ZAINA Tells All From The Ultimatum Season 3

[@OctoberGirl16]

I love Zaina. She was the only good thing about this season. Zaina for the next Bachelorette!!! She’s classy and beautiful and deserves to have 25 men competing for her love.

[@socialite8218]

Facts!

[@maggiedk]

The way she was able to communicate so calmly and clearly while still sticking up for herself was so admirable. I was taking notes, lol. She truly deserves the best ❤️

[@heymilikaa]

Yaaassssss!

[@AlieshiaTV]

That would be cool!

[@MsReveur]

I think she should take some time for herself and try to heal. Men competing for her and screen time is the last thing she needs, in my opinion. But she really was classy and mature during the show. At the reunion not so much.

[@essencepierce273]

J.R. wasn’t confident in your friend group because everyone has their stuff together. He felt confident around Sandy’s family because they were impressed.

[@stargazer_stacey7415]

This 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@delivertus4romnesha328]

🎯

[@shesty1697]

Great analysis! I thought the same thing. He was intimidated by them.

[@DanNelle]

Yesss!! I was going to say, he was probably very shy around them because he sees them as “more successful than him”

[@StarringShameka]

This!

[@CeeMyView]

Once JR looked in the camera and then started fake crying it was at that moment that I knew he thought he was in a soap opera… I’m still laughing about it 😂😂

[@Sayithowitis15]

100%!! I couldn't stop laughing every time he would cry. because it was so fake😂 pretty sure he quickly put some eye drops in before everything scene.😂

[@essencepierce273]

The way my heart filled with pride when Zaina stood up to Scotty and then finally left! I was like let’s gooooooo

[@blalala5837]

I think that people thought it was fake because he made it abundantly clear he wasnt all in. He was really rude and cold. And then when the dynamic of him not wanting to post you, not wanting you to comment on his posts, etc. Him not wanting any boundaries on the show. Those things aren't normal. Im sorry you went through that; 3 years is a long time.

[@amitnira]

Maybe I'm projecting but I think that people who are emotionally mature don't "get" people who suffer from arrested development. I didn't fully "evolve" until my 30s probably, and the best way to describe it would be - acting like a child. You know how children would lash out, or teenagers would be very cagey... And they don't fully get how their actions and words affect people around them, because they don't know how to process their own emotions, let alone anybody else's... It's normal for kids (to a degree), but can be very confusing when grownups behave like this. If I'm right about this - there can also be resentment from JR because Zaina has it all so perfect. Like a child would be jealous of another child. And probably some "imposter syndrome", because he feels beneath her and her friends/family. Maybe shame for finally getting exposed. I hope he heals and eventually apologize. But there's no guarantee, unfortunately.

[@wild3812]

I think it’s also about Zayna being very chilled about JR and Sandy and not worried about the chemistry. Cause to me it was obvious he’s completely fixated on Sandy, at least sexually. If that was my partner and I cared - I would freak out. Closer to Nicks reaction 😅

[@EE-bg1de]

The whole time watching the show i thought, JR can't wait to get into the Netflix universe. He like i aint commiting to anything, "I'm on a journey of self discovery!" aka "Discover me on Too Hot to handle! The Perfect Match!".

[@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast]

Yeeeeeep

[@chellbell7899]

Yep i heard he’s on the perfect match and he’s hanging out with other Netflix reality peeps

[@FrenchName324]

Him and sandy !!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@shesty1697]

Very true!! I’m sure we will see him on something.

[@inutukawanamwangelwa8276]

Faaaacctts 😂

[@PrettyAssassin]

JR caught in a 4k bold face lie was the highlight of this reunion. I wish they would have played the clip of Sandy playing in Zays face. Both are Liars! I still believe they SMASHED!

[@amarie9092]

I’m glad that Zaina called her out on it though! She was like “and you, you lied in my face and you brought up something completely unprovoked and I didn’t even ask for” Nick is an alcoholic but the way he and Zaina were treated, wasn’t deserved

[@OctoberGirl16]

@@PrettyAssassin YES…that was the BEST part!!!

[@Covers-and-Commentary]

Zaina with the QR code had me flabbergasted lolol

[@essencepierce273]

J.R. Is full of crap. He is jealous of Zaina’s success and it’s clear. This is why he treated her so poorly. I’m so glad she’s out of that because some men can’t stand a beautiful, intelligent, and strong woman. I had an ex get angry with me anytime I got a promotion, raise or bonus. Dude would be passive aggressive and lash out.

[@DLocked]

I just wrote a similar response!! AGREED! He definitely was jealous of Zaina - the spite in his face whenever he spoke to or about her. 🤢🤢

[@Denisa-n5m]

I had an ex find an old military picture of me online getting an award and said “oh you big shit huh?” Like whaaaattt? Lol

[@essencepierce273]

@ wow 🤦🏽‍♀️. The level of insecurity some of these men have is crazy. I’m sorry you went through that. Must have been traumatizing to be with someone so …

[@essencepierce273]

I wasn’t entertained by what Zaina went through but I was proud as hell of how she handled herself during the most stressful times. I think women deserve better than the men swimming around in this pool these days.

[@S2Naughty456S2]

Couldn’t have said it better!! Lovvvve Zaina and it just speaks to the junkyard that is called the dating pool if you like men or want to be with one.

[@essencepierce273]

@ lord… watch Later Daters and you’ll realize that age has little to do with it too which is a shame lol. I want to get in the pool but I’m scurrreeddd 🤣

[@rwm1885]

Watching the reunion and reflecting on the show, all these men were so problematic and never took accountability. Nick an alcoholic and abusive, Scotty a gaslighting, emotionally abusive one, JR a selfhating, cheating, misogynistic one, like 70% of them just angered me

[@jkjyum]

I feel like it's hard to believe that Zaina and JR were are real couple because Zaina is giving affluent, educated and well-rounded while JR was giving fake it till you make it bum energy

[@nicholnunn8074]

Once I heard that convo JR had with Sandy about social media I figured that was the reason people couldn’t find much about their relationship.

[@jkjyum]

@nicholnunn8074 that too. But they just made no sense on an outside perspective. I couldn't comprehend how they had conversations with each other, seeing how different they speak to others on the show.

[@amandahughes9389]

I was CLAPPING at the reunion when they caught JR in 4k, saying he has a hall pass… ☠️. Zaina is the favorite, for sure! I can’t wait to see her on something else!

[@RaeDee1111]

I think he lied about his ex cheating to be honest. He’s a narcissist. They will lie and tell you someone did something to them when they in fact did it.

[@WilliamsPinch]

Zaina is so ❤️‍🔥 She represented so well 💅🏽

[@GraceAbimbola7]

Zaina is so beautiful, intelligent, graceful and stunning 😍

[@GraceAbimbola7]

I really hope to grow to have her poise❤

[@Kiaraa.Denise]

Man seeing her break down and cry got me cuz on the show she barely showed emotion so to see her crying is sad cuz she was so genuine he lost a good one fr

[@Milagrosa247]

I’m so glad y’all also discussed the Scotty situation because the reunion episode dropped the ball

[@JoJo01300]

This is why they need new hosts on that show!! Nick and Vanessa Lachay are so so bad at reunions. I’m so annoyed every show they do and find the reunions are a waste of time. They suck!!!

[@Milagrosa247]

@@JoJo01300 definitely, its getting ridiculous atp

[@calexandria329]

The fact that she was ever with him is insane

[@sydneyhopes]

And for soooo long. His voice alone would have done it for me 🙃

[@goris2318]

That whole not liking or commenting on his social media bit is wild! I'm sorry that man was lowkey envious of her!

[@JoJo01300]

@@goris2318 it was also cause he’s trash. He didn’t want any of his other objects, how he sees women, knowing that he had a girlfriend. Men want all the attention and they cannot handle when a woman is better than them at anything. JR is one of the weakest men I’ve ever seen. So pathetic and embarrassing

[@emare313]

my thoughts exactly. that man is jealous of her. absolutely terrifying

[@BriBerg-y9j]

How do you date someone who wont even let you follow him bc he doesn’t want anyone to know you’re together ?? That is one of the wildest things I’ve ever heard.

[@essencepierce273]

I wanna toughen Aria up to but I honestly feel like she was gaslit so much in that relationship and with her dad being similar to Scotty.. poor girl has so much trauma.

[@ecee.1811]

I think she also kind of tried to sabotage Caleb's relationship and it was not cool

[@Necic2024]

Yes hers didn’t work so she was going to try to mess somebody else’s up. She pissed me off with that. I think she’s pissed Caleb didn’t move forward with her

[@joanna0988]

I didn't like that either, he checked her stories a year ago and she wants to call him out on it now?

[@c8thegr8_]

Caring more about your fuckin “social media engagement” than your relationship ??? Yup, that explains J.R. 😂

[@mirandaalfaro4339]

I felt the way JR would look at her seemed he was jealous of Zaina and insecure. She lights up a room. He even calls her toxic positivity. Who says that?

[@essencepierce273]

Zaina. You are a queen. I was in the comments defending your relationship because I never doubted it was real. I think people are struggling with how badly he treated you. I’ve seen men flip a switch like that so not too shocking. Dang… took the words out my mouth Cheyenne.

[@marlishajean1283]

“Scotty has a barber?!” 😂😂😂😂

[@JasperOFlanigan-fb5lv]

JR is such a scumbag. But women YOU had to demand you be treated better. Right off the back there were crazy red flags and Zaina let this man stand on that for 3 years.

[@mariareid8209]

This cleared up a whole lot thank you Ladies for this platform I wish Zaina the absolute best as she was the star of this season such Grace 👑.

[@sophiajoseph8929]

I was looking for Cheyenne in an episode, but he is jealous of her.Zaina, you cleared everything at the reunion, and you looked great. Go queen❤

[@essencepierce273]

Now y’all got me crying. Zaina is clearly a strong woman and I know for her to be crying on here is not easy. Nothing but love and respect for her.

[@NatashaHymes-tt2un]

Zaina is a jewel! She deserves a true man of God!! ❤ glad she got to share her story with friends!

[@netty5170]

Did anyone else notice a smirk on J.R.s face after he told Zaina he wasn’t going to marry her.

[@BriBerg-y9j]

I feel like you would have to be nuts to not want to be with zaina. She is the total package and genuinely one of the most stunning people I have ever seen in my life. She seems like such a sweet soul.

[@Caribbean.douniaaa]

Oh wow I didn’t know we were getting this now. Yay! Keep being you Zaina you’re really strong and I’m happy that you have support near since your family is not in LA.

[@kimikoarnold]

So proud of Zay! I was taking notes on the way she handled confrontations with Scotty. That is something I've been personally working on because i start cutting up but I don't want to be like that. I'm in my joy era of just calling that energy in and getting more control over my emotions. So IMPRESSED!!! I also agree with Zay that it feels like JR went on the show to end the relationship. He has some severe insecurities and i feel like he gets on mute in a room with you all because you all embody powerful, go getter women that just rattles his soul and brings out those insecurities even more so. I have so many thoughts lol, but Have an amazing holiday trip crew!

[@Naimah404]

Sadly, Zaina fell in love with a narcissist because that's exactly what JR is. But thankfully, he exposed himself on national tv for the world to see! Now, maybe other women who've watched can learn and make sure to avoid these kinds of men.

[@jessimichelle2990]

The friends having to create fake accounts because their guts felt off that bad is a BIG red flag

[@DLocked]

JR definitely didn’t like Zaina. Whether it was cause of jealousy or hateration but it was clear as day. The he spoke to her and about her was trash!! Zaina is so special and deserves a man who’s gonna adore her equally.

[@Spiritual36]

I don't think JR likes women full stop. His montage was very disrespectful to women. Objectify them like they were his play things and leading with sex. Awful

[@DLocked]

This narrative is trash, sorry. Quick to call a him gay? There is nothing to allude to him not liking women. We literally saw and heard him pine over Sandy. There are many bitter straight men who are misogynist and that what he is. Hes insecure and is a clown!

[@1badbihhh]

Dang the girl in the pink cuts everyone off.

[@timeme03]

Right! They need to work on synergy and decorum! I'm only here because Zaina is doing a recap. But I don't think I can finish listening 😕 it's exhausting

[@waterfall5530]

JR was always jealous and intimidated by Zaina because she’s way above his level, hence why he harboured resentment. Sandy on the other hand was low vibrational and narcissistic like himself, they both deserved each other. JR will always regret this for the rest of his life, trust me.

[@Nichole8421]

Thank you Zay for sharing this journey with us! I admire how you handled yourself throughout the process! Keep being you! 🩷

[@itsQueMajor]

Queen Zaina ❤ Her and Aria were so pure. A little delulu, but so lovely and pure.

[@shay1018]

JR is an absolute cornball! I don’t know how she was with him for so long. He’s nobody to cry over.

[@breannawilliams1622]

Forget all that..Zaina, drop the chip connect or become it. That was high level GENIUS!❤ I don't even need one, but I feel like I do!😂

[@breannawilliams1622]

On a more serious note, we as women have to stop wiping our asses with the red flags. They're there. Listen when men talk and watch how they handle you. Not wanting to post you is a problem... it doesn't have to be daily, but not even once? Stop letting men play in and around your face... one wrong move, be gone. Wear the clown nose and do better next time sis. ❤ Edit: forgive yourself for not choosing yourself for x amount of years. Forgive your own naivety.

[@LeryUnfiltered]

JR is a clown; this woman is close to perfection.

[@johnbarnett6584]

Zaina you are queen! And you ate at the reunion! Dam you are gorgeous!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@jazzyhudson257]

I know Zaina keeps saying JR was different with her prior to being on the show, but the social media situation and him thinking she was trying to compete with him, is such an ugly way for your partner to act towards you. So I’m not surprised that a man who would do all of that would disrespect her on a tv show. He was already disrespecting her and she ignored it.

[@JamieMartin-bg3up]

Thank you Zay for sharing your life with us! You are such an AMAZING woman and you deserve nothing but the best. You are an inspiration for us all!! We love you!

[@mo_better101]

I'm sure JRs parents are embarrassed! But then again, that's probably what he wanted, he seems like the rebellious type that's ok with embarrassing any and everyone, while he's really only embarrassing himself!

[@wild3812]

Zaina , you are a class act girl!!! JR is nowhere near your league. Please never stop being genuine. Just watch for these red flags - eg not wanting to post you on socials. I promise, love feels so much better, JR is a breadcrumbs person and you will find someone amazing girlie cause you’re stunning!!

[@brichance3741]

he didnt want to claim the baddie of all baddies (inside and out) on social media omgggg. who does he think he is

[@AnimalsDressedasHumans]

Goes to show the lack of chemistry, especially what JR was giving off, for ppl to think the relationship was fake. She dodged a bullet. She’s a catch.

[@s.e.l.z]

The fact that JR wanted her to not comment on his photos and didn’t want any photos of zaina on his social media two years into their relationship is absolute madness and I love this interview with zaina way more than the Nick podcast that just felt so short

[@lillybilly9954]

That whole social media situation would make sense if he were younger. But at his age, I would expect him to be in a serious relationship.

[@OctoberGirl16]

Thinking JR is going to end up on Perfect Match with Sandy!!!

[@ihskask]

The way Zaina handled Scotty Should be in school curriculum or mandatory watching for young women.

[@4thaluvofeverything]

Someone said it right before that J. R is still that “little ugly boy” in his head. Zaina girl you are a gem I’m so glad you are healing and out of this relationship.

[@eyeganai]

Cheyenne please allow the other ladies to speak and ask questions without you diverting the discussion another way. Thanks!!

[@SH0RTiiS0FLY]

Like I know she’s just trying to keep the convo on track but geez. We’d like to hear what Kyle and Shanan have to input as well

[@rociogee1121]

Cheyene with the facts about scotty and Sandy ! THANJ YOUU

[@c8thegr8_]

7:30 ZAYYY NOOOOOOOO. Can’t post? Can’t comment? I have to portray I’m single? 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 how’d it take the show to realize this man ain’t worth you, don’t deserve you, should’ve never had a chance with you 😭😭😭😭😭 Either way glad u realized !

[@DominiqueVictoriaa]

Cheyennes face when Zaina speaks about Sandy 😂😂😂 the balance of yalls friendship is everything!!! Zaina, your spirit is beautiful & your husband will have the personality of Cheyenne…mark my words!

[@newmex29]

Zaina is dope and JR is wack. In reality, he was jealous of her. Highly insecure of a man, he essentially said so….Women please take heed of dudes like him 🚩

[@Num1Pmoments]

Love the ending Shanan!! My mother has passed away this year and the holidays suck. I haven’t had anyone to check in one me. So hearing you say that was helpful.

[@essencepierce273]

Literally I’m screaming “she’s probably talking to Cheyenne” 🤣. The way he jumped to conclusions…

[@vanessajones3911]

The girl in the pink keeps interrupting

[@EmmanuellaLubin]

I was about to say the same thing!

[@Lola-by9gq]

Seeing Zaina on The Ultimatum after watching Chey on TM along with R and Shanan on the podcast for so long and seeing Zaina there occasionally was the craziest crossover 😂❤️

[@c8thegr8_]

OHHHH I CANT WAIT FOR THIS ONE Y’ALL IM TUNED IN !!!!!

[@ItsOliviaSkyy]

I’m sorry but Pink shirt is dominating this interview 😂 like what was the point of having the two on the left?

[@brownie3041]

That’s what i was thinking, a little uncomfortable sometimes because she’s clearly talking over everyone😭

[@Lola-by9gq]

She’s Zaina’s best friend so she has a more in depth perspective

[@Kai_Mx]

But she was asking the questions we viewers had and even made her understand why it was coming off a certain way.

[@RoxCi11]

She is domineering in other interviews as well. This one was just really really hard to watch. She knows and admits it though.

[@ItsOliviaSkyy]

@@RoxCi11 this is my introduction to the podcast so i was pretty confused. I didn’t even know all three were hosts. While i appreciated the questions i wish i got to hear those same questions from the other two women

[@handsom3jam955]

Yeah shes pretty gorgeous

[@Ashleynavyy]

Zaina was a little bit oblivious.. like he didn't want to post you, another woman DMed you about him messaging her and he didn't wanna marry you. Like girl... how did you expect this experience to be beneficial to you in any way?

[@danielleh7680]

A lot of us have been blinded by love……….at least she learned a really important lesson so she knows what to look for going forward

[@Milagrosa247]

KZbin recommended this to me I clicked so fast chile

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Never seen this channel before, such a nice vibe and Zania is a queen!!! If she ever wants to cross a bridge to the sapphic realm, I would treat her as such (just kidding, great chat!) P.s. I wanna know what else is in the reciepts folder. 😂😂😂

[@cmwyeye1214]

Lol after you date a narc you spot them from a mile away.. I hope Zaina can fully heal

[@sydneyhopes]

Omg I can’t wait for Zaina’s husband to find her!!!

[@kaceyscorner3738]

Wow I'm not surprised by anything I heard. Justice for Zaina!

[@LifeofCIvy]

His comment at the reunion about her wanting to be like her friends I knew exactly who he was talking about and was like oh red flag he jealous of her and her friends straight up

[@hailleetribe4015]

Great episode but I think y’all should work on talking over each other

[@mpholurking]

Geez, why are they talking over each other? Are they aways like this? Just watched cause i wanted to hear the low down of the show

[@oraliamontes3122]

Zaina is someone I look up too! She’s the best ❤

[@Dorothyann436]

Anyone else hear Jordan peele as a woman from k and peele every time JR spoke lol

[@tammyhaywood1650]

What a kind, sensitive, and gracious lady!!

[@dkblue317]

And ladies this is why when dating never date for potential, never give the benefit of the doubt, never compromise.

[@hopebusby4331]

Merry Christmas 🎁 and Happy New Year to you all🎉 💕

[@peacenightsleep2834]

JR was not portrayed as bad person,he is a terrible human being.Its not editing when 99% of the time he looked like he literally hated you.Am glad you did the show and have that out of the body experience.The fact that he went to block you after the show 😢😢😢😢gul this man hated you

[@elizabethavgtdavis7992]

Zaina is beautiful and deserves way better! It made me mad watching it. I’ve dated people like that and it bothered my soul but there is someone out there for her that’s way better!!! And that will treat her like she deserves.

[@aliciasmith5012]

Zaina. You are strong and you are worthy of having someone love you properly. Its great to hear that you allowed yourself to heal and deal with your emotions. You have a strong support system. I applaud you for how you went through the process and how you maturely moved forward. Happy Holidays ladies. Enjoy your time off❤

[@sweetapplecapricorn]

I'm so proud of how Zaina handled herself. She wasn't all on the floor crying on camera for this dude...

[@RandiLovesCats]

My question is why did her sister love him so much? When scotty was meeting her family and friends her sister said she loved JR.

[@swayxaway]

I’m obsessed with the way yall keep calling it the vile podcast bc that is what it is to the majority of the Netflix reality tv dating show cinematic universe watchers think too lmao

[@mellymel6447]

idc my only opinion is is that ZaINa would look phenom with a LOB!! like a dark little LOB moment

[@danielleh7680]

Zaina is so beautiful it’s insane

[@ToniaRichardson-tm3ff]

To be concise: Zaina, he is not and never was worth your time. Wishing you all the best in your next step endeavours. Take your power back.

[@candiqee23]

JR is the Instagram Engineer now 😅 what does he know about the algorithm chileee

[@AlieshiaTV]

Zaina was quiet about the hair 😂😂

[@asavoss9331]

CHEYENNE IS SO ME!!!!1 I'm gonna say what everyone in the room really wants to say lol. I love Zaina!!! I'm with Cheyenne!!! Live in your truth JR! Whatever that may be for you. 💅🏽

[@Radiance230]

16:30 Hello! He was running game. He didn’t want you to be known as his girlfriend. And you allowed it. For 3 years.

[@aminamarih9397]

Oh you ATE with this!!

[@Metaphysicalmindspace777]

Zain’s is too young, intelligent and pretty to accept the disrespect and dehumanizing treatment from that guy! I hope she’s taking time to heal!

[@Sayithowitis15]

41:49 perfect example of what Scotty seemed like.😂 Waking up in the middle of the night to him staring at you 👀

[@issamigas]

JR literally plotted the whole thing for publicity! def used her!

[@Closer2Cali]

Really don’t understand how she stayed with him so long