He's telling us don't tell them you saw the evidence in their phone. I wish I would have taken this advice. I confronted her right away.
@robertborden26663 ай бұрын
Did it crash the marriage right into the wall? Was it already crashed otherwise? What direction do you wish you took instead?
@BikersDoItSittingDown4 ай бұрын
Why is this man trying to appease the cheater, and advising a suspecting partner not to gathjer evidence. If you do these things to gather evidence and find you are wrong, dont confront them. If you do these things to gather evidence and you are right, it does not matter if they say HOW DARE YOU. Personally, once you know they have cheated, they have ended the marriage by breaking the vows and I would simply walk away and not say anything. Ghost them. You owe them nothing.
@77teahupoo4 ай бұрын
Rodger that !
@PlanetEarthPassport4 ай бұрын
It's makes perfect sense to me.
@yro508 күн бұрын
When your dealing with a cheating spouse and the worlds term narcissist, your actually dealing with demons and have to fight with spiritual warfare . 🙏✝️
@livingjoy36074 ай бұрын
I wish someone had brought up the intervention when I first reached out to MH 17 months ago. Now there is so much cognitive dissonance and a new baby in the situation. I guess Bette late than never.
@MichaelSheehe4 ай бұрын
Thanks, very helpful. 👍
@kuntu1943Ай бұрын
It's not as if the proof of a spouse cheating will just drop on lap.
@nadirabajramovic74562 ай бұрын
You’re joking I will babysit my husband after I found out he’s cheating
@StacySelah11 күн бұрын
13:31
@PlanetEarthPassport4 ай бұрын
If you're married, don't cheat, don't allow your spouse to cheat. If you cheat, you are dishonest, and you deserve everything you get. If your spouse cheats, divorce him/her...GAMEOVER.
@banderson56763 ай бұрын
True. I gave my wife a second chance (for the kids mostly) and she continued to cheat. If they cheat, game over. File for divorce. The chance of it working out after is slim to none.
@wmolders81604 ай бұрын
Where is the advice on how to save a marriage from a woman who wants a divorce because she thinks you are not capable of change, and she has moved on in a sense.
@banderson56763 ай бұрын
Sorry, once they have lost feelings, they're gone. Work on yourself and move on.
@ZephyrsZenZone3 ай бұрын
My master-lier husband looks directly into my eyes and say with a smile, nothing is wrong. You’re wrong. 😊😅 even though I have seen his messages with a female colleague and he once called her name when he was asleep. 😊 he simply denies everything, even the sun shining bright in the sky if he wishes
@banderson56763 ай бұрын
How you holding up? My wife did the same to me. You trying to work it out?
@ZephyrsZenZone2 ай бұрын
@@banderson5676 i could not hold it up as I was going crazy trying not to say anything. I first pretended that I got to know about it from another source and Once he realised I know a lot and have checked his phone he confessed. But he says those chats aren’t reliable because in reality he wasn’t that close to her and all those s** chats are just not what he meant and the reason he lied to me about not having any affairs is that he was too embarrassed to accept and confess what he had done. I’m just losing my mind! I LOVED him so much. We had fought our families to marry each other and this was the result!