Yus Yeem Yus Ces Ua Siab Nyob. 5/1/23

[@mcha331ify]

You have every right to be disappointed, your tears will be the heaviest regrets they have to carry on their backs. You're a kind person, good will always overcome evil.

[@user-br2tq3db3x]

zaj no txaus tu siab kawg li os mi niam tsev awua siab loj khwv nyiaj cia rau koj 3 tug mi nyuam mog niam tsev aw pab hlub koj mog

[@yerchang1633]

I loves going back and listening to old stories. It’s a lesson in learning. Auntie don’t worry too much about them. You did your best raising them and now it’s ur time for you and your husband. I am proud of you.

[@menkaujntsesmenraugnoog6718]

Tsis Yog yus yug ces yus hlub npaum twg yeej tsis muaj nqis

[@kevinthomas3539]

As a step parent, I understand how you feel. God bless you for all that you do and did. Continue to love them anyhow, God sees everything and there's no harm in doing good.

[@yenglor691]

Stepchildren are sometimes ungrateful no matter how kind and respectful you are.

[@kevinher3546]

Agree

[@pkcyang2910]

To the sons, let's hear your side. But you should never bite the hands that feed you. She may not love you the way you want but she did love you more than your biological mom who abandoned you when you guys were kids.

[@PM-oe5mk]

Yes, I too would like to hear from the adult kids as to why they are so disrespectful to their step-mom considering she helped raise them while their birth mother skipped out on their lives. Even if they cannot love her, they should at least respect and return any kindness she gave them. Their reason for hating her is crazy and is guaranteed to bring bad Karma onto them. If everything this step-mom says is true, then the mom they should be hating is their birth mom who abandoned them when they were young, not the step-mom. Ungrateful kids!

[@xionggpa]

I know some adults, who their birth mom they hate with lame excuses and rather love an outsider (step moms), even after the so multiple step mom leaves (dad remarries countless multiple times) they still don't love their birth mom, who is still there for them. So yes, definitely ungrateful kids. Karma will definitely come for them. It's sad when the "adults" kids rather do brithdays, gift and party to an outsider (step mom) and not their own birth Mom. 😢 I love my Mom, I still do respect my step Moms, too, and I won't love them more than my own birth Mom.

[@itsmaichee]

Fr fr!

[@heidiher5217]

All sons , love the one who loves you, because it will around back to you . Sons , put your self in your dad shoes with ten children.

[@myyearmouanoutoua6908]

Tau tub ntshuag ce tau yeeb ncuab ..muaj tseeb ..kuv ntsib duas lawm o mog me viv ncau

[@_milly]

I want to know if the birth mom has any shame at all? She neglected her 10 kids but at the end, she came back because she doesn't want to be a pog nplas.

[@joshualee2133]

You’re one in hundreds that became a good wife to your old husband. Forget about those adult kids who have no gratitude for your love. Their mother abandoned them when they were young and needed her the most. God will bless you to the fullest.

[@lana2184]

To the sons, ask yourself this: “would I accept my children’s mother back if she do the same thing to my children like my mother do to me?”. You can still love you biological mom who gave birth to you and love your stepmother who raised you, love you, and support you.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Such narrow-minded sons!!! They'll get their Karma for backstabbing their Step-Mom who was more of a Mother to them than their Birth Mother!!!

[@yiathao9779]

Exactly

[@brandonblaine7585]

karma will get all the sons soon hope all your wife leave you guys

[@sircha5304]

Koj yog tus niam tsev, niam siab zoo. Thov nuv koj thiab txhawb koj lub siab lub zog!!! Ua zoo2 li ko mus

[@QaibT]

Cia lawv niam muab lub neej poj nrauj yawg nrauj pub rau lawv xwb vim lawv niam txon hmoov yog hmoov poj raw xwb . Txhob tus siab MOG tus me zoo niam tsev aw.. thov vaj tswv pub txoj hmoo zoo rau koj

[@kvang1045]

A biological mother dont mean sh*t if she didnt raise you and take care of you from birth to adult. She was selfish and uncaring and only thought of you when her road comes to a dead end and its unfortunate that these sons does not realized. Turned the table and do all good things towards the one who abandon them. These sons really dont deserve a good stepmom. Its okay sister, karma will get to them. Love yourself and your husband.

[@maivzebvaj4303]

Wow, you're able to save 100k in 10 years with that many kids?? I applaud you!! Great job.

[@gaosayvu6554]

I know some people can do it, they have 10 children so they got 10 $k a year they put in savings

[@yunothoj]

That's great but everything comes at a cost. What's the cost? They never probably experienced family vacations, extra circular activities, and adventure explorations.. those type of things.

[@yepper1]

I was thinking tax return each year helps with the savings. I owe every year, so I can't save much a year.

[@suaxiong8034]

That's greedy the money belong to the kids

[@yerthor4207]

Cov me nyuam ko ce Koj kua muag poob2 ib ntu ce lawv yuav npam Xwb ma txhob txawj os mog cia nw mam paub nw Xwb os

[@user-vs9sn3ih5u]

Tsa 2 tus ntiv tes xoo rau koj thiab koj tus txiv Neb zoo heev

[@Ntxhi67]

Thov peb cov hmoob txhob yug minyuam coob coob lau hnov zaj neej neeg no xwb kuv twb pab nrog tus niam tsev no sab lawm. Ti siab ib txhia tseg ib txhia os viv ncaus. Luag tsis hlub yus los continue to hlub luag vim lub ntuj muaj qhov muag. Hood things will happen to those who are doing good deeds

[@KajKajSiab]

Me viv ncaus koj siab zoo heev os. Yog koj xwb thiaj ua tau los tu koj tus txiv 10 leej menyuam.

[@hmongcalifornia176]

Someone that really care bout the families. She good 👍 not much could do what she does

[@tradingkite3571]

Koj tu tu siab los cov menyuam yeej muaj lawv ib txoj kev tu tu siab thiab os mog. Lawv twb hlub koj dhau los lawm ces cia lawv hlub lawm niam ib ntus os mog. Tseem tshua koj 3 tug yau es lawv mas hlub hlub koj 100%. ❤

[@luckylor6438]

Co tub no nws yeej muaj ib txoj kev tus siab tab si tsi tsim nyog tu rau lawv niam tshiab vim lawv niam tshiab tsi yog tu tuaj nrhuav co tub no niam lub neej vim tim lawv niam lawv txiv tsi txawj sib hlub xwb twb yog muaj tu niam tshiab no pab hlub lawv txiv es lawv txiv thiaj rau siab ua lub neej thiaj txhawb tau lawv mu kawm ntaub kawm ntawv yuav poj yuav se rau lawv yog lawv txawj xav tsi tsim nyog lawv tu siab rau lawm niam tshiab

[@tradingkite3571]

​@@luckylor6438 peb twb tsis paub xyov lawv lub neej zoo li cas tiag tiag. This story is only a small portion of their life and I'm sure that if the kids shared their side, we may see a different perspective. Yes, the step mom made a lot of sacrifices to raise 10 step kids and she has a right to feel however she feels but she can't stop her step kids from loving and caring for their birth mother. Let the kids love freely and there will be hope that the sons will find their way back to the stepmom. Limit love and the stepmom's efforts would really have been for nothing.

[@mrshanglily5647]

This is one reason why step parents don’t love step children like their own because they know what the future hold. This is one examples of that. Anyways, if this sister’s story is true, those unappreciative step children will carry her tears…god will do his job😂

[@itsmaichee]

I hope god does because my heart hurt for her just hearing her express her being vulnerable.

[@franher3748]

The sons say you’ve influenced their father, but they are the perfect example of having been influenced by their mother. The mother had forsaken her children, she knew her end when she left. Yet the sons can’t accept what their mother accepted when she left them.

[@existencewarrior2920]

This woman is a good house wife. The sons are wrong in loving their biological mother more.

[@maryly09]

This is exactly why no one (men or women) wants to raise anyone's kids bc once they're grown up and no longer needs u, they always go back to their biological parent(s). All your yrs of love and efforts go down the drain. Nothing.

[@JohnDoe-br6jw]

Lawv aw….. tuaj ua niam ntshiab teb chawv no mas mob hlwb tsaj Plawv li os. Tuaj tu tu lawv tej me nyuam lawv loj lawv tias tsis yog lawv niam kom txob hais hais lawv no yog tsis taug leej twg ces leej twg tsis paub

[@vinangvang9555]

eb..lub neej niam tshiab ces nim tu2 siab kawg li os hmoob😭😭😭😭

[@npibthoj8273]

Yog kawg os poob peev xwb os.qhov ua zoo ces yeej yog txoj kev zoo lawm os ua zoo kom koj tus txiv Kaj siab ua neeg nyob os

[@NiamtsevHmooblauj-ff8go]

Yg kawg yom yu yv tau yug kom yu muaj yu thb os

[@paxiong4502]

These kids are ungrateful. Just curse them. Let karma hit them.

[@nagxyoojchannel9160]

Tus uas yug koj thiab tus uas tu koj loj hlob, tus uas tu koj yog tus uas muaj txiaj ntsim tshaj, nej tsis hlub nej niam tshiab ces nej yeej yuav npam nawb mog. Txhob tu siab mog tus me niam tsev aw, koj ua qhov zoo koj yeej yuav tau qhov zoo os mog

[@hanesyou1638]

Txhoj txhawj os yeej yuav npam xwb vim lawv mus coj xyob txiaj los nrog lawv nyob lawm lawv lub neej yeej yuav tsis zoo li os mog

[@thicugiang280]

Tej me nyuam lawv tu 2 siab tsau peb cov niam tshiab tab sig haig rau cov me nyuam tiag peb tu nej thaum yau log peb haj yam tu siab mog

[@baoyawacho5544]

Lwm hunb ntshe kv yv sau li txoj no thb ca .kv xv tia hau lub ntiaj teb tsua muaj kv ib leej thb zoo li no xb ta si kj lub lo zoo li kv lub lm thb os tu siab kawg txoj kev ua niam ntshiab

[@malynanyang8893]

Lub neej niam tahiab ua zoo npaum twg los yeej g muaj nus nqis lis os hmoob aw tu2 siab

[@xayxiong1061]

Don’t worry step mama the son’s will get their karma for blaming you! Shame on them for treating you like they paid for their own wives.

[@mouavang3371]

Thanks for sharing your story sis. Kuv mas ntshaw ib tug niam tsev kom txawj tab cuab li koj ua luaj. Peb ua neeg nyob tej zaum yeej nyob ntawm txoj hmoo li tej laus ib txwm hais tiag. You're the best mother out there. Tej me nyuam tsis hlub yus los kav liam mog, hlub koj tus kheej nawj.

[@bluewhisper5008]

Txawm yog li ko es kuv thiaj li tsis kam ua niam tshiab. Cov menyuam hmoob meka mas txhob ua niam tshiab kiag li nawb!!! Ua mas yog yus npam lawm xwb os!!

[@hmoobpnw8479]

Yog kawg...

[@JohnDoe-br6jw]

Yog kawg os Kuv yog ib tug thiab koj tu tu lawv loj tag lawv tsis K yus li

[@bluewhisper5008]

@John Doe nyob meka no ces txhob mus ua niam tshiab yog lawv niam tseem nyob Dai ncuv. Yog lawv niam tuag lawm Mas lawv tseem ok zog. Step parents means you cannot discipline them and have to love them 10x your own kids but will recieve no love. Lol.

[@maipha8560]

Oyo, all that effort and energy are washed away under the bridge now. Unfortunately, you can't control someone's else children plus can't stop them from loving their mom. You really can't have your step kids pick you over their mother. Just love and cherish your own children and live the rest of your days with your old man. Your step kids will have their own children, perhaps some day they will realize your suffering and be fair in their judgment. That's the hope. 🙏

[@nkaujntse5196]

It is normal for hmoob family who has 10-13 kids will save money. In this country our hmoob family with lots of kids get a refund of $10-$14k in tax refunds. Also received public assistance including financial aid. The poor are the family with 2-3 kids and are working.

[@gerryvang3244]

Very good lady. Wish you and your family the best.

[@niamtsevxeemlaujlauj5003]

I feel you sister. I am also a step mother, but i am lucky, my step kids love me as i love them too. Your step sons don't understand as they are born here and do not realize how difficult u have raised them and cared for them. But it's ok. U did what u needed to do, and u did ur best. Bravo.

[@rickythao2834]

I trust you sister, you are a good mom

[@maivang8072]

Koj twb muaj koj 3 tug hlub koj lawm os

[@mailee7871]

Exact reason why stepmothers dont want to love stepchildren. They are afraid of not getting the love back in old age.

[@maiyang9403]

I like to hear the kids side of the story.

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹MAY THIS STORY SOUND LIKE YOUR?…EVERYTHING MATCH YOU….JUST WONDERING?❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

The different is you had all girls in your first married and just had boy…AMEN!!!

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

May not your story after finished listening she didn’t leave her old man,but did leave your!!…👏👏👏👏👏

[@maicthao9692]

Peb txoj kev ua niam tshiab ces, cov mi nyuam hmoob miskas no lawv tsis tau kk txog tias yus yuav hlub lawv ua zoo tau lawv los lawv tsis hlub yus. Ces nyoo lawm os. Tsa cij dawb lawm nawb. Koj thaum kiag kuv txoj kev lawm os viv ncaus aw. Hlub yus tus kheej cov mi nyuam phem li ko ces yeej yuav npam xwb os.

[@yerlor8328]

Txhob tu siab os viv ncaus aw lawm sau kev npam kev xyob txhiaj rov los rau lawv xwb os koj twb muaj 3 tug lawm thiab lawv tsis hlub koj los twb tshuav koj cov mam hlub koj os

[@mailyvang6076]

Koj yog ib tug hmoob nplog es koj lub siab txawm zoo npaum cas Los cov hmoob mes kas yeej tseem tsis qhuas koj os Tus viv ncaws aw pab koj tu siab nawj

[@keith23615]

you are super mom 👏 great mother 👍 may God be with you

[@hmooblor1]

For any parent if you are rich and want to support all your children until they are Drs or lawyers its fine but do not expect them to love or pay you back. The best way is to make them work for what they want as early as 14-15 yrs old even have them pay for their wedding or at least half of it that way when they dont love you theirs no regrets.

[@ashton8878]

Agree! I’m broke so, they better work and pay for their own weddings! Can’t depend on them when I’m old so, why bother.

[@wayang392]

Tsis yog yus yug ces koj txawm hlub lawv npaum li cas los thaum lawv tau lub neej zoo lawm ces lawv yeej tsis hlub yus nawb mog me Viv ncaus aw...tabsis yeej yuav npam lawv os yog lawv tsis hlub koj na.

[@missysmart8620]

Tus siab kawg. These kids are an example of why many niam tshiab doesn’t want to love the husband’s kids. Shame on them. Don’t worry karma will eventually catch up to them.

[@KajKajSiab]

Agreed

[@suevang6518082043]

txhob tu siab os lwm hnub nws cov mam ua rau nws xwb os kev npam yeej nyob rau ntawv rau lawv os

[@my2cents54]

Being a step-parent isn’t easy and is always viewed as the bad person. Be the humble person you’ve always been, you already received much appreciation and love from your daughters and others who see your value, especially your husband. Happy marriage happy life.

[@ncohluasnkauj8581]

For the 10 kids, you need to put your self in your step mom shoes. without her you will not have a life. You all need to thanking her not turn your back on her. You guys need to know when you need your mom the most where was? Go love your step mom before it’s too late. Remember your step mom has to power to make life bad.

[@ItsYou2]

Its ok os, they dont respect you one day they will feel your pain. Lub ntuj yeej muaj qhomuag......

[@Loundlyfamily5]

Twb hais tias tsis yog yus yug ces yeej tsis hlub yus hos es hlub cov yus yug thiaj li hlub yus hos

[@NYC.2019]

To the step mom: your husband and the steps kids were is very lucky to have you. As a kid who come from a broken home, and has a similar background, I wish my dad married someone like you. Our mom, we wouldn’t do that. Unfortunately, our father married a lazy a-ss b who cheats and is non can’t love him from Laos 🇱🇦.

[@saykaomee]

To these heartless, hateful, shameless, disrespectful and ungrateful step sons, let's hear your reasons. You all can claim what you want but she raised, fed, cloth and paid for your brides. What did your birth mother did other than abandoned you all for her lovers you when you all needed her the most. She doesn't even deserve the name mother. Bite the hands that fed you and Karma will get you!

[@ashton8878]

Hell no. No way I can ever take care of someone else’s 10 kids. The kids are selfish. Everyone is selfish.

[@meexiongvang3373]

Tus niam hluas koj tsi txhob tus siab mog koj yog ib tus zoo niam tsev mog koj twb muaj 3 tus me nyuam lawv yeej yuav hlub koj xwb .tiamsi cov me nyuam uas koj los tus lawv lojhlob tshuav koj nqis yuav them tsi paub tas yog lawv tsi hlub koj ce lawv lub neej yuav raws nkau lawv niam ntag mog , rau qhov lub ntuj yeej ncajncee rau txhua yam hauv ntiajteb no e koj ciali zoo siab rau koj tus txiv thiab koj ua tau yam uas zoo rau lawv muaj neej tas lawm ce koj twb tau cov koobhmoov tas rov los rau koj thiab cov uas koj yug lawm mog.

[@LaibLaug]

Txawm yog li ntawv cov mi nyuav tsis yus yug yij meej txhob hlub zoo dua vim koj hlub lawm thaum kawg koj tsis yog tus yug lawv lawv yeej tsis hlub. Lawv tej ib txwm piv txoj lus tias nyuj kub tsis nyav nyuj hau, nyuj tw nplawm nyuj thiaj tsis mob.

[@roseanimetor8157]

Those kids deserve to have an evil stepmom instead.

[@youavu1433]

Kids these days are ungrateful, they only care about their mom or Dad. Don't be a stepparent.

[@awalktoremember9857]

Cov menyuam uas tsis yog yus yug txawm hlub npaum cas los lawv yeej tsis hlub yus. Cov hlub ces yog lawv niam tuag lawm. Leej txiv uas tseem cia lawv niam rov qab los ces txhais hais tias nws yeej tseem hlub vim yog nws thawj tug poj niam. Txhob dag tus kheej.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Why did they dislike you so much? Those ruam ladies should be grateful that you're willing to love & take care of those 10 children! I could never do what you did, sister! May the Lord continue to bless you. You are forsure the True Mom! As for the ruam sons...Oh my goodness! Karma to them for being inconsiderate & ruam to the core!!!

[@perrfectlee1775]

U are a super mom.. lawd ua li ko yeej tsi yog lawm txhob tu siab u still have yours…

[@OPPOA-xu9wo]

😊

[@chayang4525]

Now that the mom’s life is not going well, she turn back to the sons. The sons forgot that their mom ABANDONED them. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

[@monkeybanana9269]

Well. That's why there a saying "Blood will always be thicker than water" because it's true.

[@chayang4525]

Only fools believe in that saying. The sons will soon realize that their mom is useless just like how she left them and is only leaching them. I believe they probably feel they need to care for her because they did not have a mom’s love growing up.

[@monkeybanana9269]

@@chayang4525 : Foolish? Sure. Whatever to those living in an ideal world. It's only biology and by statatics that blood ties are shown to have a stronger bond- no matter how they bicker and fight or wrong each other. I'm sure if it's her own biological kids wronging her, she'll pardon them easier too. There's a reason why blended families are more challenging. When not blood, even the slightest thing can become overly sensitive and difficult to overlook on either side. That's just reality. No need to foom with such bitterness.

[@pahouavang5555]

Cov tub phem li ko yeej yuav npam xwb os. Zoo siab koj tus txiv tsis yuav tus pog seev ntawv rov qab.

[@kenxiong5540]

Cov me nyuam los yog cov kwv nej yuav tau hlub nej nyiam tshiab thiab nawb vim nws yeej hlub nej tiag li yog hnub twg nws kua muag los sus npam nej nawb 😢

[@user-vs9sn3ih5u]

Koj hais phem yeej yuav tau phem koj hais zoo yeej yuav tau zoo nawj

[@zonchuemoua195]

Kaj rwg zoo siab lawm tsis hlub los muaj lub ntuj thiab koj twb muaj koj peb tus ntawm koj xub diag. Ob tuaj mivnyuam xabmais no mivnyuam yeej tsis tshuaj hlub cov laug.

[@hmoobpnw8479]

Tu qaib ntsuag tau nce puab. Tus tub ntsuag tau yeeb ncuab ces yog koj os tu viv ncaus. 😢

[@missysmart8620]

Yep! And these kids proved it. I’m pretty sure there are few out there that love their step parents but it’s the majority that scare other men women from wanting to be stepparents.

[@meecha7154]

Very kind-hearted women to raise 10 children. I would not raise 10 children. Children be kind to the woman who raised you. Karma will catch up to you.

[@enangthao8509]

I'm also a stepparent. My job is to be fair and treat her with kindness and give her love. I know she has her mom and I will never be more than her dad's wife. I don't expect anything from her. You expect too much from a child who has her own mother, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

[@pajdawblis4291]

Step mom or not. Feem coob menyuam hmoob meka yeej tsis txawj xav . Txhob vam tias lawm hnub yus laus lawv yuav lav yuav nrog tu yus os. Abtsij npaj nyb tsev laus xwb o

[@YajMorey81]

I agreed. Don’t depend on your kids to take care of you during your old days. Kids these days think differently.

[@yiatho8830]

Cov minyuam phem no nkim lub zog tu xwb tabsis kavliam os mog lwm hnub lawv cov minyuam mam ho ua rau lawv os

[@lilyv.628]

Tus sister, remember that you loved your step children for your husband, not for them, and not for you. It's disappointing that, during this time, they are unable to show you how grateful they are for your kindness. Even biological children can be this way. Children never asked to be born so love them without asking for reciprocity.

[@hmongremark2686]

Tus twg tau ua zoo lawm ces tus ntawv thiaj tau txais txoj kev zoo, tab sis txoj kev zoo los raug rau tus ntawv los nws tseem tsis paub meej. Txoj kev phem yog dev noj rog poob dev nrob tias thaum twg nws tau txais lawm ces nws thiaj paub nws plaub mob.

[@longxiong5517]

Very good momy all the kids will suffer in the future, if you tells us the true, one In the future their grand kids will punish the parents like they did to you.

[@gdhgfh198]

Yuav npam lau cov me nyuam aw nej na yuav npam xwb mog hlub nej niam yau thiab ma los

[@yang-mouapajnyiag3536]

Cov me nyuam tsis txawj xav kiag li

[@thaevang5369]

1 hnub twg lub ntuj tig ko diav los txog ces 5 tug dev ko yeej yuav ua qab ke luag xwb los mas.

[@heysoniher]

Sounds like a bunch of ungrateful sons! I understand that you were not their birth mother, but you raised them and supported them. The least they could do is appreciate you for what you did. Unfortunately, they decided to love the one that abandoned them.

[@emilyherr5352]

God bless your heart sister. Txhob tusiab os mog. Hlub li koj lub siab zoo hlub lawv. Lawv tsis hlub koj los lawv tsis txawj xav.

[@mayalor5081]

Tus mi niam hluas cov tub tsis hlub koj los tsis ua cas. Txhob ntshaw lawv txoj kev hlub. Tus luag yug ces yeej dai lawv siab. Lawv yeej ua tsis yog lawm. Tab sis ib hnub lawv yeej yuav paub. Cov neeg tsis txawj xav ces zoo li ko.

[@dinayoung4797]

Tus viv ncaus zoo koj yug tau ib pab yog koj tug os. Cov koj yug thiaj hlub koj xwb nawb. Cov me nyuam no nkim zog tu tiag tiag. Cov niag me nyuam ntsuag ciaj tsis txawj xav

[@avnamo5787]

Niam mos ab koj ntshaw nyiag ntshaw nyob teb chaw vam meej koj thiaj yuav niag txiv laus laus muaj 10 leej me nyuam ces kav tsij nyob kom tag taim no. Txhob khav khav tias nim zoo zoo li ub li no neeg tsis xav mloog.

[@xeexiong6908]

Zoo kawg li os me sister yus coj zoo ces yus yeej tau qhov zoo xwb os mog ❤❤

[@zhangthor912]

Txhob tu siab pab tub ntawv ruam ib yam lawv niam twb pib npam raws lawv niam txoj kev lawm. Koj yog ib tug niam tsev zoo. Cov tub ntawv ntse ces yeej nco koj tus txiaj ntsig.

[@shengkhang7427]

Luag hais tu tub ntsuag ces tau yeeb ncuab ces yog li kos laus maus

[@luvinniceboxers]

People need to only have as many kids as they can afford and take care of. The ex-wife is selfish and don't deserve love. 😪

[@hmoobpnw8479]

Pog meb cab tsis tau kev tuag lawm.

[@myself.kuvxwb8406]

Being that I believe you, you did everything as a mom to these kids, you have the right to stand up for yourself. A woman, knowingly leaves her young babies in pursuit of her own happiness, in my eyes doesn't deserve to depend on those children. If you all feel this is alright then when the ex wife left for her happiness, the father can too and forget about those kids. NO, parenting isn't easy and if anyone feels that they can take advantage of another person's kindness is wrong. Their father did everything right by the kids. The mother is a dead beat human being. 10 kids why, why did you leave them? To the mother that took care of them. Forget it! Know that you did all you can. Concentrate on the ones who love you. You did your part, the part that they needed a mother when they are young.

[@Money-q9n]

Those ungrateful brats gonna get karma and I hope it hits hard. They should've gotten an evil step mom to teach them some lessons.

[@lxklxk7765]

Li no tiag tos g muaj leej twg kam los tu me nyuam tsuag tos lawv hai tias yug nab rog nab rov tom yus

[@Kuvcoslus2]

Txhob tusiab os tus niam tsev siab loj siab zoo. Me nyuaj ces, txawm yog yus cov me nyuam yus yug los lawv yeej tsis hlub yus thiab os. You did your job raising them well & provided everything they need as a parent to children. Not many step-parent can do what I did got them. if they took u for granted, that's on them.

[@toufongvang6130]

All the boys if true as your step said. I think you guys made wrong decisions. Just rethink n put yourself in her situation. I think the best just love both of your guys mom equally. Wishing you guys the best.

[@ahmoe1106]

Maybe you did do some things that upset your step children when they were young. There are many sides to a story. All I can say is, don’t be upset, just love your step children as much as you can.

[@kaciewanh1986]

Tejlaus 1 txwm tias tsis yog yus taum ces tsis hlub no tiag2 li. Coob tus menyuam ntsuag tsuas xav tau & noj koj lub zog thaum lawv yuav tuag xwb. Luag thiaj hais tias pub dev rog, dev tig tom koj no.

[@douangchanhtho8118]

Nqa ib tug xab mus kom lub ntuj txiav txim xwb os me Beverly ncaus aw