Ty for adjusting your language - rather than saying 'you dont know' to 'you'd be surprised to learn'. That's a perfect adjustment and I am adopting this in my life. It's a new habit for me, but I really wanna get it right. TY!

Thank you for posting this video. I do celebrate Dia De Los Muertos here in Texas. Grieving the loss of my Mom hasn't been easy. Today helps keep her memory more alive for me. 🫶🙏We do an alter for her and our past loved ones as well.

Thank you for posting. This all makes so much sense to me! Needed to hear. ❤

I wonder if these people expect their partners to be superhuman? At the catch ups I attend with other widows there's a few who have been widowed for nearly 3 years and still seem to need their new partners to go through every memory and wipe away every tear. Sorry if this sounds harsh but at some point we need to be judicious about how much air time we're giving to something that only we are going/have gone through. If you still need that from the average person after such a long time should you have re-partnered yet? Coz in my eyes you're infecting the new relationship. We may not be in charge of how we feel but if we're grown ups we're in charge of how we behave. I know thats a bit harsh - but that's my 2 cents.

This video speaks to me. After my husband died last year, I totally shut down for the next 12 months. TV was my go to for just dealing with the emotional pain. A friend came by and was overwhelmed with how my home had gone to total disarray. They offered to have folks come by and help. But I wasn't ready and felt pressured. Now it has been 1-1/2 years and I have started to sort out my clutter. Taking one step at a time. Thanks for this informative video which puts "lazy" into a grieving perspective.

I love how Kelly mentioned the Catholic thing about burial vs cremation. I believe when people ask 'whats the right thing to do' sometimes they're looking for that kind of information.

I feel empty, nothing I don't care what happens any more

Thank you. Now I can see what my Grandma had to go through... she was extremly sensitive to all sorts of TV news... and I guess, she never really allowed herself to grief about her loss from all the things in WW2... I'm sending her a deep compassionate hug to heaven.

Listening to this mornings topic on grief, “feeling disconnected” explains my feelings towards others, after 3 months of intense grief, by loosing my beloved husband!! My attention span in conversation with family and friends is short - my time at this point is best spend being active and staying busy, being by myself! After so many tears and heart ache, I feel like my emotions are on a “vacation” from it all” - it is a big relief! I do miss my husband!

Thank you so much for this resource. I have watched several videos and have appreciated new information in each one.

Its not ok , I am not ok.

"Who do I want to be moving forward?" is a question that many grieving people have a hard time answering. The process is slow and it's hard to be patient throughout. The journey is so hard.Thank you for speaking to something very painful in grief.

Thank you for these, been sharing with friends in similar situations

Great to have this channel, thank you both.

Kelly, you have been my savior. I am coming up on the 2nd anniversary of the unexpected passing of my Trans Son Jace. Forever 31.. i am so grateful for you. Thank you for showing up to do the work you came here to do. You are changing lives. I know your mother must be so proud of you ♥️♥️♥️

So happy to see you over here !!❤❤❤❤❤

Education and validation are so important when dealing with grief, and this conversation opens up that dialogue. Knowing there is hope and a path makes such a difference. Looking forward to your conversations!

This is so helpful, thank you!

Thank you so much for starting this up!

Thanks for doing this!