These women and men chose these horrible people to procreate with and act surprised when the child turns out like parent. It just makes me believe that they choose spouses that are a crazier version of themselves.
@ronaldjoseph90552 ай бұрын
My reason for not wanting kids is kind of similar to yours. I am a 41 year old male with autism. I work part time at Walmart, don’t drive, and still live with my parents. I would like to live on my own and get married one day but don’t want any children. Part of the reason why I don’t want children is because with my autism I am already struggling to take care of myself and raising a kid will be a lot for me with my autism. I always felt like my like was different from most people because I am special needs and have autism. I too would’ve like to do more things in life but not having children I am happy about since children are a lot of work and a lot of responsibility.
@kathrinescorner972 ай бұрын
I struggle with a lot of autisme symptoms. But life has gotten better. I work part time and I am married. I have 6 beautiful guinea pigs. But I have also come to a place where I think a good life both can be with or without kids. I have a stabile life now. What is most important is to have a stable life and that you can manage having a kid. And choosing not to get a kid, thinking of the kid first, is the right choice. I hope you find tools to deal with your struggles better so you can get married and get your own place one day. Thank you for sharing.
@Georgia-yc9mk3 ай бұрын
Hi your video was also randomly recommended to me. I am a body piercer in the UK...from my experience its usually the metal material used in the initial piercing. I only ever use titanium as its the best for anyone who has metal sensitivities. Have you asked your piercer what they use? Some will use stainless steel which does not agree with most people. Over cleaning them can also be probmatic. Also with the nostril piercing it may be worth putting a labret bar through instead of a nose spiral stud. The piercing is supposed to be straight therefore a straight flat backed bar will help with the healing process. Once the piercing is fully healed you can then try putting something a little more fancy in it. Only sharing what has worked best for my clients over the years. Happy healing ♡
@stephk19703 ай бұрын
Hi! This video was randomly recommended to me. :) I'm curious as to what your cleaning routine is? I had a very similar issue to you about 10 years ago when I first got most of my piercings. They took FOREVER to heal and some of them I even had to take out. I cleaned them religiously as advised by my piercer (who was the most expensive and high-rated one in my city). Eventually I grew so frustrated I stopped cleaning them and just left them alone (didn't take them out, didn't touch them). They all healed within a few months after that, including my industrial which had two massive keloids on both ends (both gone now). Its been a decade now (as I mentioned), and I have not had a problem since. I still have 13 piercings and none have caused me issues since they finally healed. Now, this is not "advice". Just my own experience. And since it sounds like you tried everything .. maybe now it's time to try nothing? 🤔 Best wishes. ☺️
@kathrinescorner973 ай бұрын
I did try that. I did everything my piercer recommended. My septum piercing is the one I have left. Maybe my body likes rings best. I have really thought about getting some of them again but with rings instead. 😀
@stephk19703 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 aww I'm sorry your body's been so tough on you!! :( I have heard that rings do better for some people. But perhaps piercings weren't meant to be for you. >:(
@Judithica3 ай бұрын
I agree, and have many muted tones. I lean towards a steal blue grey in many tones. I have been experimenting with dark floral patterns, but my autism means I have to be careful as some cloth textures drive me nuts. Style is an evolution. Keep up the great videos!
@kathrinescorner973 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment. I get you. Some colours and patterns just hurt my eyes. I am also pretty basic. Most colours and new things never work out for me. But I have also been told I have a lot of autisme symptoms. 😆 🤣 Maybe that is why. Thank you. I hope I will see you again in my comment section. I love reading comments like yours. ❤️
@PreciousNwandu3 ай бұрын
you're so pretty
@kathrinescorner973 ай бұрын
Thank you very much 😀
@notblondeswede3 ай бұрын
You sounds like me and I have the diagnoses comorbid autism and adhd but I am suspecting schizotypal because it encompasses the symptoms of these.
@kathrinescorner973 ай бұрын
I hope we both find the right diagnosis, so we can understand ourselfs better and get the right help 😀
@Judithica3 ай бұрын
I agree. It's difficult to declutter and very exhausting. I keep nice clothes because I never know when I will need something nice and when I go somewhere nice I get frustrated that I have nothing nice, but I also keep my old dingy clothes for when I'm doing dingy work and for me it's a matter of what do I feel comfortable in.
@kathrinescorner973 ай бұрын
It is difficult. I hope you find replacements when your comfortable clothing breaks apart. You need to find out what nice clothing is to you. Or maybe find out if you have to much nice clothing. Good luck. Comfort means the most to me when it comes to clothing. Thank you for your comment.
@Judithica3 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 I believe in treating my favorite clothing with special care. I do hand wash and line dru some articles of clothing, and even have some clothing articles that are almost 20 years old now. If I find something that I am specially fond of I will treat it kindly and repair it as needed. I am not against using thrift stores and consignment shops to replace clothing, but the internet is especially good with this as some exact clothing can be found and replaced if you know the make.
@kathrinescorner973 ай бұрын
You can definetly do things like airdrying clothing to make them last longer. I am curious, what do you do to make your clothing last longer? You never know with clothing to day, if it will fall apart quickly or last years.
@Judithica3 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 there are a couple of things you can do. Hand washing and air drying and also spot cleaning stains are just the first steps. I try to keep on top of sewing and making repairs as damage occurs. When you are choosing clothing you can look at what materials are used and whether or not the materials is durable. The stitching is another thing to look at. Give the article of clothing a tug and see if the material rebounds or not. For example for winter I have three good wool sweaters and two good coats and one good fleece jacket. I layer a tank top and t-shirt under that and while it only ever gets around 0 Celsius where I live that is usually more than enough. I often think of the poor Man's dilemma. A poor man will buy a new pair of shoes every year for $10 because that's all he can afford, but he has to buy a new pair of shoes every year because they wear out so quickly. A wealthy man can buy a pair of shoes for $40 and pay other people to clean them and mend them and they will last for decades. I found a good cobbler in my area for my shoes so that I don't have to buy the frequently and it's pretty much the same principle with clothes. Clean them regularly and repair them when I'm able.
@Entamology1014 ай бұрын
Granola bars are helpful if liquids feel gross
@kathrinescorner974 ай бұрын
Thank you for the tip 😀
@sofiamuller40275 ай бұрын
Thank you for this nice video! I loved listening to Danish and also love to visit Denmark for vacation. Where are you from in Denmark? I have been to several regions in Denmark but I especially like Fyn and the Baltiksea in Denmark. The nature is very beautiful in your country and the beaches. Have a nice day 💕
@kathrinescorner975 ай бұрын
Thank you for whatching it. I am from "jylland" or to be more specific the middle of "jylland". We defintely have som place that are very beautiful. Right back at ya. You have a nice day to :) ❤️🧡💛
@sofiamuller40275 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 💕
@sofiamuller40275 ай бұрын
I love plants, too!
@kathrinescorner975 ай бұрын
Cool. Do you have indoor plants? :)
@sofiamuller40275 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 yes! Many of them :)
@ssangari6 ай бұрын
so true idont unterstand why people buy plastic organisers all the time while you get jars and boxes for free all the time!
@MeowMoosh7 ай бұрын
I agree
@amberrichards27787 ай бұрын
It's tough to declutter but I desperately need to
@kathrinescorner977 ай бұрын
It really is. But it is also really freeing and it teaches you more about yourself :) Put on some good motivating music and maybe have coffee or a energydrink, to drink to get a little extra needed energy. Good luck decluttering.
@franklinfernandes55937 ай бұрын
Thanks for this.
@kathrinescorner977 ай бұрын
Thank you for whatching 😀
@isabelitaruizVO8 ай бұрын
Hope you both live a lovely DINK life with lots of pets if that’s what you want and both agree 🎉 And don’t feel pressured for having a kid you don’t want 🙏
@kathrinescorner977 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️ Pets are the best. I will take pets any day over humans. 😆
@anordinaryguy81218 ай бұрын
Where are you from? I like your accent :)
@kathrinescorner978 ай бұрын
Thank you. I am from Denmark :)
@majajani80778 ай бұрын
Congratulations on finding someone who has match your wanted lifestyle ^_^ Not sure why youtube has recommended this video to me but it was lovely and cute to hear your story :D
@kathrinescorner978 ай бұрын
Thank you. I am happy you got something positive out of whatching my video 😀
@sofiamuller40279 ай бұрын
I totally agree with you and feel the same about this. I am childfree, too! I find life hard and complicated already and would not want to add more to this at all. Thanks for your video and for sharing your thoughts.
@kathrinescorner979 ай бұрын
Than you for sharing your thoughts. I love reading peoples comments. 😀
@amberrichards27789 ай бұрын
Love the jewelry! My wedding ring is leather and I love it so much
@kathrinescorner979 ай бұрын
Thank you. That sounds very special. I also love my engagement ring. Which is going to be a weeding ring some day. :)
@amberrichards27789 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 I'm so happy that you found your person!! I love love soooo much
@kathrinescorner979 ай бұрын
Thank you. I am also happy you found your person. I have just had a wisdom tooth operated out today and the local anestechia is starting to loose its effect. So a good comment can always make fhe situationen better. ❤️ I always love reading your comments.
@nikhilshetty829110 ай бұрын
well i'll always support a good woman.
@amberrichards277810 ай бұрын
I'm excited to see what you create!
@kathrinescorner9710 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here and following my journey 😀
@benbates932810 ай бұрын
Love your videos one other thing I can say childfree perks is not worrying about child estrangement. There are so many families these days who are estranged from there kids to a T most of these families are not about to reconcile with there children.
@kathrinescorner9710 ай бұрын
Thank you. I am glad that you enjoy them. Well personaly I would wish that not everyone could become a parent. Some are so bad parents they hurt kids for life. Mine were som of them. My life got better slowly when I got away. But my trauma and mentall illness will never go away.
@LazerKrohn-w4q10 ай бұрын
Can schizotypal develop in childhood that can be similar in autism specifically Asperger’s Getting them a missed diagnosis of autism
@kathrinescorner9710 ай бұрын
That is a really good question. I do not have the answer to. I have heard of one person being diagnosed with autisme and then later with the schizotypal personality disorder.
@sofiamuller402710 ай бұрын
Fellow introvert here 🤗
@amberrichards277810 ай бұрын
I'm hyper extraverted and I ABSOLUTELY agree that introverts are treated poorly, like there's something wrong with them. But I value my introverted friends a lot, because they let me into their small circle of people and I get to hear their awesome, well-thought-out perspectives. Introverts are awesome!!!
@kathrinescorner9710 ай бұрын
Thank you. I wished more people thaught like you. Being silent is not a bad thing. 😀
@sofiamuller402710 ай бұрын
I find this topic very interesting and would appreciate more videos of this kind. 🤗
@kathrinescorner9710 ай бұрын
I am happy you found it usefull. Thank you for the feedback 😀 😊 it will go into my video ideas folder
@justpeachy439311 ай бұрын
I had 2 natural births/now my kids are 4 and almost 7... One is autistic/has ADHD. I feel ya with all of these 😂. It is definitely a commitment and if you're not cut out for it, better to recognize it beforehand 👍. Mine are cute and I love them like crazy but it is difficult for sure
@kathrinescorner9711 ай бұрын
It is a lifelong commitment. But I sadly have to much to fight with and dislike how the world is today. You are one though lady to have done natural births. That is impressive. 😀
@Frau.P11 ай бұрын
I am severe mental ill, completely not able to care for a kid in the slightest way. So i also dont will have kids. But i also dont want them either. Maybe because of my traumatic upbringing with lots of abuse
@kathrinescorner9711 ай бұрын
Then you have made a responsible choice. 😀 A bad childhood leaves its marks. I am in the same boat when it comes to that sadly.
@amberrichards277811 ай бұрын
I turn my old jeans into patchwork dresses or bags. The pockets are great for bags because you don't have to sew pockets onto the purse. Cute outfit btw!
@kathrinescorner9711 ай бұрын
Thank you. It must be great to be creative in a way that makes it so, that you can safe money.
@liamodonovan661011 ай бұрын
You always look gorgeous in everything trifted ot not you are naturally beautiful
@kathrinescorner9711 ай бұрын
Thank you. 😀
@amberrichards277811 ай бұрын
Aaaaaaah I'm the first one!!! ❤
@kathrinescorner9711 ай бұрын
How cool ! Thank you for your sweet words <3
@amberrichards277811 ай бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 I leave comments to make your day brighter and also to boost the algorithm for your wonderful videos
@kathrinescorner9711 ай бұрын
Thank you. They most certanly make it brighter. Thank you. It means a lot that you like my videos. And want to follow me, even though I have a small channel. It really means a lot ❤️ I will be here reading all your sweet comments.
@sofiamuller402711 ай бұрын
🌸🌸🌸
@amberrichards277811 ай бұрын
Nice haul! I love finding quality clothes at thrift stores
@purplemonsoon8376 Жыл бұрын
Do you have Vinted in your country? I use it to sell the clothes I don’t want in the UK.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Yes we have that app and others and then there is marketplace. Clothing is just hard to sell. I do not have anything that is trendy or designer so that makes it very hard to sell. And if people want to buy it. They want it extremly cheap. And then it is not worth all the hassel with taking pictures and putting it up to sell.
@brendagomez8656 Жыл бұрын
What's that??? What a cute box . Also, Inuyasha is one of my favorite animes
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
The box where I have most of the inuyasha series in 😀
@kythrathesuntamer9715 Жыл бұрын
I love it, i just wish i had more friends without kids..
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. 😀 I hope you find more childfree freinds. I would love to find more friends. My only friend is childfree.
@oblivionslight1346 Жыл бұрын
There’s plenty of lessons to glean from regretful parents. Especially for people who want children. One that comes off the top of my head is, make sure you have a reliable support system. If you’re away from family, build your support system before the kids are even in the picture.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
I agree with that. It is always important to hear different stories. Both the good and the bad.
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
Thrifting is so much fun
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
It really is. You can find so many special cheap things in thrift stores. 😀 But it is also very tempting to buy a lot of stuff that I do not need 😆
@yisdisaissue Жыл бұрын
You have an easy will. No messy fights. You don't have to worry about disappointment if they are losers. You don't have to worry about anyone really missing you when you die. You don't have to worry about them throwing you in a retirement home when you're too weak to do anything for yourself.
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing with us! I have TONS of toys for my cat but she mostly chases the fly that snuck in when we came inside from the back porch.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for commenting. Oh I love cats. I love talking to cats I see when I walk. My guines pigs are such picky eaters 😆 so I relate to that when it comes to food What is your kitty called?
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 her name is Miniskirt! She is an orange cat!
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Orange cats always remeind me of Garfeild. I love them so much. 😍
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 me too! They all share a single brain cell. My kitten hasn't had the chance with hers yet lol! She's a year and a month old < 3
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Cats are so great and cute ❤️ I look forward to some day live in an apartment, where me and my boyfreind are allowed to have a cat. My favorite thing about my in-laws is their sct Bernard dog. I just have a big think for pets
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
I have ehlers danlos syndrome, and that's a big reason why I don't want kids
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
That must suck. It is actually an illness/syndrome I have never heard of. It takes a lot of self-reflecting to know that you have to much to fight with to take care of a kid. For me that is selfless. Because then you and me both, do not bring kids in to this world that would have a potential bad upbringing. 😀 That alone makes you a strong and kindhearted individual. I think to many people think about kids in the wrong way. And only think about what a kid can give them. And not what they can give a kid.
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 EDS is a rare genetic condition that affects the processing of collagen. It affects the skin, digestive system, and joints. It's degenerative.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
I hope you have found your way to deal with it, and that you still have a good life 😀
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
I have level 1 hoarder behavior and this is a helpful reminder to get rid of stuff that I don't need. Tysm!
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Are you diagnosed? Or are you just bad at getting rid of stuff? It is never easy to get rid of stuff. It takes real honesty with ourselfs It is nice seeing you back in my comment section 😀 I guess that clicking the bell icon worked for you?
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 I'm not diagnosed I'm just messy. And I grew up with a level 4-5 diagnosed hoarder. It's true! I like to hang onto things for the "possibility" of usefulness. It did! I'm getting alerts for your videos now!
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
I grew up with a narcassitic hoarder. So I am guessing your childhood might not have been the best? The best thing that has ever happend to me was getting away at 17. And just like anything else it takes time. I have decluttered for years, and I am still learning and trying out different methodes. Yay! I am happy that it worked 😀
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 my mother is also an (undiagnosed) narcissist. It was only good because of my wonderful dad, who is the best dad ever.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
It is great to hear that you in the least had/have one good parent 😀
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE kid's shows. I love watching them with my wife in the privacy of our home without a screaming toddler and not being forced to watch them 37 times on repeat to placate a child. Good video as always, have a good day!
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
I like some kids tv/movies like shrek or wallie. I like mu nieces and nephwes, but I am happy they are not mine to. But like the tv for kids today is so brain dead especially the shows for toddlers. Where they sing everything. Thank you. It is lovely to see you in my comment section again ❤️
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 I haven't seen your videos in my alerts : ( it's probably user error as I'm terrible with computers hahaha
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Have you clicked the bell icon if you are subscribed? :) Maybe it is not you mistakes happen sometimes on social media platforms
@amberrichards2778 Жыл бұрын
@@kathrinescorner97 just changed the bell from "personalized" to "all" notifications : )
@sofiamuller4027 Жыл бұрын
Very relateable! 💕
@JohnnyBelgium Жыл бұрын
The most important thing is family. I'm also childfree but I have a great group of friends. We are like family. I would also say, cynicism kills love. To love you have to be vulnerable.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
Having good people in your life is important, I agree with that 😀
@laure189 Жыл бұрын
Having a child is beautiful but EXTREMELY difficult. It definitely turns your life upside down. You don't have to loose yourself completely, I am now a marine biologist and a mom, I still travel a lot, but it's also thanks to a wonderful husband who helps so much! I definitely would not recommend having kids unless you really want to and you feel mentally ready. You must be ready to see your life change and redefine who you are again. And who gives a shit about stabilising your country's economy. It's not your responsibility. There shouldn't be any need for you to justify why you don't want to have a kid. It's a noble decision, just like having kids :)
@MizzMelan Жыл бұрын
I don't have children, but I don't hate them. But yes I have heard these terms and it's very disheartening
@pinkeysherbet7249 Жыл бұрын
This poor kid in the first post! It sounds to me like there’s a ton of missing information and mom’s trying to treat a severe trauma issue with regular behavior interventions and that’s why the kid isn’t responding to it. The whole family needs more intensive therapy than they’re getting. I don’t think sending her to live with someone else will work and abandoning her daughter by handing her off to someone else will make those issues worse. They need to look into more intensive mental health treatment where the kid can get round-the-clock care and the mom can get some respite.
@kathrinescorner97 Жыл бұрын
There can be a lot of solutions to each story. I just hope they make it better for the kids, in each one of the stories. Btw. I really like your animated profil picture 😀