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@user-fv4ju1iw2m 2 ай бұрын
Same frequency. I way just discussing this with my daughter but you verbalized it so well.
@johnelmokadem 2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for commenting! 🙏🏻❤️
@tlee62 2 ай бұрын
Hmm thats a wee bit to ponder. Loved what you said about not being the saviour and the people showing are not wanting you to be that, awesome. I have always wanted someone to fix me and hear I am amidst a huge thought storm and Im getting curious as to why its here but I know why, Ive been way overthinking to the max about my physical body when I know deep down that my body knows what its doing and when I settle I’ll know what to do …if anything. Thanks John , love your work 🙏🏻🙏🏻💕
@johnelmokadem 2 ай бұрын
Thank you! 🙏🏻 ❤️
@kikiokol4537 2 ай бұрын
never interacted with this channel before, suddenly this video shows up on my homepage exactly when I need it. Must be a message from the matrix
@johnelmokadem 2 ай бұрын
Such a cool comment in the context of the video! So glad it was helpful! Welcome to the channel 👍😀
@Emberbernal 2 ай бұрын
Great vid! I want to take a closer look at what I’m resisting
@johnelmokadem 2 ай бұрын
Perfect! It’s often interesting the gifts we find when we go in that direction! Thanks for watching and commenting! 🙏🏻❤️
@user-sc4jy2hk5e 3 ай бұрын
Erm no I am a nice person.was I'm not like I was before the governments greed austerity.plandemic..now now I am not the person I was..especially with foreigners... I hate more now than I've ever hated in my life.. and its all occurred in the last 4 years.. why greed got greedily. And destroyed everything..we got angrier and poorer....no I don't care if your nice to me I be nice if your horrible then sorry.. me to
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting 👍🏻
@Jane-wv9bv 3 ай бұрын
The older i get the less i care what others think about me ,its great
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
It's so funny isn't it. I've spent a lot of my life caring about what people think in an effort to find the freedom you allude to, and yet it was a revelation to me to realise that when I stopped worrying about what others think, the freedom was right there underneath all that worrying. Thanks for watching and commenting! ❤️
@KingSausage74 3 ай бұрын
Hell no
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
Brilliant! 🤩
@lifeonthehighway6917 3 ай бұрын
Hi John, Yes I've watched Eddie Abbew's video you talk about. Another interesting video of yours here and it's looks like I'm be doing a lot of binge watching of your videos. Many thanks for your shared time, Steve from Manchester 🇬🇧
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
You are very welcome Steve! 🙏🏻
@lifeonthehighway6917 3 ай бұрын
Hi John, Just stumbled across this video and my what a video and well put together. 100% I've given this a like plus I've subscribed to based on this video as it resonates with me going through horrid family experiences. Thanks Steve from Manchester 🇬🇧 keep up the good work 👏 👏 👏 👏
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
Welcome Steve!! Thank you so much for your kind words and for the subscription! I hope you've enjoyed your binge watch! More videos coming soon! 😀
@user-fv4ju1iw2m 3 ай бұрын
I love how succinct your presentation of this information is. Clarity without emotion and this totally just makes sense. How many times do I have to remind myself? It’s not about me get out of their head.😂
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
I hear you! Me too!! It's quite often why I share these videos - to remind me and anchor the teaching that bit deeper within me! ❤️
@debbieroberts4009 3 ай бұрын
💖Thank you so much John, amazing listening as usual. x
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful! ❤️
@paulbassi 3 ай бұрын
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@BuddhaofBlackpool 3 ай бұрын
If I was to be 'myself' I'd be fighting with people every day and lose all my income. It certainly wouldn't be peace.
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
Hey thanks for the comment, and yes I hear you! I get the pushback, and I have certainly had the same thoughts from time to time. But what I have seen for myself is that the external world is chaotic no matter what. Personally, I used to try and alleviate that chaos by pleasing others. It rarely worked, and actually led me to not being at peace (either externally or internally) because I was in my head all the time trying to work out how to be and what to say. Yes people still object sometimes to what I say and do, even though I am not trying to please so much, but the absence of trying to work out how to be to please them in my head has led to a level of inner peace that was not there previously. I also used to worry that not trying to please others would make me care less about others and their needs, but actually it seems easier to be mindful of how to care for others when we are at peace internally than when we aren't. Having more space in my mind has also left more capacity for creative ideas to surface because I'm more quiet internally - a useful thing when we are dealing with how to navigate income and work issues. Just some food for thought maybe. 👍🏻😀
@BuddhaofBlackpool 3 ай бұрын
@@johnelmokadem thanks for this reply, very interesting.
@yeshuamusic5102 3 ай бұрын
Well said John. Not sure if you've ever read the works of Charles Whitfield or John Bradshaw but what you've shared here taps into some core ideas from the recovery movement and trauma informed therapy. Loosely in their framing, we develop a false/true self dichotomy and live primarily from the false, inauthentic & usually people-pleasing self while our true self, the authentic, unfiltered, abundant & creative self withers slowly in the dark. Great video 👍
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
Hey there thanks so much for watching and for your comment also. I’m not aware of either of those works but definitely resonate with what you’ve shared. The conditioning that takes us away from our authenticity happens so early that for most, myself included, it’s a shock to realise that there’s actually something (what for me is our true Self) underneath it all! It often takes a major shock or life event for that conditioned self to fall apart and whilst it’s usually scary for most (certainly was for me) when it happens the more we are prepared to let that illusory self fall away the more we are invited to come home to who we really are and truly see the power and peace that resides there. In today’s world where everything is in flux, for me recognising the power of that Self and its ability to respond moment to moment rather from pre-conditioned ideas is, for me, more important than ever. You might like the longer video called the deletion (kzbin.info/www/bejne/eWOVZZeQrcRpbJo) on my channel if this resonates with you! Thanks again for watching and commenting.🙏🏻❤️
@Anfstunes 3 ай бұрын
Lovely vid. Very genuine and clearly shared to help. Do you see any potential down sides to this approach to being?
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
So glad that came across and thank you for watching and commenting 🙏🏻❤️ In terms of drawbacks, it depends how you see it. I think the more you show up authentically, it can cause ripples in the beginning. Relationships and situations that aren't in alignment with you being more real will inevitably go through a period of adjustment. Some might fall away. Others might change to align with how you are being. But in my experience the more we drop the pretence and just be how we are moved to be, the more we begin to attract people and situations into our lives that are a better vibrational match to who we really are. These situations and relationships become more energising because they accept you for your authentic self, and so much of what drains us and actually takes us away from our power are our attempts to conform to standards and ideas that are actually counter to our normal way of showing up. As time has gone on I've found the relief of not having to pretend to be something I am not so liberating. And ironically it has freed up so much more energy and power for me to be at our best. I hope that helps?
@9parasqn656 3 ай бұрын
Yes. A great point Some years ago I was diagnosed with ptsd and it explained why I am the way I am. Often emotional, not tolerant of threats and very protective of friends / family. I've learnt to just accept it. Thank you for verifying that.
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful!! 🙏🏻❤️
@michaela-thiede 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the reminder.
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
You are really welcome Michaela! Hope you are doing well! ❤️😀
@debbieroberts4009 3 ай бұрын
💖Thank you x
@johnelmokadem 3 ай бұрын
Very welcome! 🙏🤩
@VickiMontague-FreeFromLimits 4 ай бұрын
I agree. Everything has its value. Thank you for sharing and I’m so glad you’re ‘back’ x
@johnelmokadem 4 ай бұрын
Good to have you here Vicki! Hope all is going well! 🙏🏻❤️
@user-fv4ju1iw2m 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your perspective.
@johnelmokadem 4 ай бұрын
My pleasure! ❤️
@user-fv4ju1iw2m 4 ай бұрын
Making changes in my routine ways of thinking and living are getting easier for me but the demands of explanations from people closest to me are frustrating. I get that my change affects them and sometimes challenges them. I suppose I have a desire for them to agree with my new perspective. But once I get comfortable with my new perspectives it is easier for them to adjust.
@johnelmokadem 4 ай бұрын
Yes when we make changes, not only do our minds object, but those changes also go against the concepts others have made up about how we should be too. So we experience discomfort and so do they! But I like how you are seeing that as you get comfortable with the process of this, it energetically creates the possibility for those you are relating with to do the same! ❤️
@tlee62 4 ай бұрын
Love this, good to get reminders to look the other way 😊
@johnelmokadem 4 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻❤️
@tlee62 4 ай бұрын
Absolutely where Im at at the moment John. Have been in this convo now for about 7 years and I’m now seeing that its not the ONLY way to see/do/solve/act etc. and that it is ok to look at and dabble in things that feel right at this time. Thanks so much for articulating this , grateful 🙏🏻💕
@FreshAgenda 5 ай бұрын
Great summary of the CFS nightmare and recovery!
@johnelmokadem 5 ай бұрын
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@robertsutherland6167 5 ай бұрын
Very helpful. Thank you John
@johnelmokadem 5 ай бұрын
You are very welcome! 🙏🏻 👍
@lesavallantine614 5 ай бұрын
Lovely to hear you again John
@johnelmokadem 5 ай бұрын
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@tlee62 5 ай бұрын
So well said John, thank you. I guess Im on a bit of a journey,as we all are , and this keeps popping up where ever I turn, feeling rather ill at the mo with the flu and as we own our own accomodation business we have to carry on working BUT we are resting at every opportunity and I have been saying to myself that I have to eat to keep up my energy BUT my body is getting very loud saying ‘No, No food, Im busy enough looking after you I dont need to add digestion into the mix 😂 ‘ and I think back to animals etc when theyre ill they dont eat and fasting is very good for us, my brain keeps popping in saying ‘but what if you wake up in the night hungry?’…not that we’re sleeping much . Bit of a waffle but found it interesting and exactly what my body is telling me, thank you 🙏🏻
@johnelmokadem 5 ай бұрын
So much change in the air and many of us are feeling physical changes with these energies. Make sure you check anything you are worried about. I know I often have to remind myself how amazing and intelligent my body is and how within me I Know what to do. For me that’s part of the process of consciousness growing - learning to trust what I intuitively Know versus what I think. Thank you for commenting! 🙏🏻❤️
@tlee62 5 ай бұрын
@@johnelmokadem exactly! I actually am getting something checked next week -just in case-BUT I’m about 95% sure its my precious brain in overdrive 🤦🏽♀️🤣 Loving what youre saying these days John, keep it up 🙏🏻
@jackydavis7572 5 ай бұрын
This came at just the right time John as l was feeling lost and doubting my inner voice. Which is telling me what l have been doing is not working and my body is getting tired of all this stuff lm doing to it. Continually having a wobble with what ifs and oh this symptom is back again. I know deep down l have to hold fast and listen to the inner voice guiding me but hard to ignore that negative thought continually doubting the wisdom coming through.
@dommccaffry3802 6 ай бұрын
Seems like you may have been having a rough time ; sending you love and best wishes.
@johnelmokadem 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the good wishes. Am certainly being stretched!! Sending love back to you ❤️
@tlee62 5 ай бұрын
Well that was very thought provoking. Seems lately this is what Im being pointed to more often…I wonder why that is😊 Thank you for those wise words John, I hope you;re doing ok .❤
@johnelmokadem 5 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful Trish! 🙏🏻❤ @@tlee62
@becspaine2721 5 ай бұрын
Great to see that you're putting out new content John. I love the way you share this understanding. Suffering has certainly led me to explore more and more about my true nature lately, and I am starting to sense the gift in that :). Thank you for sharing 🙏
@johnelmokadem 5 ай бұрын
You are welcome Bec! Glad you are finding the content helpful! 🙂❤ @@becspaine2721
@jackydavis7572 6 ай бұрын
So glad l found this video John. Have completely lapsed with the principles and suffering for it. Was so desperate today that l looked you up again and have been going through some of your old videos. I have reached that time when l have lost all motivation and am completely lost. I know when l did breakthrough how it worked so l now need to break the cycle of trying to control my illness and life again.
@johnelmokadem 6 ай бұрын
So glad this helped Jacky! Sending love ❤️
@jarkosaurus 6 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this today, thank you!
@johnelmokadem 6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome! 🙏🏻 ❤️
@susiedraper8543 6 ай бұрын
Really heard this john. Thank you. I’m not at the same place as you but sensing my understanding shifting
@johnelmokadem 6 ай бұрын
Hang in there Susie. It feels like we are being held through this ❤️
@cr8114 6 ай бұрын
john...my friend...where were you man
@johnelmokadem 6 ай бұрын
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@marymillett7719 9 ай бұрын
In a time of transition myself and found this very helpful and a prod to calmly reflect.
@ajwaines695 10 ай бұрын
Totally relate to this - very helpful to hear it articulated so clearly, John. Thank you
@maxali 11 ай бұрын
John doing what John does best, thanks for the nudge 😉
@johnelmokadem 11 ай бұрын
Thank you and glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻
@MJ-hx9tq 11 ай бұрын
I am a Hypnotherapist and this is exactly what I tell my clients. Amazing things happen when people learn to get out of their own way and just recieve.
@johnelmokadem 11 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you for commenting! 🙏🏻👍❤️
@ajwaines695 11 ай бұрын
Totally resonated with some current processes - my/our Left Brain is always seeking certainties. Thank you, John.
@johnelmokadem 11 ай бұрын
Yes and as I see it certainties don’t really exist and are much harder for our minds to calculate these days. It’s why we need to be able to cultivate operating much more in the unknown than perhaps we ever have. Thanks for commenting AJ!🙏🏻❤️
@elsdegroote1 11 ай бұрын
Love this!
@johnelmokadem 11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much 🙏🏻 Really happy it resonated for you! ❤️
@elsdegroote1 11 ай бұрын
@@johnelmokadem ❤️
@livinthatlife 11 ай бұрын
Somehow this came on my home feed. I’m a creative and overthinker! This was great to hear - a reminder to just let it flow and let it go ✨
@johnelmokadem 11 ай бұрын
Wonderful! So glad it was helpful! Thank you for commenting 🙏🏻👍
@yazkh9612 Жыл бұрын
Believing in something with all your heart makes you capable... even being delusional thinking that you can't die or get hurt makes you defeat five strong people if you get into a fight .. ideas and how our brain works can make you defeat logical ideas
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
Yes - that totally looks true to me also, and the more we see that's true, the less reason we have to get lost in the objections of our mind and the more we can trust the nudges of our heart. Thanks for commenting!! 🙏🏻
@yazkh9612 Жыл бұрын
@@johnelmokadem exactly, nice video
@davu1 Жыл бұрын
This was so relevant for me to reflect! Thank you John.
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
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@user-un3bs8jx7o Жыл бұрын
Thanks very helpful and rang true to me, thanks again
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
Glad it helped Sally! 🙏🏻❤️
@karimsabry9502 Жыл бұрын
I had an Egyptian Grandmother too who didn’t speak English either. She also radiated love & well-being despite her advanced years. ❤
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
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@jobrewster5617 Жыл бұрын
I totally believe that we are part of one collective energy. Eckhart Tolle talks to this quite a lot.
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
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@debbieroberts4009 Жыл бұрын
💖This totally is me. Motivation comes and goes x💖
@debbieroberts4009 Жыл бұрын
💖Thank you for sharing 🤗x
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 😊
@jimrach1986 Жыл бұрын
Were you outside my house? 😂 this was actually my anxiety story of living on a main road that led me to 3P that helped me see through my anxiety 🙌🏻 great share John thank you
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
Lol!!! I have no idea but it was a very pretty house!!! Love that the video resonated for you! Thanks for being here! 🙏🏻❤️
@johannehojlund Жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏 lovely reminder.
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome. Glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻
@danfowles8290 Жыл бұрын
I've had this same insight a number of times over the last year or so, being revealed through a variety of different experiences. The mind always comes in to conceptualise and over complicate it, 'it cant be that simple' I hear, but I am seeing at shorter and shorter intervals that this is the only way it works. It can come via words but ultimately it is the presence or creative energy behind the form that we feel. What an incredible thing to discover, and im so grateful to share it with others like yourself John. Please keeping sharing 🙂
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
I'm so pleased this resonated with you too, and yes I totally agree the mind often wants to complicate it. As I see it, that presence is within us all and it is our source energy. It's where our insight and knowing coming from. When it's our come from place more in our own life, it's acting as a reminder to others of what is in them. From what I see it's really all someone needs to be reminded of to connect back home and to their higher wisdom. Thank you for being on the channel and for commenting! 🙏🏻😀
@danfowles8290 Жыл бұрын
@@johnelmokadem Totally! I'm really curious as to how this insight affects how you work with people John, as it becomes deeper and deeper grounded within you? I know that this insight is often shared within coaching circles, but it seems to me that it is often experienced mainly as a concept, and to be truly grounded in it would be transformative but also potentially very disruptive for how our worked looked with people in the past, to whatever degree. I know this is a big question and I understand if this isn't the place to answer it, but my curiosity takes over, in no small part because I really see your authenticity and transparency in reflecting and sharing on these things.
@vanessamartin67 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant explanation of anxiety. Thanks for the simplicity 😊
@johnelmokadem Жыл бұрын
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