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Пікірлер
@ARBets23
@ARBets23 5 сағат бұрын
fax
@SmartLifeDating
@SmartLifeDating 13 сағат бұрын
Damn, hateful speech is against tos unless its a woman apparently
@SmartLifeDating
@SmartLifeDating 14 сағат бұрын
exactly, they think getting women is some magical lucky thing that men were chosen out of a hat at birth to be destined for, not realizing your game with women isn't static it can be improved upon
@Swiftgunz
@Swiftgunz Күн бұрын
They have more options that’s why they can be harder
@SmartLifeDating
@SmartLifeDating Күн бұрын
My man just keeps spitting HE DOSENT MISS
@carlosmutale2064
@carlosmutale2064 2 күн бұрын
Solid info keep em coming
@tshiamomasemola9233
@tshiamomasemola9233 3 күн бұрын
Starting now I'm only approaching baddies, coz these average women I don't even like and I feel myself settling..
@ARBets23
@ARBets23 3 күн бұрын
this a life mindset not j dating
@SmartLifeDating
@SmartLifeDating 3 күн бұрын
there was this dating app i used to use called feeld, (Stopped using it because i probably forgot my account info) i would be using that app free so i only had a limited amount of swipes so it would take me MONTHS to get matches. But i went to Anaheim with my family and when i used the app there I WOULD GET A MATCH EVERY OTHER SWIPE IT WAS RIDICULOUS. Obviously i perfer cold approaching, but yeah man LA is the spot to play the numbers game absolutely.
@SmartLifeDating
@SmartLifeDating 3 күн бұрын
2:16 true, I had guys at a company I worked for making minimum wage plus tips but slept with a new girl every night, i was ALSO a janitor at one time and i SAW in real time a guy pull chicks ON THE FACTORY FLOORS but for some reason i used to believe it wasn't possible, sometimes you know the truth that quote on quote "baddies" aren't harder to get but I used to not believe it due to being in my head and being frustrated. Sometimes that belief doesn't come from a lack of physical evidence but the emotional dependence you place on it working so when it doesn't you don't allow yourself to believe the truth
@albertwilliams7547
@albertwilliams7547 3 күн бұрын
Real talk atop blaming your height for everything Their will be some who’ll stand on their ground but I promise you all that short man slander really just be on the internet
@TheNovem84
@TheNovem84 3 күн бұрын
Always appreciate your content. Solid shit
@PossibleOffside
@PossibleOffside 3 күн бұрын
Truth💯!
@JamesMvula-g1q
@JamesMvula-g1q 4 күн бұрын
Chad bro.🤝🏿🔥
@ARBets23
@ARBets23 6 күн бұрын
Solid information except that’s always been my mindset so I need to make them a priority ig do you still deal with month long droughts or not really?
@theinfamousop2691
@theinfamousop2691 6 күн бұрын
Did u come out in a Julibee video
@Dommy521
@Dommy521 6 күн бұрын
bro can you do a video on the step by step escalation when you get the girl back to your house after the date?
@defundsimping
@defundsimping 6 күн бұрын
@@Dommy521 I have a video on that, it’s on my discord cuz KZbin wouldn’t like it 😂
@Dommy521
@Dommy521 6 күн бұрын
@@defundsimping lol just use word substitutions, we will know what you mean haha; I guarantee that vid will be a hit!
@WJstudios04
@WJstudios04 6 күн бұрын
3:20 - I disagree with you on that one-your business revolves around dating and women, which automatically puts you in abundance. In a previous video, you said guys struggle because they don't make women a priority.
@defundsimping
@defundsimping 6 күн бұрын
@@WJstudios04 I’ve been in abundance long before this channel, but I get what you’re saying. I said in the video if you have ZERO experience you may have to put them as a priority. However, if you’ve had plenty of months with a date or two, then don’t trip. You have the skills already to be successful
@RightsterDude
@RightsterDude 7 күн бұрын
Simple answer: no
@ARBets23
@ARBets23 7 күн бұрын
you should leave a comment if you love men who drive a kia should be your prompt chad
@MezzahFR
@MezzahFR 7 күн бұрын
U got cooked on that nectar dating app..no girl wanted u, feel bad for you man😂💔
@maggybrown7574
@maggybrown7574 8 күн бұрын
You’re dry as hell. Keep working though
@DaronKabe
@DaronKabe 9 күн бұрын
If you don’t care what she looks like then be with a man
@prod.kashkari3075
@prod.kashkari3075 9 күн бұрын
Funny enough, as a guy whose quite nerdy and intellectual, but made sure to keep up in other areas of life (fitness, health), i was able to attract attractive women due to me keeping myself in shape and taking care of myself, but i always did hold this belief it “their looks aren’t enough” because i was searching for a woman who is attractive & intellectual like me. She doesn’t have to be smart in a specific subject, or like an academic, but have some kind of passion for learning about something that she constantly does for herself, whether it be a hobby of hers, whether it be a subject, whether it be resding, whether it be something creative, etc. I always wondered to myself why in dates I’d be able to look past her beauty and notice what was between her ears, if that makes sense. I remember women I had good connections with were women who were intellectual or had some passion or hobby they did “nerd” about. If that makes sense. There was a woman once who had a deep obsession with ready mystery novels and it sparked her interest in creative writing on top of her fulltime job. That to me sparked a ton of interesting conversations, and even thought she didn’t share my specific hobby/interest (mathematics) I was still able to grow a deeper attraction to her which was rooted in what’s in her mind, not her body. I hope more men can think this way. Many times I’d lose attraction to a really attractive woman once I found out her disdain or weird looks I’d get for having some hobby or subject I would spend time working on. Then when asking them if they had anything I’d always get met with remarks of “oh I hate reading, I hate this, I hate that, I’m out of school for a reason”. Which is totally fine, but maybe that match between us isn’t there then.
@ryandeffley7652
@ryandeffley7652 9 күн бұрын
A woman's attraction/interest can change as often as the wind blows. It's simply female nature. So the trick is having boundaries without being reactive. I was hooking up with a FWB 1-2x per week for a few months and she always initiated texting/agreed with enthusiasm to whatever day I said I wanted to see her. Then one day, I got the "I'll have to let you know." I treated it as a read only and didn't respond. She then got in touch four days later on day of to try and confirm last minute. So I said, "When I didn't hear from you I figured you were busy and made other plans. What's your schedule like next week?" This communicates a boundary of not waiting until the last minute while leaving the door open.
@noahtheknower
@noahtheknower 10 күн бұрын
if ou do more, she will just end up respecting you less.
@raicry_1469
@raicry_1469 10 күн бұрын
That’s the same approach I am doing rn! After having a 5 showing me how a woman can actually be and have traditional values + characteristics, I‘d rather go for a 7/8 with fire attributes about herself than going for the 9/10‘s. Great advice!
@skatecado2897
@skatecado2897 10 күн бұрын
Marriage is dead
@ARBets23
@ARBets23 10 күн бұрын
Looks fade realness doesn’t
@Biggerthanlife1
@Biggerthanlife1 10 күн бұрын
Facts man, preach brotha!
@EAZYMONEY19
@EAZYMONEY19 10 күн бұрын
Appreciate the content, keep it going. Just wondering why do you just use the mic in the back lol
@Dommy521
@Dommy521 10 күн бұрын
Is this a change of heart? Thought you only go after the baddest of girls?
@khriseagle
@khriseagle 6 күн бұрын
It’s called growth and maturity
@SmartLifeDating
@SmartLifeDating 10 күн бұрын
when i hear (shes on your program) and (cooperative women) i instantly knew this will be the new guy i follow for dating thanks man
@MANTALITI
@MANTALITI 10 күн бұрын
These are the facts. Be so lit that she’s trying to do everything to chose by you. You don’t have to convince a woman that already is sexually attracted to you!
@lisamomon6793
@lisamomon6793 10 күн бұрын
Look aren't enough excuse me. Duh. Look won't last in the end its😊 what inside her personality. Or lack of you will be dealing with.
@Rain-ec4jj
@Rain-ec4jj 11 күн бұрын
I also live in LA but I don't think bar is the good place to meet women because when I went I don't see any girl if there is one usually she is with her boyfriend.
@Rain-ec4jj
@Rain-ec4jj 11 күн бұрын
You just nail the double standard in relationship dynamic I think you're very right about that.
@JamesMvula-g1q
@JamesMvula-g1q 12 күн бұрын
Take that step back and be about yourself.🫡
@Dr.Weed8
@Dr.Weed8 13 күн бұрын
I disagree. Dating apps ruined the game for men. They ruined America.
@Dr.Weed8
@Dr.Weed8 13 күн бұрын
They’ve made it much harder. I disagree. Women become really picky unreal expectations and men are disengaging. Neither side ever works on things. Lots of pointless one night stands.
@Dennisthe-g3m
@Dennisthe-g3m 14 күн бұрын
you drive a sports car?
@saintshub70x7
@saintshub70x7 15 күн бұрын
What are some practical steps men can take to build their self-worth and confidence before entering the dating scene?
@saintshub70x7
@saintshub70x7 15 күн бұрын
How do you suggest men navigate the line between generosity and being taken advantage of in modern dating?
@saintshub70x7
@saintshub70x7 15 күн бұрын
What’s the best way to maintain self-respect and boundaries while pursuing a romantic connection?
@saintshub70x7
@saintshub70x7 15 күн бұрын
How do you balance showing genuine interest in someone while avoiding the 'simping' label?
@saintshub70x7
@saintshub70x7 15 күн бұрын
What advice would you give to men to avoid falling into the trap of over-investing in relationships without reciprocal effort?
@soumyareddy4125
@soumyareddy4125 17 күн бұрын
Your pictures more suck
@JamesMvula-g1q
@JamesMvula-g1q 17 күн бұрын
Break the touch barrier.🙌🏿
@ARBets23
@ARBets23 18 күн бұрын
Nice vid
@Dommy521
@Dommy521 18 күн бұрын
Can you do a video on what exactly to say to get a girl back to your house after the date and also how to escalate when she's at at your crib?