Is it ok to also pray for us to be able to offer everything we demand from men? Is it ok to for us to pray for us to be able to support each other spiritually and financially instead of expecting only them to offer that? I don’t only want to be with a man of my dreams. I also want to be the woman of his dreams in all aspects. The woman who is not just an expense but also one who contributes to expenses and blesses him with finances. A woman who prays for his well being. A woman who enjoys sexuality as God intended instead of looking for excuses to not enjoy it and instead uses it as a weapon. I want to be that helper, friend, shoulder where he could rest, cheerleader, that person who can lift him up when he falls and also be helped by him when I fall. So many things I want to be for him and vice versa. Its not all just about me.

I am actually praying for my sexuality as a woman. I often hear Christian women’s sexuality disappears as soon as we take a bite of the wedding cake. Reason why so many married women use excuses to not have sex like the typical “I have a headache” or use sex as a weapon, reward, or means of exchange. I don’t want that but after hearing so many married christian women groan about sex and see it as a chore it worries me.

so needed this. my grl friend constantly cheated on me and it diminished my self esteem

I agree with all of this. It seems to me everywhere I go, including church, women expect to be flirted with, otherwise, they will totally and completely ignore us men. So, what is your Godly advice to men? Maybe bring your husband into one of these convos to speak to us men of God.

Modestly is also part of the plan

As someone who is having a baby with someone who is not a Christian I completely agree. The things i thought were not too big of a deal are now so important. Have the same faith, values, convictions it makes your life so much better for you and your children.

Sorry but male pron usage is tied to the wife's behavior. If she lets herself go or is no longer pleasuring him, he is much more likely to be tempted by pron. A hot wife that is pleasuring her husband daily is going to make him much less likely to even be tempted by pron.

Is childbirth really painful? I’m concerned I want kids

Before the internet I used to feel that I was missing out on something having never been married.....

This is a powerful powerful message and to the point. Thank you for this.

Women, don’t take for granted a mother in law who is a godly follower of Christ! Mine isn’t and doesn’t want anything to do with her grandchildren. But my husband and I pray for her continually.

Pornography is adultery if you are married. It's fornication if you are single. It is a sin, it is not love.

You are so right about intimacy. Flee fornication this will save your marriages and preserve our families.

Lisa - could you give us some tips for cooking (learning to cook) for just husband and wife and then for a family?

Christians should not do you yoga, the poses are for worshiping false gods and can open yourself up to the enemy just want to put that out there since you mentioned that, those who practice it pray about it and an alternative is Pilates 😊 Thank you for your podcast I love each video that you share the dear future husband podcast is such an encouragement ❤

Two Christians can undoubtedly be unequally yoked in marriage. It happens all the time. Just because two born again Christians have received Jesus. Does not mean they are walking in the same direction in life and living out the same values. Core value alignment is critical for a good Christian marriage. (Spiritually, relationally, emotionally, physically, and financially)

What every husband wants after some time apart! A really authentic hug!

Always look at the way your bf treats other women. That will be a key predictor of how he will treat you in marriage.

This is a good standard for both genders.

Amen this is so absolutely 100% True. And I Thank you Jesus for Indefinite Permanent Divorce/No Reconciliation Ever ever/And thank You Jesus for giving me Your amazing Divine Loving Comforting Peace/And Indefinite Closure. And I’m always Praying for my Future 2nd husband And God will bring him into my life in His amazing Perfect timing:):) And I can’t wait to meet him someday:):):) And I’m Super Super Super excited!!!:)@Christian Bevere Author

I’m not sure this is entirely true and good advise about porn. You cannot say in all cases, porn use by men isn’t women’s fault at all. Many men watch porn because of a nagging wife and a wife who holds sex over him. He needs during that time more love and communication but with firm disapproval.

How important is it to wait until marriage? Let’s say you had kids with someone else previously and are now convicted to wait.. I passed up on a guy who didn’t wanna wait but was a big believer in Jesus but because we both hadn’t waited previously he feels we no longer need to now? What is your thoughts on that?

There's some good advice here, however the posture of going toe to toe with your husband, I don't think is going to bless your marriage. A woman who can be disciplined enough to submit in attitude as well as action by the grace of Christ, is more resembling the spirit of love and Christ, just as a man must lay down his life and be disciplined in self.control.

I pray over her, I am not married, but I pray for my future wife daily. Why? Because I need to get used to praying over her day and night always. To stand in the gap for her is so important. I pray for her healing of mind, body, emotions, trauma - -recovery, spirit. As a future husband, the Lord has clearly shown me this is part of the preparation for my blessing and gift. Thank you, sister.

they are so hard hearted... 😢

That's good 👍🏼 God give me the eyes to see...

superhero 💛

Peace be with you darling. Safe travels and God bless. 😊

I think women should discuss how neglect of a man is part of many of these problems.

Dear Christian, I would like to know how to know if God’s plan for me is mariage or celibacy. Could you make so content about that ? I would surely help a lot (:

Loved what she said about surrender so so much ♥️

I am looking into this for my daughter. She is pregnant and expecting her first. Both births of my daughters were painful and traumatic to the point I did not want any more children.

Thank you for this message. I learned that some want to divorce because they are tired of doing the same thing over and over again.

She said Godly and i hit like n subscribe ✅

So a stay at home mom

So a stay at home mom

The word of Paul is not the word of Yeshua. Be warned. Else you go astray.

Sorry but this is not advice for making love lol. It’s a good start though!!

I felt like I had to have sex with my husband. Like God commanded me to not deprive him. I wasn't taught boundaries. So although he was drunk and mean to me and addicted to porn, I felt like I had to do it. And I began to resent my husband, and feel used. Like I was one more thing to gratify his flesh. I realized after learning about boundaries and praying that I had allowed to say no and put boundaries around sex. He had no reason to change because I was enabling it all. It was stealing something from me/us to say yes to sex when ny husband was in sin. I wish the church or someone would have helped me earlier. I was so impressed to hear Lisa said she said she put boundaries around sex. I had read books by "christian" women like stormie omartian that said our husband's will submit to God when we perform better, have sex with them more, and be better. It put all the responsibility on the wife and none on the husband. Putting boundaries on sex like "I won't do it when you're drunk and watching porn" lit a fire under his butt and he is conquering those things in Christ. Our marriage is so much better and we both feel more love. Praise God. Also I love how Lisa touches on feeling the effects of porn tangeably. I would have dreams about being raped or violated and tell my husband and he figured out it would coincide with the times ge relapsed with porn. He felt terrible. He knew is actions gave spirits access to hurt him and his family, and he sought the Lord.

Wow that is an excellent teaching🎯💯🔊 & i certainly agree 1000%. Thank you for this confirmation 🙏🙏. Sending much blessings and love❤❤❤

Many men I know long ago stopped trying to make any kind of physical connection with their wives. Communication patterns are hard to change. As husbands most have been rejected sexually so many times that they just stop trying. It is too demoralizing. This does not mean I think wives are to blame but it illustrates that if both emotional and physical connections are at an impasse, the odds of turning the ship around are pretty much zero. 😢

7:29 my answer to that is first, women aren't cars. Second, if you must compare women to cars, I prefer my wife with no milage. Brand new... Why buy a used car? People are goofy

I absolutely ❤ it. This is what we men, and women need. Sound biblical truth! Thank-you ladies

Women that are so delusional to the point where they believe the wedding should be so extravagent are the ones that end up having to have many more.

Hello, I have been standing faithfuly for 6.4 years for marriage restoration. One of the most cherished memories I have is when my husband said to me " I have never been this comfortable with anyone in my life."

The 5 minute Rule - "You try to get me in the mood." Uh...why is it always the man's responsibility or duty to get their woman in the mood. Are you going to lay there like a limp noodle and force the man to do all the work to get you aroused? How about putting some effort into it yourself.

"honey please take out the garbage" "I'm really tired give me 5 minutes to see if you can get me in the mood to take out the garbage"

Amen!