I totally agree with you Debra. We have to protect our kids
@blessedone88062 жыл бұрын
people need to talk about these people taking the oath for money. all stars take it... gospel too. marry a devil, thank GOD he got you out sis. GOD bless you for telling your story.
@alexandriahatten21672 жыл бұрын
I admire your courage to tell your story. I hope that people will see that this is your story and you have a right to tell it.
@jennyatherton59222 жыл бұрын
How is she Debra winans if she's been divorced for yrs. Wouldn't she of changed her name by now🤔
@sassia36242 жыл бұрын
Debra girl don't worry about that,you are so beautiful and attractive. I like your style.Be Bless
@olgaharris11032 жыл бұрын
My words EXACTLY - “ I felt like I was dying”‼️. I left after 43 years. You dying, and your spouse doesn’t see your pain. You never get over not feeling loved. I applause her for leaving a LOVELESS marriage! It feels BETTER. 🤗
@rickynaidoo18762 жыл бұрын
It may be too late but to let everyone know that marriage is the first institution by God himself. No matter how many Grammy awards u achieve in life.if you failed your marriage you failed it all.
@AABB-qr5vy2 жыл бұрын
Yea. This was such a great video to watch. Thanks Debra for keeping it real in Christ. 😊
@peggysmith77972 жыл бұрын
Ive been looking at videos and other information about the winans . I love the songs and the family just from what I've seen and read. I love that you're letting people know . How things were in your marriage but I also think that people of God need to realize that, we have to say I am sorry for what I did to you. No matter what you feel/ felt was right. We ALL know what we did was wrong and not call for. I think a lot of Bebe and I do believe if he hasn't already. He does owe you two sincere words. " I'M SORRY " it is the enemy job to make us think that NOTHING we did was wrong. He said/ says he's a man of God and I TRUELY!!!!! Believe he is but he is human also. You have to stay strong and we loved who we love.
@mapitsorangaka10303 жыл бұрын
Who is going to believe you? The price of getting married to this popular powerful man.
@troublemcfadden43653 жыл бұрын
Them Winans Brothers Ain't Right 😑🤨
@ct5803 жыл бұрын
Bless you Ms. Debra.
@lasavinegivens92953 жыл бұрын
I saw this for the first time yesterday on Larry Reid Live. One thing for sure this is a Classy Lady who has the ability to destroy who wronged her, yet chooses not to. She's a great example of" Leave Them To God" while getting the lesson so the pattern of abuse doesn't continue to happen in one's life.
@paulinejoyner26943 жыл бұрын
If he was that bad you stay there for nine years with no kids you could have left . NO MONEY AND FAME will make you STAY
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I don't why 16 years of marriage! Women are afraid of being alone and they put up with lots of stuff too. And why have another kid? If Bebe was not being a good husband? And they complain about the husband? But enjoy the intimate realations with them. And no Babies don't change the situation why do they think that?
@paulinejoyner26943 жыл бұрын
I feel listening to her something don't sound right with her story no one was there and to me she trying to destroy him
@motivationforlife4443 жыл бұрын
Divorce is not an option...via the word of God debrah
@lolaridner29083 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻
@diontenelson11163 жыл бұрын
That was a bop Lexi lol
@diontenelson11163 жыл бұрын
Miss the Lexi show
@diontenelson11163 жыл бұрын
Oh okay. That’s be be wife not the. Blood family member. That sang in da 90s
@diontenelson11163 жыл бұрын
How many debras is it in they family
@CeliniacForLife2 жыл бұрын
4 of them: Debra (BeBe’s ex-wife); Deborah (Carvin’s ex-wife), Deborah Joy (Carvin and Deborah’s daughter), and Debbie (Carvin and BeBe’s youngest sister).
@joannmarshall5757 ай бұрын
I know right 😅
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Wow i really don't know what to say. I saw all three of the interviews about her marriage. I'm not going say she lying either I'm going say she not being honest. as a believer.we refuse to believe that any man of gospel could do these things, but we can't say didnt happen either all we know that some men's are saved but not delivered from some issues, rather be anger others thing's have not brought before God. I noticed over years on utube channel been.seeing men's of God that been involved some kinda of physical abuse with their wife, so everyone not lying on husband its crazy but true anytime hit news. Just five months ago its was all on new and utube this pastor killed his beautiful wife because she was divorcing him, he couldn't deal with her leaving the spirit of rejection so that's why killed her, so don't say this kinda stuff is not going on the devil will use whoever's let him.I'm glad she free and happy now.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
She beautiful lady but i find it hard to believe that bee bee would do that but old saying go like this you never know what's going on behind close doors only God knows the truth. But glad she move on
@feliciajohnson8273 жыл бұрын
Praise God for this message I know it's old but it's still relevant and helpful to me
@sarannec12823 жыл бұрын
Churchianity and religious stock does *NOT* gain any of us favor with the Lord. Salvation is by Christ ALONE. We ALL must be born anew.
@dedrachambers87223 жыл бұрын
I Believe her.....
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
I do now after seeing all three viedos she has nothing lose its just people can't believe bee bee would do that i was feeling that way to but know this stuff happens just look on utube last past years this all been looking at men's of gospel abused their wife
@estherkeeling7773 жыл бұрын
Based on what she says I think Bebe is hurt and needs to work through his pain
@karenpinglora41453 жыл бұрын
Don’t know what to believe when people promoting a book or business ventures, but why stay in the relationship when there is abuse, she has a lot of big brothers and families to go to ,and why it takes so long to come forward ?????
@dorothybailey86043 жыл бұрын
Silence is not golden! She is a strong and courageous woman, to speak out about spousal abuse in her marriage. I love the Winans, I love BB Winans, his fame doesn't make him perfect, he is human with human emotions. Putting hands on a woman is not acceptable, this stuff needs to be exposed especially in the Church! Pastor's abusing their wives. Thank you Lady Debra Winans.
@MJ-hg1yx3 жыл бұрын
I found it interesting that she said she paid her tithes, and nothing changed. That prosperity ministry was a strange phenomenon through which many of us were taught to buy God's help. Which is absolutely impossible.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen That's dont change person only God can
@MJ-hg1yx3 жыл бұрын
@@fredajohnson506, You're right! God only changes the character of a man with that man's (human's) permission...God does not violate our will. He gave us command over it.
@phyllisb-chronicles33583 жыл бұрын
He was cleared. Enough said
@thegospel3917 ай бұрын
He wasnt cleared!!!! He chosed a sort of plea bargain!!!!!!🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@OhYeahTheNightNurse3 жыл бұрын
They spoke two different love languages.
@prazup494 жыл бұрын
That was good, life is not over, just altered.
@katherineday90934 жыл бұрын
I’m glad she made it out!!!! I love her strength and her encouragement!!!!
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen because she could of easily stay in it for money because he started making it big but money don't mean nothing if not happy
@anitafoxworth65644 жыл бұрын
You help me and I'm not even married 🙌🏿
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen its make think twice about getting married if this happening to men's of God it's such ashame
@eyram50984 жыл бұрын
Aawww love this woman . She is so beautiful and godly, such a shame about the marriage but that was really insightful
@camprich67684 жыл бұрын
Bebe does not love women You should have known that Before heading down the aisle with him Those people are all about celebrity And married to a woman because of their christianity status Doesn't always mean they are into women.
@tcouture74253 жыл бұрын
And the Asian boys that are in Bebe’s house right now are sus to me
@camprich67683 жыл бұрын
@@tcouture7425 what does that mean?
@dionnenorman95673 жыл бұрын
What is sus?
@dionnenorman95673 жыл бұрын
What are they into your saying all the men & women of the winans are
@camprich67683 жыл бұрын
@@tcouture7425 what do you mean?
@cookiesims21944 жыл бұрын
It takes two...😳
@fancyfaceamalia46744 жыл бұрын
😚 LOVE u Debra. .u a great woman. ..
@dignifiedblackman47424 жыл бұрын
Bebe wanted a man that's why he didn't wanna be bothered with you so sad but it happens all the time with closed gay men.
@dignifiedblackman47424 жыл бұрын
Lexi was such a good host she should relaunch her show on KZbin
@karong70174 жыл бұрын
Most men are broken and damage others. Shame! Women's greatest threat, problems, and hurt comes from a man. Don't allow it.
@deborahking6744 жыл бұрын
God knows our heart and he ALWAYS gives SECOND CHANCES! Thank God for his endless grace and mercy
@roshellelewis59023 жыл бұрын
Amen
@ZMS7774 жыл бұрын
Bitter
@sugamama2jackson494 жыл бұрын
Who is the lady in the red dress in the picture? She looks so familiar! It’s racking my mind!