How to Rebuild LOVE After Cheating
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@roseash2498
@roseash2498 Сағат бұрын
Good, sound teaching. If only young people today heard more teaching like this.
@robertwilber1909
@robertwilber1909 2 сағат бұрын
I found that most marriages that don't "work" have wife problems...she isn't one.
@felixoupopote
@felixoupopote 7 сағат бұрын
Sorry, kidnapping me was a bit too much to forgive.
@moseshenry6265
@moseshenry6265 7 сағат бұрын
If you and your partner are willing to say no before you get married, you should be willing to tell others no after you get married,and there should be a higher level of trust between you. 🤷‍♂️
@KevinDotson-z5l
@KevinDotson-z5l 14 сағат бұрын
Kevin one day when you need this again just remember never give up she saved us . Us i mean you she saved you have you children no matter what never loose it we owe her love you tawny
@JessieMalone-f5i
@JessieMalone-f5i 22 сағат бұрын
Can you help me and Josh turner marriage life we both got broken up
@grechelestrada4846
@grechelestrada4846 23 сағат бұрын
i don’t completely agree with him …one everyone’s situation is different …but the problem is some people stay together for kids and only that … some people meet someone that actually make them happier than the person they married and it awful that others lash out saying it’s bad when it’s actually a good thing for them
@avasdv
@avasdv Күн бұрын
You talk about comparisons with former partners but I compare with people I haven't even slept with that I have crushes on. As a man, no woman measures up to one I'm willing to give everything to that i worked for. At least I'm going to compare and nitpick, because its my nature
@mozpogson3639
@mozpogson3639 Күн бұрын
Biblical correction: we don't have a soul; we are a living soul. God breathed into Adam, and he Became a living soul.
@chriskerwin9050
@chriskerwin9050 Күн бұрын
Stay single
@chriskerwin9050
@chriskerwin9050 Күн бұрын
Well when side dude is getting it how can the husnd compete
@DaveTurnerIV
@DaveTurnerIV Күн бұрын
So me and my wife are separated out of state, she says she is not ready but is possibly okay with me visiting for a weekend, but now hesitant. How do I handle this?
@jeremybohlen6376
@jeremybohlen6376 Күн бұрын
Mmm, hmm...
@YollenNgari
@YollenNgari Күн бұрын
Thank you so Much, you have saved my thoughts and mind, I'm looking forward to go through it, but I don't know about my woman 😔
@yro50
@yro50 Күн бұрын
When your dealing with a cheating spouse and the worlds term narcissist, your actually dealing with demons and have to fight with spiritual warfare . 🙏✝️
@LonnHoffman-kw8wz
@LonnHoffman-kw8wz Күн бұрын
These guys shoot off their mouths about how to fix an unfixable problem. They just keep peddling the same old BS that never works!
@DreamChaser415
@DreamChaser415 Күн бұрын
It is very hard decision.
@stephanielovell5828
@stephanielovell5828 2 күн бұрын
I do appreciate their videos. I do! The one thing that I don't understand is, they hit on a topic and never finish. Usually the One thing I wanted to know about! Also, I wish when they say, we spoke on that in another video.. put the video up please!! My husband said I love you, but I'm not in love with you... ok wanting to know the rest of your recommendations. My husband also decided to live a totally different life style than I am willing to live. Where to go from there? So lonely and feel so rejected!! Guess I have to do another search, just as I did to get to this video. Thank you anyway, still learn a lot.
@lalitaprasad584
@lalitaprasad584 2 күн бұрын
See my point of veiw is when a man is being extra clingy or openly flirting and meeting secretly and sharing his personal information to other female he barely knows and being too informative and supporting to the other female in her life he is involved in infedility and cheating on his wife no matter how clean he potrays his picture to spouse or love her truly and once being intimate he cheated no matter the marriage was love or arrange even he did for just fun or mistake and still love spouse unconditionally it is not acceptable,once vow breaks no other reason can overlap cheating
@hyperteleXii
@hyperteleXii 2 күн бұрын
Kick her out of the house for neglecting her duties. Next problem.
@pistache28
@pistache28 2 күн бұрын
Great video! Thank you for explaining the possibilities to unblock this type of issues in a marriage! 👍👍👍👍👍👍
@EnemyAce88
@EnemyAce88 2 күн бұрын
I used to try planning date nights. My wife did nothing but complain no matter what I did and how hard I tried to make it enjoyable for her. So I gave up. We're essentially just roommates now. Some days she barely even speaks to me. How can I build connection with her when she doesn't want it with me?
@Carlo_M_Genovese
@Carlo_M_Genovese 2 күн бұрын
Best video ive seen so far, this just happend and ahes pregnant so i dont wanna lose her, but im gonna follow the advice
@jessicahoven6707
@jessicahoven6707 3 күн бұрын
Impossible to get an honest answer from a partner in limerence. When you get to the point that you are questioning your own sanity, and know they are lying, you sometimes have to take extreme measures for the sake of your own future health. It destroys you as a person if you don't know the truth and are constantly told your intuition and reality is incorrect. I started by trying the calm, empathetic and open approach over many weeks. It didn't even remotely work - just allowed him to disregard my questions. Focused on my own life, so I wasn't clinging or needy. He just spent more and more time away from the home (until it was entire weekends away) as no-one was holding him accountable. Nothing you can do when your spouse wants to burn their whole life down.
@CCCCheese
@CCCCheese 3 күн бұрын
Listened to this before, listening to this now. Always appreciated the work you guys have done!
@emillyhale7557
@emillyhale7557 3 күн бұрын
While I really enjoy romantic fairytales and love stories in general, I realise that the "perfect, flawless marriage" isn't real and I can't compare my marriage too much to the romance movies out there (not to say I can't enjoy them). Still, the best love stories *both* real and fictional are the ones where the couples are flawed and have obstacles, but ultimately overcome the hurdles and grow as people because of it. It makes the beautiful result of them growing old together and loving each other until the day they die all the more special. It a beautiful goal to work towards but it takes work and effort. I hope and pray that my husband and I can have that hope for our marriage and will grow for the better because of that.
@thatone8085
@thatone8085 3 күн бұрын
Marry an AI . Zero problem until the end of time.
@Shantiholisticwellness
@Shantiholisticwellness 3 күн бұрын
I don't know if my marriage will be saved, but our partnership is so much better than it has been. I'm learning to stand back and really look at what's happening for both of us. I have more love and respect for him than I ever had. I will cherish the relationship, however it works.
@wookietalk
@wookietalk 3 күн бұрын
My wife had an emotional care about a month and a half ago I'm still trying to figure out my emotions about it I have so many ups and downs but I am trying to work on myself
@brent4770
@brent4770 3 күн бұрын
Chemicals.
@Maneeshcharak
@Maneeshcharak 3 күн бұрын
I repeatedly ask my husband about my needs but it seems he doesn't care. He only says ok and then nothing happens in response.I cry most of the nights alone but he never knows. Even he sees me crying, he makes a bad face and just sleep.I don't know what to do. Plz help.But sometimes I think he does a lot for me , I mean except my emotional needs he does other chores whatever I say. What is this I don't know.
@maritabonbonvoyage
@maritabonbonvoyage 4 күн бұрын
You mentioned Sally Sue started to questioning her value and ethics only after the divorce and legitimizing the relationship. To me, this sound like she was also keeping your affair a secret. How did you feel about that and did it change your view on her as a person? I'm curious on the mind set of the other women, what makes them justify breaking up a family or a relationship and why a man would find value in this, assuming he's not hiding his current sistuation.
4 күн бұрын
simple solution. people cheat? dump them. grow a pair..
@rickybobby9797
@rickybobby9797 4 күн бұрын
Marriage was designed to protect women-it doesn’t really benefit men, especially in today’s female promiscuous society.
@khadijaboufars1590
@khadijaboufars1590 4 күн бұрын
I’m glad to came across that video, i felt Im the old school women in the world, when everyone told me that its impossible living in europe and you’re close minded qt this level, but i really think its about my value, and will honor the one who gonna accept that even if it costs me to stay single forever but at least stay true to myself ❤
@hennore
@hennore 4 күн бұрын
No such thing as a perfect marriage because we are imperfect people, but we can love as Jesus loves which is perfect.
@roxdonado240
@roxdonado240 4 күн бұрын
🥰Hubby and I have been married for 26 years, thanks to our Almighty. Our marriage is perfectly imperfect, but we keep going.
@1RevMatt
@1RevMatt 4 күн бұрын
Amen and amen!
@deyaonsotti9594
@deyaonsotti9594 4 күн бұрын
In my case, I felt like I was being used as a substitute to the person that he wasn’t able to be with.
@ketobodybuilder2482
@ketobodybuilder2482 4 күн бұрын
They always think they can get a better option then come back. Never let a woman back after disrespect
@john007-y4v
@john007-y4v 4 күн бұрын
What's the percentage of your ex spouse come back
@deyaonsotti9594
@deyaonsotti9594 5 күн бұрын
Thanking you for reminding me to forgive “Sally Sue”😊
@StacySelah
@StacySelah 5 күн бұрын
13:31
@StacySelah
@StacySelah 5 күн бұрын
9:20
@karenpierce4909
@karenpierce4909 5 күн бұрын
How do you deal with the one who doesn't recognise any of your good intentions, and takes all your merits from you, without even realising what this does to you?, and your own self-esteem?
@deyaonsotti9594
@deyaonsotti9594 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for this!
@TheSalsa1977
@TheSalsa1977 5 күн бұрын
Old knowledge which is great. But their out of sync with the world we live in. Time for new age and youthful advice.
@lisapitts9518
@lisapitts9518 5 күн бұрын
My ex cheated most of the marriage. Once the trust is gone there is no way things can ever be the same.
@BoleiaDaVida
@BoleiaDaVida 5 күн бұрын
Relationships are based on truth dot
@megalopolis2015
@megalopolis2015 5 күн бұрын
I don't want to live without him, but I can't Live without God. God wins, always. Without Him, nothing else good can exist.