Ep. 54 Loving You Is Easy
57:29
Жыл бұрын
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@whitease7404
@whitease7404 18 күн бұрын
I loved everything about this! More black queer couples !
@apollosmartyn
@apollosmartyn Ай бұрын
Great work hope to collaborate with you 💙 ❤❤❤Namibia 🇳🇦
@fatimabaxter5947
@fatimabaxter5947 Ай бұрын
Awesome episode! Living your truth out loud ! If i may ask taylor u said u did a vlog /blog is there a link so we can view it or have it , will u turnnit in to a book so we can have the tools daly to be our authentic self along with your five ways ? Thanks for your time ! Hey Chelsea, the kids, and the dogs😊❤
@manchulvanist66
@manchulvanist66 6 ай бұрын
She quotes Gabrielle Union," say less 😢😢😢
@manchulvanist66
@manchulvanist66 6 ай бұрын
She said Bro" say less it's given now
@manchulvanist66
@manchulvanist66 6 ай бұрын
Even the therapist can see the dude is weak. And she knows he doesn't know Womens nature snd he can never give her what she desires as a women. I bet he was raised by his mother with no man influence.
@manchulvanist66
@manchulvanist66 6 ай бұрын
Just some advice, as a man your women should see you as the therapist, counselor, manager, spiritual counselor, guidance counselor and everything else. Henceforth the word provider.
@manchulvanist66
@manchulvanist66 6 ай бұрын
It looks to me the therapy didnt work. Does she let him talk? Without talking over him and cutting him off. He doesn't do that to her, i mean he tries but she keeps subtly bullying him, speaking for him and everything. This has simp ish written all over it. She obviously runs the show, she doesn't respect him as a man. How can someone who is not married see this so called marriage as a blessing? It looks like hell because if shes this way when the cameras rolling, i can only imagine.
@jaybarnes6473
@jaybarnes6473 7 ай бұрын
Great talk
@haydeecastillo4621
@haydeecastillo4621 9 ай бұрын
They had a lot happen in one year
@Tarzandabarbie
@Tarzandabarbie 11 ай бұрын
My new favorite episode
@cedricbethea
@cedricbethea Жыл бұрын
Im surprised that the women on this panel don't know about their own biological clock. 😢
@yoshix8441
@yoshix8441 Жыл бұрын
If I could like this three times I would! I love the vulnerability and honesty... Black men are Kings! ❤
@bobbymarie8002
@bobbymarie8002 Жыл бұрын
I made it to 17:00 minutes while getting dressed. Thinking these single men will be giving their take on dating *but* the vast majority of what i hear is the Speaker speaking! I'm trying to hear wth the "single" guys has to say & this dude to the left is yappy af. I mean, Ask the Q and Shhh. Plus, his voice...Ugh :/ Anyway, Thanks for posting 🧘
@SamSebahtu
@SamSebahtu Жыл бұрын
These girls have some dry answers, its like they are lifeless....goshhhh...what a dry interview.
@biancataylor9659
@biancataylor9659 Жыл бұрын
No negativity, just constructive criticism. I was trying to find a good Christian couple podcast to watch and came by this one. I couldn’t enjoy it because every time he speaks she cuts him off. I’m like okay maybe she is just excited, let me keep watching, they seem to have been doing this for a while so they should be professional. Nothing changed, I can’t get with it, the topics feels all over the place. Maybe if they talk one at a time and listen to one another it would have a smoother feeling. Idk maybe it’s just me 😩
@BigbossBonita
@BigbossBonita Жыл бұрын
The topic about pass given to white men bs black men goes both ways. When a black woman has an attitude black men write it off as angry black women ghetto or loves drama but when they date outside their race she give them attitude they call it “spicy” and now it’s a turn on.
@instrinsiclove
@instrinsiclove Жыл бұрын
Has been on my “watch later” for so long and just getting to it. Really would love to know where these gentlemen are. Great chat between men❤️
@158-i6z
@158-i6z Жыл бұрын
I'm really trying to give these women's arguments a chance but they say that they want an honest man that doesn't play games but they openly admit that they'd rather ghost him than reject him.
@bdepina03
@bdepina03 Жыл бұрын
I loved this convo between black men👏🏾👏🏾
@kristir9250
@kristir9250 Жыл бұрын
Hmm..def a sticky situation but unpopular opinion: i'm okay with it lol because grief can bring people closer!
@peterhudgens8817
@peterhudgens8817 Жыл бұрын
Nothing but ❤...keep up the great work. 👍 🫵🫡‼️
@Michelle_Michelle___
@Michelle_Michelle___ Жыл бұрын
I honestly have chosen to work on myself and allow God to change me from the inside out, and make me a wife for the man he has for me. I got tired of making the same mistakes, and I was tired of begging all the wrong people to love me. So I tried God. And though it’s been challenging, I love this version of myself way more than the other version ❤❤❤❤❤ I’ve seen God for the first time and he’s beautiful. I’m human, I still desire to be married, but I’m not thirsty for it, I’m thirsty to know who I am in God and to God. Period.
@_TheLoveCoach
@_TheLoveCoach Жыл бұрын
Is it truly a double standard if the standards aren’t the same. I get what you are saying. Lol. It is a good question
@_TheLoveCoach
@_TheLoveCoach Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 ⛽️💨
@_TheLoveCoach
@_TheLoveCoach Жыл бұрын
Woah there! This is an intense topic lol
@markjackson3847
@markjackson3847 Жыл бұрын
Doesn't give them a chance to talk he asks his questions then answers them bad host
@markjackson3847
@markjackson3847 Жыл бұрын
Doesn't give them a chance to talk he asks his questions then answers them bad host
@allis553
@allis553 Жыл бұрын
This was great thank you!!
@sihumpp
@sihumpp Жыл бұрын
So glad to see you guys back recording 🫶🏽
@khandygurl01
@khandygurl01 Жыл бұрын
Did y’all say TWENTY-ONE HOURS PER DAY?!?? Out of TWENTY-FOUR of the hours in a day?!??
@SadFluteAssasins
@SadFluteAssasins Жыл бұрын
What y’all are afraid to say on this podcast is this…. The reason most black men find it extremely easier to date outside their race is in most instances we meet women that are truly feminine. And in a lot of other ethnic groups, the roles and mutual respect is automatic. Often times with black women, there are a slew of unrealistic requirements they will place on their agreeableness and femininity. As a black man, I’ve found dating white and Hispanic women brings more peace and is much less stressful with relationship building. It’s more focused on mutual goals, not arguments about how I’m playing my position in the relationship. Every other race I’ve dated, the women had strong homemaking skills. Only 1 out of the 7 black women I’ve dated even knew how to cook, much less how to run a house! So in closing black men, be honest about exactly what it was about the other race that allowed you to “hit it off”. Don’t deny your personal happiness and so a black woman or the community will feel better. Clearly our recent history shows us that staying in the race just because does more harm than good. Go love who loves you back. Never wait on someone who’s love is conditional.
@finnessejets4231
@finnessejets4231 3 ай бұрын
Honestly, it just depends on the foundation really and how they were raised and of course if there father was present in raising them. I’ve dated black, hispanic and most of the time if the foundational piece is not present or if something was lacking from childhood more than likely it will be a dysfunctional relationship regardless of ethnicity, so I’d say yes having a beautiful black queen is amazing, but the reality is love may come outside your race and ultimately the right woman.
@ccdew86
@ccdew86 Жыл бұрын
The Dating pool for men…
@ccdew86
@ccdew86 Жыл бұрын
Dating is trash out here,i been wanting my on family since i was a kid, im a averge guy around bunch of women that want the 10 percent
@SumthinAboutAce
@SumthinAboutAce Жыл бұрын
I agree, our children should have both! It starts with a sense of self 🖤
@berniciafuller9952
@berniciafuller9952 Жыл бұрын
You got so many fake women wanting real men. Women with fake hair, fake nails, fake attitudes, fake innocence talking about being single. You’re that bc that’s what you practice.
@berniciafuller9952
@berniciafuller9952 Жыл бұрын
Single womanhood (especially single Motherhood) is NOT a badge of honor. See what this looks like on you at 60 and lonely
@shad3593
@shad3593 Жыл бұрын
What was the name of the book he mentioned?
@TheForefrontRadio
@TheForefrontRadio Жыл бұрын
She keep over talking the man and interrupting his sentence. As a first time viewer, I would like to see more of the brother speaking on his points. Its easy, if she would listen to her husband and humble down. She doesn't understand because she didn't humble down to him.
@ashleyadams6655
@ashleyadams6655 Жыл бұрын
I felt the same way with just seeing the preview and thought I was the only one.
@NyiaJohnson-q4v
@NyiaJohnson-q4v Жыл бұрын
I literally could not make it past 5 minutes. She overspoke him and looked as if she couldn’t not wait to interject
@lakeivionisaac7845
@lakeivionisaac7845 Жыл бұрын
Im 25 years old, and I haven’t been more embarrassed about the first 3 min of this video. How are women going to submit and respect you if you are giggling like children? Had to just end the video.
@Sinedu95
@Sinedu95 Жыл бұрын
Finally a podcast that has both sexes sitting down having civil conversations 🤎🤎🤎 Actually having conversation and not hostile debates. Both sides are listening and not being combative. It's so refreshing to see. Invite me on the show!! Lol
@Sinedu95
@Sinedu95 Жыл бұрын
I wish podcast like this got more attention 🤎
@Sinedu95
@Sinedu95 Жыл бұрын
This is actually a good episode. Black men having a healthy and authentic conversation 🤎 Whether we agree with some of the stuff they say or not, let's appreciate these young men being open and honest. And doing so tactfully This is way more tasteful than those other pointless podcasts people choose to listen to And I really appreciate this podcast because the interviewer remains neutral. He doesn't show bias. He tries to see things from all perspectives. He isn't judgemental. And he asks questions that keeps these young men actively engaged in conversation. These men are speaking from experience and observation and not from a place of hate/hurt. Ladies, even if you don't like some of the things they're saying, please take it for what it is and really listen to these men speak. They're not being hostile or showing animosity towards women as a whole. I know there are a lot more podcast where people can have a civil conversation, but sadly too many people focus on the ones that bring negative energy. One more thing, you see that social media seems to be the common denominator here when talking about what's wrong with relationships today. We are all aware social media plays a negative role, so why do we keep feeding into it? Stop entertaining the bs you see floating on IG and Twitter and sit down with real people to have real insightful conversations
@SadFluteAssasins
@SadFluteAssasins Жыл бұрын
The fact that all these men on this panel wanted to be with a black women, but constantly haven’t been able to find an adequate one, proves the point of dating outside of the race. You guys are wasting years of happiness chasing problematic women. I’m sorry, but the proof is all around you. Date and love who loves you back.
@keepsit100atalltime9
@keepsit100atalltime9 Жыл бұрын
Where do the men on the panel live? Would be nice if good, decent BM and BW could link up🙁
@Noodles4L
@Noodles4L Жыл бұрын
Y’all definitely gave us perspective 😂😅
@therealpodnyc
@therealpodnyc Жыл бұрын
There’s regular dudes paying bills so pls 😭😭😭
@selahbahtisrael9328
@selahbahtisrael9328 Жыл бұрын
Hey get IUIC on your show cause they teaching how to rebuild the black families!