Yo Andrew, nice video as always. Just wondering if you work on any personal projects or anything on the side to keep your coding skills fresh now that you're retired from software engineering?
@PhlegethonСағат бұрын
but how much is it to FIRE?
@andrewxuСағат бұрын
I assume you're wondering "how much does one need to FIRE", it depends from person to person based on their needs in life, I made a simple calculator based on the Trinity Study/FIRE movement on my hobby website simplyfreely.com/tools/financial-independence-retire-early-calculator where you can check your numbers. I highly recommend watching the video at specific timestamps to get the idea if you're not interested in my story (no hard feelings). Best of luck.
@JamSon4102 сағат бұрын
Define “financial freedom”. What does that mean in your (!) case. There is a significant difference in difficulty of achieving financial freedom but maintaining a very high standard of life for instance vs. being financially free but living a very basic life in a shoebox.
@andrewxu2 сағат бұрын
hey there, so I'm not sure how far you got into the video, but as I've discussed in the video, this definition of "financial freedom/independence" is based on the Trinity Study/FIRE movement, where a certain % of my portfolio is enough cover the cost of _my_ expenses. You're absolutely correct in that everyone one's "lifestyle" is vastly different, which I also talked about in the video, but as per my channel and content, I'm more of a simple guy with simple needs. Hope that answers your question :)
@k101585 сағат бұрын
Can you do a what you eat in a day if you don’t use protein powder anymore post gym? And are you cost conscious when getting groceries when you’ve FIREd?
@andrewxu4 сағат бұрын
hey there, great questions! Someone else recently asked me a similar question about my gym and nutrition, soI'll definitely do a video on that one day :). As for groceries, I almost always only buy things that on sale for the week, and bulk buy things when they are on sale (like meat, and freeze them, or things that last like rice). I actually made a video last year about how I save on groceries (I should probably do a "refreshed" one on that topic sometime).
@PrabhuSiddharth-g5v16 сағат бұрын
I am going through your vlogs , its quite soothing,simple and feels like peace . The fear you mentioned here is also common in us tech developers.Loved your content man. A dev from India :)
@andrewxu13 сағат бұрын
hey Prabhu, thanks for your comment, glad you enjoy them :)
@TyphloLove5 күн бұрын
what do you for a living now? how did you navigate getting to that point?
@andrewxu4 күн бұрын
Hey there, I was working towards reaching financial freedom (FIRE) prior to burnout, but it turned out that the burnout was a trigger for me to pull the trigger early. I’ll be talking more about it on this channel :)
@Haniyehhhh5 күн бұрын
I actually love my job but hate the 5 day commute (dealing with the general public) and the heinous creatures that I work with/general toxic office environment. Your environment is everything. If it's not right, neither will your mind be. Inner peace is priceless.
@andrewxu5 күн бұрын
couldn't agree more, have to protect that inner peace at all cost!
@masoiaXL5 күн бұрын
Why don't you work for a non profit ? :)
@andrewxu5 күн бұрын
I think the "working with people" part still traumatizes me, I actually applied to several of them a few years back. For now I'm enjoying what I'm doing (making youtube videos, building tools for people etc.), so I'll just keep on swimming :)
@luckylz64175 күн бұрын
Great thoughts here! Thank you for sharing. Wish you all the best in the Lunar New Year!
@andrewxu5 күн бұрын
Thanks, happy lunar new year to you too!
@letscreate4895 күн бұрын
FIRE videos works well, check the engagement 🤔. Looks like need to make FIRE videos to reach FIRE 🧠
@andrewxu3 күн бұрын
haha FIRE-ception?
@ambivalenc36 күн бұрын
Fear of failure actually made me try really really hard. So hard that I was making myself miserable and I couldn't let myself to quit... because I saw quitting as failure in itself. I kept telling myself if I gave it more time, I'll get the hang of it, and it will be better. But the longer I did that, the more miserable I became. I am also in my mid 30s and have worked in software engineering for 10+ years. I really relate to what you are saying. Grew up in an immigrant family also made me very frugal, and I struggle with the same "fried chicken issue" you talked about. I always look at the price tag first when buying groceries. Sometimes I'm starting to catch myself doing that and becoming mentally exhausted to try and save $3... realizing that's not worth it... Haha
@andrewxu6 күн бұрын
That's really cool, it sounds like we share a lot in common! Sometimes I wonder if this "fried chicken issue" is a gift or a curse, or if I would rather live a life on the other side of this "spectrum". Do you sometimes wish you have less of this fear or financial insecurity or are you grateful for it and just learning to find the right balance?
@ambivalenc35 күн бұрын
@@andrewxu My younger self felt bad about being poor and not having what my friends had in terms of material things. I think I also related wealth and success to being a "good person" somehow. So my family being poor, made me feel that we were less "good". I don't think that way anymore. Especially with the recent US political scene that clearly shows wealthy people are not always good people. So I am grateful for my past experiences and it allowed me to have more perspective. I have the skills to 'stretch the dollar' if I really needed to. So I think its more of a gift. Makes me feel better if I think of it as a super power, and I just need to get better at controlling it.🤭
@jednamomcina6 күн бұрын
call Jesus and Jesus helps❤
@jednamomcina6 күн бұрын
call Jesus and Jesus helps❤
@jednamomcina6 күн бұрын
Jesus is living God ❤
@conorrichard98297 күн бұрын
Love this video style! I'm also very interested in the FIRE movement, but still have a ways to go (currently in early 20s). Do you have any advice as it relates to balancing putting $ in retirement accounts (traditional 401k/mega-backdoor roth 401k, roth ira) vs. more liquid accounts (HYSA/taxable brokerage)? Have a small concern as it relates to liquidity for RE (retire early) since majority of current funds are in retirement accounts, but plan to start building up liquid accounts.
@andrewxu6 күн бұрын
hey Conor, glad you enjoy this new style I'm trying out! Honestly, your future self will thank you for starting your FIRE journey at such a early age! A part of me wish I had only started earlier, but that's life, the journey is never linear and it's all about learning :) As for balancing the amount of money in retirement accounts, I'm from Canada so my knowledge of the US is rather limited. This is not financial advice, but I always maximize my tax-advantaged accounts (like retirement/tax-free accounts) first to let the growth compound in an tax advantaged environment, and then put whatever money I have left into non-registered/taxable accounts. Unlike the US, in Canada our retirement account (RRSP) actually does not have any additional penalties withdrawing early (other than just paying income tax on the amount withdrawn), which made it much easier to plan in my case. I should learn more about the US side of things sometime, I find it very interesting, but currently learning about the Netherlands side of things (as I'm planning to move there). I know there's another strategy called "Roth Conversion Ladder", so look into that. But I think if I did live in the US, I'd definitely set up a system in which can provide me a source of income to bridge the time for when I would "early retire" until when I can withdraw (without penalties) from retirement accounts. However, this quickly turns into a game of hyper-optimization and "guessing" when you'd retire, how much you will need then (which changes & hard to guess as I've learned), and how long you will live (life expectancy), so try not to get too deep into this game and remember to live a little 🙂, especially in your 20's and it'll go by in a blink of an eye. I think you're already doing great at such a young age to pay so much attention to your finances, and you're already doing all the right things (filling up your tax-advantaged accounts, mega backdoor ROTH conversion etc.), just keep doing what you're doing, so happy for you man!
@vivian1988 күн бұрын
A lot of your reasons for choosing fire resonated with me
@andrewxu7 күн бұрын
my tribe ❤️
@ambivalenc38 күн бұрын
I think also humans are greedy by nature. And the corporation profit from that by making comparison easier thru social media, advertising that reinforces keeping up with the jones mentality.
@andrewxu8 күн бұрын
very well put! it's like this vicious cycle...🤷🏻♂️
@ambivalenc38 күн бұрын
Yup, it’s really hard to realize the cycle and get out when you are stuck in the cycle and surrounded by everyone else perpetuating the cycle. If it took a person decades to get to that point, it’ll take a long time to get out and break the habits of constant consuming. I’m glad you share your simple life style to inspire others like me to strive for something different as well.
@k101588 күн бұрын
I’m surprised you eat the mushroom stems haha aren’t they tough?
@andrewxu8 күн бұрын
oh they are not tough at all, super delicious and nutrient packed. I try not to waste food, you should give it a try next time ☺️
@Jshudkpw8 күн бұрын
Thx for the video! How long did you work before quitting?
@andrewxu8 күн бұрын
at a full time professional job capacity, about 10 years or so, but I've been working much longer before that with several part time jobs at a time, even during university day 😅
@codyglover728712 күн бұрын
Loved it bro, I’m trying to take steps to become a licensed clinical therapist after work in tech for the past few years, it’s not for me and I view being an LPC as a chance to get into more of a relaxed lifestyle that I desire, one full of human interaction and growth for myself. Hope all is well just discovered the channel and really enjoying it
@codyglover728712 күн бұрын
Also incredibly relatable story I will come back to from time to time, my screen time is beyond belief, as I’m rising it here by watching this, I feel like even at work I can’t disconnect and have to have a podcast, music, KZbin, sport stream playing 24/7 while I’m in the office with my headphones on, I haven’t been going out and do too get drawn into the simplicity of home and consumption of online
@andrewxu11 күн бұрын
hey there, that's awesome! love to hear that you're following what lifestyle you desire and not blindly chase after what everyone else is doing. keep going :)
@Nam-ld2sm14 күн бұрын
I have a simple system where I set aside some money for savings and investing but I don't really project the numbers into the future. Maybe as you were saying it will help to motivate me to save more. So I'm looking forward to trying out your tools :)
@andrewxu13 күн бұрын
That's a great starting point, I'm looking forward to sharing more on how it works!
@akeilareid319514 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing, God bless you ♥
@jimluo911616 күн бұрын
I am from Guangzhou too. And I am worried about my English speaking and finding a job in Canada as a software developer after graduating.
@tangdexian332317 күн бұрын
no bueno hahaha
@CoconutPete18 күн бұрын
You know you're burnt out when you don't enjoy tech at all... I think this happens the older you get or have deaths in the family or other real life experiences. And in the back of your mind, all you're accomplishing is wasting your life (and others) staring at screens
@stephandhaene3521 күн бұрын
I've been a software engineer for 34years and still love coding. I have been working as a freelance developer for over 26 years. This to AVOID the politics that internal people often face. Being a freelancer, makes you less of a threat for permanent employees, because they know you won't be climbing the corporate ladder. This makes internal people more at ease when you're around and you can focus on what really matters: writing good programs with your peers. Your mental health improves by doing things outside: sports. I started paddel and running. Currently I also go to the gym with my wife. It helps us a lot, it clears my head.
@danielbalgobin311523 күн бұрын
My god am I talking to a mirror!
@gersmolders546028 күн бұрын
Nice memory for me too. I used to live there for 48 years.
@andrewxu24 күн бұрын
Where did you move to now?
@gersmolders546020 күн бұрын
@@andrewxu We live in France now. It was getting to crowdy in the Netherlands
@Fati2901M14 күн бұрын
Je venais en vacances dans une famille depuis les années 70
@HealthyMindProjectАй бұрын
Your video randomly turned up in my KZbin feed. Thanks for sharing your story. Glad you decided to put your own sanity and health first, and step away from a toxic envrionment. Peace and love, bro.
@FredericoMirandaBrandaoAlvesАй бұрын
Hey! Do you have an email address? Consider adding one to your KZbin channel so that people trying to reach out for business can link with you. I'm working on a project about "survival network" and "end-of-the-world lifestyle", which could be compatible with your "simple living" attitude.
@andrewxu24 күн бұрын
hey that's a great idea! I will look into making an email in the near future :)
@steven-cs8rrАй бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom. I’m only 22 but I think you are teaching many useful things that I can relate to
@andrewxuАй бұрын
hey Steven, happy to hear you got something out of my journey and videos! :)
@mavadeloАй бұрын
1:00 That happens to all Martins,trust me bro, I am an expert on the matter. Merry Christmas to you and yours Andrew.
@andrewxuАй бұрын
It must have been the name then 🤣, Earl has been very healthy this year! Merry Christmas to you too!
@David-ey7xxАй бұрын
love your videos Andrew!
@andrewxuАй бұрын
Thanks David! Merry Christmas!
@JTread2003Ай бұрын
I just quit my job after 2 years because the company really started to not value or care about me. I met sales goals and they just said it didn't matter. I realized that when I started I loved it, and now I dread going in everyday. I also felt wronged so I just quit. Not sure what I'll do next but I definitely feel better. Im 21 and have saving and still live at home so I'm good for now to find a new job
@Blindswordsman1994Ай бұрын
How long were you in the workforce for in total? Have to say I am very tempted to take a long break as working is just sapping the energy out of me
@andrewxuАй бұрын
as a software engineer over 10 years, but I've been working many different jobs before then prior to graduating, at its peak I had 3 jobs while doing school...i grinded quite hard when I was young. I'd say if you have the financial means to do so, you should at least take a sabbatical and explore the world or do something you always wanted to do. Life is short, don't forget to live a little if you can!
@vamostimowАй бұрын
You were born in nethrlands?
@andrewxuАй бұрын
my partner lives there, so I split my time currently going back and forth between Canada and the Netherlands :)
@zojirushi119 күн бұрын
@@andrewxuhow did you meet across the world? Online?
@ezraozaki2602Ай бұрын
Living frugally takes some serious self-discipline! I’m the opposite-I struggle not to overspend. Finding that balance between saving and actually enjoying life is tough. Props to you for acknowledging the challenges and navigating them. Good luck ৻( •̀ ᗜ •́ ৻)
@andrewxuАй бұрын
Hey Ezra, thank you! Good luck to you in finding your balance too 🙂
@rodhoutxАй бұрын
This is so relatable! I'm still working, but on my days off I have all kinds of plans of doing things. But if I plop down on the sofa and start watching KZbin in the morning and doom scrolling, I'm probably not going to end up doing anything. But if I can just get myself out the door there's all kinds of things I can do. There are trails along the bayou here, or I can ride the light rail to parks, attractions, and other parts of the city. When I had a friend of mine staying here temporarily, I was more apt to go out walking with him everyday and doing a lot more outside the home. I work in IT (App Development and whatever else they want at the time) and I get to use various technologies (mostly Microsoft cloud stuff these days), but not necessarily the ones I'm interested in. I want to switch to Linux in my personal life, but I feel like I never have enough time to REALLY take a deep dive into it before it's time to go back to work and context switch to completely different tech. Also want to do some travel and ride some trains, but usually putting it off.
@andrewxuАй бұрын
Hey there! I also find context switching hard, and I think it's one of the toughest thing in tech that often people (non-tech) underestimate. Every time I jump back into code or problem I have to spend a good chunk of time to "reload" (at seemingly dial-up speed) the whole context, problem, logic path/branches. I do hope you get to carve out some time to do all that you want/love though! Life is short, make it happen 🙂
@nelsonw9483Ай бұрын
So what type of FIRE are you doing? Coast, lean, fat?
@andrewxuАй бұрын
hey Nelson, when I quit my job, I didn't hit my goal yet so back then it was a rather risky lean FIRE, but the market has done well on average in the last few years since I've quit working (with the exception of 2022, which was a bear market which did worry me a bit), but now I'm in the "normal" FIRE range, but I still live like a broke student, lean and mean. I'll talk more about this when I share my story of unexpected FIRE journey :). How about you? where are you at in your journey and what's your ideal FIRE style?
@verteciesАй бұрын
Good video. Discounts are normal. Most people look for good deal when shopping. What for one is issue can be for another no issue. More intelligent you are the more you stress about everything. Touching grass is way to go. If it annoys you, you can buy chicken with normal price and reflect on it. Nothing bad happens, you will see.
@andrewxuАй бұрын
I definitely need more of that attitude and remind myself "nothing bad will happen", going to touch some grass right now 🤣
@2k7BertramАй бұрын
Good for you man
@2k7BertramАй бұрын
2:06 this exactly what I tell everyone!
@Fredsta4christ2 ай бұрын
and how have you been surviving for 3 years without income, Andrew?
@ImmanuelDsouza2 ай бұрын
Andrew Brother, I like your honesty and sincerity . 😉
@MeLoveParisHilton2 ай бұрын
Excellent video man. I have had these same thoughts over the last few years and you've distilled them very well in this video. It really resonated with me. Thanks for uploading 🙏
@BibleFactDaily2 ай бұрын
I find myself in a position similar to yours. I've been in the tech industry for over 10 years and have always loved coding. However, lately, I feel like I'm not as good as I should be. I used to work during the day and spend my nights learning and improving my skills, but now it’s much harder to maintain that pace. Having a family to support and a baby to spend time with has shifted my priorities. Every day, I go to work with a heavy heart, carrying a sense of fear and constant anxiety. I know I’ll eventually need to leave this job, but for now, I’m trying to explore non-tech-related gigs and side jobs to ensure my family doesn’t have to face financial difficulties.
@dianaa81252 ай бұрын
On the other side of the fence and I cannot relate at all. I hate work and where I live so much. The only time I feel at peace is my yearly month long vacation in Switzerland. Its just quiet, books, and nature. If i I had to choose to be stranded there forever, I would choose it.
@rawcoustic17182 ай бұрын
How can you get a home in NL without a job?? I work fulltime and have to share my appartment. Wtf is going on with these 'i quit my job but somehow can pay my bills' trends? Parents money or what? Uitkering?
@tom50832 ай бұрын
He probably built up a pile of money working in a low tax jurisdiction over a couple of years....
@andrewxu2 ай бұрын
hey there, to clarify, this is not my home in the NL, it's my partner's place. Mine is back in Canada. I can't speak for others (on how they've achieved what they achieved), but long story short I was able to quit and sustain a living because I'm *insanely frugal* and worked hard, saved aggressively and invested. Zero help from parents, more so the other away around :)
@rawcoustic17182 ай бұрын
@@andrewxu i see but i assumed youre in ur 20s how can u build this much wealth, but if u dont pay for the rent then thats pretty doable because almost 50% of monthly income goes to that or more. and i dont understand what ppl mean with investing 🥲 they never go in depth with that.
@andrewxu2 ай бұрын
all good, I'm actually in my mid 30's 🙂. While I don't plan on turning my channel into a "investment resource", instead I like to share my journey and learnings, so perhaps in the future I'll touch upon the topic of financial independence and more specifically how I achieved it. If you want to learn about investing there are some really great resources here on youtube, I recommend checking out The Plain Bagel and Ben Felix. Hope that helps.
@rawcoustic17182 ай бұрын
@@andrewxu ah mid 30s yeah this makes more sense now haha. Thx I'll look into it.
@teadubs2 ай бұрын
I love this, and I've been thinking about it lately. There is a quote from GS Bhogal which I think describes it well: "One of the most perilous illusions is that your real life has not yet begun, that your present existence is a mere prelude to some idyllic future. This idyll is a mirage that will fade as you approach, revealing the prelude you hurried through was in fact the one to your death."
@andrewxu2 ай бұрын
that's a great quote! thanks for that!
@lukas_koe2 ай бұрын
Really needed this message in my life right now, thank you for your contemplations