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@Gothgirl17xo
@Gothgirl17xo Ай бұрын
The techs were useless. I would have sued the ward , Jack and his parents,and the techs and everyone for negligence and endangering my personal safety as a small woman, even if the little demon if only six
@Ohhoesheback
@Ohhoesheback 4 ай бұрын
This is me but instead of Doctor Who it was the movies Flicka. I was obsessed and I’d even go outside, pretend to be a horse, get completely into character and even today as a 22 year old I still get into the headspace of “I’m the horse”
@HealthWyze
@HealthWyze 4 ай бұрын
I know that I would run like hell from any chick who told me that she was "non-binary" and then proceeded to refer to me as "they" or "them".
@katiesmith9730
@katiesmith9730 7 ай бұрын
@LloydD-t8e
@LloydD-t8e 9 ай бұрын
Thank you this actually helped
@Hellerp
@Hellerp 10 ай бұрын
❤ so helpful ! Im 40 and this really helped me thank you I wish I knew this sooner ❤
@heatherjohnson333
@heatherjohnson333 10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@buckleysangel7019
@buckleysangel7019 Жыл бұрын
You’re immutably a woman 👩.
@dakotasullivan9731
@dakotasullivan9731 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Very helpful!
@24kirp
@24kirp Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!!!❤❤❤❤
@viawood8457
@viawood8457 Жыл бұрын
Ive never related to someone like this so much in my entire life.
@adrianstamps1576
@adrianstamps1576 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to all of this.. MDD
@FuchsiaMelrose
@FuchsiaMelrose Жыл бұрын
Thank you <3
@ANIVIABLUE
@ANIVIABLUE Жыл бұрын
Really like your KZbin videos I hope you’re doing ok and would love to see more content ❤
@Cornelius1212
@Cornelius1212 2 жыл бұрын
WOW. Great video
@hareemrathore3405
@hareemrathore3405 2 жыл бұрын
Where did you go? I want your videos bcz you're best at explaining things. Anyways even if you don't come...hope you're okay and doing well. God bless you.
@miaholmes2548
@miaholmes2548 2 жыл бұрын
Cant use it. I get angry everytime someone is not listening to me, someone who ignore what i ask and guide my daughter, im yelling and get really angry big time. Dont know how to stop that feeling, because NO ONE respect anything i say - thats why i dont matter . People step on my lines i say “no thank you” but they dont care at all . How should i tell my self that they do respect me when all i see is they always ignore and do what they want ??
@Sasha1661_
@Sasha1661_ Жыл бұрын
I think setting boundaries and honoring them would be useful for situations like this. Also I just wanted to validate you, you are respected and loved.
@gisseller9761
@gisseller9761 Жыл бұрын
changing your beliefs can also help like “ NO ONE respects anything i say- that’s why i don’t matter” who told you that? you could instead try to tell yourself I respect myself and that matters or i matter etc. idk if this helps
@clairestrickland2513
@clairestrickland2513 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. I felt so alone and it was embarrassing / hard for me to explain to anyone. It’s gotten to a point where I can’t stop. It’s distressing, but I am also scared if it were to go away because I’ve been doing it since childhood and it’s become a coping mechanism
@ABARD1987
@ABARD1987 2 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰
@ABARD1987
@ABARD1987 2 жыл бұрын
Please check out my memes xx
@aniebodie
@aniebodie 2 жыл бұрын
I always get an obsession over another and I maintain others. I had many shows and stories obsessions, but the worst thing for me is when I obsess over someone. It only happened like 2 times(many time I had very shallow ones, those 2 were the real deep ones) Rn I'm obsessed with a boy, I'm a 20 y girl, we have kinda of a story. I met him on tinder and just wanted to be friends, but he was so charming and since I saw him I thought he looked so fine, and he was so cute to me, we hook up like some times, and then he tells me he has a gf, and they have like an open relationship, so I was like oh okay I'm fine, I don't want a relationship anyways, I just want someone I can cuddle sometimes. But then as times passed he saw me go through an major depressive episode, almost killd myslf, and it was becoz of him. I became obsessed with him and I loved him, he did everything so perfectly, we fit so well together. I don't want him only for me, nah, I can share, his gf is my friend too, love her. But he was becoming so distant and now that he knows I'm crazy he is going away, he doesn't talk to me anymore. I still am obsessed, I want him, I need him, I fantasize everyday about him coming back to me. It is getting out of control, I am afraid I might act in this obsession, I'm an really impulsive person.
@kingtahaa1125
@kingtahaa1125 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@Captainess_Sway
@Captainess_Sway 2 жыл бұрын
You're only 16. You're not diagnosed with a personality disorder until you're over 18. I call B.S.
@julianaaponte3537
@julianaaponte3537 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much! I’m struggling today, I’m not sure if I have bpd, I have been diagnosed with chronic ptsd, but I’m going through a divorce after 12 years and really struggling some days, many ups and downs a day, feeing depressed and anxiety. It is hard, I will try this. Thank you 🙏🏼
@franchescahaselrig8040
@franchescahaselrig8040 3 жыл бұрын
I am a licensed Psychotherapist and you explained that very well.
@AB-ps6zf
@AB-ps6zf 3 жыл бұрын
you are brave and beautiful <3
@1LadyyBugg
@1LadyyBugg 3 жыл бұрын
My BPD and me.. WeThank you so so so much🧡🌻
@MsRosirosi
@MsRosirosi 3 жыл бұрын
I really liked your video. I have maladaptive daydreaming and need do accept reality and live in it instead of dreaming all the time. Thank you for the motivation
@benjones1452
@benjones1452 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ash validation is something I do all the time just talking to people I don't know in the streets getting a smile can make such a big difference to my day I never really thought it had anything to do with my BPD.
@benjones1452
@benjones1452 3 жыл бұрын
thanks for this great video
@CiaLaVirago
@CiaLaVirago 3 жыл бұрын
I wish i could lower the music volume, because i will regret everything in a few years if i don't 😬
@monkeybone6843
@monkeybone6843 3 жыл бұрын
Aren’t all people with bpd serial killers?
@mbradley5683
@mbradley5683 3 жыл бұрын
Idk if that’s a joke or not... but not even close... there’s not really any psychological disorders associated with all people with it being serial killers, serial killers are rare...and especially not PERSONALITY disorders like BPD... but most serial killers do tend to be PSYCOPATHS, which are a part of a antisocial personality disorder which is also Cluster B, like BPD, NPD(narcissism) and histrionic, but it’s rare that anyone with bpd would be a serial killer... they’re probably 20000% more like to Kill themselves than become killers
@mariemiles7287
@mariemiles7287 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Aileen wuornos was a serial killer with bpd. There's loads of people in prison with bpd too. Bpd's are very compulsive and have alot of anger and rage x
@monkeybone6843
@monkeybone6843 3 жыл бұрын
I personally have the disorder and I was just having a laugh and poking fun at myself, my apologies for the distress I could have caused.
@lisamarie3465
@lisamarie3465 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you ...I'll try it out
@strangedailythings
@strangedailythings 4 жыл бұрын
Hey this video helped me, thanks:) I'm currently questioning my gender, but I think I might identity as some form of non-binary.. I haven't figured it out yet, but I look naturally quite feminine and have long hair (Ive been growing it out just to see you long it can get! And also because it is fabulous). And sometimes it makes me feel like I'm too girly to be anything but cis female.. I know thats stupid. It feels validating in my exploration to hear someone else talk about a feeling I can recognize. Thank you!
@anouarelabbassi1986
@anouarelabbassi1986 4 жыл бұрын
Very useful exercise.. Thank you ❤
@coragedadawg96420
@coragedadawg96420 4 жыл бұрын
anyway sick hair my homie
@Luiesthe1
@Luiesthe1 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve bene having the same plot for 5 years
@Luiesthe1
@Luiesthe1 4 жыл бұрын
I flip a pillow when I do it and when I don’t do it I my brain tingles I do it for hours and talk to myself
@solpetals
@solpetals 4 жыл бұрын
Haha fellow Non-binary with BPD?! Hi I found you from a google search 🥺✨
@suckerpunch5915
@suckerpunch5915 4 жыл бұрын
Thats really related..thanks.. im not alone in this situation
@ritikasingh-em8pq
@ritikasingh-em8pq 4 жыл бұрын
I want to talk you
@chillyzibra7836
@chillyzibra7836 4 жыл бұрын
Since i was young i had a very strong imagination soo i used to (literally) live in my own world I still do now and this helps me with my daydreams
@chillyzibra7836
@chillyzibra7836 4 жыл бұрын
When i daydream i start walking around the room in circular motions very rapidly until my legs hurt and i start sweating sooo much
@chillyzibra7836
@chillyzibra7836 4 жыл бұрын
Haha, for a long time i thought i was crazy Now i know i am
@alorena_02
@alorena_02 4 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂
@weareone5768
@weareone5768 4 жыл бұрын
Fucking relatable 🖤🖤🖤
@kiddowonders7169
@kiddowonders7169 4 жыл бұрын
When I was in kindergarten-4th grade I would just walk in circles at recess thinking about inventions and doing fun stuff everyday sometimes I would be so sucked into it my teachers couldn't snap me out of it unless they like snapped there fingers
@littleautumn2518
@littleautumn2518 4 жыл бұрын
When I daydream, I straight up RUN. Outside. In the house. Anywhere I have the privacy and ability to do so. It drives my family nuts sometimes, but they’ve gotten used to it and they understand why I do it.
@laurenstof7164
@laurenstof7164 4 жыл бұрын
Omg, I relate to this so much! I constantly pace around my kitchen table or up and down the hallway, in a trance like state. Or sit in stare at nothing, barely blinking. And the one about sleep! A few days ago I went to bed at midnight and couldn't fall asleep until 3 am because I couldn't find someplace to stop my daydreaming. I was tired as hell and just wanted to sleep but I couldn't.
@frecklesandfries9209
@frecklesandfries9209 4 жыл бұрын
I do a lot of the same things. I pace a LOT. I’m in a full time RV family and I pace lines into the dirt. I link certain daydreams with certain songs. I get so lost in my daydreams that my facial expressions mimic the characters, I get seriously embarrassed and offended by the things that happen when the situation involves me. I take characters from books I’ve read, or TV shows I’ve watched, and I edit the scenes like a movie. I do all these things, obsessively. Constantly. But... it’s not a hinderance. I can write it all down, communicate it. It makes me want to be an Animator, which is perfect since it’s repetitive drawing the same thing slightly different over and over while keeping the finished product in mind. I can do it while folding laundry, or dishes. Any mundane task. In fact, the only con I can list for my case is that I hardly ever daydream anything entirely good. Usually it’s an extreme bad, like someone being murdered or me murdering someone, but something good comes from it in the end. It I focus on the suffering of characters from the low points of a movie. So... am I a Maladaptive Daydreamer?
@srini7080
@srini7080 3 жыл бұрын
There is a chance that it could be immersive daydreaming. The biggest tell would be the fact that it isn't disrupting your day. You are able to do your everyday tasks. With maladaptive daydreaming, reality just stops and you just completely forget to do your everyday tasks. I am a student so I find it hard to study, I also find it hard to watch videos on KZbin, I find it hard to do a lot of my mundane tasks because it is quite intrusive. Don't take my word for it, but try and research immersive daydreaming.
@fun-qb9pz
@fun-qb9pz 4 жыл бұрын
thank you for making this! I relate.