Thanks for sharing your thoughts. (Ms 5 head and four eyes is hilarious haha) Let me ask you this, if you aren’t made aware of his cheating in any way and your life is great, what effects would cheating have on you? (I’m not advocating for cheating btw)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I hear you loud and clear. Honesty is everything. Sounds like that’s exactly what Cam is doing.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. You are absolutely entitled to your own views. By speaking in general, by no means do I mean all. I’m speaking from my observations. When you talk to women, they typically will only react to the things that she’s aware of. There are some exceptions that go looking for the info. Maybe those are the women that may care. 🙏

That’s a powerful statement. It’s a complete rarity to find a woman that will. Fortunately, many women are starting to speak up. I hope that you are able to find them! 💪

My honor brother. I’m touching and agreeing with you for things to not only reconcile but to be better than before. God is able and He is with you. Much love 🙏

@@MsLotusBlooms u know why he hasn’t spoken negatively about white woman? Bc they aren’t known for having attitude problems, and white woman never bash a white man for dating outside his race because they have a lot of choices themselves to even be concerned.

He doesn’t speak ill of white women because white women aren’t a problem, duhhhh🤷🏽‍♂️

Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏

@tahreesa Yes, we did, girl, gave up on it a long time ago just like they gave up on us. They have shown and proved time and time again, just how much they hate the black woman. Our black men complain, and they down talk to us every chance they get, telling us we chose wrong simply because we chose them. We get slandered simply for speaking our minds or saying how we feel or even asking them for help in raising their children, the very children they helped create. All while giving white women and non -black women that very grace we asked them for, but we were asking for too much. We get stereotyped and dragged in the mud instantly and with the quickness from our own black men only for these white women and these non-black women to benefit tremendously from our black men like we weren't there, holding them down having their backs, birthing there sons and daughters entirely loving and giving to that black man, well before he was allowed to have a relationship with these types of women but because we did that for them, they now despise us for it, but no one wants to talk about them quiet parts out loud. No one wants to talk about the black women who are not problematic. Yes, I am against it. I've always been against it, and I will continue to be against it, just like y'all have your right to feel how and what you all feel, so do I. So please dont try to come for me for simply expressing mine. The way these white people have treated us and continues to still treat us to our faces, has always been one of evil and the amounts of masks you try to put on them to make yourselves feel better about choosing them it doesn't and it hasn't changed that fact. In my opinion, our men are fetishes, they always were, just like our women are. Our black men have a problem with their own culture. They have a problem with their own race. They have a problem with the women that look like them. and they hate themselves for being black at the end of the day. They scream about what happened to our ancestors, yet they lay down with the same devils who Lynched, they black a****, just for batting, an eye at them. They never defended us against none of these white men or their harm, and they stilll have not, but yet we are always the problem to our black men. So yes, they can go and be happy. Continue diluting your bloodlines. Just do it quietly and leave us black women who really do love our black men out of it. To the black men, those of you who are left and actually believe in black being beautiful and who actually loves really love black women.We love you too❤️ and best believe we have not given up on you, either. We have not given up on you at all.

This is really good stuff

Good stuff! Thanks for sharing your experience

Very much appreciated! 💪

Wait, isn’t your comment proving his point?

From the beginning, I detected 🌈, the extra emotions, neck moving while talking, perched lips, feminine hand gestures. He is a feminine man, perhaps he is a str8 man but was raised around all women nonetheless something is off about him. I agree with the person that said go for what you like without throwing BW under the bus collectively. I haven't had the best experiences with BM however I will never generalise BM in order to justify my attraction to NonBM.

I’m curious, what does his mannerisms have to do with the points that he made?

I was pointing out his hypocrisy, the energy that he spoke about when he first meets a bw is the same energy that I detected from him. He seems combative and ready to go off. Not a very friendly energy to interact with 🙋🏽

@queenivy8600 I hear you. However, on this channel, the standard is attacking someone’s point, not the person

Thanks for that! Glad that you checked it out… Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I agree with you. I hope this conversation can help in raising the standard.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🙏

No offense, but you’re a white woman saying you won’t be with a black men if he doesn’t love black woman.. but u understand the push back nowadays is that if you love black women then you should be dating one.

Haha! I’m often confused by that as well. Society is the most hated in the history of “society”! 😂

Glad to hear that brother. Thanks for checking it out! 💪

Thanks for sharing your thoughts… I pray for your peace. I love you enough to tell you the truth. Your civil rights are safe and secure. Stop believing the propaganda. 🙏

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I’m curious, what part of their inferiority makes them want anything non black?

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. However, if you have been happily married, what makes you suggest that they don’t marry?

@lifecoachingbymel mostly because most will not be happily married and most won't find the right person. It's just not worth the risk to me. I realize my story is rare. I married for love, but it also made logical sense as the union benefited us both. If there's no real benefit besides emotions, it's not a good idea, imho.

Thanks for answering. Are you an advocate for out of wedlock children?

@lifecoachingbymel depends on the situation and the individuals involved. Logic plays a big role in these life altering situations.

Agreed… Which situation is more ideal in your opinion?

Beautifully said! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 🙏

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Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💪

@@curiousintellect6874 and when/if no fault divorce ends...ppl really shouldn't get married.

Thanks for watching and sharing your kind thoughts! 🙏

Truth

That’s hilarious! Thanks for sharing your thoughts

This is awesome! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 💪

@lifecoachingbymel my pleasure! I'm extremely glad your video was in my feed! 🎯

@jamuq3589 I’m glad as well! I hope to hear from you again soon. 🙏

Spot on! 🎯🎯🎯

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

That’s a good thought for sure. I’ll be looking into doing that. Thanks for sharing that! 💪

@@jerral416 What lie did I tell?

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🙏

The word “Bash” isn’t accepted on this channel. Good having you while it lasted. 🙏