Forgot to add that point😂 weed is much better than crack😅
@ABlokeTalkingАй бұрын
A pleasure to help:)
@ogilviegrantsart6130Ай бұрын
That's very helpful, thank you
@ABlokeTalkingАй бұрын
The pleasure is mine, thank you for the compliment!
@kaveeshanemalsha43372 ай бұрын
❤
@siennakatharios2 ай бұрын
Ur so handsome sir😵💫🥰
@tomjay632 ай бұрын
Yup, do what’s right for you. The flip side of insecurity is overconfidence. Life is figuring out when to be cautious and when to be bold.
@ABlokeTalking2 ай бұрын
Exactly right. Sitting drastically on either side as a base setting will cause chaos, but there are times that definitely require elements of safety and, as you rightly point out, abit of bollocks.
@Lilly-Lu2 ай бұрын
new sub ! very informative makes sense 😅
@ABlokeTalking2 ай бұрын
Truly kind of you! :) My words won't do my feelings justice, thank you so much ❤
@tomjay633 ай бұрын
I think what you’re trying to say is, “everything in moderation, including moderation”. I can eat healthy most of the time, but every now and then I should have a Big Mac with fries and a shake. They only serve health food in Heaven, so binge on earthly pleasures on occasion.
@ABlokeTalking2 ай бұрын
Absolutely right. Excellent saying, excellently put 🙌
@tomjay633 ай бұрын
Totally agree, it’s not one size fits all.
@tomjay633 ай бұрын
So true. No one can tell you how to feel.
@tomjay633 ай бұрын
I hear you. The Corporate World in particular is full of people who want all the authority and none of the responsibility. My favourite is the inability to make a decision by a higher up to meet a deadline, so you go ahead and do what makes the most sense to you and get the response afterwards, “why did you do it that way?” Whatever… at least I did something and moved the project forward, and quelle surprise! It turned out it was the best thing to do.
@ABlokeTalkingАй бұрын
Brilliant point. We live in a world in which action is criticised, but few people have any better ideas. Action will always be better than inaction, even if your form of action is to do nothing. Thank you for commenting, i really appreciate it. I can see that you have taken the time to comment on a number of my posts, and its a fantastic compliment. Bless you! Love, Tom
@tomjay633 ай бұрын
It also helps to “say the awkward thing” instead of playing into the hero-villain-victim drama triangle. If someone is blocking the grocery aisle with their cart, say “Please move aside so I can get by” instead heavy sighing and eye rolling. It may earn you a stink eye or an ignorant comment, but at least you’ve dealt with it in the moment and you can move on. I agree that any one of us can be stupid at any time, and just need a not so gentle prodding.
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
Exactly right. Being fourth right and honest in a world that rarely applies these skills seems odd, even rude, of us to do. But, utilising this method of communication gets us through the idiocracy of others- and sometimes, ourselves.
@Amysvinylexperience3 ай бұрын
Straight forward and to the point! 🤘🏼
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
You're a legend, thank you for your support! 😅
@Amysvinylexperience3 ай бұрын
@@ABlokeTalkingkeep it up!
@IAmLogicL3 ай бұрын
Gave you a like, this is the type of information that actually helps and is real and practical. At one point in my life when i wanted to change my habits this is exactly what i did. I took action, i allowed myself to experiment and found out what worked and didnt work for me. I allowed myself to make mistakes to learn the best way for me to proceed and move forward. I didnt worry about being the most efficient or having to be "perfect" in what i do. A great thing i found out is that if you literally do everything the voice inside your head that says "i cannot be bothered to do that right now" or "i dont feel like doing this right now" (for example: Exercising) every time every day for 2 weeks you get into a pattern/habit of doing everything you say your going to do. It starts to become easy and not as much of a chore.
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
This comment truly made my day, thank you so much. I'm glad that I had something to say that you enjoyed, and I cannot express the joy you've afforded me with your words. Truly, thank you so much ❤
@Altdab5653 ай бұрын
Good advice brother
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
Thank you brother. I appreciate you 🙌
@YonvanRaders3 ай бұрын
I mean putting too much in-front of something already implies a negative. your pretty much saying a negative x negative = positive
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
In some cases, it can do 😅
@LMFAOjokers3 ай бұрын
Well said man 💪
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
Love that bro. Appreciate you!❤
@wuzwutz29773 ай бұрын
4:14 great point
@ABlokeTalking3 ай бұрын
Appreciate you watching my friend, and the feedback means alot! Thank you❤
@uknowngirl1995 ай бұрын
Hello! I want to thank you very much for the advice! I have been going through complicated years. last of 2022 and all of 2023 were horrible, 2024 did not start that well either just very stgnant, I could never have a permenant job. I tried killing myself more than 3 times, I was on antidepressants for three years. It really was complicated, lost alot of people I thought were my true friends because of gossip of a narcissistic ex friend thay still likes to do smear campains. Always had nightmares and cried alot, I still do, because of how things turned out and the people that turned their back on me. Know I'm going to a new country, and I'm hopefull things will get better! Even on these horrible moments, I'm still very gratefull for my family around me, and the true friends that still check up on me. Things will get better! I really needed to hear your advice! Keep going with your channel! 💪🏼🤍 ps: sorry for my mistakes, english is not my frist language
@ABlokeTalking5 ай бұрын
You're an absolute champion. Well done. I really appreciate the kind words, and I'm glad that mine helped. No matter what happens in life, I'll be out there somewhere rooting for you. ❤
@uknowngirl1995 ай бұрын
@@ABlokeTalking Thank you very much, that means alot! you are a kind person,I'm sure your channel will grow more. It deserves all the attention! you are very wise! ❤