This message is not intended to overshadow your trauma or make light of what you've been through. I just want to let you know that forgiving someone who hurt you allows you to take back control. Forgiving does way more for you as the forgiver than the one being forgiven. They will always have to live with the fact that they mistreated you and their life will reflect it. Continue healing and moving forward because your best days are awaiting you. Love! -Joe
@JoeDewJr21 күн бұрын
Maybe my expectations was too high! #boosievoice
@quaizmurphy470122 күн бұрын
This was another episode that spoke to me. One of my things like that was said about continuing a relationship/connection with someone who you want to have a relationship with but they continue to hurt you and it’s hard to continue if that’s who they are. I disconnected myself from so many people because I was hurt and did not know how to have that conversation. But what do you do if they don't care or apologize for hurting you (expecting you to move on/get over it)? I look forward to seeing/hearing part two. Thanks, Love yall!
@JoeDewJr21 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching! That's a great question, we'll make sure we answer this in part two. The short answer is move on but we'll make sure to give practical ways how. -Joe
@LOLwiththeDews21 күн бұрын
This is such a good question!! I'll give you the short of it and elaborate the long in part 2. Without acknowledgment, accountability, and understanding, there can be no reconciliation unless I'm just opening myself up to feel the same way and have the same results. Thanks for the comment! Love ya always ✨️ -Amani
@LOLwiththeDews23 күн бұрын
Let's keep this convo going! How has family conflict changed how you spend time with your loved ones?
@quaizmurphy4701Ай бұрын
Love love LOVE. Again if trusting the process (showing how strong yall have faith) was a person it’ll be yall. Congrats to conceiving Dew little. May yall have a healthy pregnancy and delivery. Love yall🥰
@delainahayesАй бұрын
Congrats ❤🎉
@TheamanidewАй бұрын
Thank you Laine! ❤
@quaizmurphy47012 ай бұрын
First Congratulations on the move! I love how y’all spoke on so many things that I resonated with. Mani I can see you glowing (Brighter than before)! I love the balance y’all give each other. And thank you Joe for being the comfort Mani needed when times were being tested. This episode is confirmation for me. And the confirmation that y’all received when things were unfolding in front of you that was unexpected/unbelievable I love that for y'all! Speaking on surviving to Thriving (y’all made shed a few tears on that - I felt that). You both speak life into others (seeing the potential of people), so I am glad y’all stayed true to what you wanted and kept the faith because you both deserved it! I can see that TED talk in the future. I appreciate y’all sharing your experiences with me. I love y’all!
@LOLwiththeDews2 ай бұрын
@@quaizmurphy4701 Thank you for the kind words. We just want to continue to shine light in hopes of brightening the world. If it’s in Gods will it will be so. We comfort each other so that we can continue to reach new heights. Second to establishing a relationship with God you must make sure you’re doing life with someone who can help you reach new heights. If not you’ll never truly be happy. Change your mind, you change your life. ❤️
@quaizmurphy47016 ай бұрын
These are some good questions. Knowing how to recognize the signs, self love, self sabotage, it’s okay not being someone’s person just know when to move on, the storms was not meant for you (still at the beginning) but these are questions the people need to know some gems dropped 🤗🤯 Thank you
@MarcusDaniels-eb2jd9 ай бұрын
No woman is worth a $40,000 wedding
@kingrutse32789 ай бұрын
God says something about this no if ur loyalty to someone is based on what they promise ur a narcissist! And the worst kind. Money comes and goes people don’t.
@MarcusDaniels-eb2jd9 ай бұрын
God isn't real.
@joshuajewett41449 ай бұрын
Here's another red flag for you. If one of the 2 is waiting on the other to improve the situation for the both of them, then there is no point in getting married. If 1 wants something but is unwilling to put any effort towards the goal and is expecting to have it anyway. That person is probably just not spouse material. Teamwork makes the dream work. If 2 people can't work together amicably towards a common goal while just dating, then their marriage will fail. Or at the very least, be one filled with bitterness and resentment.
@Creole_Lady9 ай бұрын
😳
@susanwatson56549 ай бұрын
These black elites are gettin messy...
@michelleabner91839 ай бұрын
No honey it's people not only black color doesn't have anything to do with it Hollywood is white!!!!!
@quaizmurphy47019 ай бұрын
Yes, you have to be open minded.
@jozey5559 ай бұрын
it’s not your partners job to bring potential out of you…if you can’t do that for yourself you shouldn’t be in a relationship
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
Some people need help in different ways. I’m not saying date a lazy bum but being around the right people can bring the best out of you. Environment is a big factor in who a person becomes.
@Savrathmith9 ай бұрын
This is the stuff I told my friends and family but they wouldn't believe me. When I bought my house at 23, got two decent cars, and 0 debt with high credit score; As a college drop out. Now at 28 I'm just chilling as a bus driver just to stuff my retirement and use some of it for fun. Now they ask me, how I did it when they tried different things and research, and I look well off despite of holding no degree. The first thing I said was, "your first biggest mistake is you took out a student loan for your degree just to earn the same amount as I do with no degree. I told you to pay off that student debt when it was on freeze due to lockdown, y'all gamble it thinking the forgiveness is gonna come. You fooled yourself, do you think companies/banks/loans will forgive millions upon most likely billions of dollars? Hell nah, we live where the greedy are more hungry than the poor and would do anything to have more even if it means they steal scraps from dinner plates from the pooe, you think they wil forgive loans and lose money? It's clear why you struggling vs me chilling; Because I knew that stuff wasn't happening while you did😂"
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
I believe it’s the way of thinking. Some people choose to only see things from one perspective.
@MrKshaunsav099 ай бұрын
👐 needle found
@MsLuckywun9 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this! I love yall so much❤
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
We love you too!
@shannynhofmann91339 ай бұрын
I'm sending love and light beautiful ❤️ I'm sorry your experience with the hospital was like this. It's so beyond frustrating.... When Drs and nurses don't listen! I am so proud of you! And beyond happy you have a diagnosis💜💪🏼
@Theamanidew9 ай бұрын
I know you can definitely relate!! Thank you so much! I'm excited to have answers and walk this process down to healing 🫶🙏🏽
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
We not only have a diagnosis but a cure as well. We’re healed 🙌🏾
@kdent10629 ай бұрын
Professionals aren't professional anymore.
@Theamanidew9 ай бұрын
It's definitely been a learning experience. I always try to give grace as well.
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
Some don’t understand what it takes to be a professional.
@shannynhofmann91339 ай бұрын
This was great advice. Learning triggers almost became a boundary for me ...self acceptance that I get triggered by this and that... has helped me better my life. we have to accept ourselves as we are, and we have to figure what's best for us.😊🎉
@shannynhofmann91339 ай бұрын
To share my experience. Recently in the past year Maybe, I've just been almost laughing things off.... Like wait you said... I mean is that logical or ... 😅😢 Order I'll let the other person know I need a break I'm overstimulated and will have to discuss more later or next day when I cool down. Response over react. Sometimes my best response is to take a break and settle down some.
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
This is good. What I try to understand is most people are just incompetent. They really don’t know what they’re doing and only know how to operate from one place.
@quaizmurphy47019 ай бұрын
😂❤🥺🙌🏾 Y’all cute! I’m so sorry that you had to experience that. It’s terrible that the Dr did not their job nor have compassion for your pain since she couldn’t understand it. Yesss pray for her healing/being healed! Y’all have me rolling all the time. Loving the color coordination!
@Theamanidew9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! I wish I didn't either but I'm hoping my experience can help someone else have questions to ask their doctor and to seek a second opinion if they're not feeling well. We did color match didn't we 😅😉 The beginning of this is hilarious for me 😂
@Theamanidew9 ай бұрын
God is and will!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏽
@brettkelley10 ай бұрын
💪🏽✊🏽 Imma have to grab me something soon!
@LOLwiththeDews9 ай бұрын
💪🏾🤞🏾 We’re going to do something real soon
@AubreyDreamz10 ай бұрын
People living in western society are so delusional & self centred. You think the mighty God answers your pathetic western prayers but not innocent young children who really need them ? You obviously dont Understand how god works. Disgraceful
@wop818410 ай бұрын
Dont lie on God!!
@Theamanidew10 ай бұрын
Wouldn't dare 😊
@shannynhofmann913310 ай бұрын
This is great info, thank you 🎉😊 I love hearing of your journeys behind the scenes 😊
@LOLwiththeDews10 ай бұрын
Oh you’re going to love what’s coming next!❤
@jenievans853110 ай бұрын
It's great that going through that together made you stronger together instead of breaking you down and apart. Most people can't do it and it ruins something great.
@LOLwiththeDews10 ай бұрын
We knew we only had each other and to this day we’re going to do whatever it takes. Our best is on the other side of uncomfortable.
@theantiochianorthodoxchurc817810 ай бұрын
Amen!!
@feliciamoore632510 ай бұрын
I'm there, brotha. 😮
@LOLwiththeDews10 ай бұрын
He heard me and gave me this. My advice is be obedient in whatever you hear even if it doesn’t seem to be going good at first. We don’t despise small beginnings.
@shannynhofmann913311 ай бұрын
I am loving all of these episodes. Y'all have so much knowledge and it's beautiful that yours sharing your experiences! Communication is a BIG thing that we all have to learn what and how it works for us, in each relationship 🎉❤
@shannynhofmann913311 ай бұрын
One band, one sound is just so TRUE ❤🎉
@LOLwiththeDews11 ай бұрын
Thank you! Without it, it won’t work.
@LOLwiththeDews11 ай бұрын
Sure is! As long as we grow through the issues we’ll always overcome.
@shannynhofmann913311 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing with us ❤🎉 I hear, see, and validate both y'all points of view. My husband and I had BAD communication when we first got together and we grow better and better 💖 we both let each other know things bothering us and work to find a different routine, we also almost always end up laughing a lil bit later cause like yall said life too short. There is always space for improvements, we're all human ❤🎉
@shareenanderson162111 ай бұрын
Love it
@shannynhofmann913311 ай бұрын
I love this 🎉❤ You guys are my favorite couple always 🥹❤
@LOLwiththeDews11 ай бұрын
Awe! Thank you. ❤️
@kikimoney993711 ай бұрын
🔥
@otwvine11 ай бұрын
🔥💎
@terryhughes278711 ай бұрын
I met my husband during the pandemic on plenty of fish
@LOLwiththeDews11 ай бұрын
A true love story.
@shareenanderson1621 Жыл бұрын
Accountability brings results
@menmakerstv3133 Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥
@shareenanderson1621 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this information with us
@latr443 Жыл бұрын
Regus is Flagged as Virtual!!! Was good 10 years ago