Relationship with Money, Stop Being the Cool Girl and Other Life Advice

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[@doomsday2906]

You're TED worthy

[@peniaioannou2205]

Mince that's exactly what I was thinking.

[@kitssch]

I second this

[@Sasha-lg1ln]

Totally I third this 👌

[@ah-ss7he]

i 4th this

[@dianainthedesert8617]

Also Nur's momma thanks for giving birth to this amazing lady ❤️😍

[@nurology]

You're a sweetheart!!

[@beigelover95]

dianainthedesert yes thank you so much ❤❤

[@TonalliZeleste]

THANK YOU !!!!

[@laurenschroeder4943]

III. Stop being the cool girl Yes. Thank goodness I figured this out for myself. I'm 31, but used to PRIDE myself for being the "cool girl". Crazy how when I stopped trying to be so cool I fell in love and married someone I'm truly compatible with and can be so "uncool" around :)

[@LetsStopThisSong]

I find that wanting to be the cool girl comes from a place of seeking validation, and that is my biggest problem.

[@13Maria.Cortez13]

Authenticity = 🗝🗝🗝🗝. Authentic = aesthetic. ✨⭐🌟🌠⚡🌙 Personality = originality 💯🔥💋 + embrace it. 😏💙💚💜😎

[@darkchocolate3122]

I am a cool girl, and im never happy. Not at all like the girl that I portray to be.

[@nurology]

This breaks my heart, but I so appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. If there's a way I can help, let me know. 💙

[@brenme35]

ialexychrissy. Me too it sux

[@Iquey]

You gotta raise your standards. Martyrdom becomes bitterness and wanting others so suffer similarly real quick. You may not think it's in your character, but everyone has tipping points. Keep yourself safe. Keep yourself cared for.

[@tiffanykyer]

😢

[@selmabislim]

Yayyyy new video! Love this! I'm also a firm no "cool girl" bullshit with guys type. You either show me you want me or you show me you don't-- ladies, we know the difference!

[@nurology]

LOVE that!!! 🙌🏼

[@superholly]

GIRL! YOU ARE SO INSPIRING!!!! PS Hi mom! Great job with this one...

[@nurology]

THANK YOU!! Adore you, Holly!! 💙

[@MariaLuckyxo]

What you put up with , is what you end up with. Having standards, boundaries and assertive communication are the foundation to self esteem. People will rise to your level. Love, love, love your videos Nur, more please:)

[@justinerodriguez7667]

“You will never attract what you detest,” thank you, I’ve been so judging of flashy people, but this video helped me see that money is not inherently evil.

[@SISIABBAS]

Justine Rodriguez this is so true

[@ashley11miller]

No exaggeration, you speak to my soul. You are so incredible!! To be honest I have no words. You have such a gift and I am so grateful that I get the chance to learn from you. Thank you!! P.S. HI MOM!!! You raised an amazing woman!!

[@nurology]

You are so sweet!!! Thank you 🙏🏼

[@brookgurule536]

something you talk about often is how we need to remember the things we have already been through and believe in ourselves to get through the things we are dealing with now. I love that because it's easy to forget what we have already over come.

[@Alexis-ec9cl]

Brook Gurule i had a bad day at work the other day and it was only bad towards the end when a table complained about my service (i am a waitress). They told my manager i wasn't engaging enough and apparently my service wasn't up to the service they usually get at my work. It broke me because even tho i've only been a waitress for 3 weeks, that was the one thing i was the most afraid of, being told on, by my manager, particularly the one i don't like the most. I went home and cried myself to sleep i was so sad. I felt embarrassed not good enough everything. Then i remember what she says. If i was able to stand there and hear my manager and customer criticize me to my face (and behind my back) i could over come almost anything else, because that was my absolute greatest fear. Now i have work all weekend long and i'm gonna pick my self back up and continue to try and not be discouraged because that's not who i am. i've made it this far..

[@brealexandria]

The "cool girl" part in Gone Girl, was my favorite part of the movie, and something that I think about often. Loved the video, you shared amazing advice!!

[@nurology]

My favorite part too!! Thank you love!

[@parishaines1993]

"I know people who have little to no money and....they're pretty fuckin evil" LMAO i love you

[@alyssamonet4243]

I appreciate that you gave the example of paying for someones starbucks drink specifically. I'm very poor and I have been all my life. Right now I'm in college fulltime and working two jobs just trying to get by. I never go out because I can't afford to and, as a result, I've lost many friends (friends I feel better without, however, I feel like they couldn't be there with me during my struggle so they don't deserve to be by my side through my success). I stay in doors all day and suffer from Major Depressive Disorder and Anxiety. My one little bit of joy is going to buy a starbucks maybe once or twice a month. I love their drinks and starbucks holds a lot of good memories for me so I just like going there. One day I went through a starbucks drive through. I had two exams that week (one that day) and I was exhausted from studying. I had spent about a half hour scrounging up change before I left just to try to pay for one little drink. I was so stressed that day about school and money. I felt lonely and tired and I hadn't left my house in about a week except to go to class so I just needed my feel-good starbucks. When I got to the drive-thru I made my order then got up to the front window and the cashier tells me the person in front of me has paid for my drink. That meant so much to me especially in that moment and on that day. Her small act of kindness toward a complete stranger completely made all the difference. I was so happy it completely brightened my day and reminded me that not all people are bad. I put the little bit of change I'd found into gas instead and took my exam with a renewed spirit and passed. Don't underestimate what a small act of kindness can do for someone

[@alejandrinar.971]

Alyssa Daisy Hello! I hope you’re in a better place financially now.

[@laughytaffy19]

Just realized I'm the cool girl and I am in the process of changing that. So happy I watched this because it gave me the confidence to keep going even though my friends are starting to call me moody, irritated, etc. This self-confidence journey is hard but I'm feeling happier with myself. Everyone out there on the same journey, keep going!!!

[@rrubywoo11]

Your mindset fascinates me 👑

[@nurology]

😘

[@veganlife9205]

I am SO grateful to hear you speak about not being a cool girl.. I have always been told I'm too harsh and picky and sometimes I get insecure and test being more forgiving which actually is, like you said, lowering my standards. I'm almost 30 and still feel that I would rather be alone than with someone that I don't feel 100% respected by. I am in a situation like that now with a guy that is really cool and I like him a lot but my gut is telling me it's not good enough so I was planning on speaking to him about it in a few days and your message right here just killed the part of me that was scared and thinking about doing it half ass. So THANK YOU for being the best role model!

[@saviharrison]

Thank you for making me realise that i’m the “cool” girl, never wanting to kick up a fuss but never happy

[@nataljoy]

The cool girl rant... ugh!!! I just love you.

[@Carol28101]

Thank you for this video !!! :D Your message about growing up poor and having a bad relationship with money resonates with me very much. When you said worked on your relationship with money what practical things did you do to change the way you dealt with money? (Did you you come up with a financial plan, made journal entries about your current philosophy and then re-wrote differently the new attitudes you wanted to have, allowed yourself to buy a couple of luxury items and treat yourself, etc.)

[@emilyhedges4483]

Your videos in conjunction with fitness and learning human behavior and the effect it has on yourself and others; I have found a way to bring myself up to a level I never even though existed for me. I use to think I was only worth as much as much as the attention I received from others. Especially men (I admit reluctantly). But I have and still am reaching a confidence level that has made me realize how truly amazing I really am. I never thought I could actually 'not care' about what other people thought of me. The gratitude I have for you is inexpressible, I only hope that your life will be as fulfilling as possible and you have all the happiness in the world. Thank you for the precious time that you spend doing what you do.

[@beigelover95]

Emily Hedges how long did it take u to get to this level and what action steps did you take? x

[@emilyhedges4483]

It has taken me about two years now to get to where I am. But the changes I made were dramatic. I spent three years day dreaming about the person I wanted to be but never doing anything about it. I was in a toxic relationship with someone who made me feel like I couldn't do what I wanted with my own body and still be with him. While I was in a deep depression I would spend a lot of time on KZbin. While browsing one day I found Nur's first confidence video and I had to have watched it at least a hundred time. Eventually I realized that the person I really wanted to be with was not someone who made me feel like I shouldn't want what I wanted. But I wanted to be with someone who loved me and didnt want to stop me from growing. I realized that I wanted to be myself. So I wanted to be happy with myself. I wanted to be happy when I was alone and I wanted to be brave enough to do anything alone. But I really didn't know how. Nor did I even like who I was. So Nur's videos were used as guidance for me. I wanted to be better than I was. Not for anyone else, but for me. So I figured if I started exercising I would like how I looked. But instead I just sort of started to feel better about myself. Not because I saw physical progress, but rather mental. I was actually sticking to what I said I would. I was proud of myself. Then I looked at the people in my life and I decided to take a few months off from everyone else. during that I time I built myself. I started to have plans. I made goals and I strove for them. I still talked to people but mostly I was focusing on me. I started getting things done that I knew really mattered. Slowly I stopped questioning myself and when I did that I had faith in myself. When I had faith in myself I didn't care what other people thought of me. I took a look at the whole picture and figured out what I wanted. If someone called me full of myself I knew they were the type of person who thought I should think less of myself and I didn't want them in my life. I choose who is in my life now because I know I am worth more than what people might try to make me feel. Same goes for everyone. I don't know if this helps, but I hope it does.

[@hillsno1]

Emily Hedges Wow, really helpful.

[@Lisa_Fernandezhomeandlifestyle]

Emily Hedges ❤️ Thank you 🙏🏽

[@glennonjr]

Your analogy about money..! Daaaaaaaaamn!!!!!!!👌🏾 You're alright with me Nur

[@nurology]

🙂

[@kristinacorrea9492]

You have the best advice of anyone on KZbin hands down ! Very real and Raw !

[@LeahCheréMason]

omg when you started saying about "and for Steve, you don't just disappear on people.. explain yourself, etc!" I"m like YAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS preach it sister

[@nancyfmejia]

You're back and I'm gonna watch your videos on the loop because you really have helped me during this time in my life where I just went through an ugly divorce and custody battle. I feel broken and the most insecure I've ever felt and listening to you is the fuel I need daily. Thank you for your knowledge. I've been watching you for YEARS and you never seize to amaze me with your words and positivity.

[@omgjeez1]

I can't help but say you are so beautiful IN and OUT! So knowledgeable, good hearted, down-to-earth and drop dead gorgeous. I'm so happy you're on KZbin and you're helping so many people including me a lot. What an incredible human being!

[@daniellatorres4877]

You don’t even understand how much I needed to hear both this video and your “stop caring what people thing” video. You are amazing !!! Truly. Thank you.

[@mimichagirl1139]

You are totally right young lady, I don't like to be the cool girl anymore. I should respect myself, raise my standards , and I ll stop saying be a cool girl to others . Thank u

[@very.victorious]

You are a light babe! I needed to hear this video and you always speak straight to the heart!

[@TurdCrumb]

can't believe i started watching your videos in high school and i'm turning 25 this summer. your advice becomes all the more relevant now that i'm actually an adult. love listening to you talk!! #nurforpresident

[@TurdCrumb]

just remembered you weren't born in the states, were you? there goes that idea...

[@Alexis-ec9cl]

Megan Dubya i think i found her original videos when i was a junior in college and now i'm 23 still watching. and i agree, more relevant than ever

[@skillzzz]

You are definitely something I aspire to be. I'm 31 years old as well and I'm now realizing my self worth and learning to live with fears and disappointments. The information you share is amazing and incite full. I appreciate the content you offer. The whole "cool girl" topic spoke to me. For years I've been hiding my wants and needs in order to be the cool girl. I needed to hear this. You're amazing!

[@nezutaso]

This is so thought provoking. I wanted to write a paragraph about my thoughts on money but you basically just said them all. Thank you.

[@tinakalala8895]

I saw your toxic people video months ago... I was so deep in love that it didn't hit me. Ffwd I still I am in the relationship and love him with every ounce of me but I'm finally just tired. Deteriorating and tired. I watched your video again and it gave me so much hope and relief. Please continue to post. Your videos are nurturing; real but not condemning or sugar coated.

[@beepowers444]

I am so happy I found your videos. I have been going through a lot in my personal life and work life, I have recently changed how I let people treat me. Your videos resonate with me!!! I am 35 and I am just now standing up for myself to friends, family and co- workers, it was a very scary thing to take in at first but I did it for my mental and physical health. Certain relationships I had with people were extremely toxic and I didn’t know how to keep them away or how to be firm and stand up for myself. I am happy to say that it’s been a few months since I have made many changes in my life and I am VERY HAPPY !!!!! I cut out all the people that caused me pain, anxiety and anger in my life. For many years I nurtured and cherished relationships with people that were as you say “shitting at my party” my life is important to me and I finally WOKE up !!!! I am no longer “the cool girl” but I am okay with that, in fact .. I love the fact I’m not the cool girl. I don’t have many friends now but the ones I do have treat me kindly and give me the respect I know I deserve, I stopped being a doormat. I never wanted to cut family out because in our culture you just “don’t do that” so I struggled with that but I had to change my way of thinking to get peace in my life.

[@FLJAMESFL]

OMG. I feel totally grown now. You make the childish thoughts just fade away. Thanks so much. Blessed you right.

[@vanesahernandez9836]

Words can't describe how thankful I am after watching your coaching video. I feel enlighten with positivity. I'm in my early 20's and my perception on money and "cool girl" has change for the best . Thank you !

[@thatswhatisaidCA]

Right ON!!! I'm 54, and I still this "cool girl" stuff going on - at every age!!! So happy to hear you say this. I just shared this on my FB Page. You go, gurl!!! (p.s. Hi Mom!)

[@Christina-ls7df]

Mama Nur, Thank you for raising the most incredible woman. You will never know the impact that your daughter has had in so many lives. Nur is the big sister that some of us never had and it is out of pure LOVE why she does what she does. Your daughter has taught me everything from shaving my face, to trusting in myself to becoming the woman I was created to be. Nur truly leads by example. We crave/NEED more woman like her in our society. Her light shines SO bright in this dark world that her mission is unstoppable. Again I say, THANK YOU THANK YOU for bringing Nur into this world, we love you!

[@andrewavila7552]

These words are timeless - Honestly, I can watch and listen to your video one year and gain something. Turn around one year later, do it all again, and still gain something from it. Sort of like watching a movie several times only to discover even more details!

[@JJ-mo3ln]

I came across your channel yesterday and was honestly instantly drawn to how insightful, thought provoking and positive your videos are. I watched this video yesterday, and this video was so amazeballs that I woke up early this morning, got out my notebook, clicked on this video again and started making notes. Thank you so much for sharing your views on life with us. Thank you from a new subscriber.

[@lishgaviglio3419]

I wonder if most people realize how powerful and true he messages are... Not only that, but NEEDED and beautifully said!!! 💓 Thank you darling soul sister!!! I can share these proudly!!!

[@shannonbohringer7202]

I never and I mean never comment on videos, but I just found your channel and I feel beyond empowered. Your words are like jumper cables because they have literally re-started by battery!! Thank you!!

[@greggclunis]

Absolutely love your thoughts on the relationship to money. I grew up in a non-wealthy home as well but I went in the other direction. Instead of learning to detest money as a result, I learned to make money the #1 goal. I wanted it and I wanted it bad. I'm happy I went down that path because it's created great opportunities for me but it did take time to redefine my relationship with money to be more about creating value for other people rather than about earning money for myself.

[@kandidlykaypea4634]

GIRL. I LOVE the passion! :) I love that analogy about money.

[@AllieCandelaria0x]

I have officially watched this video three times. I have now sent this to all my little and big sisters in my life. Thank you for providing your thoughts and making them so accessible. I am now going to be a life long subscriber.

[@Danithinks]

I rewatch all your videos depending on what I'm going through to uplift me and it does the trick. it offers new perspective each time. I'm so grateful for the videos you make. I am empowered by your words !

[@knowsitbest2546]

You're definitely in the right field. You can tell you're very passionate about this. Thank you for spreading this knowledge and encouragements.

[@nhihuynh5023]

Thank you so much for sharing! Your advices change my view on so many things and I'm so thankful for that. Life is rough, but people like you make it so much easier to get through the darkness and see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you for giving us another point of view which is inspirational, hopeful and optimistic. Through to your help, my life seems more brighter and I'm motivated to live the life I want! Greetings from Germany❤

[@sierraseidel4868]

Watching this made me realize something about my relationship with money. Money was scarce throughout my teen years. Sometimes I'd have to wash my hair with a bar of soap with a gallon jug of water because the water got turned off. So now, whenever I make any extra money I find it incredibly hard to save it. I never thought about why this is so hard for me; I just figured I had no self control. But after watching this video I realized that I feel like this might be the last time I have extra money, so I need to spend it on things I want as quickly as possible. It doesn't make a lot of sense to spend money if I feel like I won't have extra money later, but I'm glad I realized that I feel like that because now I feel like I can breathe. I don't NEED those things right now and I can save without having this gnawing urge to buy things I don't need. Thank you. 😊

[@yamilette8]

Nur... I have been binging on your wisdom all day: the interview course and the youtube videos. Thank you for being so inspirational! You have a gift and I am so happy you are using it to positively impact our world! Congratulations to your mom for raising an empowered woman!

[@tamannahasan424]

Literally have been waiting for this all day! Highlight of my day

[@leslie9235]

Do you know what I love the most about you as a mentor? Well, I love the way you reveal how battles and darkness make you better. People, most of time, want things but do not want to fight for them (which makes me crazy all the time). I think that people ain't ready for the planet earth (I wish they could be more spiritual) but you know what? You get them ready by telling them the truth about life and its roughness. Girl, you are REAL !

[@Cecrophia]

Hell yes! You cleared my mind. I need to stay true to my own standards and stop detesting money, honestly this is what I NEEDED today. Thank you!

[@alilei]

I can listen to you forever, it's so easy hearing advice from you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Also Hi mom if your watching this, you've raised a beautiful soul 💛

[@sherrymulrooney6046]

I watch you in the mornings before I go to work. You are an inspiration and you send me out the door with confidence and a skip in my step. Thank You xx

[@unaisituibuca9973]

"Success is in Serving Humanity" - hands down my favorite words from you. God bless ya!

[@sweethearts17]

I really needed this, thank you! Your videos truly are a gift to humanity. You encourage young girls and women to be unconquerable. A term and a concept that I never really thought about. I'm ready to turn what ever life throws at me into GOLD. Love that ❤Wish I had these videos to watch when I was in high school. Haha hope your mom is reading this! We love your mom for raising such a kind and strong individual. Always look forward to your videos. Lots of love!

[@kellyroy7248]

Your newest video prompted me to re-watch your older ones. I just love listening to you talk! Your advice is fantastic and you are so well spoken. Can’t wait for more content! 🙌🏻

[@graciegg24]

"Hey you" text = testing the water. It's covert and cowardly. Who needs that?!

[@nofearonlylove21]

all of your videos have come to me at the right time. or I have come to them at this needed time and they are impacting who I want to be. thank you girl!

[@varzamaz1]

OMG!! That part with Steve and phone being thrown away...You go girl!! Love it! And sooo true!!

[@alianajacobs5703]

Thanks I learned so much from you in this 17 min. I have been abused emotionally and physically by my parents and I was searching for myself and than I found you! You are such a help! I don't know how to thank you but what you said is so true. I have been hating myself for years because I couldn't fight back as a child. All the things I witnessed and had to go through made me quite bitter and didn't want to go outside anymore besides for work and shopping.

[@idalily06]

Always great to see a video from you, Nur!

[@selukwe]

AMAZING! Everything you said literally spoke out to me. From the money - people having such a negative and bad relationship with money to what you said about females telling another female to "just be cool" ...basically telling them to " lower their standards down to pretty much disrespecting themselves". INFURIATES ME . Thank you for this video, you made me feel and know that I'm not fucking alone in this shit!!

[@alexandrine7]

“I don’t have to protect my spirit because it was built to endure. And so is yours.” Woah girl woah...gave me chills #truth

[@natalies.2735]

I absolutely enjoy your realistic viewpoints. I get excited when you post videos sharing your wisdom!!! Thank you for making us women wiser one video at a time. You're admirable! 💜

[@SCARLET91LETTER]

Where have you been all my life 😢 bless you girl, we truly do need confident strong and intelligent women like you now days!

[@daughteroftheking8181]

Just discovered this video! Your thoughts on the "cool girl" were so spot-on! YES! 100% agree!

[@MissssTai]

Everything you said about being the 'cool girl' was sooo spot on *flicks fingers* !

[@thetravelcrunch]

Nur, I've been following your channel for awhile now (few months) and it is refreshing to hear such poignant, clear and direct messages from such a strong, beautiful person. PLEASE keep making more videos on a weekly basis (or even more frequent) if you are able to!!!! Whatever life permits, I know it is some work. I know you're a busy girl but love your advice vids and even your rants about whatever! Say hi to your mom for me LOL

[@bkergirl721]

Omg you're back!!! I hit "like" while the ad was still playing! Great video! Can't wait to see more!

[@nurology]

Haha, thank you so very much!!! 💙

[@haleystevens119]

Had to keep re watching the advice you gave from the steve story because its so true and I must always remember that!!

[@dimerocks48]

Please post again! I love your advice and how honest you are. I would love to listen to more of what you have to say.

[@mickyunit]

I loved this...especially the Steve (jerk!!) story. Thank you for posting. I'm​off to check Master Class! Hey Mom, you did a great job with Nur (and her siblings too, I'm sure!). She's​ a wonderful young lady with a terrific head on her shoulders and she's an absolute ray of light to help us viewers focus on challenges in our lives. Hugs to you both!

[@jessicabird5189]

Thank you thank you thank you! I've been watching for years and I'm so excited about this advice series especially. You're such an inspiration and you've really helped affirm these little thoughts and bits of personal growth I've had- I'm getting better about having confidence in myself and feeling worthy of my own standards, but that little voice in my head is a real jerk! Whenever it starts talking, I love that I can just turn on one of your videos, it shuts that obnoxious lying voice down in a heartbeat! I'm actually on the cusp of leaving my own corporate job to start working on my own- I don't feel ready to coach yet, I have sooooo much to learn and I am just barely starting to trust in myself, so I don't feel quite ready to help anyone else- at least not for any profit- but I will get there!! And having these conversations and watching these videos and sharing what I can through my blog and through social media is already doing something for humanity and doing something with all of the challenges I've overcome- and this is such an incredible journey, thank you for encouraging me to share it and for being brave enough to share your own journey and put your advice out there! P.S. Hi mom ;)

[@noellejolie-boaz2379]

I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you for sharing this profound advice. I've never been the cool girl and have always been made to feel like a terrible person because of it and actually found you while searching videos on how to be the cool girl... Not anymore. I can totally relate to your upbringing as I was also poor and had a bad relationship with money. Great advice. Your videos are helping humanity. Just FYI

[@MelissaElene]

This video was just amazing and deeply resonated with me. You think in ways that I sometimes don't and I appreciate your passion to share what you have learned over the years! ❤️

[@claireh5661]

You are so inspiring and affirming....I am cheering every time I hear you speak about woman raising their standards! Yes!

[@niki3633]

omg this is a life changer!every girl and woman should see this. Thank you so much for speaking the truth out loud. Bless you♥

[@rochellerive7778]

I've been loving these videos! Thank you so much. It has helped me so much and has opened up my eyes when it comes to self esteem, confidence, relationships and life. 😺

[@butovyelena1990]

I can't get enough of you. Your snap chat stories is what I look forward to everyday and this KZbin video is like a cherry on top.

[@bakhitapereira9505]

So during quarantine I wasn't feeling myself most of the time and being in a relationship wasn't helping either since I didn't get any mental support and confidence. My best friend since 6 years sent me this huge text one day in which she stated reasons on how I was always the toxic one and i didn't care about anything. 'The cool girl' if you would say. I cried like crazy I didn't tell my boyfriend nor my mom or my friends. She cut me out of her life. Now its been 2 Months since I've spoken to her, I dumped my boyfriend. Your videos helped me. Ive tried to change my attitude and become a better person. I stumbled upon your video and watched them all. You're an inspiration your words just speak the truth. Young teens need such content but we waste time watching useless shit instead of useful syuff like this. thank you for this and your mom since she reads the comments. You're a blessing :)

[@saylijoshi3371]

Hey, I just discovered her channel a couple of days ago. Would you know why hasn't she been uploading on this channel? I see all the videos are pretty old does she have any other channel now ?

[@bakhitapereira9505]

@@saylijoshi3371 well i donno bout that either, the content on her channel is pretty old and she does have other channels. Or she must be busy with her life too and not really getting the time to make content. But all that is there is juts amazing :)

[@Royal29B]

Thank you God for people like this,ready to share inspiration with others. Life can be difficult sometimes with no one to turn to for advice

[@nadeeshani]

I was feeling so down lately and was searching for some advice that speaks directly to my heart, that actually means something, then I came across this. I have no words to describe how grateful I am to discover your amazing channels! Though there are no new videos here I hope you are still helping people out there with your very practical, life-changing lessons. You seem like a "kindred spirit". Love you sister

[@saltwater44]

Whew! We just got Nur-slapped! 👏👏👏👏 Thank you. You should think about writing a book, host a conference or having your own talk show. Women of all ages and stages in life need to hear your messsge on repeat. Thanks again. 👍 Isabel

[@LadyEMC2TV]

what you said about Steve is so true. I completely agree. I always tell people that money is needed to pay for rent, food etc but it is not our existence. If all you think about is money that is what you become. I am generalizing because I don't want this post to be super long. Great video!

[@curiositydrawsme9180]

Love this: “Success is in Serving Humanity.”

[@arnoldalanguagecoach4003]

Nur, you are so AMAZING!!! I've been watching your videos for a long time now and, on the one hand, you have helped me improve my English incredibly and, on the other, your topics are so interesting that I can't stop watching you (your videos)!!! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!!!

[@ladyi7609]

I was stunned when you brought up the last piece of advice because I never figured someone like you would give that kind of advice. I personally LIVE for helping other people -- it makes me feel good inside seeing someone else's life get better because of me. I've been struggling to figure out what volunteer opportunities to take because of how much I think I need that yet how little I know about what I should be doing, but I had no idea that could lead to general life success. Oh, and you've made me feel just a little better about being alone/lonely so much of the time. I think part of why that is so is because I have standards and don't stand for being treated like crap. I'm currently hurting a lot right now because of various issues encircling that one, but I'll revisit this in about a week to see where I am that time and how much more I get out of this video then. Thanks so much for the video.

[@pattymeza]

Nur! I just wanted to say thank you for all you do. I had a coaching session with you a few months ago and you have changed my life! I'm so happy to be a part of this little community :)

[@trishmaduakor5818]

OMG! I seriously wish you post videos more often. This realness is what I need!

[@andreaking5189]

Nur! Yes! So nice to hear someone else say this!!!

[@nurology]

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[@upchck14]

Thank you for taking the time and effort to helping create a better world. Your advice is grounded in not-so-common common sense and can be applied to life from the time the video finishes. I'm so glad I stumbled upon you content last year when I was going through a very tough time. And I still have YDB labeled in my phone ;) And when I feel that life is too much, I like to channel my inner Nur. Keep doing you! Also hiiiii Nur's mom!

[@heidikrassenstein9363]

I love the cool girl rant and absolutely agree!!

[@pardisrnzr]

Every time I watch your videos I just get that positive vibe. Love you and thank you so much, your advice videos have helped me a lot!

[@CyanidePusher]

I'm so happy I found your channel ❤ that money advice has to be the absolute best I've ever heard, that's life changing

[@FashionshellsBlogspot]

Thank you so much for sharing this advice! 🙏🏼❤

[@danaelise88]

GIRL I LOVE YOU. You speak some truths. Brilliant!

[@lalaboo197]

Thank you! Your videos are so helpful! I learned so much from your old videos and this one also!

[@sarahh2589]

I still come back and watch this video. Especially the part about the cool girl. Favorite KZbin video EVER.