I've never seen Ms. Winans before or heard her speak about her marriage to Bebe, but what she is saying rings true to me. I'm married to a man in the church that in 20 yrs. of marriage, has NEVER said he was sorry for anything, and he's quiet as a church mouse in the pew, but a yeller at home. There is sometimes great deception in what goes on in and out of the church and home.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen its because they hide true colors in front of pastor but can't hide from God you would think that a MOG wouldn't be caught in this kinda mess they are supposed be example to world not act like them that its better off some times being single
@shawnpreston16399 жыл бұрын
Lord knows I love me some Winans, but I believe this woman. I no longer let my love or admiration for a person not allow me to see truth. She is hitting home to familiar things I went through. It doesnt change my views about Bebe, it just proves that even the best church folks are still human.
@smc17746 жыл бұрын
shawn preston, Well said. I agree with you 100%👍👍👍👍
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen its don't change how feel about him just more shocked because he seems so humble
@godschildyes12 жыл бұрын
She doesn't sound deceived to me. She sounds like a brave woman who woke up and got out of her denial. I love Bebe to, but this is a brave woman! We church folk love to smooth over hard situations like this and just say it's the Devil's fault & Jesus will fix it. NO We need to take real responsibility. This is why unsaved people think we are a joke. We turn a blind eye and deaf ear to real issues that are embarrassing and unpleasant. I support her while still loving BeBe.
@ThePatient7denim4 жыл бұрын
Why we in the church don’t take responsibility for our actions or non actions is beyond me.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen you right but truths always come out
@godschildyes3 жыл бұрын
@@fredajohnson506 Amen! Always! Thank you!
@godschildyes3 жыл бұрын
@@ThePatient7denim Beyond me too! I think it's pride!
@kevseb6614 жыл бұрын
It cracks me up reading all these posts suggesting Debra & Lexi are trying to ruin BeBe Winans. His own behavior speaks for itself and WILL bring him down if he doesn't confront his demons & do right by the mother of his children. I believe Debra is only freeing her soul by telling her truth which she has every right to do. The problem is many of you all don't want your precious "IMAGE" of your beloved Mr. Winans blemished in any way so, of course, she just has to be lieing.
@shawnmanley232911 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord for your kind words and frankness about your situation. You are right the world loves the Winans family and sometimes we forget they are human too. I am so proud to know that you choose to get up and take charge of your life. Your children will now become different human beings in Christ because their Mom stood up for righteousness not religious practices. I will always love Bebe Winans and now I love you too for becoming the women God has called you to be. My prayers are with You, Bebe and the children as you travel this road. Love you your sister in Christ!
@godschildyes12 жыл бұрын
Oh but her story still matters.... and I am proud of her.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen
@godschildyes12 жыл бұрын
Perfect or imperfect, abuse is never okay. Yah know?
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen its don't matter if rich or poor
@lasavinegivens92953 жыл бұрын
I saw this for the first time yesterday on Larry Reid Live. One thing for sure this is a Classy Lady who has the ability to destroy who wronged her, yet chooses not to. She's a great example of" Leave Them To God" while getting the lesson so the pattern of abuse doesn't continue to happen in one's life.
@cwebb23008 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I ran across this interview (wasn't looking for it" and I must say I love the truth, honestly and more importantly the "Christ" within her. She is giving women a voice in their own situations to stand up, believe who they are in Christ and continue on in the name of Jesus.
@ijuh812 жыл бұрын
I applaud her for telling her story! My family has experienced similar things like this and we could never n still can't speak about it.
@dorothybailey86043 жыл бұрын
Silence is not golden! She is a strong and courageous woman, to speak out about spousal abuse in her marriage. I love the Winans, I love BB Winans, his fame doesn't make him perfect, he is human with human emotions. Putting hands on a woman is not acceptable, this stuff needs to be exposed especially in the Church! Pastor's abusing their wives. Thank you Lady Debra Winans.
@cgcade110 жыл бұрын
I wasn't going to comment but here it goes. Bad behavior is bad behavior. At some point we have to take responsibility for our actions. The one thing about it is that we as society need to get over celebrity. By that I mean being able to admire, appreciate the gifting, the talent and anointing and keep it in its proper place. Because I have talent, gifting and anointing does not mean I am flawless. My character may need a major construction overhaul, nonetheless. Or maybe just a few tweaks here and there but I am far from issueless weather I am platinum or not. Now I applaud Debra for speaking out as this is part of the healing for herself, their children and Be Be as well. Allowing exposure and ending the fronting is helpful. It is my hope that my friend Be Be is getting the support and working on his challenges. He is still one of my favorite singers and I want nothing but the best for him. I am glad for this interview and quite sorry for the challenges that have occurred in this relationship and family I will continue to hold them in prayer. God is sovereign, but we are not.
@smc17746 жыл бұрын
C Cade , I love what you said in the comments section. Well said.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Your comment is my favorite. And yes Bebe is my favorite singer as well
@bowserstrange38498 жыл бұрын
Dear, Debra, needs to buy your book. I was just on Mt tab and I ran across you on Lexi Show. Sister Debra every thing you talked about is me. I feel so bad, I allow it to get this far. I was told by people,that I love stay for the sake of the kids, which we have three, and they are grown now. That was a big mistake, I should have never did that, l really hurt my children in the process. Sister Debra, after listen to you story, I know that I can go on. I thank you so much, and I'll purchase your book, and I thank God for you!
@feliciajohnson8273 жыл бұрын
Praise God for this message I know it's old but it's still relevant and helpful to me
@Camillehas4hearts13 жыл бұрын
I truely enjoyed this interview; I am a woman who needed 2 hear this...thanks 4 posting & God bless:)
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen she helping lot woman's especially those who are married to men's that are singing artists but some woman's still might not leave because have to much lose
@godschildyes12 жыл бұрын
In the first video she admitted that she had fault in the break up of the marriage, but now she is telling about the abuse. I love BeBe, but I know that we all have things about us that we need the Lord's help with.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen That's true
@Tlove2015 жыл бұрын
Lol Lexi said you dont strike me as the "In your face " Shaniqua! 😂😂😂
@katherineday90934 жыл бұрын
I’m glad she made it out!!!! I love her strength and her encouragement!!!!
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen because she could of easily stay in it for money because he started making it big but money don't mean nothing if not happy
@ncomer513comer46 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and very well said...i needed to here this..god bless you great woman of god!🌹🌹💝💝
@alexandriahatten21672 жыл бұрын
I admire your courage to tell your story. I hope that people will see that this is your story and you have a right to tell it.
@ArmyDet65644 жыл бұрын
You help me and I'm not even married 🙌🏿
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen its make think twice about getting married if this happening to men's of God it's such ashame
@musiqtube112 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lexi for the exposures: you expose people like Tony Smith and others. Thank you. God Bless You.
@eyram50984 жыл бұрын
Aawww love this woman . She is so beautiful and godly, such a shame about the marriage but that was really insightful
@woodypaq15 жыл бұрын
I would just like to comment on behalf of my 'sistrens' that indeed it is unfortunate that the "First" ladies are so under foot and the system doesn't give way for expression and an avenue for their side of life and all that matters to them as opposed to the celebrity of the partner. I love this interview and it really opened me up and I have always believed that it is necessary for the wife to have significant opportunity in the burden and blessings of marriage.
@THECONNIECOLE13 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sister Debra for sharing your TESTIMONY with such intimacy. I was there too - in a marriage with verbal abuse. Praise God for His grace that is sufficient for me/us. Oh bless the name of the Lord God forever more. Well done ladies. Well done.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Thank God he gave you strength and wisdom to leave
@MJ-hg1yx3 жыл бұрын
I found it interesting that she said she paid her tithes, and nothing changed. That prosperity ministry was a strange phenomenon through which many of us were taught to buy God's help. Which is absolutely impossible.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen That's dont change person only God can
@MJ-hg1yx3 жыл бұрын
@@fredajohnson506, You're right! God only changes the character of a man with that man's (human's) permission...God does not violate our will. He gave us command over it.
@Eboneyc12 жыл бұрын
Why has she not dropped his name??? if he is that bad!!!
@troublemcfadden43653 жыл бұрын
It's Fame And Money .. Hell She Look old Af 😑
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Yeah! Right? I thought too. They always say I don't have money? Because Winans is a well known name
@Jraphatv112 жыл бұрын
She never said she was abused - She corrected Lexi and said there were "Physical altercations". Abuse is consistent.
@johnhenryowens70007 жыл бұрын
Danny Elijah: Oh it always starts like she ststed. Abuse was the next step for him. And that's the way it begins most times before the SLAPPING.
@DrTLKillens6 жыл бұрын
Even the 1st assault is abuse. a·buse verb əˈbyo͞oz/ 1. use (something) to bad effect or for a bad purpose; misuse. "the judge abused his power by imposing the fines" synonyms:misuse, misapply, misemploy; More 2. treat (a person or an animal) with cruelty or violence, especially regularly or repeatedly. "riders who abuse their horses should be prosecuted" synonyms:mistreat, maltreat, ill-treat, treat badly;
@obvioustruths5 жыл бұрын
Being grabbed by the arm and dragged up the stairs is abuse. She also described verbal abuse.
@bethanyellemusic.gospeljaz25293 жыл бұрын
not true. you need to study the cycle of abuse. this is why alot of women get killed. someone can not hit you for years and the next time they hit you, they kill you. Please do your research.
@karenpinglora41453 жыл бұрын
Don’t know what to believe when people promoting a book or business ventures, but why stay in the relationship when there is abuse, she has a lot of big brothers and families to go to ,and why it takes so long to come forward ?????
@1986Jay14 жыл бұрын
Now, Debra said that she wasn't trying to ruin Bebe...Now I believe that she is lying. If this was a real problem, then she should have had him arrested years back. Why NOW! Is it just coincidence that she has a book coming out? Hmm! I don't think so. She said that she stayed in the back all those years, and I feel that she should stay there. She is divorced now, so what's the point! You don't see Vicki bashing Marvin. Debra needs to stop, and just go in her ministry.
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Good point I thought about that too. Everyone is writing books now
@Superkalefragilistic15 жыл бұрын
not saying it didn't happen, but I still don't get why she felt a book and an interview is needed. is she telling people how to be delivered? has she forgiven him, is set free? has she thought about how all this publicity will affect the children...besides the book..what is overall benefit of her bringing attention to HER family issues? this whole thing is sad...
@ThePatient7denim4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@godschildyes12 жыл бұрын
You said it all so well! Thank you!
@dovecry212 жыл бұрын
Born-again Christians are not immune to problems in their personal lives--we need to quit acting like just because we have Jesus, we still don't have our flesh to deal with. Pride is in everyone regardless of how long you've been walking with Jesus, OR HOW FAMOUS YOU ARE.its about him holding on to our hand, because we let go of his sometimes.--We have misplaced expectations & dependencies on other---then divorce happens. there is only one who can meet all our needs--JESUS CHRIST.
@simplydezigned59115 жыл бұрын
That's true but in a marital situation or any relationship for that matter, one needs to tell the truth....just believing in Jesus without walking the walk of faith that His word tells us is not a panacea for all the ills of life. She did say she saw what wrong she did in the marriage. Marriage to me is not to be taken lightly. You have to go into it with knowledge, unconditional love and low expectations to how it will be....not how you will be treated. She should never be treated abusively....the bible even tells the husband to love their wives like their own bodies. Anyone who loves his body will not abuse it.....so much misinformation and lack of understanding....this is how we get here.
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@estherkeeling7773 жыл бұрын
Based on what she says I think Bebe is hurt and needs to work through his pain
@clsareply11 жыл бұрын
I agree. I think BeBe did it. So many men are quick to hid behind the pulpit. Yes, God is a forgiving God but he is also a vengeful one and NO ONE should get a pass for doing something so despicable. SMH
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
He probably ashamed but we all fall short glory of God need seek help any one
@hubbasj11 жыл бұрын
God bless them both..
@gfox03785 жыл бұрын
Wow...awesome testimony...beautiful woman!!! The things we never know about one's secret life.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Oh but no one can't hide from God no matter who you are just pray for men's of God because they fall weak
@AABB-qr5vy3 жыл бұрын
Yea. This was such a great video to watch. Thanks Debra for keeping it real in Christ. 😊
@TheMattwms15 жыл бұрын
i dont dera is telling the truth is just an angle to get her book promoted
@TMicah14 жыл бұрын
People kill me. You didn't live in her home! You didn't walk in her shoes and you were not there when the incident happened! She gave her account, she gave her testiment and based on the historical documents, that he'd done this before. BEBE propbably lied! Talent and popularity doesn't excuse you from your responsibility to live as God commanded. I am sick of church people covering for wrong doing because "WE LIKE" you or "HE/SHE can sure sing!" I BELIEVE HER!
@pamelarobinson8026 жыл бұрын
Micah Modica Amen!
@ladydi19672 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you Debra. We have to protect our kids
@juaninaM1LL10N14 жыл бұрын
she kind of has mannerisms and facial expressions like Cece!!!
@prazup494 жыл бұрын
Her mannerism is like his mother, they say you marry your mother.
@dwisdomNYC3 жыл бұрын
Yes. I have always felt she favor mom Winans so much.
@Superkalefragilistic15 жыл бұрын
did this happen recently or several years ago? I heard the interview aired because the daughter was upset that the Wordnet was not allowing her mother to be heard....I guess my concern/question is: "is it needful to air your family laundry at the expense of what??" is she trying to sell a book, help somone...what is the reason behind doing an interview? Would the public care more or less because she was married to a famous person or if she was just jane doe having he same experience?
@Kenianiambi13 жыл бұрын
I think that this is being blown way out of proportion. no doubt he should never have put his hands on her... but there are plenty of instances in marriage where men AND WOMEN grab an arm or push - its not right but I'm dissapointed that something so small was made so big if not just for her - for her children... I need to write my own book - I got stories that will make her look foolish!!
@tammarabritt15833 жыл бұрын
Yep. I think it got out of hand too and that he probably pushed her. They were divorced before either of the two altercations (no abuse-she corrected Lexi when she used that term) occurred. Both of these incidents involved custody issues. They both probably became very heated arguments and both parties acted out. When she said omg, no he didn't when he pushed her to the ground, let's you know she was not abused because that was not expected behavior. I'm not condoning his actions, keep your hands to yourself, but the charges were probably dismissed against BeBe because the judge may have found fault in both of them. Even the most cool and collected person can act a mess in certain situations and I'm referring to them both. As far as their marriage, being married to a celebrity or a pastor can be very challenging. Kudos to those who are. The families are often neglected when it comes to time spent. They take a backseat to those careers/callings. Even when Lexi asked her who she was before she got married, she spoke about her family and who they were but not really who she was. It's probably always been difficult for her to really find her own because of her family dynamic and her marriage to BeBe. Which was made even more complicated because she said she never spoke up about it and the marriage ended in divorce. Praying that their situation has improved and that she has found herself.
@artavijeree14 жыл бұрын
This lady is not well...something about her words I do not trust but the scarier part is that she has convinced herself of these things which may hold some truth but are a bit exaggerated, but that could happen in process of writing a book.
@Beccasupercutelife12 жыл бұрын
lol Im going have to use that one to "we'll see what happens" lol
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen That's right because it mean you are not saying yes or no leave them guessing
@peggysmith77973 жыл бұрын
Ive been looking at videos and other information about the winans . I love the songs and the family just from what I've seen and read. I love that you're letting people know . How things were in your marriage but I also think that people of God need to realize that, we have to say I am sorry for what I did to you. No matter what you feel/ felt was right. We ALL know what we did was wrong and not call for. I think a lot of Bebe and I do believe if he hasn't already. He does owe you two sincere words. " I'M SORRY " it is the enemy job to make us think that NOTHING we did was wrong. He said/ says he's a man of God and I TRUELY!!!!! Believe he is but he is human also. You have to stay strong and we loved who we love.
@kevseb6614 жыл бұрын
"The church is in trouble because it will not deal with real issues". I know that is the whole truth even if everything eles she said was a lie. I love the Lexi show ( especially as of late) because she has unapologeticlly placed complex social & sexual issues that the church is obviously too afraid to deal with honestly right in it's face. Don't hate the messenger because she delivers to you the truth.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen people will always refuse to believe people that well known do any wrong but have realized we still fleshy humans have die daily
@fancyfaceamalia46744 жыл бұрын
😚 LOVE u Debra. .u a great woman. ..
@719kai71913 жыл бұрын
@Hardwaykru These fans crack me up! He's SINGER NOT GOD!
@TheKingdom8813 жыл бұрын
@TMicah That's a Well written comment!! I totally agree!!! AMEN, AMEN!!
@doreenhenderson21637 жыл бұрын
This is a free country she can speak her truth. Thank You Debra these slime balls need to be put on blast. Ill be reading your book love!!!!
@sweetazzpiew84907 жыл бұрын
Yessssssss!!
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
People don't want believe lie before hear truth but this kinda stuff happens now more even its really sad in the body of Christ
@johnhenryowens70007 жыл бұрын
Serial told Jakes after he kept fussing, while she was cutting a chicken up:: What is it that you want?? He quickly took a step back and realized what he did and apologized to his Wife Serita Jskes!! I remember when Minister Serita Jakes told a few storys about dome things after about 17 years of Marriage when they first moved to Texas.
@mlg79145 жыл бұрын
I am now a wise adult, who witnessed abuse in COGIC, but I don’t know.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Its don't matter what reglion its is if you not following what God word's says about how man supposed treat his wife
@natethegreat314711 жыл бұрын
The truth will set anyone free.I don't care what position you have in the church wrong is not right. Called it by its name.
@pamelarobinson8026 жыл бұрын
Nathaniel Porter Truth stands out, BLESSINGS sent out. God will!
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Amen but people going believe what they want
@ct5803 жыл бұрын
Bless you Ms. Debra.
@billiegreen85785 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Lady power words of encouragement. support you. in your Faith walk.
@Superkalefragilistic15 жыл бұрын
point noted . I still think airing dirty laundry for the pupose of financial gain is really selfish. they have children. Is there a wrong yes, should wrong be punished yes. The bible says if a brother or sister is over taken in a fault..you who are spiritual restore not expose. Im a mom & I believe there is a better way for adults to handle their business to protect their kids. She said they are older & can make their own decisions, this doesn't leave them with many options to decide on.
@719kai71913 жыл бұрын
@msicarg Bebe ..is the father of her children... and it does not matter whether the individual is a celebrity... or the average Joe down the street.The reality is that aside from the fame and fortune he is still a man... her former husband... father of her children... . I'm sure that the children are well aware of what went on during the marriage so really what is the secret? If other women choose not to disclose the details of their failed marriage that is their choice, just as hers is to talk
@marieOH512 жыл бұрын
I know takes two to make a marriage work or fail. I tend to believe her.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
But God not in no mess people need seek help from God if want marriage work stop being in denial
@dedrachambers87223 жыл бұрын
I Believe her.....
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
I do now after seeing all three viedos she has nothing lose its just people can't believe bee bee would do that i was feeling that way to but know this stuff happens just look on utube last past years this all been looking at men's of gospel abused their wife
@yeshua122112 жыл бұрын
LET THE CHURCH SAY....AMEN!
@TinaSanders335 жыл бұрын
If all what she's saying is true and y'all are DIVORCE, change your last name from WINANS then, bcuz you are no longer that. With THAT bring said, I don't believe her, all she want is her NAME AND VOICE out there now. When she was married she didn't have no voice, he did. Listen to her first interview, she said his career took off and he didn't have time for her. But all of a sudden he pushed her down twice, WOW!! I can go down there and File a report on someone too but that don't mean it's true. They have the right as the authority to document what people say, good, bad or indifferent. She needs to go sit under Bishop Jake's wife and hear how his Ministry took off when they first got married and she stayed the course because she wasn't in it for her voice to be heard nor for the attention I'm sure she didn't get much of, so please go back and pray again and let God tell you to DROP HIS FAMOUS NAME
@ThePatient7denim4 жыл бұрын
Sis I needed this so much. You have said EVERYTHING I was thinking! Thank you
@kwood68824 жыл бұрын
You do not change you last name after a divorce if you have children. I did not have any children when I divorced my husband therefore it was the law that I go back to my maiden name.
@ThePatient7denim4 жыл бұрын
kwood68 their children are adults now.
@msicarg13 жыл бұрын
@719kai719 Indeed it is her choice to talk and disclose whatever she feels is appropriate or inappropriate. It is also my choice to comment when it is openly displayed on the panel of discussion. I feel that a most of the time wife is so hurt and wounded; therefore, it may become quite easy to forget that not only are you (the wife) is the victim, but also the children. What is disappointing is that it appears that it was an attempt to expose him as the ugly person...perhaps he was.
@jennyatherton59223 жыл бұрын
How is she Debra winans if she's been divorced for yrs. Wouldn't she of changed her name by now🤔
@msicarg13 жыл бұрын
@719kai719 Yes, she does have the right to move on with her life. What I'm saying is not that she shouldn't move on, but why expose things now??? Move on!!! Let it go and move on. Whatever he did or you (her) allowed him to do, it's over! What did this accomplish? Tact and class is necessary and should be shown in any woman, especially a woman who really has class and tact.
@lissa255113 жыл бұрын
@1333fuller I know right?complete and utter rubbish! people think men of God are some kind of hi-breed that can never mess up.This is her story....just because they hear an amazing voice they think he is as smooth every where. She admitted she had a fault in the break up of the marriage but for people to call her out on telling her story of abuse is silly!This is how a healed woman speaks....not every previously abused woman is timid and shaky and bruised for life! eish!
@paulinejoyner26943 жыл бұрын
If he was that bad you stay there for nine years with no kids you could have left . NO MONEY AND FAME will make you STAY
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I don't why 16 years of marriage! Women are afraid of being alone and they put up with lots of stuff too. And why have another kid? If Bebe was not being a good husband? And they complain about the husband? But enjoy the intimate realations with them. And no Babies don't change the situation why do they think that?
@msicarg13 жыл бұрын
@719kai719 I'm all for healing, and I do believe that it comes through many forms. I've watched women in the past that have gone through much more than she has described that she experienced.....without millions of dollars from a divorce settlement. But what I found about the class of those women was that even though the marriage and divorce was bitter, they never exposed the things that went on. Did it ever occur to you that she not only was talking about BeBe but the father of her children?
@tonimudiwa14 жыл бұрын
@klimaxxx06 one thing i know is no matter wat a woman does.....take it from another man even if she is in the wrong u never put ur hands on her no matter wat she does.....
@lakeishanicholson59455 жыл бұрын
Yes she is right
@mapitsorangaka10303 жыл бұрын
Who is going to believe you? The price of getting married to this popular powerful man.
@obvioustruths5 жыл бұрын
This woman is telling the truth. I wonder if she knew he married her to be a 'beard'.
@ThePatient7denim4 жыл бұрын
Wow
@ThePatient7denim4 жыл бұрын
Ruth Carmon a beard is a person that marries to cover for a downlow lifestyle.
@719kai71913 жыл бұрын
@msicarg and you know this to be for a fact how? Doesn't a woman who is divorced and once again single have the right to move on with her life? He did!
@719kai71913 жыл бұрын
@msicarg Sometimes the healing comes from talking about it.... It doesn't make her less classy, because she chose to do it,and I'm sure that like any other book author she is also promoting her book.. which she is entitled to do. It seems that alot of folk are upset that she is exposing a man that many looked up to.
@pamelarobinson8026 жыл бұрын
719kai719 Bless her this story will help others. We as Humans have to STOP putting these celebrities and Ministers on a Pedestal.
@vladyline427 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@byron178014 жыл бұрын
the bible speaks that a wise woman builds her house and a foolish woman pluck's it down. my heart and prayer's go out to Lexi and Debra it time out for being an opportunist, time is running out. please let's focus on higher goals, and as far as the children BeBe has been the responsible father and raising his children the whole time since they were born. Let's stop trying to play the victim, the truth Debra will set you free so be a saint of the most high GOD and repent .
@719kai71913 жыл бұрын
@1986Jay This was her experience. She doesn't have to shut up for anyone, not even you.
@brigittecanty298713 күн бұрын
What's the whole story? Why? Did she ever do anything? Does she care about her children? Never does this need to be done. Sorry but airing your problems doesn't help. NEVER. What if God aired all are wrong doings, mistakes or sins? I don't agree with this. Just my opinion.
@troublemcfadden43653 жыл бұрын
Them Winans Brothers Ain't Right 😑🤨
@STCrump912 жыл бұрын
she still has a ring on that finger...
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
Wow means still love him even if don't want him
@preacherfemale14 жыл бұрын
@1333fuller You are so right!!!
@byron178014 жыл бұрын
Debra still up to her old trick's , it's getting to be old new's. The truth from your mouth one day hopefully will set you free from your mess of a life. Praying for you alway's.
@fredajohnson5063 жыл бұрын
That's not nice to say if you don't her personality you can't speak God knows who right and who wrong
@chuckluckyt10 жыл бұрын
first of all people if you're not gonna value the vales of marriage......love the person for better or worse is what you told god.......please don't play with god, by getting a divorse
@dorothyharris48225 жыл бұрын
I Am So Sorry You Had To Go Threw All That...But Thank God You Made It...And I Believe God Going To Bless You Real Good...We Were Told To Be Quiet In The Church...But Never Did Believe That...And I See There Are A Lot Of Angry Sister In Christ Because Of That...That 'Is Not Christ Like...That Why You Have To Read The Word For Yourself..May God Bless You
@smc17746 жыл бұрын
This is really sad to here that this took place in their marriage. The only one you put first in a marriage other then yourself and your spouse is God, not your career, not money, but God. REAL TALK👄
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Both of them did not do!
@Eboneyc12 жыл бұрын
How come she is so perfect? and he is all bad!!!! hummmmm.
@shirrihinton118711 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, many Christians are religious; lacking the realization of who they really are in CHRIST. We are to do the WORD and not just hear it or mentally assent to it! Each person is responsible for their personal relationship with GOD! The blame game and finger pointing must STOP! I pray that the people of GOD stand up and be the LIGHTS they are called to be rather than conform to this world! Does this interview give Glory to God? Where is forgiveness and restoration or real LOVE?
@TheMattwms15 жыл бұрын
i understand but debra ia not being fair
@Macinachick11 жыл бұрын
so what? smh
@antigoniem0613 жыл бұрын
What is it with the in laws in the Winans family? They never drop the last name EVER!
@kwood68824 жыл бұрын
You do not drop the last name after a divorce if you have children.. But if you do not have children, it is against the law to keep your ex husband's last name
@antigoniem064 жыл бұрын
@@kwood6882 wait, so you're legally required to keep the last name of you have kids? Geez.
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
Marvin's ex wife did that too.? Cause it's fame and they get attention
@roxanaroxelacofresi5759 Жыл бұрын
@@kwood6882 I know women who don't and put their maiden name
@nefreteri200014 жыл бұрын
LOVE covers a multitude of sin. Jesus never old His diciple hat judas was stealing the money. now if we suppose to act like Jesus, why is Debra busting out BeBe she's suppose to cover Him. she wans to sell a book and be like the world. He that is friend to the world is no friend of mine, said the Lord. The saints need to stop acting and doing like the world. it is so sad that even the elect are getting fooled. Holla backacha girl!! Peace
@TheTessEffects9 жыл бұрын
To bad it turned out to be not true! Google that!
@bajamanuela97057 жыл бұрын
tcochran42 stop lying fat ass
@TheTessEffects7 жыл бұрын
Wyoming Oregon 😩
@pookster90200814 жыл бұрын
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@paulinejoyner26943 жыл бұрын
I feel listening to her something don't sound right with her story no one was there and to me she trying to destroy him
@msicarg13 жыл бұрын
Here's the funniest thing. Lexi is looking at her like "you are a fool sista". Millions of women have gone through that and worse, AND have money. YET, they would NEVER put it out there afterwards. WHY?? What does it accomplish? Then another thing, she's talking about wanting to get married again. I GUARANTEE you that the next man will NOT have money and will do her much WORSE than she claimed BeBe did her. The grass always looks greener on the other side. She aint seen nothing yet..lol
@mimmieogboli16935 жыл бұрын
🤐
@klimaxxx0614 жыл бұрын
1333...: Please, theres two sides to every story...the man always end up going to jail NO MATTER WHAT the woman does..I'm sure BOTH of them were in the wrong
@bowserstrange38498 жыл бұрын
Dear, Debra, needs to buy your book. I was just on Mt tab and I ran across you on Lexi Show. Sister Debra every thing you talked about is me. I feel so bad, I allow it to get this far. I was told by people,that I love stay for the sake of the kids, which we have three, and they are grown now. That was a big mistake, I should have never did that, l really hurt my children in the process. Sister Debra, after listen to you story, I know that I can go on. I thank you so much, and I'll purchase your book, and I thank God for you! God Bless you.
@bowserstrange38498 жыл бұрын
Dear, Debra, needs to buy your book. I was just on Mt tab and I ran across you on Lexi Show. Sister Debra every thing you talked about is me. I feel so bad, I allow it to get this far. I was told by people,that I love stay for the sake of the kids, which we have three, and they are grown now. That was a big mistake, I should have never did that, l really hurt my children in the process. Sister Debra, after listen to you story, I know that I can go on. I thank you so much, and I'll purchase your book, and I thank God for you!