I'm glad you leave the cult

it’s so tragic what is happening to these kids told these lies. We need to be better equipped to dialogue and debate these issues. The KZbin channel Brainsmanship has really thorough arguments against transgender theory. It’s really helped me have intelligent conversations around this. We need to love people but also speak truth.

I'm a man and I have accepted that in this life, however i I could pick to be a hot platinum blond chick super model that gets everything she wants in life, that would have to be for my next life. I believe that I was probably female in another life but in this life I'm a male so I just enjoy it even though woman have better clothing options.

The issue is that LGB was infiltrated long time ago. Why on Earth would you even put gay, lesbian and bisexual human beings in a group, oftentimes merely a category or a box alongside other human beings who are transitioning into who they could never be? I feel for all that are being used like this, the trans humans who find themselves again after being catered a way of escaping their reality. There is great hurt there. All of you who share are saving the lives of humans who are lost and used for their weakness. Your weakness becomes your biggest strength somehow. This counts for all who are struggling, with the trans part. You all are not to be categorized and grouped like kettle. But it happened and may we look at eachother, hear one another with compassion. For all of us are brainswashed in this culture and all of us are vulnerable. Please accept yourself just as you are, seek help and keep your chin up when standing alone. The right people will show up and you will find the right support. Hang on, don't make rushed decisions, breathe and ground and now you never are alone, you couldn't possibly be, there are others crying out too. You will be heard and seen. You may transition or detransition, both have my respect but you take care of your heart, your peace, your life and be you, beyoutiful you. It is never the outside beauty, you don't have to change who you are. And finally, like church and state ought to be seperated, so should be gay and trans. For you may question your gender, but it won't change. You will always be caught in the middle where life is just hard. Please... talk to many fellow human beings in all walks of life and find your real support team. Take time, make time, just for you, just to be. And the old issues will surface, may you face them and overcome them, transform the pain. You are greater than this. Best of luck 🕯️💫🙏🏼

Wow these commets are intresting. Im trans and I fully support detransitioners as well as people who transition. It isnt black and white. Im glad you found yourself man

As a trans girl (pre-hrt), I don't understand trans people who don't support detransisioning. I also don't get people who use detrans people to bash on trans people. We should allow people to live their life the way they see fit. I'm glad you were able to discuss this about yourself, and I'm sorry about all the people in the trans community who don't support you.

so wish the mainstream would share stories like yours!! ~ so important during these times (the 2020's)

Hey there's a channel on here "call me sam" that will really resonate with you. He's an older gentleman who also detransitioned, lived most of his life as a woman and he documents his journey of healing. His channel is a solace for anybody hurting tbh. I'm a woman and i still connect with everything he says.

Que lindo chico. Te liberaste de un martirio. Te deseo lo mejor. 😘

Congratulations 👏🏾 don't let anyone make you feel low because you see clearly. This was a good testimony

I just don’t understand somebody who finds it difficult to come out as Gay (when it’s pretty bloody obvious to everybody around you that that’s what you are) but they’re perfectly okay coming out in drag - 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️. You’d think in 2024 there wouldn’t be so much overthinking such so much overthinking. But there is. Welcome to the destructive online rabbit holes to fall down.

American Drag is just so fun. The rupaul version. I'm lgad you found yourself back to yourself and who you are at birth. Natural is beautiful. Reality is great. I hope you feel healthier and sane and whole <333 .

You are such a wonderful person with an inner strength that I admire. You’re a gorgeous looking man. You have a smile like sunshine ☀️ wishing you all the best. Lots of love ❤️

My gosh you’re handsome. Happy you decided to get back to yourself. Good job and good luck. Win!!!

I think it's a very confusing thing that gets more confusing by the day. The idea we have that people 'just know' seems insane to me. How can we just know? With endless trans tiktoks to watch, and endless transition timelines on reddit, and an endless supply of gorgeous men on Grindr ready to sleep with us as soon as we shave, put some makeup on & identify as trans. An endless audience to scream for us performing on stage, in an endless supply of stunning, sparkly clothes. Feelings about our gender are inherently confusing, because everything that happens to us effects our perception of it. Every little moment can make being one gender seem more desirable than the other. Is being a gay man tolerable? Not when you're the only skinny one in a club full of muscle gays and no one will even make eye contact with you. Is being a trans woman tolerable? Sure, it's amazing when you're in a safe space getting your life on the dance floor, but it's not so good when you end up getting weird looks and comments on the street or in a straight bar. Or when you have to use a voice that isn't really yours while meeting your nan for tea (saying from experience). So... To chose the best path is tough. And to be honest, it IS a choice- the medical system at the moment makes it a choice, available to all of us.

Super attraktiv man you are 😍

You are such a handsome man! I wish you had never converted yourself to a woman😅. The thing about detransitioners is that they can never become the same old biological males or females that they once were. And that's why your story is so important as a lesson for others. The actual trans condition is only for very few people in this planet.

If they REALLY experienced what it's like to be female they would HATE IT. They can only be crossdressers

Turn off the background music.

I’m curious about your accent! Is it British? Irish? Sorry for my ignorance - I’m not from Europe and I’m trying to learn to identify accents better.

Larifari...., blablabla....

Good on you for sharing your story. No-one has to transition and certainly not for others' expectations. If it isn't right for you, no need to continue. You are beautiful as you are--however you choose.

It's called Puberty for people that don't seem to understand. Stop just going to mutilating your body right away

Your story of what it was like for you as you detransitioned reminds me of my own experience of coming out as bisexual at 25 in 1996, after having come out as lesbian when I was 18 in 1989. I'd been deeply immersed in the lesbian community and felt very loved and connected there. Though I was and am still attracted to women and still dated women, my being bisexual and dating men as well really did lead to my losing my community. It was very painful, and it felt quite unfair. The whole point had always been about being true to yourself, or so the story went... as long as being true to yourself meant being entirely lesbian. Bisexuals need not apply. The parallels to your experience are strong.

You never transitioned at the firts place and you were always a man and always will be a man no matter how you change your looks and what clothing you were ,you just were fed by this woke mind virus and .... remember when you lost yourself in this world ,you will never find yourself in the world that lost your identity but you will find it deep inside of yourself, far away from the noises of this world !!!

You are so handsome..happy you didn't go to far in your transition..u gave urself time to grow and evolve..God bless you

Que homem lindooooooo❤❤❤❤

I thought i was the only one who improvised dance moves. Love it.

Standing in that mirror is the best thing we can do to accept ourselves. And you can express femininity in the male vessel. Thank you for this.

I love that you said it's about going within and that journey brought you back to your boy self. Nothing wrong with that. Thank you

Woe unto the Witch of Jezebel you shall Not have America you shall NOT. Have the children for Baal. Woe to YOU as comeuppance is coming for YOU .

Whoa, I remember seeing an old video of yours years ago where you were excited about getting your hands on those 💊💊 Not shocked to see you detrans. Idk how or why your detrans video popped up on my recs out of the blue 😅

That’s why I find it insulting for an adult person who knows what he/she is doing and just jump on the bandwagon let’s transition without thinking it through because it seems like to me these individuals who detransition were not serious of transitioning to begin with for them to just quit on it like it’s a job. No matter what your intentions were there are implications with detransitioning affecting the rest of US SERIOUSLY TRANSITIONING trans individuals. In my opinion the more it will create more confusion towards normal people like if they manage to go back why can’t other trans do it? The answer is the moment I started transitioning 11 years ago I took an oath to myself that this is irreversible which means this will be a lifetime commitment for me and I am more than willing to do so FOR MY HAPPINESS. Except for those young trans individuals if u are in the age where u are capable of making rational decisions and decided to transition. Please know that this is not a JOKE to later on decide I changed my mind. My experience of desperately becoming a woman who is ready to experience all the woman experience not only seeing a woman as a costume like what drag Queens and cross dressers do then by all means stay that way do not cross the border if u were not 100 percent sure. PS: I am reading some of the comments here that made me raise my eyebrows. Transitioning for me is not for the society for me to fit in, that didn’t even cross my mind. I am doing it for no one else but MYSELF. All these FAKE TRANS PEOPLE are floating around and it’s pissing me off. 11 years in transitioning not once I thought that transitioning was a mistake. Why would I ever think that? It really defeats the purpose of transitioning. I am just not pleased seeing stupid comments saying we trans people made a mistake, mistake to who? Coz definitely not for me until I reach 100 I will die a TRANSWOMAN.

Miss thing the way u were that excited about mones just tells me u ain’t the doll….. those don’t do anything at ur age ur buggin and you we’re on them for how long????? 9 months!? Lmfao bye …. U seem like a CD hon …. U know how all the cross dressers take over the TS threads on Reddit? It’s very “the day I got my hormones I felt like Cinderella” LMFAO I HATE IT

You are a guiding light. Guiding us into becoming self-aware in the areas of our being that have been suspended from our conscious awareness by family, culture, society and our friends and associates. We need to become conscious of our buried feelings and issues by being present in front of the mirror every day and having a one to one conversation with ourselves in an open and transparent non judgmental way. Thank you for sharing your experience with us so that we can reflect upon our own private lives. You are a hero and a true person. ❤❤❤❤😎😎 😎😎

Many self obsessed, narcissistic people. Me, me, me. A plague of our times.

You can't detransition because you can't transition in the first place. It's all in your head.

We live in a time when it is very easy to be more manly woman or more feminine man. I don't really understand why would one want to disfigure him/herself with unnecessary operations. The problem must be in something else not in gender.

He even speaks in a less affected way now

I know this video is 5 years old but I 100% relate to it. I’m also detransitioned mtftm. I was 15 months on hrt back in 2015-2016. It kind of destroyed a part of my confidence today as a male. I have to still fully accept some things in my life years later… I haven’t even been swimming in almost 10 years because of chest embarrassment. This video was so golden to me. We are never alone. Thank you so much. 😊

I can’t hold it… dude, if I didn’t get wrong, you didn’t even go to doctors or psychiatrist and just self medicated. You know why there’s such routines you need to do before transition or any medical treatments? Then now you regret it, you somehow try to blame the trans community is not welcoming you? Bro, try imagining if a man goes to gay community and claiming”oops, I guess I’m actually straight”, the gay community will definitely not as “welcome” as it should be? Because it’s gay community not a straight community? Can people just stop blaming others but take the responsibility for their own decisions?

You successfully fought your demon inside you while the others failed.YOU ARE BRAVE.Congratulations!

Bless you on your journey. Powerful story.

The trans society has a lot to answer for. Encouraging and pushing confused CHILDREN and young people into a decision which could wreck their lives and then completely abandoning them as soon as they realise the community has spewed lies at them. Sick

You seem like a perfectly normal man. Your brothers welcome you!

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Trans women are not women. I don’t care how much surgery they have or how much hormones they take. They are men. Pure and simple. They carry that pesky XY chromosome as opposed to us women who have the nice XX. Until there is a time when men can somehow have a chromosome change then they will always be men. The same applies to Trans Men. It’s almost become a fad and a dangerous one at that when people are coming out and saying a child has gender dysphoria. Leave the kids out of this. If you want to mutilate your own body go for it but don’t impose that on children. Are people too afraid to come out and say that this has all gone too far because they are afraid to be labelled as trans phobic. Am I transphobic, possibly but all I know is I’m sick and tired of female spaces being invaded by men posing as women. Changing rooms are my space as a woman. I do not want to turn round and see a pretend woman, aka a man with a penile bulge trying on an article of clothing when I’m down to my bra and pants. Nor do I want to see the same person when there is a women with her wee girls in the changing room. When I was raped at 22 the idea of having counselling my a man or a man pretending to be a man would have traumatised me even more. They can’t pretend to understand how it feels as a woman to be raped by a man. By the same token, I can’t imagine how a man raped by another man feels. We are different and we will never be the same.

good work seeking and accepting you . ever evolving

transgirl here and in my opinion u are an important part of the community, you also don’t make anyone look bad but you are living your authentic truth which is what the community should be all about..