Zam Txim Tsis Tau Wb Thiaj Sib Nrauj. 3/14/2024

[@ShannenChang]

Yog pojniam ua ces Txiv neej yeej tsi zam txim Cuag Li pojniam tsi muaj siab ntsws ! Txiv dev tsi need zam txim ! He plan , thoughts into and his plan was intentional! Love yourself and leave for peace

[@maipha8560]

Hmong women are not putting up with bullsh*t anymore!! Cheating is and should always be non-negotiable. Once that line is crossed, there's no going back. No one should ever comprise your conscience and integrity for a cheater. Good job for setting a good example for your children. They should also never tolerate a cheater either.

[@hlubkojtshaj1000]

Koj ua Yog kawg lawm os viv ncaus, Yog ua tau li Koj ces zoo tshaj plaws li, Yus tsis muaj kev mob siab ntxiv lawm…

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Zam txim is only if he made a mistake. He did not make a mistake. He intentionally cheated on you and got caught. I’m glad you got rid of this cheater. He is not worthy of your love. You deserve more than what he can give.

[@ดาราพรกมลาสน์บูชา-ฐ6ภ]

ฟ๐ๅๅใน

[@hlubkojtshaj1000]

Kuv xav Li ko thiab mistake only once or twice but constantly do it not mistake…I’m glad you make your decision to leave him…

[@DcjjDhjj-ir2dk]

TURAL ❤😮😅

[@krystalyeu799]

So many of these stories! As someone who will never ever participate in Hmong Clan Politics and never ever intent to learn because there is NO benefit. Why so many Hmong women endorsed and stood so low worshiping the title “Patha” that yield no return of any type of pay back dividends?

[@mouavang3371]

Most of the time, the one that's going to hurt you is the one that you know well and trusted.

[@meexiongvang3373]

Me ntxhais koj fwm thiab hlub nws tshaj qhov uas nws saib tsi tau koj lawm koj uas nws qhev tuag nthis ce nws thiaj saib koj zoo lis tus dev tsi muaj nqis xwb tiag.

[@douayang9418]

ca saj neej neeg no yuav zoo thiab txau siab tshaj plaw li o

[@thojyaj765]

Tus me viv ncaus cas lub neej no es yuav tu siab ua luaj thiab mob siab has luaj li os. 😢😢😢 yuav ua li koj ua zoo duas los lam nyob es mob mob lub siab os.

[@susanyang2176]

Me sister nyob ces koj yuav tua sai vim kev mob chob chob lub siab yuav ua rau yus muaj mob os mog. Kuv uv uv es kuv cia li muaj high bloodbpressure lawm es kuv twb tawm lawm os. Nub no kuv kaj kaj siab lawm os

[@mickyyang6338]

You’re so pretty may… smile more often like that in your photos 🥰😊

[@Heartsdouna]

Sis koj ua Yog kawg txaus siab tshaj li os. Txiv neej ces txim tau cov poj niam zoo li ko ua thiaj haum nws. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@kabblias407]

Tus viv ncaus aw... Koj zaj neej neeg mas mloog ua rau kv ntshav siab tag li os....

[@hlubkojforever1901]

👏👏👏👏 Im glad you found happiness! I have zero tolerance in cheating as well. If he cheated, he knew he’s done without me telling him.

[@chaovang3504]

I love this story, especially the last part when u said u cleanse and sweep your whole house and even kicked his spirit the hell out.. I sooo respect you!! Wish you the best!

[@KudaBear]

Never sacrifice your happiness to stay in a relationship you are not happy in. Move on and learn to love yourself. You stay means you let your husband walk all over you and disrespect you. Especially the other woman since she knows you already see them together. No money can buy my happiness or reputation back.

[@Doodoo578]

Agree

[@youavang5439]

What about me😢😢 Kuv yuav Kuv tus txiv tau 25 years. He always hide money and he care his family first. Kuv zoo li ibtug neeg zov menyuam thiab tu tsev rau nws xwb. I have to go work and pay my own bills 😭😭

[@msmaix808]

😂😂😂 the sleeping pill on the long road trip. I like lub maib no! Funny story.

[@cookingcutiepieAI]

You did the right thing sister 👏👏👍

[@PH-ThailanD]

zoo kawg koj muab nrauj kiag niag txiv neej tsw ceem ceeb li kom. muab pov tseg kiag koj haig yog lawm 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@meexiongvang3373]

Koj.tus txiv liam khav theeb tsab ntse nws thiaj poob kev txhaum tus siab kawg uas nkim koj lub sijhawm uas pab koj cuab kevtij tsi muaj qabhau dabtsi rau koj kiaglis

[@Kuvxwb-b5o]

Ua tau zoo heev nrog koj zoo siab me viv ncaus.

[@MyahLis]

Good job woman!!!

[@MixaiyLao]

Hlub koj mas ua yog tshaj plaws li os❤🎉

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Zaj dab neeg no Hai tau tu siab tshaj plwg li o lawm 😂😂😂😂

[@yinglee8513]

Ha ha pab thas quav cawv thiab tham luag tej poj niam xwb es cas yuav ntshaw ua luaj nas

[@jackieyunan4899]

Peb hmoob cov zoo txiv tsev yeej muaj ib leeg ib tug maum dev nawb lawv aw...

[@AluSong2244]

Hmoob aw.....thov muab cov lus no xa mu rau peb cov poj niam hmoob ca nej pheej ntshaw2 ua niam pab tha na ntshaw2 ua qhev na tsum kiag yus xuv ua tu tub2 nkeeg tos lawv ua tau ce mu noj xb txhob ntshaw2 lawv qhuas yus ma hlub tu kheej xb tau lm ua zoo2 nkauj rau yus tu txiv xb txhob ntshaw2 ua haujlwm mu txeeb hjlwm ua e g nco hlub yus li os peb cov me niam tsev oS

[@ShouaTojsiab]

I would’ve exposed this txiv dev and maum dev to the world and left him that first time you caught him. He doesn’t deserve to be a pabtha. This is why pabthas get no respect from me. He should not be in this position and I would not have supported him. Txog txij koj txhom tau nws 2 zaug lawm ces xyob nws ua puas puas zaus lawm os sister.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Lesson learned. As for men, once they know that their kwv tij praised them or others do.... their ego goes above their head. They think that they the sh*t. They do not use that to be better, they rather destroy their marriage because of their ego and pride.

[@MissPeachie]

I can never forgive a cheater so I feel your resentment. Proud that you left him and found someone. I hope your new husband isn’t a rebound because if he is, you are going down another wrong path. You should allow your heart to heal before dating someone.

[@hlubnrogkojcatxauntshai]

Yuav tsum nrauj li no txiv neej thiaj tsis muaj2 phus ua yog tham hlua nkauj os cov viv ncau aw ...koj ua yog lawm os ua koj nrauj nw na

[@maivang448]

Wow sister, you and I have the same thinking.

[@suelo617]

Ntuj os teb aw...liam npaum ko es tseem pheej tias yuav txuag nws lub meej mom, txuag pab tau koj dab tsi na yeem txuag ces yeem mob xwb hos

[@hlubkojtshaj1000]

Qhov txuag ntawm Yog vim Yus lub siab zoo zoo es Yus thiaj ua txuag xwb os.

[@elisely5353]

Twb sib nrauj tag lawm es tseem pheej hu me koj niam me koj txiv no ua dab tsi na ! Tuav npe xwb los ma !!!

[@yermoua2035]

I always love myself and my kids more. The kids and I cannot be replaced, a husband can be replaced.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Hmoob aw… Liam tiag2🤪

[@kiavang6954]

Koj ua yog kawg

[@SongYang-e1f]

This lady is so strong.

[@tsiamoua2235]

PEB poj niam yeej hmag PEB cov txiv dag ntxuas tus li os PEB ntsoom poj niam aws 😢😢

[@c_on_Bruh]

When you said you were a former Niam pa-Tha I knew you were a victim of a narcissist. Did want to feel bad for you but glad you made the right decision to leave that dog. Better luck with this new husband. Hopefully you didn’t jumped into another trap.

[@niamtsevxeemlaujlauj5003]

You did great!! Bravo! I like your style. Cheating is no mistake.

[@yhoaxong5261]

Niam laus aw kj daim Duab luag tau ntxim hlub tshaj

[@hlubmykids5119]

Peb pojniam yeej muaj txoj kab liab mas...txiv neej tsis k xwb os...peb twb hais tias txhob hla txoj kab liab no los txiv dev tseem hais tias kuv yeej muaj cai ua hos koj tsis muaj cai txwv kuv vim kuv yog txiv neej nav....txiv neej muaj222 cai ua tab sis thaum mag nrauj ces ua neeg homeless 😅😅

[@meeher-b2b]

nam ntsusb teev koj yog ib tug nam tsev ntse peb xaav noog koj cov neej neeg qhov kuv xaav noog ma koj tso cov Day tawm tshab lo yug qub peb xaav noog cov xawb nawb mag ua koj tsaug os

[@pajlee3167]

Koj hai yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog ❤❤❤❤

[@neejkhuamsiabkwm8044]

Txoj kev pab thas yeej pauv tsis txoj kev zoo nyob lis niam aws.

[@maiherlee6497]

Koj mas muaj peev xwm tsaj thiab siab zoo heev

[@meeyang8411]

Yog tsa txiv neej Hmoob ua txiv dev xwb ces txhob tsa tsa lawm. Tus twg xav ua nai yuav tau mus kawm mam los ua thiaj coj tus. Cov txiv neej hmoob Pabtha liam li no coob dhau lawm.

[@Nobodyxxx651]

May your circle of friends are all Patham too so becareful 😂

[@pajlee3167]

❤❤❤❤

[@ChuVang-gy7ho]

Phau me nyob zoo tsau koj os kuv nyob nyab laj os kuv yog hmoob vaj li koj thiaj os cau cau koj los tag no kj hai tau zoo heev li ❤❤❤❤❤

[@nalaher3022]

Every relationship comes to an end, and death is the only right reason. However, cheating and abuse are so common these days. It's ok to leave a cheater and abuser. Like you said, if we are strong enough to survive the pain, we are lucky. Why do we stay with someone who can cause that kind of pain? It's good to let him go.

[@douayang2163]

Tau yav hluas !! Cia yav Laus rau lwm tus take care!!

[@wendy-yw7zc]

Wish all women are like you. To earn respect, you have to stand up for yourself.

[@BANNA_007-r6q]

Why is all these bad ppl G BAA. and only us good ppl BAA. Because we suffer/ trying keep our families together 😢😢😢cheater WILL ALWAYS CHEAT just in the matter time WHEN N where

[@LadyVV-2024]

This is why I don’t have friends! I don’t trust anyone and don’t travel with friends lol

[@isabellexiong227]

Koj ncua m tiag tiag koj uv ntev d'au lawm ua cas cov neej tsaj thiab niam pog liam hiam heev

[@douayang2163]

Dim in txoj hauj lwm loj nyuab siab.

[@17maukabtsab]

Honestly you don’t owe him anything when he’s the one who messed up. You don’t need to let your in laws give you a time frame to stay with your husband. Your in laws are not going to suffer with you, they only care about their image.

[@sylavue5977]

Yog lawm, foom koob hmoov rau koj os tus niam tsev.

[@pahouayang1063]

Man, only love him 20%, 50% is the kids, 30% is always for yourself.

[@rockyhang387]

Cov txiv neej siab phem es siv lub npe pabtha coj los ua phem rau nws tus txij nkawm ces kawg khaum thiab lub neej tawg xwb.

[@Mloogzoo]

Hmoob ahov concept of meej mom is strange to me.

[@meexiong4183]

Nws dag xwb os nws yeej tsis mob os nws lam dag xwb os.

[@melisavang4106]

Koj hais yog lus kawg li os me viv ncaus aw.

[@nengthao8318]

Tsis nkag siab peb poj niam cas twb tias tu siab txias siab lawm no los thaum twg ntsib kiag tus txiv mas pheej tseem cia tus txiv txav tau ti yus tha lais yus tas li? Yog pheej muaj teeb meem nrog tus qub txiv ces tus hluas nraug txawm nyiam yus hlub yus los yeej muaj ib qho tsis tso siab tsis ntseeg siab rau yus li.

[@allabouttheoutdoorz]

Hmoob cov pab thab feem coob ces liam li liam li no xwb os.

[@whippedforkimtaehyung3087]

Yes, you are so right about your last words of advice. These worthless piece of crap guys don't deserve real love. When you love them too much, they dont appreciate it. We have to know our worth and self love bc no one cant give us that. I'm happy for you to be able to move on.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Cas kuv yuav nrog koj mob Siab ua luaj li os Tus mi Niam tsev aw, kuv Twb raug txoj Kev li koj raug lawm thiab os mog, zoo Siab thaum kawg koj kuj tawm Tau mus qhov kaj lawm os mog 😢😅

[@yeeyang5304]

Lam tias kaj siab los yeej tsis kaj siab li os lub siab yeej mob heev tuag tsis tau xwb

[@missysmart8620]

Dej npaug siab lawm ces nyob los tsis sib hlub lawm os vim siab tsias tas lawm os mog.

[@thomasveu8365]

Txiv neej hmoob ces feem coob ntshe yeej kawg li ntawd xwb mog

[@kuvxwb11]

Cas ib cov poj niam hmoob es yuav ntshaw tus txiv muaj koob muaj npe muaj meem mom ua luaj na. Tej meem mom ntawv tsis muaj dabtsi ceeb tsheeb. Tib cov quav dev lwj liam xwb tsis important os. Nej cov poj niam ruam cas nwj yuav ntshaw muaj koob muaj npe ua luaj na. Ruam tiag tiag.

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

*sigh* people are so negative and judgmental….

[@Ncohnubno]

Niam Pajtha nquav dev aw peb tsis paub koj os.

[@รัตนาวลีแซ่หลอ-ข2ฉ]

Lub neej zoo li no ca tu siab ua luag Tu siab tiag tiag

[@meexiong9961]

Tus niag qias neeg txawm koj zam pes tsawg zaus Los nws yeej qias neeg ...qhov zoo tshaj ces yog koj hlub hlub koj tus kheej xwb...txhob khuv xim nws lawm xwb o poj hmoob

[@waatchdogs6184]

Learned my lesson. Will never look for a man again. If he got into car accident there's the police, they'll reach out to me. I'm good. No man is worth the trouble sister. Move on

[@lucyv4416]

Glad u didn’t forgive him. He won’t change.

[@xaiher9236]

ntuj os ntuj aw nej cov nyuag niam pab tha txiv paj tha quav dev ko es tsi muaj ib tug yuav ua neej nto ntsi li ua pab tha es ua tham hlua nkauj li ko xwb tu me niam pab tha aw es koj tu me txiv pab tha zoo nraug npaum li ca naj es ce lawv tu poj niam ho yuav nyiam tag npaum na ca koj tsi muab tso rau saum KZbin no rau sawv daw pom saib nw zoo nraug npaum twg diam es lawv tu poj niam ho yuav nyiam ua luaj li 😂😂😂😂

[@lv337337]

Lady, Your relatives silence you twice and you're willing to stay silence. But at last your willing to stand up for yourself.

[@xengher72]

ไม่ว่าผู้ชายหรือผู้หญิงก็ตามถ้ามีคนอื่นใครละ จะอภัยให้ได้ ขอยกมือด้วยครับ

[@gaosayvu6554]

Nco ntsoov tseg ib qho hlub rau yus tus kheej thiab

[@Nkaujhmoobxeemvwj]

Cheating is not a mistake. it's a decision that is made by choice. Now that's a strong woman, and know what she wants.

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

Never help a cheating spouse to cover up their cheating, it’s almost like you allowed him to cheat. They will cheat again. They will walk all over you. Be respectful to yourself and move on.

[@maipha8560]

Yep, permitting = promoting the behavior

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov niam tsev ruam thiaj zam txim xwb nawb lawv aw...

[@susanyang2176]

Cov txiv dev li no ces tas nqi rau peb cv niam tsev zoo lawm os.

[@HmongGuitarPlayer]

PT has a 50/50 chance of being successful

[@7stars2love]

Ua cas koj tseem tso siab noj tshuaj tsaug zog thiab na? Twb tsis paub ntshai tuag li os. Tus txij nkawm uas ntxeev siab nws yeej tua tau yus nav

[@kaxoher4216]

Tu siab tiag tiag li os

[@ktsuyaj]

Tus mi niam tsev, Koj twb ua zoo tshaj qhov nws deserve Lawm. Yog Kuv ces twb tsis Thaiv nws lub ntsejmuag pab tham.😤

[@xyoojhawjpov934]

Cas yv ua tau mob siab ua luaj

[@kuexiong1498]

may you are slacking!! making me wait for you everyday at work ready for the next Maury/jerry story. plz don't make me wait any longer 😂

[@maithao1139]

Thaum nws ua mas twb caij kiag niag pog liam ua need es nws tsis Paul thiaj yus mob siab. Hom nws pom yus thaij duab nrog hluas nraug xwb nws twb mus pw hoom maum

[@sunnygirl973]

Koj ua yog thiab tsis yog. Kuv yog koj ces. Txiv liam lis no lawm ces txawm yog neej tsa los yeej nyias tsis tau kuv kom lam uv nyob es kom paj thas dhau. Kuv ces luam tsuag tsuag kom paj thas poob kiag xwb os. Tseem zam ua dab tsis naw.

[@samlao2489]

Tseem nco kawg yom...hahaha

[@ItsYou2]

Tabsi yog tu niam npabtha dev hluas tsi muaj nub luag yuav npog. Kev nplab quav dev is just always been an excuse!!!! Cia nws tuag ma nwg tuag tsi tau tiag lol...

[@nploojsiabhlubheuly7797]

Txhob noj tshuaj ntau tsam Tuag lawv tau life insurance mus yuav Tus tshiab xwb na

[@pahouayang1063]

I would tell, no secret for those two

[@leefamily6061]

What? He can cheat and sleep around but when she left the relationship and has a bf he threatened her🤯 the audacity of this cheater. Good for you sister, so happy you left that cheater

[@cocopha5778]

👍👍👍

[@kayingyang7133]

Good job, sister. You forgave once, and he still kept cheating.

[@Mais-p7r]

ສວຍແຮງແມ່❤

[@beevang7967]

Yog kawg. Tsev neej tshaj lawv tus tub ntxhiab ces yeej lim hiam ib yam es lawv tus tub thiaj liam2.