My father died suddenly and unexpectedly when I was 17. The shock devastated our entire family.

Woah!!! “It’s not a betrayal to change your life, because your life changed without your permission” - that is gold!!! Thank you for this conversation; I really needed this ❤️‍🩹

For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness evil in high places. Ephesians 6:12

I made a HUGE foolish mistake at my workplace. It jeopardized my dream career job i love.!! That's stressed me to a level i couldn't control. No sleep for countless days .. anxiety with panic. I lost it. I lost my mind. , lost my job..... It devastated me. I have severe depression. I lost interest in myself and life. Im isolating in apathy. Having suicidal thoughts, and cry. Im loosing my mind. Mental illnesses.. just suffering.

This was so helpful. Ty. The only thing is, I can’t go to funerals anymore. Since losing my Dad. It makes me sad that some may cut off friendships if a friend can’t go to their loved ones funeral. I freeze up & get anxiety attacks at the thought of going to a funeral home ever again. 🤍

I cannot find the cost for David’s grief educator certificate program anywhere. Can someone let me know how much it is?

I feel best allowing myself to feel both simultaneously, feeling the loss of his physical presence at the same time as acknowledging he is Always with me in Spirit. Even though feeling the impact of his physical absence can be scary, uncomfortable, and deflating, I can feel there is space for both, who I AM in my entirety (Being) is Big enough for this paradox ❤

20:57 Faith & Hope Hospice would not allow my wife to go for a scan, even after I said I would pay for it myself, they said it was against their policy.

Julie laughs at the worst times. She knows that people facing grief are watching this video, so it makes it more foolish.

David is very articulate.

So refreshing that someone is actively educating and sharing the truth. Special thanks to you, Nurse Julie - just purchased your book. I'm the only lay-person I know willing to talk about this life moment.

Rip Cameron Boyce Sorry Libby And Victor And Maya That Your This Grief World

To say that affairs happen in good relationships is totally insane. Unfaithfulness and betrayal is the very definition of a bad relationship.

Important and enlightening discussion. Thank you for having it.

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I lost my lovely wife of 51 years on Valentine's Day this year. I'm still struggling with it. And like Garrick mentioned, it's hard to accept the fact that you can't change it. Very encouraging video. I still talk to Rosie every day. If I leave the house, I tell her where I'm going and I always yell, "I'm home" when I return. I thought I was crazy until I watched this video and learned that other people do it too.

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How can we join your group?

What is there not to admire about Dr Miller……

Billy has more hair in 2024 than he had in 1991.

Thank you so much for this video and all the videos that you've done. I'm very happy to have found such an expert of grief and able to communicate effectively your wisdom with compassion and love. I also loved Dr Melody Moore very much ❤

I like Natasha.

This is an amazing gift today thank you 2024

David you are so brave. I know your son is proud of you.

My person died but 1000 people came or sent cards. Anyone who impacted that many lives, in death is inspiring

Sometimes for a second, years later I still think "I can't wait to tell this person" but then I remember they are gone

I'm 27 and my parents just told me the truth about themselves. They thought I couldn't handle the truth. I had already figured out there was something going on, despite learning about their very sketchy past, my view of them hasn't changed

I was two years or so into my role as a Hospice nurse in 1995 when my beloved father, was killed by a drunk driver, just out of the blue. I was 35. Ii struggled. I had been a single mom, 2 young kids, one in diapers when I put myself through nursing school. I was already so exhausted! My poor kids!! Anyway, many years later, after working my entire adult life as a medical professional, burnt-out from corporate medicine and all of that, when in 2015, I was down post (flubbed) spinal fusion surgery. In March my eldest took my 3 grandchildren across country to Florida from WA state. Then the first of June I was notified that my oldest brother (of 6 boys, 2 girls,) had passed away. He had not been healthy for years, especially just before his death. Then the 18th of June, while sitting at the neurosurgeons office for a follow up appointment, my mom called and said that #3 brother- close to his 62nd birthday, had been killed in a tree falling accident on the job! He was the healthiest, most athletic of all 8 of us, and loved working in the woods his whole life!! My niece took it very hard. I realized that she herself was just 35 years old when she lost her father. Many times I've felt that I was nothing but ashes. My greatest interpersonal growth, my spiritual growth, has come from so many of these events in our lives. I have my mom who will be 90 this year, living up the road. I still have a sister and 4 brothers. A spouse, etc., which will bring more experience with each passing- unless I go first, I suppose. 😉. This is a learning planet for our higher self, our spirit or soul self. These human imperfect bodies are just the vessels that carry us through this low vibrational existence, we have come freely and have pre-planned our destinies. We have lessons to learn and will reincarnate until we have learned all that we need to know. The goal is to achieve enlightenment through attaining unconditional love for all others, and in that we reach the truth that there is no "hell," and heaven is simply that celestial home of the highest vibrational frequency, and an overwhelming sense of love and peace. There is no time there. There are no conflicts like here on earth, as we no longer are tethered by a body with something called "free will." To achieve the unconditional loving vibration, we must learn to over ride our human conditioned triggers and physiological response of the body to triggers, and put all of that input from the body aside focusing on raising your own vibration, and helping to bring other's vibrations up as well. Constant research has brought me so far, there is so much forbidden knowledge that is coming to light now, archeological evidence, James Webb Telescope, Quantum physics, and beyond. My influences- Marianne Williamson, Dolores Cannon, Robert Edward Grant (who discovered a new room in the Great pyramid of Giza recently,) and Billy Carson, Gregg Braden, and so many more!! We exist in a world based off of lies, many many from the Vatican and many doctrines that use stories, like the epic of Gilgamesh which is the story of Noah's Ark in the Bible, but not the accurate depiction of the flood or any of it. We are at a precipice as a global population, more and more will be discovered as is predicted when the time is right. Thoth the Atlantean...

I’m pleased to have found your platform. My wife Kathy died suddenly two months ago. I am crushed. Kathy and I had a loving relationship that very few couples ever get to experience which makes it even more difficult to float down that river you talk about. But I’m trying. Learning about your past gives me the confidence to listen to you.

Thank you so much I've found something I was searching for a while

Wow this is very helpful, grief for young adults is not often talked about

Missing my son. So much pain. Thank you for your videos ❤

I can absolutely relate

Oh yes people pleaser for sure

Drs are part of the problem

Mental health or brain health? I prefer brain health!

Further to my previous comment, it's so hard to know whether to talk to him about it or not. Glad it came up ❤

My 14 year old also REFUSES to discuss it. It terrifies me. I take him to counselling and give him his space..

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Hi David❤ When will you know that you remember with more love than pain? I mean Is it when you never cry again for your love one?

Thoughts of suicidal thoughts after Mom's death

I'm in this phase now

Now I feel like , is this real ???

Looks like her mother

She was 20, i was 12

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Bruce from Nashville

Dawn from Perth, Ontario, Canada

Thank you so much. ❤️