My father just passed on last week. From sickness to death, all it took was one month. Acceptance is hard and thank you Lao Gao for pointing out the important points. The first point is that fate cannot be changed. Perhaps it is fated for my father to go through. Nobody can choose when he/she is born or when he/she is going to die. The second point is that you can only learn to accept. You could have known your fate but you only learn to accept it. Just like how the alien knows that it is going to die or how the female lead knows that her daughter may die at 12 years of age. Despite all these, the alien chose to continue its mission and the female lead decides to still gave birth to her daughter. 谢谢你老高。让我学懂了一点生活的道理。