How to be ok when it’s not ok.
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Tapping for distress around pet theft
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EFT tapping for pet theft distress
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@laurendudley2321
@laurendudley2321 9 сағат бұрын
Ferris, thank you for this session.. Very helpful at this time for me.
@Tyagi244
@Tyagi244 19 сағат бұрын
OMG! I was so skeptical but after a day of seeing my cat struggling, I tried this. First, it helped me calm down (which might have conveyed to my cat) and then when i did this, my cat came to me and purred. SO grateful! To all those saying negative things or berating the creator - Wouldn't you try do anything if it helps? And also, even if it is the sound etc., and not EFT, it still is helping so do give it a try, it might just be the thing (if not for your cat then maybe for you as animals pick up on your emotions.)
@claudiarydel9157
@claudiarydel9157 2 күн бұрын
Thanks Ferris, just what I needed ❤
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 күн бұрын
@@claudiarydel9157 I’m pleased to hear that Claudia, thanks for letting me know.
@runningherdproductionsllc127
@runningherdproductionsllc127 2 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I really needed this today!!!♥
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 күн бұрын
@@runningherdproductionsllc127 I’m glad that it was helpful for you today, thanks for letting me know 😊
@deniseportelance1238
@deniseportelance1238 2 күн бұрын
Thanks again, Ferris. Always at the right time❤
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 күн бұрын
@@deniseportelance1238 you’re so welcome Denise, I’m really glad that it was good timing for you ❤️
@gunnsjli1998
@gunnsjli1998 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this beautiful video❤️❤️❤️Weekend are close and we are still hoping and praying for missing dog Falcor's homecoming 🙏He has been missing for almost 2 years 😢We have been in contact with psycics and some of them can tell that he is held by someone😢Saturday we will be out in the woods again looking for Falcor,talking with people for help❤️Please pray for him to recognize us 🙏🍀❤️ I also hope if someone can help with prayers and information of where he is🙏❤️❤️❤️Thank you for all support and thoughts❤️Love from Gunn/Norway❤️
@jumpy2853
@jumpy2853 10 күн бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart ♥️💔
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 9 күн бұрын
you're so welcome - I hope this helps soften the grief a little 💚
@claudiarydel9157
@claudiarydel9157 15 күн бұрын
Thanks Ferris, this is something I've been curious about. Finding Joy in the ordinary, of just being present with what I am doing. A work in progress. 🙂
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 15 күн бұрын
@@claudiarydel9157 enjoy that journey Claudia 😍
@Sood123456
@Sood123456 17 күн бұрын
I love how your dog sits so calmly in every video.lol. makes me laugh 😂 so cute 😂😂😂
@GT_FM
@GT_FM 23 күн бұрын
😊 Yep fully agree! 😊
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 23 күн бұрын
thanks GT 🙂
@emmaliston2317
@emmaliston2317 2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 ай бұрын
@@emmaliston2317 you’re so welcome 😊
@GT_FM
@GT_FM 2 ай бұрын
Yes I like this viewpoint as it helps me be OK with smaller steps in the moment. Being thankful is sometimes difficult especially if we can't feel it.
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 ай бұрын
thank you, as ever, GT, I'm glad the viewpoint is helpful. Each step, however small, is movement forwards. For me the question is a soft way to get closer to gratitude in moments where it isn't feeling easy.
@annaklarenbach4470
@annaklarenbach4470 2 ай бұрын
My little dog ​​is in a terrible condition, She will have surgery today. Can you send her energy, please?🙏I send thanks from the bottom of my heart for your beautiful words
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 ай бұрын
May her surgery go smoothly and may her recovery be gentle and easy. The technique in this video iis great (if you are feeling calm) for sending them positive energy during and after surgery. If you're nervous before her surgery, you can follow along with this eft tapping video kzbin.info/www/bejne/iZLbl4yFnqeiraMsi=8AdGjVrtKGmQlLzy
@annaklarenbach4470
@annaklarenbach4470 2 ай бұрын
@@FerrisJay I send thanks from the bottom of my heart for your beautiful words❤
@lidiamarina
@lidiamarina 2 ай бұрын
I cried doing this tappping, very emotional. I will repeat many times, thanks so much Ferris. Also I will do the tapping for my pets and family. Subscribed. Wishing sweet blessings for you 🥰
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your lovely comment. Please do rinse and repeat as necessary. It's great that you're doing the tapping for yourself, your pets and your family 💚
@lidiamarina
@lidiamarina 2 ай бұрын
@@FerrisJay 🥰
@DS-fi1qq
@DS-fi1qq 2 ай бұрын
Lovely Thank you for sharing God Bless you
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 ай бұрын
You’re very welcome.
@delfinostellato74
@delfinostellato74 2 ай бұрын
This is wonderful.As a reiki pratictioner i know about using surrogates.I took a course on tapping but i didn't know that was possible using surrogates in tapping too.I love it!😊
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 2 ай бұрын
Oh yes, it’s so good for tapping, especially with pets. All my tapping with pets and energy work for them is surrogate, it’s incredibly effective ❤️
@lusciouslatasha
@lusciouslatasha 3 ай бұрын
Do you still do tapping
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 3 ай бұрын
Yes, I still do tapping, for pets and their people, worldwide and I love seeing the benefits of it. If you'd like to explore the possibility of working with me, you can book a free 15 minute consultation here: calendly.com/ferrisjay/free-15-minute-phone-online-video-consultation
@lusciouslatasha
@lusciouslatasha 3 ай бұрын
Yes I found you years ago, and now again due to my cat being ill.. how long do you know tap for. Thank you
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 3 ай бұрын
@@lusciouslatasha hi Latasha, that's a great question. Every situation is different and unique, but here's a few general suggestions. Doing the tapping for 5 minutes at a time several times a day will make a difference. You can also do a quick round of tapping if you're upset about their symptoms or their symptoms are having a flare up. If you're tapping for your reactions - tap until the intensity is low to 0. If you're tapping for their symptoms, usually 5 minutes at a time will have an effect (animals respond to energy work very fast). You would tap regularly, 1 - 3 times a day, for the duration of their illness. Does that answer your question?
@vidhivachharajani403
@vidhivachharajani403 3 ай бұрын
This is saving me right now ! ❤ So grateful 😇
@kala9907
@kala9907 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video. Have you seen women, reduce their symptoms drastically or reverse their symptoms completely ?
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 4 ай бұрын
Hi Kala, that's a great question. I have seen women overcome major issues with stress and hormone imbalances from doing EFT tapping and also from doing Qi Gong (I'm also a Qi Gong trainer). I think perimenopause and menopause requires a bespoke approach and sometimes that includes working with several modalities. One major factor is stress. When we're stressed it puts more pressure on our adrenal glands, which in perimenopause are taking on more of a role in also producing sex hormones. So if we have life stress at that time, it's vital to address it, to give the adrenals a chance to focus on producing sex hormones. From what I've seen, woman who are under a lot of stress at this time or don't have a lot of stability in their lives e.g. in their work or relationships, may have more intense symptoms and require a multi faceted approach. When working with women, to help them overcome their stress and anxiety, I have found eft tapping to be incredibly effective. It can also be as effective for the physical symptoms of peri menopause and menopause - which makes sense as both mind and body are inter-connected. For a dramatic change it's important to work on physical, mental and emotional symptoms and to work with the root causes of them. Often, the issues we haven't dealth with come up larger than life during perimenopause, ready to be cleared for once and for all. Working superficially, on surface symptoms will help, but for deeper impact, it's best to deal with the core issues and support yourself on alll levels. Then perimenopause can be a journey of entering a wonderfull new phase of life and empoewerment. Does that make sense?
@eccentricoldcow
@eccentricoldcow 4 ай бұрын
The chap is putting me of listening to this, Im sorry but he gabbles far too fast, and i find it very irritating.Oh it was an ad on here and not Ferris Jay, so sorry. shame as he spoils it.
@laurendudley2321
@laurendudley2321 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ferris. I will do this daily! Lovely visualization.
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 4 ай бұрын
thank you Laurem, I'm glad you like the visualisation. Let me know what the effect is from doing it daily. I'll be doing it daily too.
@aveguevara
@aveguevara 4 ай бұрын
Such a lovely and nurturing way to connect. Thank you dear Ferris!
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Ave, may it be deeply nurturing for you whenever you do it.
@GT_FM
@GT_FM 4 ай бұрын
Yes, really enjoying this tonight. Just what I needed. Thanks!
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 4 ай бұрын
Thank you GT, I’m glad it’s what you needed.
@deniseportelance1238
@deniseportelance1238 4 ай бұрын
Brought up strong emotions. Touched a place of tears that I will have to explore slowly by watching over again and working with tapping. Thank you, Ferris
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 4 ай бұрын
Hi Denise, it can bring up strong emotions as we often bury grief inside. Go gently with it and let the exercise nourish you. Please do the tapping on the emotions that come up ( they’re ready to release ). You’re great at tapping and can use your own words to match what you’re feeling. If you’d like any guidance I have grief tap alongs in this playlist kzbin.info/aero/PLtfsSstdGi5edM_x9NBCCX_O5dMY8__Z_&si=trqGSibLiuPe9bku
@NK-dj6ob
@NK-dj6ob 5 ай бұрын
My 10yr old cat has a hard lump on her lymph gland which has mestastasized. Would this method work on her?
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 5 ай бұрын
In her case I wouldn’t send energy directly to the lump. Surround her in a bubble of love and send love through the heart connection to go where it’s needed. You can do the eft tapping videos as an addition. I’ll leave a link below ( and have a playlist )
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 5 ай бұрын
Is you are upset about the lump, do eft tapping for that and if she seems in discomfort or stressed you could try this one kzbin.info/www/bejne/aqnRoneefdeJZqMsi=DTD0hWpatmNLcqlB
@aveguevara
@aveguevara 5 ай бұрын
My poodles, Juliette & Easton are exceptionally chill today during the eclipse. Of course I am too.
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 5 ай бұрын
Hi Ave, I’m glad you’re all chill today for the eclipse. Thanks for sharing. It’s lovely to know how all the animals - and humans - are finding it. Lots of love to you all, Ferris.
@GT_FM
@GT_FM 5 ай бұрын
Timely video. Good info for both pets and guardians. ❤
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you GT, I hope both pets and people have a relaxed eclipse experience tomorrow ❤️
@aveguevara
@aveguevara 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this - I've been practicing this lately and it does work to stop and remember we DO have a choice despite thinking it was a decades long habit to 'be' stressed over external landscapes/experiences/situations, etc.
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 5 ай бұрын
Hi Ave, thank you for your lovely comment. I’m so glad you’ve been practicing this and remembering that you do have choice and can always choose in ways that nurture and support your wellbeing and happiness. It can take time for new habits to develop, so be consistent and soon the new ways of thinking will come easier and become your ‘go to’. My video on letting go of worry with the ‘what if’ game is a nice companion exercise - to turn around thoughts relating to future external situations. Here’s the link kzbin.info/www/bejne/Y4u8pmaijNaDbNUsi=N8_F-Qt9My_yjug8
@mamandapanda185
@mamandapanda185 6 ай бұрын
It's nice to have validation regarding how hard it is for me to see him with the thing on
@rc4781
@rc4781 6 ай бұрын
Ferris I'm so glad to have found you. This video helped me so much ; I am currently facing very difficult emotions and feelings around my 16 year old border collie Macey. It gave me such comfort to see you and Sally(also a border collie, such a coincidence), accompanied by the tapping. I feel less alone within my anticipation. Thank you so much xx
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 6 ай бұрын
I'm so glad this was helpful for you and you now feel less alone. Repeat it if difficult emotions surface again.
@yin_renaissance
@yin_renaissance 6 ай бұрын
This really helped ❤
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 6 ай бұрын
That’s great news. Thanks for letting me know. If you’re happy to share more - let me know how it helped. And keep tapping to get even more benefit.
@yin_renaissance
@yin_renaissance 6 ай бұрын
Of course, I am happy to share more :) The way you used one phrase and the repetition really helped the tapping sink in... Sometimes on tapping videos, they are too fast and use so many phrases and my brain does not work at that fast pace so I end up not feeling the effect because I feel too rushed... The way you set it up to focus on the symptoms before - rather than giving us the option to choose from loads of symptoms - and then tapping on one phrase just really worked for me. It was simple not over complicated and there was lots of space for me to feel into it. I had been feeling so low and it just lifted afterwards. I wish I had known about this years ago. Thank you for this gift @@FerrisJay
@iamastarchild
@iamastarchild 7 ай бұрын
Used this twice today, as well as brief visualization, for a severely-stressed cat (owner passed away, cat rehomed about 2 days after that) who had not been eating for around 5 days. Cat started eating!!! Thank you very much, Ferris!
@FerrisJay
@FerrisJay 3 ай бұрын
that's wonderful, I'm so glad you were able to do that for the cat and were able to help them through tapping - and thanks for letting me know,
@aveguevara
@aveguevara 7 ай бұрын
Thank you Ferris - I tap for ME every morning/night - and plumb forgot to regularly tap for Juliette!!!! I'm so glad to have gotten this reminder today! MUCH LOVE
@BlandineHeart
@BlandineHeart 8 ай бұрын
Greetings Ferris, thank you for this video. I was searching the web for a tapping on self comparison and I have found it! It speaks to me and it helps me. Many thanks for your light and gentleness :-) Blessings ps. comparisonitus makes it funny too which is welcome!
@SylviaZoe1
@SylviaZoe1 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. I have been so upset for my Zoe’s health. I’m so glad for this video that has really helped me see things with hope.
@tessa7777
@tessa7777 9 ай бұрын
Thank you,my cat is home
@G0THICA798
@G0THICA798 9 ай бұрын
Would it work on a pet rat that has health problems
@youmoveme888
@youmoveme888 9 ай бұрын
Ferris! I love and appreciate this video. 🫶🏼 First for calming me down and seeing how my energy was affecting her, then tapping for her. Immediate differences. Calming. I saw underneath my irritation, is fear, denial and avoidance.😬 Thank you for reminding me how easy it is to let go; and go to God. 🙏🏼🙌🏼
@betsaification
@betsaification 9 ай бұрын
How many rounds?
@betsaification
@betsaification 9 ай бұрын
What about the top of the head ????
@aveguevara
@aveguevara 9 ай бұрын
The other BIG one - my adult daughter said to me when I was grieving my beloved Cheyana's death at 12.5 was & still is, "well, she lived a good long life" - no acknowledgement of "I'm sorry you're hurting mom" - my granddaughters have been MUCH more gracious and compassionate. My other daughter never even mentioned the event, or ask how I was doing - nothing. I hope no one has to endure this sort of treatment. Now my 20 year old granddaughter is facing having to euthanize her beloved dog she rescued when she was in 4th grade - I hope her mother has more compassion for her daughter. Much love to you Ferris. I've had 'the talk' with my granddaughter today as I could tell it's been on her mind - and told her about you and how we can find your videos to help us out. This situation is triggering all my grief for Cheyana's loss 2 years ago. BLESSINGS & APPRECIATION for all you give us dear Ferris!