li cas Koj tsis kom neej tsa hais na zoo kuj yuav tsis zoo ces nrauj xwb mas
@ShannenChang4 жыл бұрын
So sad ! Tsi hlub los Thov txhob tsim tej menyuam os hmoob ! Yog tsi hlub txhob los ua phem menyuam tsi paub dadtsi , tsi muaj kev txhawm! Koj twb muaj ib tug thiab , yog luag ua phem rau koj tus los koj yeej txawj mob siab os nawb !
@lubneejtiagchannel42304 жыл бұрын
Cas zaj neej neeg no tu siab ua luaj li os. Kuv hlub tu me nyuam heev li
@kookashi4 жыл бұрын
Poj niam zoo li no mas tsis zoo qhov twg tuaj li. Muab nrauj kiag xwb, nws yeej tsis haum lwm tus txiv tom ntej. Yuav tsum yuav tus hlub yus
@minecraftboy26764 жыл бұрын
So sad that Hmong people can not love other people's children as their own!!! So much to learn and to have a kinder hearts!!
@xengher45824 жыл бұрын
Yog lawm os koj ua tau ib leeg txiv zoo rau koj tus me nyuam es nws muaj txoj kev cia siab rau koj os yog koj ua tsis tau ib leej txiv zoo ces koj tus me nyuam yuav tsis muaj leej twg cia siab thiab nws yuav tu siab mus ib sim neej li lawm os tu txiv tsev aws hlub nws zoo dua nawb mog
@thaomailee4 жыл бұрын
Be strong for your child and sorry for your loss. You can always protect your child. If she is poisonous for your relationship than leave her. No need to be there for someone who cannot return your love. Someone who loves you will show you what love means.
@drkashmedicalandlife4 жыл бұрын
For those out there who keep saying this brother has no balls! You are all mistaken
@cocopha57784 жыл бұрын
Pab tus txiv tsev no tu siab heev
@nkaujkiablaujchannel8215 Жыл бұрын
Tus2 siab li os
@ntxawmlislis18664 жыл бұрын
eb .... cas tej neej neeg no tu siab ua luaj li sim neej no leej twg ua ntsuag ces yuav mloog luag tej lus cem xwb os niam ntsuab teev cas yuav laj ua neeg ua luaj li os paub tias ib tug yuav tso ib tug tseg ces txhob los sib sau ua neej es txhob yug tej me nyuam los ntshaw luag tej os
@sasikanninasaengthamnamcho27664 жыл бұрын
So sad story 😭😭the little boy I feel so sad for you 😭😢
@emkaysthao4 жыл бұрын
Heart broken 💔 one day the light will shine for these two Father and son.
tus MI txiv tsev tus pom niam zoo li tus no ces tsis tas yuav li os pom niam muaj coob tsis tas rau nws os pab tiv koj tub nawb tus me txiv aw
@meejulaskus97184 жыл бұрын
Yuav ua cas zoo na . Txhob hais 1 tug, kuv tias 10 tus los yeej tsis zoo li tus qub na.
@Maihoual4 жыл бұрын
This story is so sad 😭😭😭😭 my heart breaks for these kids.
@triaxiong56194 жыл бұрын
What a great and Sad story. Get rid of that wife. There’s plenty of good women out there that will love you and your son. Your parents had the wrong assumptions of divorcée. Someone whose been hurt like I have will strive for a better life. Someone whose never been married doesn’t understand your pains.
@lizyang46674 жыл бұрын
So sad, ladies if you can't accept the whole package then don't bother because no child deserves to be mistreated! Shame on this woman, how can you call yourself a "Mother"!!
@EmCeeMS4 жыл бұрын
Tu siab kawg li os. Muaj ntau ntau tus neeg muaj ib zaj li koj thiab os. 6² siab hlub cov menyuam mog😭😭😭😭
@spiritfox59534 жыл бұрын
Tsis txhob tu siab os mog mi kwv aw, tus mi tub leej niam tuag lawm los tseem tshuav koj os mog koj twb hlub2 nws lawm ces zoo dua tij mi nyuam ntsuag ua niam tuag lawm tseem tshuav txiv los txiv tsis hlub thisb ces cov mi nyuam txom nyem npaum li ob leeg tusg tag huv tib si lawm mog, koj tus mi tub niam tuag lawm los tseem tshuav txiv thiab ces zoo lawm mog tsis muaj neeg hlub los koj hlub nws nawb mog
@yksc86344 жыл бұрын
Txoj kev ua ntsuag ce g mj leej twg yuav xav tau li o mog cov poj niam mu ua niam tshiab thov ho hlu cov me nyuam ntsuag thb o mog tsam lwm hnu kj lau ce tsam luag ho hlu u mog
@pahouaxiong61424 жыл бұрын
Uas kom tau txiv txhob ntshais ntshais pojniam thiab.
@touayang10514 жыл бұрын
U r a good man n very good father..👍👍👍
@Muajtutshiab4 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢
@songmoua94144 жыл бұрын
Koj zaj neeg neej no ua ca yuav tu siab ua luaj li os zoo yam nkaus li kv neej ntag
@Nkaujhmoolis4 жыл бұрын
Kav tsij ua khov kho xwb mas. Hlub kom tau koj tus tub txhob cia nws tu siab rau koj mus ib txis nawb.
@xiongvang95844 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss and the pain that's left behind. You should of married the other lady with kids. There would of been a mutual understanding that each one came with attachments. Its not a promise that it would of worked out but the chances would of been better because she would of wanted the same love for her kids from you too. So I hope that ppl learn from your story to not only "hope" for a woman without kids will work out in your situation. Your son will not be young forever. As a mother, my heart goes out to you both. Best wishes to both of you. May he be bless with all the love he ever wished for in a mom in other ways. 😥
@ashton88784 жыл бұрын
Xiong Vang What you said was beautiful.😪
@xiongvang95844 жыл бұрын
Nye thank you
@koumoua26104 жыл бұрын
Tus txiv tsev aw, pab koj tu siab thiab pab hlub koj tus me tub os mog! Lub neej ua ntsuag es muaj niam tshiab ces cov phem thiab tsim yus los yog Tsim menyuam ntsuag ces yog cov coob. Thov tsis txhob phem, phem rau cov menyuam uas tsis yog yus yug os cov neeg phem! Lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj leej twg xav ua ntsuag li os tsuas yog lub ntuj qee lawm es ua tsis tau li cas xwb os mog! Tus txiv tsev, thov kom Koj hlub, hlub koj tus me tub nawb vim tias nws tsis muaj niam es nws twb tu, tu siab tsis Txawj tag! Yeej meem ua kom taus txiv neej yawg es tiv thaiv koj tus me Tub nawb!
@kongher38264 жыл бұрын
When i was younger i don't listen to storytellers or Hmong, only my parents. As i get older and now here i am listening and continuing listening to your story. After all i like your storytelling the best. Today i am one of your fan. This story right here hits me. Because even tho my life didn't go his way. 50% of me living life missing my kids. Thanks for the story. Very touchy.
@ashton88784 жыл бұрын
Kong Her May I ask where are your kids?
@kongher38264 жыл бұрын
@@ashton8878 they in Wisconsin
@asfyt26704 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@maylee67903 жыл бұрын
You’re so sweet, May! Ty for your continuing stories! I look forward every day to hear your stories💕
@darrahvue32014 жыл бұрын
Zaj no yog ib zaj uas tus txiv thiaj li ua taus txiv xwb. Lwm cov neej neeg tus txiv neej ua tsis taus txiv li tab cia lawv cov niam tshiab tsim lawv cov me nyuam nkaus xwb.
@caaspasvang74274 жыл бұрын
Tus brother thov koj hlub koj tus tub mog I feel so sorry for you and ur son lose😭😭😭😭
@tiam21744 жыл бұрын
Tus2 siab os lawm aw😢😢😢😢
@dolliilov31444 жыл бұрын
The new wife is heartless. Just because you have a high education doesn't mean you have knowledgeable of respect. She needs to go back & learn it.
@maikouxiong77864 жыл бұрын
Awww why this story is so sad... tu tu kuv lub siab li os... kuv yuav pab hlub tus me tub ua luaj... I feel too sad for the son/ husband. I’m crying the part the where he took his son to eat ice cream at the cemetery.
@khuamoua63114 жыл бұрын
Yog nej Kam Los ntseeg tus Tswv Yexus, Nws thiaj pab Tau nej dim ntawm tej ntsuj plug phem, thaum uas neb mus tom hav dej, zaj thiaj qaim Tau nws tus ntsuj lawm, tiamsis yog nej tsis los cuag tus Tswv Yexus xwb, Nws thiaj pab Tau, vim Tswv Yexus yog tus Tswv ntawm txhua yam, mam thov Vajtswv pab kom koj tus niam tshiab no Txawj txaj muag es hloov siab los hlub koj tus mi tub os! Cas yuav ntxim hlub ua luaj, txawm tib neeg muaj lub siab tawb Los, peb tus Vajtswv mam hloov nws nawj, txhob Maj tag Kev cia siab
@lindawong17174 жыл бұрын
Tsov tom khaus ncuav ko cas koj tseem ua nws ner muab nws qha qhuav los mas txiv tsev aw....
@khuamoua63114 жыл бұрын
Yog koj ntseeg lub sijhawm uas koj tus poj niam tseem mob mob ntawd ces Vajtswv yeej pab Tau, txawm Tia's tsam no koj mam ntseeg Los yeej zoo kawg, yog koj ua npau suav Los txhob tos tos koj tus qub wife lawm vim nws mus nyob nws ib lub ntuj lawm, nws yeej tsis rov Los lawm, vim tej ntsuj plig phem twb Los tos nws lawm
@Hmoobsibhlub20224 жыл бұрын
My god this story make me cry 😭.... very sad...
@zanclester93914 жыл бұрын
Smart women that who going to kill or make you miserable lol......divorce woman have lived through life and more understanding when it comes to marriage and life.....lol
@pebtsevxeemthoj33914 жыл бұрын
Tu siab heev li zaj neej neeg no naj.
@ncolubneejkajsiab34484 жыл бұрын
Ua ib tug niam tshiab yeej tsi yooj yim kiag li os, Tab sig yog cov niam tuag lawm mas yuav tau hlub2 lawv os, Yog tej menyuam es niam txiv tuag tsi muaj ntxas no, tsi hlub los lawv niam lawv txiv hlub lawv lawm os.
@vangsengthao13444 жыл бұрын
Tus me txiv tsev koj yeej yog ib leej txiv zoo heev rau koj tus me tub lawm . Txhob tu siab os cov niag poj niam tos tau ua nkauj laug los lub siab yeej phem thiaj tau ua nkauj laug .
@suelo6174 жыл бұрын
Hlub yus tus kheej txhob cia yus zaum luab os tus phooj ywg yog lub neej nyuab siab npaum ko tso nyias nyob nyias zoo dua li qhov neb nyob nyuaj siab li ko os los
@Lifemoments543 жыл бұрын
What an evil selfish stepmother. She knew you have a son but she married you anyway so she should be more understanding and kinder
@Mai1nOnly4 жыл бұрын
That wife is a modelo!! She’s a true definition of it!!
@VivoYi-ev1eo4 жыл бұрын
Cas koj tu niam tsi hlub koj tu me tub li os cas koj tu tub yuav txom nyem ua luaj yog nw niam tseem nyob tshe nw yuav tsis txom nyem npaum no li os
@minhlau15274 жыл бұрын
Hlub koj os tug mi nus aw, ua cas lub neej no zoo ib yam kuv thb kuv hlub koj hv
@julieyang82824 жыл бұрын
Cas twb nyob rau teb chaws vam meej tseem muaj cov niam tshiab siab phem li ko thiab.
@denamoua72624 жыл бұрын
Tu siab pab hlub tus me tub no.ntiaj teb no niam yug thiaj hlub xwb os...yog siab me txhob mus ua niam tshiab txiv tshiab.
@lindawong17174 жыл бұрын
Muab tsov tom poj dab ko xa dab mo txiv tsev
@aivyajchannel36754 жыл бұрын
Kwv ntxawg kj zaj me neej neeg tu siab kawg os ua rau kv lub Kua muag ntws sis xwb. Me tub Txhob tu siab mog tshuav yus txiv mog
@dinayoung47974 жыл бұрын
Pab koj tu siab kawg hais tias koj tsis muaj hmoo es koj thiaj li mus yuav tau ib tug poj niam tsis hlub koj tus me tub os
@midwesteg41934 жыл бұрын
Good you see the bad stuff done to your son. Nowadays, you have to be both parents to your kids because the other parent is cruel.
@nengthao83184 жыл бұрын
Twb pom ntsoov luag muaj me nyuam lawm yog hlub tsis taus luag tej me nyuam ho yuav rua muag tsuas mus yuav luag ua dab tsi?! Koj tsis yog txiv neej yawg los cas koj tus niam tshiab yuav ua tsis txuag koj tus me tub li?! Ntxim mob hlwb kawg li.
@drkashmedicalandlife4 жыл бұрын
The wife died of cancer The new wife is a heartless person Good luck brother You have a loving heart Your son will be a man soon and life will be better
@souayang28424 жыл бұрын
Ua cas peb cov poj niam peb twb yog poj niam peb twb tiv thaiv tau peb cov me nyuam nej twb yog ib tus txiv neej yawg diam ua cas nej ho tiv thaiv tsi tau nej tus me nyuam ces mus ua yawg sam xwb thiaj tsim nyog qhov yus tiv thaiv tsi tau.
@zoualee48074 жыл бұрын
Awww...I want to hear more of this story. 🙁🙁
@gaosayvu56114 жыл бұрын
Mam nrhiav dua tshiab os, pojniam zoo yeej muaj thiab tab sis cov txiv mus noj zaub mos lawm xwb
@ashlyysng98494 жыл бұрын
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os
@vuexua87024 жыл бұрын
Koj tu poj niam hai lu pheem npau ko muaj ib hnub twg zaj yuav muab nw qo ciaj xwb ma niag poj mhoob ncauj ntau zaj thiaj yuav lo tom koj nawb
@meexiong92924 жыл бұрын
Tus tuag lawm thiaj li yog tus zoo o mog..tus nyob tsis txawj tuag li kuv ces tus txij nkawm UA hnub us hmo dhuav tsis xav yuav .tej tub ntxhais twb tiav neeg tag lawm Los tus txiv tseem tsis xav yuav lawm mad tu Siab dhau lawm o
@maichengvue4 жыл бұрын
Hlub2 koj tus tub kawg li os tus txiv ntxawm
@pajthao48134 жыл бұрын
Yuav tau pojniam niam phem li ko nws puas tsim nyog qhov koj uv nws mas me nyuam ib hnub yeej yuav txawj loj nws yeej tsis nrog koj nyob nws yuav muaj nws ib lub neej qhov tseeb seb koj tus niam ko puas hlub koj tiag xwb os tus zoo tseem tshuav coob mog ua zoo xav mog txhob yuam koj tus kheej nyob nrog ib tug neeg tsis hlub yus mog
@tubhmoobhmoob29444 жыл бұрын
Niam Ntsuab Teev, computer los yog harddrive thiab USB yeej muaj teeb meem rau qhov America cov khoom no ua tsis zoo tag sij hawm xwb ces puas lawm, peb los yeej muaj teeb meem tib yam thiab
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
Because she knew you and your family wanted her and her status more and she wanted you. That’s conceited human’s mentality. There is no love and no compatibility. May God bless you and especially your wife’s heart. She needs God before husband and family.
@monkeybanana92694 жыл бұрын
She was his karma. Because before she came along, he and his family looked down on another woman and her children, thinking they are and deserve better when their situation was no different. Sometimes before praying over somebody else, you got to ask yourself why they might be in the situation they are to begin with. It could be due to misfortune or they could be the cause themselves.
@neeguazogchannel4 жыл бұрын
Tu siab kg yom
@chanhpajzaubhawjsone11384 жыл бұрын
tu siab ua luaj no
@myang6519434 жыл бұрын
Be ware of your dreams. Dont cheat in your dreams...they might come take you. Spiritual world is real. Too much fishing is not good. They'll come take you to replace all the fish you have taken. Only take the limit you are permitted.
@vanlor66674 жыл бұрын
Tell your son bare with it. Rau siab kawm ntawv Kom siab siab. Lwm hnub koj niag Niam tshiab ntawd yeej yuav paub laus thiab tsis muaj zog cem tau lawm.
@songyang51854 жыл бұрын
Yeej tsis muaj ibtug niam tshiab yuav hlub COV me nyuam li OS COV niam tshiab thiab COV niam you yeej tsis hlub COV me nyuam li OS hmoob
@paulandyenglaikong59984 жыл бұрын
Niag poj hmoob ko muab lawb mus mas cov neeg siab zoo tseem muaj Ntau os mi tub
@TracyLovee4 жыл бұрын
People need to understand that getting a degree does not make you a king or queen, that you are better than anyone else, learn to be a humble person if your that educated like you said you are. Single, divorced, widowed, men or women is all good in their own way, just find a kind hearted person, those status don’t mean shit.
@deenabeauty77144 жыл бұрын
So sad😭😢😵😷😭
@KookieOverOreos4 жыл бұрын
Qhov nws los tsuam koj ntawv tsis yog nws tsuam koj na Yog Dab tsog yees ua koj tus poj Niam los tsuam koj xwb na Tsis yog koj tus poj niam Dab tsog yees tau ua txhua tus los tsuag neeg nawb
@user-dv2tb6pe3w3 жыл бұрын
Cas teb tus txiv tsev zoo2 li no ho g yog yus tus nim xav2 tau ib tus zoo txiv li no
@khuamoua63114 жыл бұрын
Hi! Brother, u should come to the Lord, when your wife was sick. Because our God is so powerful and He is overcome of everything! U guys asked shaman to do his work, but shaman is not that strong like the Lord of our God! That's why we Hmong ppls believe in Him, He is the creator of the world, evils spirits, so sorry that your wife was gone, I do care about your baby, yourself, and so on, I love u ppls so much
@pkcyang29104 жыл бұрын
Txhob xav tias menyuam ntshaw2 niam es yuav2 ib tug niam rau menyuam os. Los lus no ces nej lam hais vim nej nyob tsis taus xwb. Yuav tus tshiab ces yuav rau nej xwb. Yog yuav los tsim tej menyuam nkaus xwb. Yog nyob tau no thov nyob kom tej menyuam loj es lawv pab lawv tus kheej tso nej mam yuav dua. Ho nyob taus los yus nyob yus thiaj tau zoo meb.
@greenladylalaland42224 жыл бұрын
back in the 80s - hmoob still carried ancestors and ghost with us from Laos. Never safe for women to go fishing. Fishing just for men. Old pple always told younger women not go near any lakes if you are pregnant or not feeling well. Sad story.
@nkaujhmoobtushaibhaib46774 жыл бұрын
hlub tsis tau luag tej me nyuam es txhob mus yuav luag tej txiv mog ib tsoom poj niam ntxhais hmoob ........
@samshadi4 жыл бұрын
😢
@monayang18964 жыл бұрын
Teb chaws meskas no es tseem muaj cov poj niam siab poj dab li no thiab los aib pog no ntxim ntxub dhau lawm
@pntravels75144 жыл бұрын
Shit! Xav tias nyob lub ntuj qub qab es txom txom nyem es niam tshiab thiaj tsim me nyuam tsuag xwb no. Ua cas nyob lub teb chaw vam meej no es tseem muaj poj dab txwj nyoog thiab es kawm ntawv siab los ua dab tsi nas poj dab aw
@ThePrincessWorrior4 жыл бұрын
Kawm ntawd ntau xwb tsis yog neeg txawj ntse ne. He married her for her status, too. He said he didn’t like her.
@acrnfrozengalaxy23384 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@shengerchan4 жыл бұрын
Crying 😭
@pliayang7834 жыл бұрын
she is just plain rude that’s all don’t blame on the dragon 🐉. Feel so sorry for your son that he has to put up with her. 😂😫🤮😂
@chongvang1294 жыл бұрын
Cas yuav nrog koj tu siab ua luaj. Yog poj niam coj phem li koj tus ko Tsis txhob xiam koj lub neej rau nawb mog. Muab nws laim thoob khib nyiab rov yuav duas tus zoo Los tuav koj lub neej kom nto ntsi nawb. Ua neeg nyob peb xav ciaj xwb tsis xav tuag, ua leej tib neeg nyob xav tau tus neeg siab dawb siab zoo xwb ua neej thiaj tsis Lo lo kua muag nawb mog. Pab hlub koj tus me tub heev mog.
@hfgjjfbfdjnvj2534 жыл бұрын
Tus me kwv nrog koj tu siab heev li os thisb nrog koj hlub koj tus me tub heev li os me kwv awd
@gaosayvu56114 жыл бұрын
Pab hlub neb ob txiv tub os mog
@phengyang92424 жыл бұрын
Koj tham mas zoo li lub ntiaj teb no poj niam tas rau tus koj lawm, yog ua tsis tau txiv Ces tsis tas yuav tuaj tham poj niam muaj coob yog mus nrhiav dua Tshiab xwb.
@chatengvang64814 жыл бұрын
Mi leej nus hmoob aw cas nrog koj tus siab ua luaj li os es koj txhob quaj quaj os mog
@botmcg68864 жыл бұрын
Nrauj xwb los mas yaug aw... Poj niam zoo li ko naj.tsis tas nkim sijhawm li os