Dealing with Infertility | Dr. Mufti Abdur-Rahman ibn Yusuf Mangera

[@distova3279]

Salam. Very well phrased. I have been married for 12 years and still not able to conceive a child. Please remember me in your doa. Bty, I am also looking forwards adoption and it is very hard to have legal adoption in Arab. I see no childless couple incline towards and society does not support it either. I hope I can find one orphanage soon. InshaAllah.

[@The-Preserved-Tablet]

May Allah grant pious children to you both and others who are without children...Aameen

[@roze0169]

You can foster but you cannot adopt .. is the purpose of life to satisfy societies expectations from a couple or is it to satisfy Allah? I ask myself that everyday and i think im starting to know the answer as Allah has given the answer already

[@altGoolam]

Some of us will never have children. Most of us who are involuntarily childless will never have children. And that's the benefit of the medicine. To give us that reality check. For me, the most important thing here is the Sabr and exploring what that means. Sabr in our marriage, Sabr in our deprivation, Sabr in our test, Sabr with our health, Shukr for our abundance etc.

[@ThePurepoison88]

JazakAllahu khairan Mufti Sahab!! I really needed to hear this. May Allah (SWT) grant those who don’t have children a Healthy, Allah fearing child that will bring you so much happiness, Ameen thumma Ameen.🤲🏼🕋

[@floralhandshake6376]

JazakAllah khayran for this talk. I'm going through a difficult time regarding our childlessness and this soothed my heart. I will try the istighfar and the duas for shifa

[@yasmeensalloo2646]

We have also been married for 14 years, duaas for pious, healthy children.

[@hafsaanjum9108]

Aameen

[@faizanoor4130]

Aameen sister and I’ve been married for 10 years and I’m in the same situation. May Allah grant us and everyone who is trying pious and healthy children inshaAllah Aameen ❤️🤲

[@yasmeensalloo2646]

@@faizanoor4130 aameen

[@faijano]

May Allah put barakah in mufti sahabs life knowledge and time

[@imranpatel2011]

Love hadhrat mufti sahib... for the sake of Allah

[@shaziyajamal9768]

JazakAllah very very very nicely explained. SubhanAllah. remember us in prayer.

[@marghalaratawafi2485]

jazakallah sheikh. such a wonderful lecture. badly need this in our family environment. may Allah SWT gives you lots of rewards in this world and the year after.

[@tasminasafdar2465]

Excellent jazak Allah

[@ishtiaq1100]

very deep issue explained in such a easy way.

[@sheelaanwar3061]

JazaakAllah Khair Sheikh for the upload .Msy Allah swt reward you abundantly .Ameen😌🌸🌷

[@imranpatel2011]

Masha’allah... beautiful talk

[@amz66b43]

Jazakallah hu khairen

[@Bint_Suhail]

Firstly, Be grateful for what you have.. Allah says be grateful, I will give you more. Secondly, Have sabr and 100% tawakkul that it is only Allah who can give. Read again and again story of Ibrahim AS and zakariya AS AS a reminder that for Allah nothing is impossible. Allah gave to many, he will give me too.. and lastly pray pray pray abundantly.. Duas from Qur'an.. and always know you are here as a test and your ultimate goal is to enter Jannatul firdauz..

[@abdullahassaffah]

Asalamualaikum i am infertile inspite of having no issues i have tried many treatment none have been destined by allah to work i have one last try please make dua may allah forgive me help me cure me and make me succeed on this occasion ameen

[@MimiSafiyah]

Did you succeed sister? Praying you are blessed ameen

[@irahma4150]

Is it permissible for a husband to ask the wife, who cannot conceive a child, to have a 2nd wife? Knowing how pressured and depressed enough the wife already is?

[@khadijatahir1]

Taking second wife for the sake of kids is not right… this attitude shows that according to you not having child is your wife’s fault and not in the hands of Allah and you think that second wife will have power or ability to produce and offspring… In short one definitely can have second wife for many other reasons but not for kids… as this shows that you don’t believe in Power of Allah and you think that Allah can’t bless your current wife with kids due to her health or whatever…. Make your faith in Allah strong and just don’t make it an issue and help your wife to strengthen her faith as well you don’t question Allah’s will keep on asking and making dua HE will bless you soon InshAllah

[@ensyy_]

@@khadijatahir1 well said

[@saima331]

I am 44 and childless.doctors give no hope.till.what age should I keep making dua?? According to doctors I am already too old.

[@bebettertoday8444]

I feel your pain sister, but don't give up making duas. Doctors told us the same thing and still have a hope from Allah. May Allah give us pious Children. 44 is not too late. People are having kids the age of 50 now days

[@saniha337]

Go for ivf with duas

[@islamicknowledge6567]

Don't lose hope sister make dua make astaqfar Allah will give anytime at any age trust Allah n also make dua for me I m also childless n my husband married someone else still I don't loose hope I make dua in tahajjud one day I will definitely bless pious children by Allah aameen

[@shazeedanisar6994]

@@saniha337 don't go for IVF it ruins your body wats your contact number I will tell you how to get natural pregnant

[@sanajaved4573]

it's unrealistic i guess at 44 so you should plan your life for other things but carry on making dua. But perhaps it was not decreed for you and you also need to accept that.

[@krtyagi1268]

I love a woman but she is medically not good to bear child, my parents are not agree as it is obvious. But if i didn't marry her then what this women should do... didn't she allowed to marry or what !! Should I go for marriage if we already know rhat she can't bear child regardless of her other qualities towards islam . please answer

[@abdullahassaffah]

Wife being fertile is not a must simply advisable if you find a women of good character but can't have children then remember at least you will be happy with your wife child is bonus gift from Allah remember Zakaria alayuwasallam wife was infertile and Allah accepted his dua in their old age and cured her and they had Yahya alayuwasallam trust in Allah many of my relatives are fertile but still were not blessed either child inspite doing ivf 4 times hence being fertile doesn't guarantee children

[@musafir123]

Agar apko bacha aur vo ladki do me sechhorna pade to tum kya chhoroge

[@sabeena.h9754]

And what about male infertility? Why don't our Islamic scholars talk about male infertility

[@BintAbdulKader]

sister, if they talk about a topic it is for female and male. if they talked about infertility they mean both sexes.

[@ThePurepoison88]

Thank you!

[@ishtiaq1100]

very deep issue explained in such a easy way.