Did you end up doing the Epic Shit Series? Please get back to me as soon as possible and have a great weekend.

please come back !!!

I’ll admit this is a skill that takes A WHILE to master goodness gracious 💀😭😭😭

1. You're as unconquerable as you choose to be 2. You cannot attract what you detest ( fix your relationship with money) 3. Fuck being the cool girl

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I keep coming back to this video every season. It is such a great reminder for me

I’m watching after 2 years and I must say you’re speaking the truth. After breaking from validation and awareness from family and friends, best believe I began living better and doing better. Thank you. Some people just want to reflect their feelings and emotions for NO reason.

Ommmggg you’re back 😢😊❤

HI honey, its been a long time i told u once that i have self confidence issues and this video make me fulllll of confidence and than with days i become downnnn and forget every single advise and i come back to recharge my confidence... But Today while im watching your video hearing ur impeccable devices i doscover that i came here evry year to recharge an confidence in a different area of my life ... My first time i had family issues i got better when i learned to just focus on the right things and i worked on it and its done it take me a year i thing The next i came watch you for 2 years for the work and my job i had alot offff issues allot... and thanks tonks to GOD and to u its work i became strong independent women and i give advices sometimes 😅 And this tiiiime my forth year i came because i discovered that i dont have a personal live , my personal live is so messy... its like i took care ABT everything, all but one thing thats me ... i forget myself and my friendship became weird that i need to work on i took what i need from this video i hope i dont come back again next year hhhh OMG ... its like instantly i recognise that thing love u and thnk for helping us if u read my comment answer me with an advice u feel i need to hear it... and thank you ❤😊

I guess the ultimate response to this idea, is to not care what you think and watch something else.

I have been looking for you for ages 😭. I remember watching this video years ago and feeling like I could relate so much. I was typing in “neurology” 😅 I’m so glad I found you!

Amazing video thank you

Yes I agree with it but when I needed support like actually, like when I was depressed and anxious that is when: my parents abandoned me, no the guy I eas engaged to left and broke the engagement. When I was very sick and helpless, when I could eat, drink water, get up out of bed. I wasn’t even able to drive, and no one, and I mean no one was there. My mom wasn’t even there. And at the end of the day it’s my fault that I was like this. Can you imagine - and to this day they are like “it’s your fault”. What do you have to say to that!?

I would have to say this for myself this was my career. I chose so much for my career and only focused all of the year on that and I was so lonely I forgot how to be a person and what life was all about. By the way that career is medicine. What I got in return: absolutely nothing, in fact it took a lot of things away from. 3rd year of residency I got very sick, had significant weight loss because I lost my appetite and did not eat anything because of stress, lost 20 lb weight in 1 month, and was not able to function or think because of depression and anxiety. So I was let go and unable to finish, and ahead of that my family was so shocked they want to basically kick me out of the house. So yes I know a lot of you guys are not going to care but.

Yes my is very toxic and alternative day will say things that cause low self esteem and self degradation. Like you’re not good enough, you can’t do it, your not going tog eat what you want in your life.

Please come back to KZbin. I have come back to this video so many times throughout the years. You’re the only person who empowered me to kick the toxic people out of my life rather than enable them like everyone else

2024 youtube comeback?

Where have you been, girl?? We miss your content❤

I know this video is pretty old and i am late to the party but just wanted to comment that the part about immigrant parents projecting so much fear onto you that they talk you out of your dreams hit home for me!!

You are like a Hot Tamalie

I am guilty of asking what people think about me but I am starting to care about what I think about myself

I am Christian, and I always come back to this video. May Jesus bless you, Nur.

I come back to this video still today bc her advice isn’t superficial or “easier said than done” because she literally tells you how to change the framework on clarifying your priorities and putting self advocacy as your top.

I think I'm in love !!! With your mouth. God those teeth are beautiful !

Man. Those teeth are really really White. What's your secret ?? What toothpaste do you use. ? What the hell is your secret ??

I don't care what people think of me because I know my VALUES. I value kindness, inclusion, body positivity, self love, and happiness.

I remember watching this years ago and my answer "no", but now years later I'm glad I can actually say that "yes" I do trust myself ❤

You're one smart cookie! ♥️✔️🌞👣🌹

Thank u❤️

When I feel the urge, I give myself the validation I was initially going to seek as if I asked myself.

Thank you soo much for mentioning the difference between toxic people and those with mental health issues. Anxiety/depression can sometimes make one seem like a negative energy to be around but its a cry for help. If anything, they feel worse about themselves. Really appreciate this video <3

i love wearing leather trench coats I always get bulled and laughed 😢 i have to wear normal clothes guest to place others but when I am wearing normal clothes i am sad and miserable because am only dressing normal to make others happy so no one bothers me in this toxic jealous world i really prefer to wear leather trench coats I don't want to be like everyone else I want to be me.

i am watching ur vds in 2023 and all of ur vds are of 6 ,7 yrs ago you dont make vidos now wht happend???

Mine is: Yes. After having gone through what I have in life. I don't trust myself completely.

What ever happened to her?? We need her lol

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Why did you quit posting

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I trust my self completely, don’t ask for permission or consult others. But when you express yourself and no one finds value in you it’s not a warm feeling. It will still make you want to not care. Imaging going through life being so sure of yourself and knowing your value but nobody shows that they see that value. We still want community and friends and love

Girl.... You should post more!! ❤

Very easy to say this as an above average looking woman who can get unlimited positive comments on social media

I’m late to the video but I personally hate when ppl ask why don’t I have kids, which college I attended or what church I go to. I tell ppl I don’t even have a GED, I’m atheist & work at McDonalds like if I don’t answer correctly are you going to treat me any less smh

People who don’t trust themselves been taught to be people pleasers. They’ve been taught to play a character that isn’t them is order to be loved. They’ve been taught that what they love and are passionate about is wrong.

Anything that cost your peace, let it go.

Always revisit these !

Stop and think. "What would grandpa do?" old people could give 2 shits about what other people think about them. when in a wal mart look around at old guys they are most likely shopping in bermuda shorts white tee shirts and flip flops with black knee high socks why ? because they don't give a shit about what others think about them. Grandpa might be sweet and cuddly when your around but to the world in general he is downright mean and set in his ways. I know this because I'm old

Hi there superb post

I STOPPED THAT ALONG TIME AGO

I love motivation 😍