Your body, OP. Your choice. NTA. No one owes use of their body to someone else, even if their life depends on it.
@bellasmom25976 ай бұрын
With a major change like that taking time to work on the relationship is a good thing to ask for. Asking for 1 on 1 time is a healthy thing to do under circumstances. Woman is better off with out this jerk
@ZohaibAkbar-v2k6 ай бұрын
@kimvannatter52146 ай бұрын
Oh wow.. that is a messy situation. That's some deep wounds of rejection the family has created in him. Such a gross invalidation and devaluing of him. And yet the gravity of knowing your sibling could die without your help.. So on the one hand I need to say, it's his organs and his body so no matter who it displeases he has final say over himself. There are risks and consequences to such a thing that he'd have to live with regardless the circumstances. On the other hand, as undeserving and cruel as this family has been to him, he'll have to make a choice that he can live with. When he looks in the mirror would he forever live with shame if his sister died, or would he look in the mirror and feel used if he donated- especially in the years to come if he has an expectation of more love & respect than he's gotten. Like Dr. Deloney likes to say, it's not your fault but this fell in your lap so now it's your responsibility to make the right choice (whatever you decide that is).
@topquizandriddles6 ай бұрын
Where's the first part?
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
Check the previous video
@jamsal866 ай бұрын
NO😢😅
@topquizandriddles6 ай бұрын
Sad Story 😞
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
😞😞
@BunnyEcho16 ай бұрын
Yes She sounds like any mom Take her to a nice dinner
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
😊
@mariewilliams35246 ай бұрын
Get alimony and get the house
@Im_Just_Here2486 ай бұрын
Either MIL is a terrible person or MIL was lied to by the son
@finisherxs1386 ай бұрын
Just leave him.
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@lynaeeakettgreene72086 ай бұрын
He's the one thats so hurt?????
@chaossmith38646 ай бұрын
I definitely wouldn't suggest just taking a break. Either break up with her or spend some time with her. There are parents who do go on date nights and nake time for each other all the time. She's even helping out. Even if he's the parent now, she isn't. Shes a girlfriend who's been supportive even though he hasn't actually put into the relationship currently it sounds like. Honestly AH move or not he should probably cut her loose so she can find someone that will at least prioritize her some. I get the younger brother being top priority in some ways, but if she's not a priority staying with her is even more of an AH move. Honestly I'd hope that he'd stop being angry about reasonable feelings and expectations, but what's presented here doesn't give me much hope. What I fear with talking about everything she's done and the wishy washy talk is that he'll talk himself into believing and convincing her it will get better, but it'll always be some reason why the brother has to always take priority.
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@blandzx2h6776 ай бұрын
She was just asking for a date night. All couples need that.
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@Its_A_Dulla6 ай бұрын
Nah, bruh, you had a right to get offended. Your brother needs you there especially when his mom just died. A little bit of an asshole for considering break-up, but I understand given the circumstance. Also, she was an asshole for telling her friend.
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@bellasmom25976 ай бұрын
She needs to tell her friends. They need to help her find a new apartment and ghost this jerk. He puts demands on her time and effort to help taks care of his brother and wont even make the effort to keep relationship healthy. So sad she is still with him
@Its_A_Dulla4 ай бұрын
1. You don't let other people in a relationship that you formed with one person only. You created that relationship for you and that one person and when something's wrong, you two fix it together. And you ESPECIALLY DO NOT LET PEOPLE WHO ARE SURE TO GET SUBJECTIVE INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP. A romantic relationship is a two-person circle. Just you and your partner. 2. He is the only one his brother has in his life and his brother is too young to be left alone . His brother comes first, his brother needs him, and his brother was left to his care after his mom died. Try comparing that to what his girlfriend needs. I pointed out his wrongs, but you can't justify wanting attention when your man has someone in his life MORE IMPORTANT THAN A GIRL WHOM HE DOESN'T SHARE BLOOD WITH WHO ACTUALLY NEEDS ATTENTION AND CARE. I agree that the relationship is unhealthy and thus needs to get taken care of, but relationships require mutual understanding and his girlfriend failed to even understand the circumstances he was going through in the first place. He's stuck in the middle of two things that need tending to, and it's only natural to prioritize the one where he's the only one who's mature enough because the other person involved is a literally child. He prioritized his brother because his girlfriend should've been mature enough to understand, but she unfortunately was not and that's not his fault.
@LinnBlack236 ай бұрын
YTA, I hope that she sees the light and break up with you
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
😔
@sneha568286 ай бұрын
YTA,it seems like u prolly hate ur gf or smgth+ ur excuse sounds bs asf
@I_Love_ALLAH.H6 ай бұрын
So they're not monsters for supporting your bully, but you are for not donating your kidney? These are not real delusions.
@I_Love_ALLAH.H6 ай бұрын
Yes you need.
@topquizandriddles6 ай бұрын
Yes, you need to prioritize having some time just being together
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
😊
@R0TT3N_B0N3S6 ай бұрын
Yes and no. He shouldnt have cheated, but physical abuse is far worse. I understand your feelings but next time just imagine if a husband hit his wife for doing the same thing.
@mobydick9096 ай бұрын
Not breaking the law and not doing anything wrong are two vastly different things
@haroondaman71626 ай бұрын
Age of consent is 16 in the UK
@saintoncorps84496 ай бұрын
It’s very weird but as long as the 16 year old is consenting and hasn’t been groomed it’s find ig… I’d assume she has been groomed though as he’s friends with her dad
@arjanvanachteren6 ай бұрын
He is not pedophile but he has Ephobophilia, aka a love for teenagers. Still wrong in my eyes
@brownie90856 ай бұрын
Correct me if I'm wrong but doesn't age of consent only works between if both are around the same age?
@untitled-gv3qp6 ай бұрын
Depends where you are. We'd need to know where they actually are before knowing if there's any legal repercussions. It's still creepy as all heck for him to go after a child of his friend that's young enough to be his kid. If you have to use semantics to try and dodge allegations like that, then you're a p*do.
@felix-tc8hv6 ай бұрын
correct
@madjidaoumeur79276 ай бұрын
Not really
@shartkid6 ай бұрын
Every country has different laws, in the US federally it is 18 and many states have Romeo and Juliet laws. but in some other countries it is 16 or even much lower 😬
@fhiasco6 ай бұрын
Dad's right he is not a pedo he is a ephebophile though. Its pedo's older brother. 😂😂😂 He is in delulu land if he thinks he isnt gonna go to jail for that. If they engage in intimate things he will still go to jail for statutory rape. No questions about that. Please remind your ephebo Dad about the law please.
@buddycatdudeguy71696 ай бұрын
Being an ephebophile is still gross.
@johanncai51846 ай бұрын
"She isn't very happy about it" Oh really?!?!?! Can't imagine why tf not. Dating or even being interested in a child a year older than your own child is GROSS Dad should be in JAIL But OP should most definitely go NC with that disgusting excuse for a human.
@EmmaJoy3976 ай бұрын
A 16-year-old is still considered a child regardless, if a 16-year-old is a teenager.
@lornaharris88316 ай бұрын
Nta...😂...Creepy Dad!😂
@CelestialStrawberriesYT6 ай бұрын
Why the laughter tho
@adrianamurillo99966 ай бұрын
Typical! The man's mother justifying her cheating son. Could there be something more expected? And no, you are not wrong. Leave his cheating ass. He is going to have a baby with his coworker. How in the world are you thinking this twice?
@shirquirabranch65616 ай бұрын
He cheated possibility has a baby on the way with his co-worker and he's been doing this for a few months. But he's heartbroken ... Wow the poor darling . He only told her because he may have a baby on the way. He wasn't sad and heartbroken when he was taking his clothes off or when he was b*lls deep in his co-worker. A slap is the least of his worries even if she decides to stay now you have your maybe baby mama in your life that's going to want you to give her that promotion to girlfriend or wife. SMH and if she can't have her way get ready to pay child support.....
@Bethany-n2r6 ай бұрын
Update????
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
Will share if updated 😊
@Enter546236 ай бұрын
FUCK NO🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
@millymoocow3296 ай бұрын
these comments are wild cause if a man did this to a woman everyone would freak out
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@atticusbiggay6 ай бұрын
Just because I understand the urge doesn’t make you not an asshole. Imo you both did shitty things.
@TrashCatGang6 ай бұрын
The story and music aren't a vibe 🤣
@samanthapettibone39556 ай бұрын
I wonder if the mil knows that her son cheated on his wife? It's not ok to lay hands but I bet the conversation would sound a little different if the mil had all the info.
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@sacrificeman6 ай бұрын
You never slap someone yes it's bad he cheated but you never slap someone
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@plasmo9426 ай бұрын
She had the right to be upset and tell hubby to leave. Not the right to slap her husband. That does make her an AH because I don’t think she’d be cool with it if her husband slapped her after she confessed to cheating and getting pregnant.
@mirage.memoirs6 ай бұрын
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@JenniferJohnson-l3r6 ай бұрын
Leave the c**t
@humaidk6 ай бұрын
The mother was like " Hey i know my son cheated, but he feels sorry please respond"