I'm 45 and just got laid off PLUS m lease is over. Good thing is I still get paid a couple of times so I wont be broke, but it's still scary at this age. I'm getting aged out in tech and want to start a new career, but have had a 25 year career. I'm gonna build out my trck and just live. But to my young folks, it happens to EVERYONE. Embrace it

Its important to seek quietness from a healthy place and not from fear and lack of confidence to express oneself In fear of being judged. I'm still looking for my way back to being myself.

I have depression from losing everything and legitimately missing my life that I used to have but now I see that six years have passed and mostly spent in self-pity. I try to be grateful for things, but it lasts like two seconds and then I go right back to self-pity again. I don’t know how to honestly move on. My life will never be as good as it was and plus I am getting older. I have to be able to be grateful but also realistic. Hard not to compare yourself when it was better in the past.

1:52 I am a quiet person myself , to be honest this is one of the silliest stereotypes I have ever heard😆. for example I am very interested in dinosaurs, video games, knowledge and math to just name a few things.

I’m 41 and I’ve had to start over many of times but it is getting very hard each time especially when you have kids but as long as you put your mind to it you can do anything.

Toxic people I don't like people like that ewww but I think everyone is toxic I don't know I can be toxic to 😱😱 but I know who I am but know no one is perfect either we have yes both sides 👹👼😱 yes?ok I'm good 😄👋 Hello 👋😆hi

Thank you for everything <3

this is SHIT. I'd feel so rejected if someone said they'd rather be with somewhere else. It would be much nicer if someone said they'd love to be there but already had something planned.

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Respect you man❤

Instructive!

Be careful not to overinterpret the advice. Sometimes people are meant to work together and are able to forgive eachother and come to better terms in the long run. So dont walk away too fast. People make mistakes.

"If you are not planning, you are planning to fail". Well said *clap*

21 Gotta stop wasting my time on things that don't benefit me in life anymore

Thank you. At this point, the silent treatment means no word salad😅🎉.

5 years later...not so easy to forget ghosting children. But the truth is most people dont care that much about you. Not even your own kids. Still trying to let them go. Some things such as this goes against nature. Matthew 10:34-36....is no joke. Just try to be happy and Keep Walking. Ghosting from family is the meanest shit ever.

Thank you for your ideaa

I read a lot and write too but I haven't read a whole book in years but I read essays and ones and scriptures and the news headlines...the library in my city isn't funded so it's not supplied as an normal library and actually last I heard it was closed out of service but I'm too poor to afford books but I frequent the internet for source material to read and mostly nonfiction except poetry...thank you for your love of reading and encouraging me to take my reading skills even higher...I think I'll budget for a book and/or audio book...do they sell pdf books because I rather read at my own pace for myself it's more meaningful to me that way than hearing a narrator. God bless you good bye

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I will share this video to those who have lost hope. Absolutely inspirational. Thank you.

When i was a teenager im proud i was away from tv or any addiction however it resulted to myself living inside my head. And its chaotic. I got anxiety. So in my opinion, do BALANCE in your life

Thank for sharing

Instead of needing validation all the time, have you considered simply not needing to.

I guess im... Kevin..i need to make a change.

Kevin had a terrible day. He spent the entire time sitting with silent company, trying to talk to them, but in the end, they told him, "You're annoying. Speak less." Wow. Who are you, people? Do you think it's interesting to sit and listen to you breathe all evening?

very true i 'cause read a lot myself

If you ask them why they, will always say that they have been busy or some other bs excuse. They will NEVER admit they are trying to punish you.

God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth. even that is enough to prove silence is essential.

1:19 can off incognito (to an alt) to say that this is gon be one of the best things to help. Thank you so so much

I will send the link of this video to one of the group chat that's super silence so that they know the right way to do it

I got divorced and i went back to my mother's place. I want to quit my job and focus on my studies. I don't know if it's a good decision but i know this is what I want

Talking gives away weaknesses predators love when you talk

Watching this made me appreciate the calmness of silence in a whole new way. Thank you for bringing this message to life

Silence truly is underrated-it's amazing how much power and clarity it can bring. Thanks for highlighting these hidden strengths; makes me want to embrace silence more in my own life

- It’s not as productive as it seems - Your health will take a toll from stress - Everything becomes about work and not your own life, friends, family etc. Validation is needed purely from work. - It doesn’t allow you to think creatively to problems, making issues worse. But alas, we still need to work. The aim is to find a work-life balance - to care for yourself and for your work :)

Im quite good at this now but at the start ppl always asked me if i was checking them out 😭😭

Jisko eng Samaj na aye😢😢😢 Sup

I'm more a person that talks a lot

Words have power

i need a better job and i know i can!

Some people gain absolutely zero benefit from leaving their comfort zone and totally happy and comfortable staying within the or comfort zone. I told my boss this and he could not get his head around it or the fact I have zero interest in getting promoted.

Wow our names match with Kevin 🎉🎉🎉🎉

It is unwise to use silence when dealing with me, I treat it as a criminal offence to remain silent with me.

Sometimes i just wish i stop being talkative.i get confuse when ever i start talking alot or the way my tone sound like i'm angry i would just cover it up by joking around and avoiding from hurting peoples feelings by my words but sometimes people didn't like the way i act or talk alot.i mean i just want to cheer someone up to make them happy i didn't mean to make them think me like that. People just think i did nothing wrong and i'm perfect just the way i am but sometimes i just want to change myself.Because of that i end up slowly changing myself and i'm not like my usual old self anymore

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Being silent and listening more really does make you seem more charismatic. It’s amazing how powerful silence can be in conversations.

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I took advantage of the silent treatment and began to explain in full detail how her behavior was unacceptable and abusive. Then I would call her out on all the abusive behavior she was involved in and why for as long as she continues this abuse, I would no longer be seen in public with her. That her behavior would be having consequences..

My mother in law and her daughter are doing this to my daughter.

I did this by accident, If there is something that made me mad or something I did not like, I would simply not talk to them. I'm shy to apologise first nor talk. It's like I just want to be strangers w them.