His Wife Is Missing But He Is Smiling | Lynsey Quy

[@allilee2523]

Wait. Her sister didn’t call the police immediately after getting that note? Between that and her family distancing them selves, it all sounds like excuses.

[@LiamLewisofficial]

She did actually, but with the media spin it was never reported. We reported her missing the police said she's a young mother in an abusive relationship and didn't do again and assumed she run away. That's why the media got involved.

[@mediii8057]

@@LiamLewisofficialshe should’ve read that note as soon as she walked out the house! I know I would if my sister was in that situation. I WOULD NEVER GIVE UP ON HER NO MATTER HOW DIFFICULT IT MAY HAVE BEEN TO DEAL WITH HER AND HER RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS. I wouldn’t care I would be there because my sister is way more important to me than anything and knowing she’s in a toxic and abusive relationship I would be on the sideline waiting for her to give me a hint.

[@LiamLewisofficial]

@@mediii8057 yes and we tried to help many times. Obviously I was a child at the time so limited to what I could do, but there were many times we got her away, she went back or asked for help then when it came time to help she said never mind. Abusers force a distance between family and friends of their abuse victim. So you can say what you like, but you weren't in this particular situation. So it's better to be kind and remember something awful still happened to someone innocenta dn the family that still has to grieve and see nonsense comments from people not involved even all these years later. My cousins (her children) see this stuff too. It's not fair.

[@danilepley]

Just so anyone going through a DV situation is aware, on average it takes 7 attempts to get out. So her going back was not a mistake she made. He was the sorry mistake of a human. We need to shift blame away from victims and towards the dickheads that do these things.

[@sarahk541]

Yes! Actual survivor here! It took me probably 9 times and 15 years to leave. Last September I had enough, and brought my kids to a safe home for women. It took almost a year to secure housing, a job, my license and a car but we did it! People need to understand it isn’t something simple as leaving. These are MASTER manipulators who over time beat you down until you feel like nothing. I thank god every day I finally saw the light and left. My kids will always be most important. My heart goes out to anyone dealing with abuse.

[@ZaraV]

I agree! Sorry poor choice of words if I made it seem any different. Agree he’s 110% to blame!

[@ZaraV]

Good on you Sarah! So sorry you had to go through this. Sorry if I came across any other way, not my intention at all. Had a family member go through this and it takes a really strong person to go through what you went through. Glad you and your kids made it out and hope you continue to stay safe ♥️

[@Autumnpearly]

@@ZaraV no. It wasn’t you who said anything wrong. They’re talking about how awful her family treated her and how they failed her cause they thought punishing her would force her into submission. People do the same garbage to people going through substance use issues🙄 just as bad as an abusive partner honestly

[@miredneckbougielife-uncens8725]

YES! Survivor here too! 10 years and multiple attempts!

[@Kimberly-kz2qs]

This is infuriating, especially after she had given her sister a note saying help me get me out of here. What kind of sister doesn't immediately do something?

[@dakotamcardle131]

Omg i watch every true crime channel and now I have a new one! Wonderful job covering these stories!

[@ZaraV]

Thank you so much and welcome!! I hope you enjoy 💕❤️

[@Autumnpearly]

He targeted her because she was about to be a single mom and was so young and vulnerable.he’s a predator. The fact that her family just went along with his shenanigans and accusations for so long is absolutely disgusting. When someone’s doing something you don’t agree with you don’t punish them by abandoning them as a way to coerce them into submission. Whether it’s an abuse situation or them struggling with substance use disorder by abandoning them you’re shoving them further into the depths you’re trying to punish them out of. Make it make sense 🙄

[@ZaraV]

I agree. She must have felt so alone 💔

[@sbd1033]

Honestly it's a situation you wouldn't want to be in. When I was about 6 or 7 my sister was abused by her partner. She would call my mum a couple of times a week begging her to come protect her. And my mum would. But she would have to leave me home with my drunk bio dad (who was usually asleep, never abusive) and put herself in danger to do so. After about 8 months of this my mum and had to make the heart breaking decision and tell my sister you either need to leave him, or stop ringing me and ring the police. She said she can't keep leaving me at home with my drunk father and putting herself in a situation that could get her seriously injured or worse dead. Leaving me without a sister and a mum. There were also times my bio dad wasn't home and she would have to take me, leave me outside locked in the car to go get my sister. She said it was the most difficult decision she had to make but it wasn't just my sister she had to look out for, not to mention the strain on her mental health knowing my sister was in that situation and there was nothing she could do about it. I think she kept at it for long because she was abused by her first husband and knew how hard it was but she knew my sister needed to make the hard decision to leave and protect her kid like my mum had to to protect my sister form her bio dad. Luckily it was what my sister needed to leave and she did, she moved in with us until she got on her feet. I wouldn't wish it on anyone but its easy to look from outside in and make a judgment xx

[@Autumnpearly]

@@sbd1033 couldn’t be me. It honestly sounds like your mom needed to leave her man too but didn’t just cause it’s not physical doesn’t mean he wasn’t hurting her everyday too and making her life hell. Weaponized incompetence is abuse too. So she should’ve understood. My 18 yo is in this situation right now and I’ll NEVER tell her to stop calling me regardless of how inconvenient it is. I’ll take my 11yo daughter with me every time if I have to. Imagine telling her not to call and she dies cause she couldn’t get a way out of there that night. She just called me last week at 4 in the morning to get her and take her to the hospital and I jumped up and did it. She ended up having 3 broken ribs and a skull fracture. When they’re that low in their life and feel that helpless and your own parents abandoned you they won’t have a soul anymore now cause in these situations they’ve already been isolated and forced to stop seeing and talking to everyone else so you’re all they have left. And going after him and constantly telling her what to do isn’t gonna work either. Statistically it takes a person 7-10 times to leave an abusive partner for good. Being annoyed bc you’re inconvenienced is no reason to EVER abandon your child. The police don’t help either and by calling them they’re putting themselves in even more danger. They cops literally do nothing most of the time cause with the man being right there of course the woman is going to say no to pressing charges. With it already being a male dominated field and it’s common knowledge that most white male cops are narcissists and misogynists who also abuse their wife and kids so of course they’re not going to believe or help the woman. I’m so happy that your sister got out alive and got on her feet. Many don’t including my Aunt.

[@emilymulcahy]

Harmreduction, you are endagering all 3 of your lives bringing your young daughter to that, call the cops ffs

[@emmyrose1802]

You do such a good job. I can actually listen to your videos while I work because your voice is the perfect speed and so clear. Binge watching!

[@Autumnpearly]

I’m so happy I found you. Now I can binge all your videos at bedtime for the next 2 weeks 😂

[@pennyndlovu7296]

Same here!🤣

[@ZaraV]

Yay!

[@ZaraV]

Haha 2 full weeks?!!! 🤣♥️♥️

[@aggieprats8029]

There is no justification but not checking on your family! I don't care if they're not close at all but if I'm trying to get them and they're not answering then something's wrong!

[@ZaraV]

💯

[@AngieLea]

There isnt but I think Lindseys family live with that decision every single day. So much so her brother commited suicide. I dont think anybody could feel more guilty than them.

[@Autumnpearly]

@@AngieLea they should feel absolutely awful for their behavior and have to live with this for the rest of their life. The brother killed himself because he knows that they failed her and the guilt ate him alive. They basically abandoned her because they didn’t agree with her decision. They did the worst possible thing they could’ve done in this situation. There’s no excuse for this.

[@bec9410]

While I do somewhat agree, the family had helped her previously and because they did she didn't see them for months. I think they were worried the same thing would happen again. And you have to remember not all families are close and keep in touch. Especially if you live with domestic violence, it's how they keep control of you by isolating you. Very tragic story for everyone involved.

[@mickistover4118]

A stranger could hand me a note like that and I’d be backtracking, not leaving them until the police got there. I can’t imagine just ignoring that note from my SISTER and going about my day like it’s just another Tuesday 🤷‍♀️

[@shakierrawilliams8615]

As someone who is a DV survivor I see so many people saying that they want to distant themselves from the person bc of the abuse but that’s literally what gives the abuser more power and makes it harder for the victim to successfully sleeve

[@L-n-o-v-a]

Omg “wait and find out” wtf that is the strangest response. That is crazy that he’d say that.

[@sancho8521]

... Mitchell, the bitchell. Hi Zara ! Sorry, I couldn't resist : )

[@LaurenJewel]

this case is horrible ugh thank u so much for talking about it!! may lynsey rest in peace. and i adore your channel, keep up the amazing work

[@stephaniewilliams4885]

Good video Zara! Wow that guy is the devil and should never get out of prison. What a sick freak.

[@ZaraV]

He’s so gross!!!

[@suzimonkey345]

🫣🤢🤬

[@gigi5892]

You’re one of my new favorite makeup true crimers

[@ZaraV]

❤️🙏 thank you sweetheart 💋

[@sandis700]

Who the fuck would get a note and not read it right away!!!! Sister or not! Anyone who gives me this cryptic note I’m not gonna wait until I get home to fucking open it!!!!!!! This pisses me off to no end!

[@Summer09824]

This case is so incredibly sad. I remember hearing it for the first time & it’s always stuck with me. How can anyone be so cold. And to answer the question “did you kill your spouse?” With “wait and see” is beyond bizarre!!!

[@write2btold]

Congrats on your new bundle of joy and Thanks for the upload

[@ZaraV]

Thanks girl! ❤️

[@MonicaMorillon21]

How do people even begin to chop up a body... ugh... it's so disgusting! And i am completely disappointed with Lindsey's family and friends. They should've done more for Lindsey.. and this could have been prevented.

[@sharenee143]

This is just so sad. I feel like he took advantage of her being pregnant and needing some one by her side. That was the first manipulation. She was venerable in that time and probably felt alone clouding her good decision making skills at that time.

[@lauraberry960]

I was married to a man like Mitchell when l was a teenager. I had no family support,and this guy was very abusive, l can't even begin to tell you the feeling of being trapped with no way out, ,The degree of craziness in these relationships immense. Just heating this story puts me in a weird headspace, l thank God l was able to get away.

[@ZaraV]

I'm so sorry you went through that- you are a strong person to have been able to cope and even leave!

[@sunnybearbuds]

So glad you are free.

[@alexandrasteves3847]

See this is why people need to be more understanding and aware of abuse. Her family should have supported her. Had they done that maybe this could have had a better outcome :(

[@sineadchetty8670]

I love your channel! With love all the way from South Africa! 🥰 Your skin is amazing!

[@LianeBrooklynFlgirl]

Why didn’t her sister show the police the note from Lindsay? She could have been saved

[@SouthernMimi2]

I absolutely love this spring eye look ❤❤

[@ZaraV]

Thank you!!

[@carmenmendez3150]

If the sister would have taken the note more seriously and took immediate action, Lyndsay may still be alive today. I don’t know how her sister could live with herself. Her family should be ashamed of themselves. The poor woman went missing for over 50 plus days leaving her babies behind and they didn’t see that as a red flag?

[@kayashley81]

Every time I need a new video to watch, you come thru !!!!! Much love

[@ZaraV]

Aww thanks girl! Love you 💓

[@MrsK976]

Here sister got a note begging for her help to get her out of that house, and you say “they didn’t want to interfere…” 🤦‍♀️ Her husband is evil and her sister and parents were not great family, either!

[@ZaraV]

I mean you’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t. I’m sure if I said “yes her family sucked and didn’t care about her” that would be an issue too. We really don’t know what went on in that family. As for the note, yes it sucks her sister didn’t act on it immediately - but personally as a lawyer - I’ve seen multiple cases of domestic abuse and a lot of the times, the victims family said they didn’t want to get involved 🤷🏻‍♀️ I do agree with you, a lot of people failed her.

[@banditpoon714]

Great job Zara!

[@suzimonkey345]

❤️🌹❤️

[@suzimonkey345]

Excellent video! Thank you!

[@rebeccalovell5072]

Im sure I'm not the only one, but I can weirdly relate to the first 8 mins of this video... and if anyone else is IN a relationship and can also relate, I'd seriously recommend getting out while you can, there is better out there. especially if your pregnant or have just had a baby, or have children. please don't be fooled by these scum bags.

[@ashleydailey7844]

Red flag for me that a 20 year old is interested in a 17 year old. She’s still in high school. Age gaps are not a big deal later in life but when it involves someone who is still a teenager it’s not ok. Also if someone is constantly accusing you of cheating , often times it means they’re the ones cheating. I wish the family did so,thing when they got that note

[@mtidas]

It is easier to go back then to deal with the aftermath of leaving. When u already are broken and totally drained it's really hard to find the strenght to keep fighting...

[@YESIMFUNNYAND]

All I'm going to say is I hope I never find myself in a situation like this

[@ZaraV]

Me too girl!!

[@sunnybearbuds]

My ex brother-in-law tried that crap too; showing up at our doorstep with his sister and saying my sister was probably cheating after he tried to steal her car. He doesn't have a sister. My parents sat to talk with them and I said "who is this person? you don't have a sister" and I left the house to go talk to my sister. They always try to get ahead and trash the reputation with the family.

[@ashandemi]

Good morning Zara! ❤️

[@ZaraV]

❤️❤️

[@suzimonkey345]

🥰

[@ladylane3344]

How can you say her family is ok? Like more than 50 days they go without talking to their daughter/sister??

[@laurenmelton1069]

I'm watching this 4 days after having a stillbirth and hearing that she had an abortion is really hard. Completely understand the reasons but man.

[@ZaraV]

So sorry babe. That’s extremely difficult. My love to you ♥️

[@laurenmelton1069]

@@ZaraV you're so sweet ❤ thank you love

[@HoneyBee-br6hi]

Wow! I never heard of this one.

[@HM-lu3pi]

Just found you and I am gonna binge your videos now 😅

[@Mds1214]

Her family failed her.

[@Sparkplug2286]

That little “just wait and see” smirk you are seeing on his face is called Dupers Delight. It can be anywhere from a micro-expression to a full blown smile. Often sociopaths and psychopaths (and many other personality types) get a kick out of lying to people and believing that they are actually fooling them. It’s gross - and if anyone ever meets someone who does that sh!t to you or others…. Run. And don’t look back.

[@brownsuga16117]

iDK about anywhere else, but here where I am from being a single parent is so common. My daughter's children's dad died. Leaving her alone with then a 6 month old, 19 month old, 7 year old and an 11 year old. I helped her of course and still do.

[@moonchild7449]

"Wait and find out" he was burning to tell everyone what he did. You can see it all over his face. He looks so proud of himself. Horrible husband, horrible father, horrible person. He could have just let her live her life. I'll never understand why some people believe another person's life is theirs to take.

[@kileyabel3758]

Do the magnetic lashes move and bother you through out the day?

[@MacT4972]

He’s pure evil; a true sicko! God please protect and bless Lindsay’s family and all whom loved her.

[@ZaraV]

🙏🙏

[@elonasavonin5584]

Wait what does she say in the end? Bositos? I always hear it in her videos but don’t understand it.

[@chaniecereed8681]

Zara! What brush do you use for your eye shadow?

[@ZaraV]

Hey girl! I believe I'm using a pride limited set here but all the brushes are the same from what I have linked below just different collections etc go.magik.ly/ml/1mf8e/ I hope that helps!

[@chaniecereed8681]

Omg! Thank you for responding!!! BTW I LOVE all that you cover and I always look forward to listening to you!!!! Xoxo-Lots of love from Dallas, Tx

[@Marcyy65]

I would have read the note in the fkn car omg

[@ANDREA-kk2gx]

He looked high asf in those TV interviews

[@SouthernMimi2]

Is it ever a 1 off type thing? I think not. If someone will do it once then they will do it again.

[@noemirobles7814]

Zara, love your videos thnx xoxo

[@ZaraV]

Thanks Noemi ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mini-Me]

I always find it odd that a man would want to date a pregnant women .

[@toldyaso13]

Why?

[@sunnybearbuds]

I believe in redemption for some...if a significant other is violent, they can definitely change; WITH SOMEONE ELSE. Do not take them back. End it after the first time. When the first "I'll never do it again" comes, say "I hope not; for the next person's sake" and get the hell out. If they did it before you had kids, don't give them kids. If they did it after, pray for a good lawyer.

[@rosedonaldson9986]

Her Sister gets a note to say help me?? And they do nothing!!! Totally weird even if they weren't that close, but that note should have told them. Very sad they did nothing!!!!

[@thesageromero]

Omg 8mins in and your literally discribing my ex!!

[@thesageromero]

I would have been like, we gonna give it another year. You can miss his first birthday. He won't remember it anyway. But I don't trust you yet. You can meet me at the police station if you want and have a little party there and then I'll have them keep you there for 45 minutes while I leave and go home and then they can release you. Period. But I grew up in a home with physical domestic violence so I guess that's why I say that

[@thesageromero]

Also how creepy he looks like one of my exs just more demonic! 😂😂😂

[@ZaraV]

Oh no! Haha

[@fefe1179]

The reactions of her family members don’t shock me at all. It’s clear why she blatantly ignored his abuse and fell victim to this monster 💔💔💔

[@mediii8057]

How the hell did her sister not red her note right away NOR CALL THE POLICE ONCE SHE DID? HER WHOLE FAMILY AND FRIEND GROUP FAILED HER 100000000%. Poor girl. This case hits hard for me. I was married to an abusive psychopath who took me away from everyone. I wished I had someone to talk to cause I was so lonely Her family may’ve not hated her but they clearly didn’t care much for her either. Because a family who truly loves their daughter/sister would go out of their way to get her away from him and if she was still keeping him around they would not give up on her they would stay around until she does finally break away so that they could be her shoulder to cry on and help her through her suffering. EVERY.FLIPPING.BODY.FCKNG.FAILED.HER

[@AuthoressDominique]

When someone gives you a note aa you are leaving, especially your sister, why would you wait to read it? I mean by now they know about her husband always has something going on. I feel her family failed her. Im mean yeah she chose him but that doesnt matter. look at the HUGE RED FLAGS! I would’ve been reading it before i pulled off. This is so sad.

[@Legallyblonde1xo]

New subscriber here!! ❤️

[@ariellespaventa3645]

Just subscribed!

[@ZaraV]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sunnybearbuds]

I've been told "you never really know someone until you live with them anyway" as a "pass" for early marriages, so don't knock them. I do knock them. Don't do it. Sure, you "never know" until you live with them, but why not increase the chances of improving your statistics? It may not help to wait, but it will usually hurt if you don't.

[@squishyluvsu09]

I binge your videos every night and every time I think the stories can't get worse they dooo. This is terrible 😢

[@rosedonaldson9986]

Zara this is the British prison system!! It's a joke the sentences they receive. They will say it's the law. Yet the law should be the Judge and Jury!!!

[@pamelawalker859]

Okay girls or ladies, here is a thought, pretty old fashioned I will admit, if you are unsure about a relationship with someone, maybe don't sleep with them?

[@LiamLewisofficial]

As Lynseys nephew, I'd strongly advise against posting false information. Maybe give some concern to the family it effects before posting videos without permission.

[@tanyachristensen5330]

His brother would help him dismember her body... Her sister didn't read her note right away and never did a thing to get her away from him. 💔😳👀

[@depp_baby]

so her sistet did nothing to help her after that note?!

[@auroramorris9741]

Eff everyone else wants to talk crap about ur eyebrows! I love them. Women pay a lot of money to try to get a pair of eyebrows like ur's. They just talk shit cuz they r jealous. Shoot, I wish mine look like ur's. Women talk about us females r supposed to support each other and be there for one another but then they do stuff like this. Try to ignore them and KNOW in ur heart that u r amazingly beautiful and perfect how u r right now❤❤❤

[@thalia3902]

What is your accent? Are you from NZ? Sometimes you sound American and other times u sound Australian. I’m intrigued !

[@ZaraV]

Haha, from Australia but I wasn't born here 😊

[@timp1955]

Hello Zara 😊👋

[@Hey___you]

“Him dismembered Lynsy”. Really? Stuff like that makes it hard to listen.

[@ZaraV]

Thanks for the comment. Sorry that made it unbearable to listen to. I'm sad to see you go! 😢

[@suzimonkey345]

🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹

[@aaaidaeldib]

You’re videos are great but you have way too many ads

[@ZaraV]

Thanks! I honestly just use what KZbin adds on but I will review this for future videos! Still figuring out this whole thing 😵‍💫🤣

[@aaaidaeldib]

@@ZaraV you tell the cases so well and empathetically, you deserve soo many views and subscribers the ads just might put people off, I told my sister to subscribe too! X

[@thesummerofsam]

Fellow crime channel here! Hopefully one day my channel can be as amazing as yours 🥰

[@inn2beauty10]

Ummmm he didn’t lie…Lindsey was the problem. Why TF would you take him back. Especially if your family and friends were there to help as long as you don’t go back to that damn lunatic. She was the “problem” from the start for her repeated poor judgment choosing men, having babies with men you don’t know, marrying a man you just met. Call me judgmental, but our actions have consequences. I’m not going to feel too sorry for this particular case. This one seemed as if the victim just walked right into questionable circumstances over and over again 😕

[@Iambrandyleigh]

im curious what law do you specialize in?

[@dianak3221]

Hey 👋 fam

[@ZaraV]

Hey girl!!

[@sewgeekdesigns9113]

That whole i wanna have a man’s baby is so stupid to me…first have a healthy relationship please..:😅

[@sunnybearbuds]

What do you call him? A demon.

[@timp1955]

Hello Beautiful 💙😍😍

[@sarahbeth9525]

R u wearing a wig or a hair piece?

[@ZaraV]

Hey Sarah! Nope all my hair! I just have a weird hairline 🤣🤣

[@Sparkplug2286]

That little “just wait and see” smirk you are seeing on his face is called Dupers Delight. It can be anywhere from a micro-expression to a full blown smile. Often sociopaths and psychopaths (and many other personality types) get a kick out of lying to people and believing that they are actually fooling them. It’s gross - and if anyone ever meets someone who does that sh!t to you or others…. Run. And don’t look back.

[@Ragdollcatlover]

There is a video of OJ Simpson doing it - he full on bursts out laughing. It’s horrible.