Should You WAIT For Her To Choose You?

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[@christianrodriguez5346]

Austin is 100% correct. I have 5 exes. 3 were women I wanted and 2 were women who wanted me and I was somewhat attracted to them. Those 3 women weren’t long relationships. The other 2 treated me like a king. Plus the other 2 initiated the conversation and I naturally talked to them and flirted with them. Honestly guys at least for me the most fulfilling relationships were from women who had the burning desire.

[@paulcolin9071]

Same

[@christianrodriguez5346]

@@paulcolin9071 you get it too which is good. It also benefits us too cause we can focus on goals and improve as well while being with someone who supports you not gives you headache

[@rapsodicreaper]

Exactly.. I'm going through that rn

[@christianrodriguez5346]

@@rapsodicreaper yessir 💯

[@davidm8394]

💯.. I think this is true for most men.. chasing women is the lie lazy women want men to believe

[@Primorkusha]

If more people knew about the book Social Secrets Mastery, they'd realize how easy it can be to attract the girl they want.

[@lelelele-s4f]

Do you have that book in pdf?

[@burner-t7j]

@@lelelele-s4f it's a scam my brother

[@donnybrown7554]

is it the book from mark manson ? got it in german if .. its very good .. the bigger part in this book is ,that we should work on our self.. the last big piece is the women. if i got that right.

[@gus9163]

“Mess with the chick that like you not the one you like” Johnny Dollar

[@simplynick9785]

It’s better to mess with the girl you like, that likes you if that is possible

[@ImAgentK]

The ones that like me I don't like, attraction needs to be mutual in my opinion

[@drmahidhar1876]

@@ImAgentKdef understand but if you have a rotation with girls that like you, you can take more risks and be outcome independent with girls you like.

[@ImAgentK]

@@drmahidhar1876 Yah, but in order to have a rotation you need to get one first, r u saying getting a rotation of girls that are less attractive because when you go for the ones you want, the outcome won't matter since you have options to occupy you in the mean time?

[@CosminPerisan]

​@@simplynick9785of course you need to choose her too, but you need to let her FIRST choose you. That's what the quote is saying, lmao

[@psychosylocibin]

The issue men are dealing with today is that women’s standards are so high that only a select few of us will get the immediate burning desire from women we want even after massive self improvement.

[@neox9369]

They have no “standards”, all of their situationships are dysfunctional and fail.

[@Krelian4400]

Facts. Most guys aren't going to look like Austin Dunham no matter how much they improve.

[@rushja4171]

Austin was spot on and right! We need more of these from you 2!

[@emekaasiegbu3697]

Fellas, fellas, fellas…. You should never wait for your turn. If you aren’t the first option, then you chuck the deuces at her✌️if every man held this standard for himself then every girl would lose their power💯

[@Noblesix06]

Exactly. Sadly too many men lack self respect and standards though

[@shaiqahmed1047]

Looks will always be the base foundation in my opinion but everything else is still required to a certain extent

[@lifeisabeginning]

these guys have a great mindset and outlook on dating in general, it's refreshing

[@AGx2K]

my thing is , if you do the groundwork and the work to give you leverage you shouldn't be worrying about attracting and wont have to chase.

[@Nightmare_-ix7dk]

But you have to and you will get rejected more as of being too intimidating for women.. even 8s feel like 4s but say they are a 10 most women lack confidence to deal with handsome rich men.

[@TheMelloFx]

Dude that’s the whole plot of the video

[@gbaby49]

AD highkey mogging Chad on his own video is crazy.

[@CodyluvsPaint]

And chad’s mogging you to oblivion too

[@nicholasrodriguez4990]

Chads taller and pretty handsome Austin doesn’t mog too hard just a bit

[@caloFi]

you can’t mog someone taller than you

[@carthy2024]

@@caloFibullshit

[@verifyme3477]

@@caloFiyou definitely can.

[@jamespain2138]

Austin my guy so I always show support good video bro 👏🏽!

[@Noblesix06]

I'm with Auston on this one. To me cold approaching does more harm than good, you're just further inflating the egos of already super egotistical women for a chance at something with an already low success rate. Do the work on yourself and let the women compete for you.

[@K9_91]

Then stop approaching baddies and only approach modest looking women instead. Those girl nxt door types. Not saying that will automatically make you successful every time. But at least those kinds of girls are usually way more humble. 8’s 9’s & 10’s usually have the worst personalities anyways. Its only inexperienced guys that cant get girls or guys who cant control their lust that pedestalize them. And they get disrespected and violated for their worship by the exact same girls they idolized. Loool.

[@WinVault]

Dope video gotta do more of these breakdown videos with Austin!!!!

[@joaovictorlimabrito9602]

In my experience women who show you choosing signals early on treat you much but much better then those you cold approach on insta or in person

[@howardwhite165]

Around 6:55 when they talk about his ego, i personally couldnt understand. I couldnt be attracted to Any BAD chick if they arent attracted to me. I rather spend my time ans energy on a girl thats showing me interest rather than some random chick whose a little easier on the eyes but has no attraction to me at all.

[@user-ze4cx5sn5c]

So you’re only attracted to the very few women who like you? All the beautiful women around are just invisible?

[@MaleekRobinson-s6m]

@@user-ze4cx5sn5che’s just saying if there’s women that doesn’t look at him or care about him why should he care about them because if he does he’s just wasting time and energy.

[@TheCanolaoil]

Chad isn't getting anything man he's full of it

[@mccheezen20]

I really enjoyed this conversation. you guys energy bounces off each other fluidly.

[@BigShotLDN]

Austin’s dating strategy… ‘just be good looking bro’

[@StefaanDik]

😂😂😂 It worked for me when I was younger

[@william_SMMA]

because it's the truth it's the 80/20 rule yet again 80% looks and 20% personality/game/charm and so on

[@1bosstv]

Or be a multimillionaire and buy the good looks.

[@VivaLaFamous]

Yall have to remember that the average man is insecure with a whole bunch of inadequacies. When I was growing up, if you were a man who cared about yourself and cared about how you looked, you were considered a homosexual! And that mentality is still around in 2024.

[@Apollo_Street]

I agree but the musty men are usually the ones who say men who take care of themselves are “homosexual”

[@skinnyguy7773]

Same here, to an extent. What year were you born?

[@VivaLaFamous]

@@skinnyguy7773 1994

[@emekaasiegbu3697]

@@VivaLaFamous’94 baby here too. I put in maximum effort in looks/life “maxxing” and people thought it was gay too, but I got with the most women more than all my peers, and everyone asking how. When I tell them, they said back then it was too much effort but now everyone thinks it’s at least partly acceptable to lifemax. Lifemax wasn’t even a term back then lmao it’s just a recent slang. But what applies today in taking effort in yourself has always existed…., it just seems as if it has blown up due to social media when it was already there since the beginning of time. Keep on improving is all I gotta say on that one💯

[@Jelato_wrld]

Brothers from another mother

[@drmahidhar1876]

Defund Simping is fkin wild 😂- best name ever

[@skatecado2897]

Let the ladies choose. Just look at dating apps, they tell the truth of the market

[@drmahidhar1876]

Yes and no- a lot of people not getting picked on dating apps would probably do better cold approaching. I mean even one is better than nothing

[@howardwhite165]

Yes exactly, everyone only give attention and energy to the ones that chose them on their list. Only difference, there's not just a single bio and 4 pictures your showing, you have more to work with. Conversation, confidence, scents(cologne), eye contact, etc.

[@edwinvickers143AK]

Because most men see grooming, taking pictures for apps, etc a very feminine trait

[@kingjtjt]

You want Results or fear being Looked at as feminine

[@cadedrury]

guys need to invert their thinking and see and try to understand why women think certain things are attractive

[@drmahidhar1876]

@@cadedrurythey simply need to adapt to the environment to survive and thrive. These guys are proving it works

[@Joseph.Gallardo]

Nah bro, grooming in itself is masculine and a high value man thing. Warriors and ancient men from Persians to Greeks have always been taking care of themselves. Only uneducated or undeveloped people think it's feminine. It's 2024. Any of the most attractive women wants a guy that is taken care off and smells good. That can be clean shaven all the way to a full beard but well maintained.

[@edwinvickers143AK]

They are definitely taking small little jabs at each other from when they go out together 😂 but it’s all in a constructive criticism type of way of their different styles but you can tell some of their examples are of each other

[@KCFlightClub10]

It’s some bitch shit lowkey

[@yome7580]

Austin is so humble

[@RAGWT]

Great video boys , just two chads shootin the breeze

[@ChadRobertson-d8g]

Austin's mindset is on point..Why go out talkn just to be talking..i cant see it..

[@greencrocidile6246]

Austin biggest asset his is humidity

[@Walking-MY-Path]

*humility

[@WORKSbaby]

Austin is more stoic than

[@alexcolaco05]

9:00 that's so true. Find that women guys till then work on improving yourself.

[@BroJacksonTradez]

Unfortunately most men aren't youtube or social media famous and even if you have money and are in great shape you're gonna have to actually put in effort for a woman to even learn that about you

[@1bosstv]

Get 2 million dollars then just buy a good IG.

[@sancho608]

@@1bosstvlmao

[@GPL2000]

Austin, stop Mewing 🤣

[@lifeisabeginning]

he's extreme eh

[@EricJohnsonresign]

Both guys are spot on! Average guys need to master both skills. You’ve got to know how to approach women, focus on quality over quantity, and invest in personal development. When you put it all together, you’ll see which strategy gets you the best results in dating. Being a hybrid? That’s the secret sauce for winning.

[@sthomas730]

Excellent video keep the content coming.

[@WORKSbaby]

Ppl forget that women are human and friend first

[@saintshub70x7]

What are some practical steps men can take to build their self-worth and confidence before entering the dating scene?

[@vegeta1818]

Very valuable content keep it up

[@shamaroconnor4615]

This is like Deadpool and wolverine. We should all know who’s Wolverine is in this video 😂

[@sancho608]

😂😂😂

[@IvanMartinez-or7fi]

It depends on your environment and the standards of beauty in the area

[@Apollo_Street]

Best duo in the world

[@thatonekid1258]

What about fit fearless

[@Apollo_Street]

@@thatonekid1258Austin and Fit x parted ways unfortunately

[@thaaffguy]

What if the girl that likes you is a single mom and other girl isn’t 😂

[@fjackson7955]

Gotchu

[@bkcharm123]

Positive narcissism. I like that

[@bassjumpaofficial]

Ok I’ll do both 😅

[@itxchivp4783]

Austin is just mysterious

[@oghenetegaumukoro113]

This is a great video

[@ace50cal1]

The fact that I heard a dating app that's paid for brought up. Idk.. wouldn't using dating apps pop a red flag?

[@Trollbot007]

Defund CHADISM…..💀💀💀💀

[@carlosmutale2064]

Great video

[@The-Red-Eye-ws1te]

Yoo your nose shape changed austin compared to the past

[@EriPages]

Right from the start this guy on the left is very sus and seems very insecure too. Didn't even let the guest introduce who tf we're suppose to be paying attention to until however long into the video

[@drmahidhar1876]

He has 11.9k subscribers, agree to a point but it’s a long term play and people don’t get their skills up in one shot. But this is valid feedback and if he is smart he would take it into consideration and learn from it and not take it personally

[@EriPages]

@drmahidhar1876 the 2nd half of your comment was valid. The 1st half of your comment is just glazing the guy because not introducing your guest from the start is something even kids don't do at school shows It's basic. He even introduced himself but doesn't introduce the other guy? And the other guy I checked has a huge account, so the other guy is effectively doing this guy a favor yet still fumbled the most basic of introductions? Give me a break. And this guy better drop the effeminate sus mannerisms act more relaxed, more masculine. We don't want more effeminate dudes clogging up the youtube algorithm The guys behaviour just radiates insecurity from start to finish Speaking of finish, he doesn't even thank the guest for being on his show at the end...again, a basic courtesy even kids at kid shows would cover Quit glazing this guy. His behaviour is sus and mad insecure...he even admits he has a big ego which is a sign of very low confidence.

[@kingcap594]

Chad : 😃, Austin : 🤨

[@greatfortunecookiewisdom2258]

Do you mean choose or PURSUE?

[@ChadRobertson-d8g]

Austin im in Miami, where is the classy ratchet lounge?

[@jacobjames4685]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@karl2477]

ID on Austins shirt?

[@connormcchicken5915]

Haven’t watched these guys in a while and holy shit how did they look worse?

[@AngelofJustice412]

But Austin I thought you said to not wear checkered shirts

[@intelligentleader123]

Austin and the other guy look alike. Are you brothers from the same parents?

[@joesyauh]

Not really how that phrase works lol

[@intelligentleader123]

@@joesyauh How does it work?

[@joesyauh]

@@intelligentleader123 saying “brothers from the same parents” is kinda redundant considering people typically assume that. Pretty sure the phrase is “brothers from another/different mothers” to imply that two people look similar. I could be misinterpreting what you mean tho

[@stieg_smith]

@@joesyauhHe should have left it at, “are you brothers?”

[@joesyauh]

@@stieg_smith yea

[@Imcomingfeliz]

Love when my boys collab

[@gerardlead9321]

Sorry, I’m an 8 and there’s no way I can date a girl that’s a 6. I cannot date a woman that I am more handsome than she used to pretty.

[@skinnyguy7773]

This happens quite frequently, especially on dating apps where men routinely date down. Most men have no problem dating down in today's market.

[@gerardlead9321]

@@skinnyguy7773 desperate

[@drmahidhar1876]

@@gerardlead9321neither is wrong; maybe a person has to start “from the bottom” to build a “rotation of 5,6,7” to get the ability to “treat all women the same”. I’m pretty sure these guys have dated such women in the past and now that they have such abundance and are so good at generating leads online, they then can reshape the types of women that they deal with.

[@redrum8302]

Austin looks like he doesn’t wanna be there and he also is looking like “This guy talks too much”… Made me uncomfortable. But I like both of these guys. They seem cool.