Thank you for your video! I was doing much better but the pain has come back so much worse. It's been a month now... Is that too long for an extinction burst?
@thepainhabit83435 күн бұрын
if its the same pain then its likely to be an extinction burst. This is like being upset again about something that is ending or has ended. We can still be triggered. That spike could be 48 hours, 7-10 days, 4-6 weeks or 2-3 months, but just look at your skillset for dealing with this now. You dont need fear around the structure, youve got evidence that the pain is imroving, and got proof that youre recovering. Thisis a blip to be respected and see it as an opportunity to reset. If you hav eless fear of the pain itself that's great, but dont allow the fear to jump onto focusing on how good or bad you are at the process of recovery. that's just perfectionsism, self criticism or a sense of internal pressure. Allow yourself to be whereever you are and restart with what youve alreayd become good at. Your physiology sees you and it will follow your calmness.
@teresabarcia30939 күн бұрын
Please will heal fibromyalgia? Ty amen 🙏
@thepainhabit83435 күн бұрын
You can recover from the symptoms of fibromyalgia.
@janetfagan753614 күн бұрын
This is so wonderful to hear and I’m so happy for you. I am familiar with this and I also have Alan Gordon’s book. However there are certain conditions that you cannot use this for to recover from the pain they caused with this method. For example, sleep apnea. Sleep apnea is very complex and it’s a real situation. Once you get tested and you know you have it it’s sometimes very hard to find a solution. You can be completely aware of neuroplasticity, and all of the things you talked about which I am, but sometimes things happen that are real, and they do need surgery or they do need medical attention. That being said, for other things, this is a fantastic way of looking at your self. And I’m so happy for you. That being said, I am going to go back and read Alan Gordon’s book again since I have it :-)
@thepainhabit834314 күн бұрын
Hi Janet. I know people who have recovered from sleep apnea. There issue was real. The body is an amazing piece of kit and can recover from much more than we can imagine. 😀
@janetfagan753614 күн бұрын
@@thepainhabit8343 And how did they do that? There are many kinds and mine is positional. A mouth guard hurt my jaw, couldn’t tolerate the cpap, and more. Would love to know.
@thepainhabit834314 күн бұрын
@@janetfagan7536 hi Janet, seeing sleep apnea or any other symptom, pain or disease process as an end result means that there’s a process occurring before that symptoms appears. This doesn’t mean anyone is to blame for their symptom but rather than accepting it’s chance, genes or something they have to live with, there’s an openness to possibility for change. So if it’s the result of very stressful unconscious mechanisms that an individual had no choice or control of, but now are getting conscious and in control of, then the drivers of the symptoms lesson. If beliefs are part of those drivers, as well as actions, reactions, physical, psychological and emotional states, then controlling and regulating these can help create change in the only things an individual can control. Thoughts, beliefs, breathing, and movement - all chosen to take the body and mind to a state of rest and digest. Then stay curious and watch what happens to the resultant symptom that once was and change within it and from it is possible. The Way Out is a great place to start and there are many other recovery stories to explore, which may resonate with you if you do your research. Best wishes.
@killpicklevodka771015 күн бұрын
How do we unlearn chronic pain?
@thepainhabit834315 күн бұрын
By relearning how to feel safe. There’s lots of research on how to do this. Look up neuroplastic pain. Pain reprocessing therapy is what this lady used but there are many options.
@killpicklevodka771015 күн бұрын
@@thepainhabit8343 do you have one on one coaching?
@deborahr373222 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@deancomeau289422 күн бұрын
Is this EMDR you were doing ?
@thepainhabit83435 күн бұрын
No. There is a wide range of therapeutic techniques for helping persistent pain. Look up Curable to get an idea of this kind of work.
@karimsabry950226 күн бұрын
What about having a bath if there’s a lot of pain - better not to do that?
@thepainhabit834326 күн бұрын
Why Karim?
@karimsabry950226 күн бұрын
Would that simply create a false loop?
@thepainhabit834326 күн бұрын
Hi Karim, it is not a mundane question, its a great one. It isn't the bath or any behaviour that is the problem. It is the intent with which it is approached and undertaken, that dictates the outcome. The intent of wanting to avoid the feeling, the pain, the moment or the circumstance present, is seen by the nervous system as the threat itself. That is what it is reacting to. It unconsciously reacts to its own reaction - conscious avoidance of the pain and any potential links to it. Being conscious of getting a bath and knowing that it is a safe thing to do and you're being compassionate, kind and representing that state whilst using an objectively warm and soothing circumstance to demonstrate that it is symbolically very powerful. The details of any behaviour are insignificant because if the intent is softly focused on authentic self-compassion, they'll bring a soothing effect.
@karimsabry950226 күн бұрын
Genius Drew 🏆 great advice thanks - you should do this for a living! ❤
@thepainhabit834326 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@jennitaibbi263227 күн бұрын
Great explanation and message 👍
@theseventh5204Ай бұрын
Brilliant. Thanks Drew, will do!
@BadgerinthenightАй бұрын
Thank you Drew, you're so spot on.
@allanb52Ай бұрын
I began statins 5 years ago after a heart attack and double stenting. My shoulder pain began 1 month ago and have cut the statins to 2 a week, so far not much change after about 10 days, hopeful now.......
@theseventh5204Ай бұрын
If you're in chronic pain, you ARE delivering the gold! Great video.
@aileendowns2554Ай бұрын
Basically mind over matter ??
@thepainhabit8343Ай бұрын
Mind through matter 😀
@simonejohnson87942 ай бұрын
A wonderful conversation between two inspiring coaches in the MindBody field. Lots of wisdom and insight shared here. Thank you both!! 👍
@theseventh52042 ай бұрын
'The dog can feed itself' Cuts to a Jack Russell opening dog food with a tin opener, swearing under its breath. Have started to utilise this technique, its definitely calming!
@thepainhabit83432 ай бұрын
😂😂😂👍🏻🙏
@theseventh52042 ай бұрын
Love this! Two of my favourite mindbody practitioners in one video!
@user-hs7sd7yu4e2 ай бұрын
So great to listen to you both together! Drew was the first person to interview me as a success story after I recovered from 37 years of chronic pain. Tanner was my therapist through my healing journey! Both are amazing individuals ❤
@user-gv8up8wt1p2 ай бұрын
I follow you both separately, so nice to see you come together to talk about this. You've both been really helpful to me throughout my healing journey.
@starprice73892 ай бұрын
My mum has been suffering from chronic pain for 15 +years. I really hope she can find help and heal like you have. I read the boom The way out by Alan Gordon. I learnt a little bit of somatic tracking with her and it made a significant difference both times. She is currently taking many different supplements. But i hope to see her find a way through
@theseventh52043 ай бұрын
This was brilliant. Its late and I needed to get ready to sleep. I recently came off of a decades long benzodiazepine prescription and need to find healthy ways of managing my stress and anxiousness. After doing this I felt so calm! I will definitely be implementing this into my daily routine. Thank you!
@renadempsey8423 ай бұрын
What is the name of the doctor she just found?
@IAmHealed013 ай бұрын
Thanks for this. Does this breathing technique rewire our brain over time or is it just relief in the moment?
@thepainhabit83433 ай бұрын
It places your body in the rest and digest state. This communicates to your primitive brain that you are safe. The more regularly you use this state, the calmer you feel. It becomes natural to feel calm.
@richardstanleymaness57683 ай бұрын
Me too!! Bullet partially severed Perennial Nerve left leg almost 30 years ago. Fighting with VA HOSPITAL over med dosage again. Tried holistic approach and it failed too. When the pain people overrule primary care and restore my meds I can walk, talk and crawl on my belly (lol) again. I'm in process of suing VA. Opioids worked for me with no signs of addiction.
@sarahbolgerBolgy3 ай бұрын
Works like magic. Incredible. Thank you
@massagepublications4 ай бұрын
Amazing story Claire- thanks for sharing. I’m just starting to really know how much my emotions are driving the symptoms. Triggering the trigger points so to speak! I’m a body worker who has done a lot of work with trigger points on my clients. They should resolve after a number of sessions.(Peggy)
@kathleenwharton21394 ай бұрын
Jesus Said it to paralytics 2000 years ago! You are Safe and Free and Okay! The Pharisee Church had people Bound with so many rules. I am paralytic too because of a church I was told I had to go to and follow All their man made rules. Jesus Saved me too through this ladies testimony. The Fear of God. Thank You 🙏 So Much! 😊❤
@kathleenwharton21394 ай бұрын
I am Safe and Free I am Okay 😇
@AaronJohnson-d2c5 ай бұрын
Great case example! Such a powerful example to the patient to think beyond the physical realm only.
@yvonnekneeshaw27845 ай бұрын
Enjoyed the listen. Diagnosed with CRPS recently after an ankle fracture summer 2023. Apparently all healed but pain continues and into the uninjured foot. Do these books share specifics on brain retraining?
@thepainhabit83435 ай бұрын
Yes and they point to novel interventions for recovery.
@the1972bulldog5 ай бұрын
Yep. After 15yrs everyone left, Dctors have no idea. Going back to physio, pain Does Not like it at All. A simple twist or slip will lay me out at least for 2 days and Me, I was an Interstate Truck Driver. Go Anywhere, Do Anything at Any time of day to..... Doing very little. Chronic pain, that's the One thing in Life that's really kicked My backside and Kept Me Down. Meditation and Meditation is the only thing that has helped.
@ScottLilli5 ай бұрын
Hey Drew, I would love to email or do a zoom with Jane. I have pelvic pain for the last 4 years. I too just started to listen via Audible to Alan Gordons The Way Out. Awesome book. Anyway, please let me know if this is possible. Cheers, Scott
@@ScottLilliI too have brutal pelvic pain 7 years ! Head to toe as well
@the1972bulldog5 ай бұрын
I actually tore two discs in my lower back through heavy lifting at work doing interstate trucking.Had the two discs removed and cages put in but it's only gotten worse as times gone on. I only found this video as it was "15 Years". Very similar story, new house, child on the way but working 16-18 hours a day for that to happen just wrecked all that progress I'd made and i stayed positive for a Good 5-6 years but I still couldn't win a trick. So glad it's worked for so many. Thanks for sharing Mate.
@thepainhabit83435 ай бұрын
And you can recover too. Keep the damaged discs but let go of the pain attached to them.
@lalanellie83966 ай бұрын
So could this also apply to Rheumatoid Arthritis? 😊
@thepainhabit83436 ай бұрын
Yes. Any amplification of pain which is linked to certain conditions based on belief can be reduced without changing the structures or pathology through which the pain is experienced.
@LisHaggett6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, keep spreading the word Susan, I recognized myself in your story. About you being a perfectionist it can wear you out.Thank you Thank you Thank you❤️
@yvonnekneeshaw27846 ай бұрын
I’m being considered as having CRPS since I fractured my right ankle. I took CBT and that was helpful for depression due to chronic pain from back surgery, endometriosis, 3 knee surgeries, and more. Now finishing the ACT course but it sounds to me like the program Margaret took is more detailed. I have fiery shooting pain & tingling of injured foot and now starting on the good foot. I have constant pain and so when i acknowledge my pain by saying “Oh there u are”…what I can’t understand is I could say “oh there you are” all the time. The pain doesn’t leave ever. I live in Canada and not sure if that program is available here. Can u forward more details about this program? Is there online help? Thank u 🇨🇦 ❤
@thepainhabit83436 ай бұрын
An online option is the Curable app. It explains the principles to follow in recovery from persistent pain.
@johnathanabrams84346 ай бұрын
People who have no problems in life have easy solutions eg pain not based on any physical damage
@natalieg56016 ай бұрын
I think what you've done, and said in this video is really helpful. And I'm so glad you are one who cares enough to see us as a whole organism. I have had CRPS for at least 10 years, but probably earlier. I have Aces score, so you know right away I was born into traumas. I love how you told her to pause and see what it feels like in her body. Unfortunately for me, my body is keeping the score. I want to start trauma therapy right away, as I've never done before. My biggest injury is in my left foot, ankle, leg, knee into hip. I know it's spread over the years. I have narcolepsy, chronic fatigue syndrome after mononucleosis and epstein-barr virus, and IGA deficiency and many other pain syndromes all diagnosed professionally. Also I'm Audhd. So my brain doesn't function normally since birth. So these compounded. I have many pain flair during the day, others that last for weeks to months at a time. I'm frail. Do you have suggestions for me? Can I see you professionally if I'm in the US? Or do you even take on new patients? You understand the pain trauma cyle better than most certified doctors here in the United States. And I would love if you could respond to me, but I understand if you are not able. ❤
@thepainhabit83436 ай бұрын
Hi I've replied to you in more detail on the other comment. Kind regards Drew
@natalieg56016 ай бұрын
When you say "no pathology," do you also mean know degenerative disc problems? Like stuff that everyone most likely deals with for middle-aged deal with. Something Dr's. may think it's no pathology bc people have it with no pain or issues type of bullshit answer? Pardon my French this frustration I have is my own, by my own experiences in tons of pain. Some doctors will dismiss you quickly, and doctors who, won't believe your pain is real bc I'm a woman. And then there are great doctors out there who are incredibly caring and want to help. So, I don't mean to be harsh to you. I'm just wondering if you know the answer to my above question. I know you are great, as you were recommended to me by my sister. We both have CRPS
@thepainhabit83436 ай бұрын
Hi Natalie I’m sorry it’s been so hard for you and you obviously have a lot to deal with. I feel you would benefit from seeing a specialist in trauma therapy and not sure I have the right degree of expertise to be your first approach. I am open to new clients but it would depend on time zones and practicality if we were a good fit. Why don’t you explore the Pain Reprocessing Therapy website for a list of practitioners that you could consider initially. Regarding degenerative changes, whether these are found or not, they are not the cause of persistent pain, they just can appear in correlation with it. Pain can appear with degeneration and without it. Degeneration can appear with pain and without it. Because they may appear together in someone who believes one causes the other and is the only cause of their pain, is missing the opportunity to be open about other areas that they could see and possibly control.
@YourWellnessJournal6 ай бұрын
Great tips. Really. ❤ For pain, Consider trying hydrotherapy, which involves exercising in warm water. The buoyancy reduces stress on joints, and the warmth can soothe arthritis symptoms. Consult with your healthcare provider before starting any new exercise routine, including hydrotherapy, to ensure it aligns with your specific condition.
@dletts11827 ай бұрын
Hi Drew how about an example where someone is not looking for pain in their arthritic joints but perhaps has pain in one hip but not the other and has been told and possibly believes it may be due to arthritis. Is there an inflammatory aspect that causes pain?
@thepainhabit83436 ай бұрын
Hi Di, yes inflammation is correlated with pain, but is isn't always causative with persistent pain. You have inflammation going on in your body all day long - but you don't have pain all day long. Yes you can have an inflammatory process with an acute injury or condition and have all the heat, swelling, redness and pain, that clinically confirms it and usually this is painful for three months. Beyond that time you can still have inflammation and ruling out sinister pathology linked to that inflammatory process and pain is vital. But once cancer, autoimmune conditions, infection or undiagnosed fracture are excluded, and the timeline suggest any trauma that occured has healed, if there was trauma at onset, then the brain and body, and the nervous system connecting them are the main suspects for ongoing persistent patterns of pain, rather than other circumstantial evidence that may or may not appear with pain.
@massagepublications7 ай бұрын
Drew - you'll be interested in an arthritis study done at the University of Texas that the pain PT, Jim Prussack reported. Here’s the link: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYLXfIeCr6elp8Usi=A-Q0HalRRjKKjRWP I am 100 % sure I will not get a hip replacement as I work through this TMS journey. Took me almost a year to believe that I could. We are taught that arthritis equals pain and the research does not support that. I read a post on a pain coach's channel - a man with chronic hip pain/arthritis tried the TMS approach but ultimately got a hip replacement. All good for two years but then he had a trigger event and all his pain came back!
@thepainhabit83437 ай бұрын
Thanks for the link. It’s fascinating stuff isn’t it? 😀
@AaronJohnson-d2c7 ай бұрын
I love the comment about psychological flexibility and that some people don’t have that ability. I find this in my work as a physio. Some patients really get the idea of mind-body connection and take that on board. Others…no matter how many times they come in for various issues and we go through this concept, it just doesn’t sink in.
@thepainhabit83437 ай бұрын
Everybody has to arrive when they’re ready. It is hard to watch people suffer but I suppose our resistance to accept that as it is, is our suffering? It is what is it and we can offer our presence to the situation then see what happens. Keep going 👊🏻
@AaronJohnson-d2c7 ай бұрын
Phgh
@andrewzadow85557 ай бұрын
Outstanding, compelling story.
@thepainhabit83436 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@darrend20358 ай бұрын
I’ve had multiple surgeries on my stomach and those wounds have healed and I have 0% pain there witch is great Now I have chronic pain in other parts of my body that where not injured 🧐 To me this was the beginning that maybe this is real , maybe my mind is really causing the pain It’s just for SO MANY YEARS we have been conditioned to think something is physically wrong.
@thepainhabit83438 ай бұрын
Yes we’re biologically wired to first check for a physical cause. Once that’s been done and there’s no evidence of that, or any damage has been given time to heal, then ongoing pain is likely due to these mechanisms.
@pieter90588 ай бұрын
Interesting. How about pain from spinal cord injury? Neuropathic pain? Like only 60% have chronic pain after their injury? But once you have it, it's almost impossible to get rid of.
@thepainhabit83438 ай бұрын
Hi Peiter, it's interesting isnt it? if the trauma was the cause then all spinal injuries should have persistent pain and if they don't that means there are other factors related to the pain other than the physical element. If you consider 1:5 people can get persistent pain with or without a structural element, there are more clues here to suggest its thoughts, feelings, emotions and behavioural reactions that influence pain. Some of these 1:5 with persistent pain have no objective trauma but somer others with a history physical trauma have no pain. So if we accept that a spinal trauma is objectively traumatic, and at least 1:5 could enter persistent pain without physical 'trauma' then i feel its the multiplication of object trauma plus the other factors influencing pain which means its a higher ratio in those with spinal injuries. Without a spinal injury, there's real opportunity to be encouraged that recovery is possible in many realms and i suppose with the definition of currently what is viewed as a permanent spinal injury, the viewpoint of what recovery looks like is narrower. Accessing friends, social life work, connecting with others, physical activity, sex and relationships - in the same way as before the injury is much more challenging and the peace those things brings us, with the balance to life which is gained through them, then losing access or finding them difficult, may explain why pain when it does appear, seems much harder to overcome. The good news is that a life free from persistent pain is possible, no matter what structure one believes is causative, and unchangeable, pain can always be changed.
@karlmullowney9989 ай бұрын
I ASKED YOU THIS QUESTION . ((((( STOP WOFFLING AND GET TO IT )))))) !!!!!!
@RUDEMASTER9 ай бұрын
I live here in Fresno, California. So when it's 730 there. What time would it be here in California? I would like to catch your video meeting live
@thepainhabit83438 ай бұрын
Sorry i missed this message. I'll put up the recording in the group soon. cheers Drew