Be With A Man Who Heightens Your Femininity... Let Us Explain

[@SingleMomRunning]

This is so encouraging! As a 40 year old single mom to a 4 year old, I completely forgot about my femininity. I’ve been so head down trying to dig into God and not cry when I have to mow the lawn, and depressed I’m still single, that I forgot that being feminine is important and it makes you feel better to do your hair and put a little make up on. Thank you ladies!!

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@SingleMomRunning wow! I hope you keep finding and embracing that femininity and all that awaits for you right now in this current season

[@abbieswiger4590]

i am 33 and a single mom of two boys and I just started homeschool while finishing my degree so it's a lot and i often forget too.

[@athens6187]

25 here finishing my degree, single mom, but God changes the times and seasons! This is encouraging to see. Thank you for sharing. I know I’ll finish my degree soon.

[@FernGray]

“God had to break down things inside of me and build me back up”.. This is so true 🙏🏽

[@gvdd2324]

Wow, as a 23-year-old, this was such an inspiring video to watch. To embrace in my femininity as a woman of God. Thank you guys 💓

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@gvdd2324 thank you for joining us!

[@xomarinanicole]

Nava’s comment about wonder woman and being the gatekeeper of our home just made me cry immediately

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

It was a beautiful imagery and she does this so well too!

[@Mrs.Deanna_Ember]

Same ❤ We may be physically weaker than men, but we have an incredible will, intuitive, and stronger than we are led to believe so often, especially as protectors of our homes and children 💯

[@TheSingleManPodcast]

As a Christian man that is single, I agree that dating feels different & like a lot of pressure in today’s day & age. Great conversation & wish there were more men who’d openly talk about dating in this way!

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

Thanks for listening! And yes men sharing healthy perspectives is so helpful for all as well

[@TheSingleManPodcast]

@@ChristianBevereAuthorYou’re welcome Christian! Love the podcast!

[@Mrs.Deanna_Ember]

Yes, often women and men can have these totally unrealistic expectations these days. It also makes me sad to see guys who may have had some bad experiences but who are otherwise decent and just giving up on relationships or feeling inadequate because they were with the wrong or harsh woman. If you're a single man, don't dwell on it or think you will ALWAYS be single. As women, we hope more guys open up as well 🙏

[@BunnyWatson-k1w]

At 34:00. I love it when people have dinner together. Whether it's a new couple or a large family, dinner is a place to bond over food and conversation.

[@luhen7372]

Omg I love this honest and raw conversation about past struggles of a Christian woman in a sinful world. Keep going.

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

So meaningful that it spoke to you!

[@mrsjjacobs]

You and Nava are like the sisters I’ve always needed! So refreshing to hear women advocate for God’s design for wives! Love and blessings from Nashville💕

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

This touched my heart! Thank you so much for watching and sharing your words

[@mariabalogun]

One of the best Podcasts I've listened to in a long while.

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@mariabalogun 🥹🥹 thank you for tuning in!!

[@jamie.daugherty]

I love the casual open hearted feel to this, I feel like I’m sitting with my two girl friends chatting and drinking tea :’)

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@jamie.daugherty I'm so pleased it came across that way!!

[@hannahkeating97]

All I wanted growing up was to be a wife and a mother. I’m now 26 and I’ve never been in a relationship and it can be disheartening. I’ve also had a lot of uncertainty if that’s what I really want now since it seems like it’s not gonna happen for me but I just keep praying and asking God to ready me and close/open any doors not meant for me. I’ve also felt unconfident around children like I wouldn’t know how to take care of them and I don’t feel like I’d be very nurturing. I’ve had a conversation with my sister who has 2 kids of her own about this feeling of not being a good mother and she says she felt the same before she had her kids, so I’m hopeful that someday I can and will be a good feminine and nurturing mother ❤

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@hannahkeating97 isn't it wonderful processing thoughts like these in community! We’re not alone and stronger than we think 🤍

[@sarahq8728]

Subscribing so quickly!! Thank you for teaching me how to be more feminine and convict me on not speaking about my husband as kindly as he deserves 🙏🦋

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

Conviction is a transformative tool! I’m glad you see it that way🤍 Thanks for watching!

[@summerwright9365]

Nava is everything ❤I love her and Christian and her are a dynamic duo!!!

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@summerwright9365 she is great!!

[@summerwright9365]

@@ChristianBevereAuthor 🙌 yessss!! And so are you!! Absolutely love you as your mother in law Lisa! The Beveres are such beautiful and amazing people I’m blessed you commented back to me 😂🥳🥳♥️❤️😍 may the lord bless your sweet new baby that’s coming! And your son you have now ❤️

[@NicoleKhaliisa]

Loved this. It's interesting how i can relate to you ladies, from the other side of the world..❤

[@Brianna-yh7iy]

Love when you have Nava on! 😊

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

You and me both!!

[@dr.sonyarogers1069]

Love this! Y’all are beautiful!

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

Love you😊

[@katherine3107]

22:42 Wow. I have never heard giving birth as “laying down your life” & serving! I need to forward this. I have a friend who does not want to birth her own children. I totally understand not wanting your body to change (or whatever reason it is), but how you guys described it is awesome! Might get her to think

[@StrawberryJamJam29]

I also don't want kids. You can lay down your life and serve anywhere to help others, not just kids.

[@hannahgrazzini]

I’m always the one taking care of everyone’s babies and I can’t wait to have a baby of my own.

[@therealdial]

This was so refreshing to hear your discussion. Two high value women in Christ, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Some of the things I battle with as a believer I never thought anyone else would say or mention and it was brought up multiple times in this video. I have been saying no to the wrong men, meanwhile my friends have been going out with multiple guys each week and I start to question should I just give in. I believe this was a divine encounter to keep on the straight and narrow and wait on God’s best. Thank you so much ladies!

[@amyelitorres]

That was so good - Wow I feel even more connected to you Nava.. and your story bc I never realized how similar we are.

[@exquisitaeye]

I'm watching this because this is the kind of content that I love watching and find it so godly and inspiring. But I’m watching with a heavy heart because I’ve not been blessed with a husband or not even a pursuer. I just wish God would bring forward my future husband because that desire to be a wife and mother burns so deeply in me 😭 idk I feel so unworthy right now

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@exquisitaeye it’s a beautiful desire! One I know God heads and wants to be our guide through. He’s near and does not deem you as less than in the waiting

[@TruePathLiving]

The brunette girls gone bible

[@aubraycatalan2642]

such a good conversation! empowering 🙌🏼

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

Thank you so much!

[@Alohe2024]

So Good Christian and your Friend ❤❤❤❤❤😊

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

Thank you for watching!

[@katherine3107]

11:29 can you please explain how his response was masculine, so we get a better sense of the difference between a masculine man and these soft boys that are emerging due to society. Also, if you could pretty, please explain what you meant by “covering”

[@Hanakimberlyy]

Just subscribed to your channel. I made a video on my channel about sexual purity and your video came up and I’m so glad it’s in the same recommendations. Keep going sisters❤

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@Hanakimberlyy how amazing! Something we must keep sharing about as women🤍

[@LoveAndTruth-n7v]

such a beautiful interview PLEASE HAVE HER BACK ON THE SHOW AGAIN! Can she specifically give tips on winning over an abusive & mean husband that allegedly believes in Jesus? Because for some of us, leaving or divorcing isn’t an option.

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@LoveAndTruth-n7v we miss Nava and hope to get to come back together again soon! So glad you enjoyed her being on. We have an episode coming out soon that speaks to that topic in part but if you're facing abuse please reach out to someone around you! For our family we do not believe that is something to be tolerated.

[@laylalayla6630]

I feel bad for men when it comes to relationships. They are expected to be the ones who take initiative, pursue us, court and romance us, pay for everything, propose, buy us a ring which average can cost 3 months of their salary, do all the things gentlemen are expected to do, etc. and we just have to show up to the date and act cute? Not me. In my relationship things revolve around us since the very first date. We do all those things I mentioned mutually. Thats when I ask myself if we really want equality or only when it is beneficial.

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

@@laylalayla6630 there's something innate in strong men that love to dote on a woman he loves and actually thrives in a challenge. Men and women both nurture but in different ways. Even going back to historic times with hunter and gather families. I agree men and women should show up for and care for one another, with women not being idle in the relationship. But my husband and I see each other as partners, each bringing our own pieces to the table, yet he doesn't see the previous acts and responsibilities as burdens but rather challenges and privileges.

[@laylalayla6630]

@ I suppose you don’t see as a burden to cook for him, right? I ask because I hear many women around me wanting their man to be traditional without them being traditional themselves.

[@Estiexo]

I feel like this is an interesting modern take because truth be told women suffer more in relationships with literally risking their lives giving birth and child rearing, and even as a working single person the expectation is often placed on the woman to cook and clean. If you’re gonna be a homemaker it’s important to have a man who can truly support you in this day and age spiritually, physically and emotionally. If he doesn’t put any effort in the relationship and already comes in with crazy expectations for you before marriage that’s a red flag. A good man understands the struggles that a woman goes through in life and doesn’t make excuses for it. He steps up.

[@laylalayla6630]

@@Estiexo And those are things everybody talks about but now I ask something we never talk about…we have so many expectations from men, what are all the things we should do for men and all the mistakes we shouldn’t do to them? I like to remind myself that relationships are not all about me but also about a man. I am not sure we suffer more in relationships. We do tend to play the victim more and not want accountability for our mistakes. We tend to think we do no wrong because that is what is usually preached but men many times internalize their problems in fear of being labeled or their masculinity is questioned. Saying we suffer more or whatever is almost saying we are better than men and they are worse than us. Practically speaking relationships are easier for us at least all those years we date. We are not expected to have money, a car, a degree, a job, skills, etc. If a man finds us attractive and nice to be with then we are good to go. A man will take us out and we can enjoy dates of free food, free entertainment, free gifts, free trips, etc. Men on the other hand cannot be in the same situation as no woman wants to be with a guy like that which society considers a loser. They do need to put some effort for us. I may be the minority but I also put some effort for a guy I am seeing besides just showing up to a date as I mentioned in my initial comment.

[@ianthomas7976]

What is a woman's role in a dating relationship? It's a two way street, what does the woman do to help make it work?

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

We have an entire podcast dedicated to relationships and dating dynamics. It’s called the “Dear Future Husband” podcast. Would love if you checked it out and see if it shapes how you see dating roles and priorities!

[@douglaswilliams3388]

I’ve found myself wondering the same thing. Overwhelmingly, it’s the man’s obligation to do everything in his power to make her happy/ safe/ comfortable. He opens her door. He drives her around. He pays for the date. He initiates the relationship. He corrects his behavior. He tries to understand her feelings. He leads the relationship. Women on the other hand? There isn't a single responsibility that they have to perform to cultivate the relationship, and often times if there is an expectation for the woman to do something, it’s controlling or abusive or unfair. Like if a man was like “I expect you to wait until we are married for me to financially contribute to this relationship” She would break up with him on the spot. Now a lot of women will claim “oh a woman’s responsibility is to comfort her man, or be loyal, or to make him happy, and I’m baffled by how bare minimum that expectation is. Like yeah. That’s the baseline of having a relationship. Women love to complain about how men show up doing the bare minimum, yet often the one who is pointing the finger is far more guilty of doing worse. So, in summary. There’s nothing that women are expected to do. It doesn’t exist.

[@ianthomas7976]

I'm hoping women will see this and it will help them understand the guy's point of view and how they are perceived.

[@ROSADIANA-DSB]

Love this convo❤

[@ChristianBevereAuthor]

Thanks for tuning in to watch 🥰

[@Oluwasewa_]

Can you guys talk about feminity in your singleness

[@kb-zs5my]

love this!

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[@ZejdzzSykomory]

I think you gils 10 of 10 i wouldn't even think to try ask for phone number to go on date." I by like what i will talk about with them? No just forgeth make your own thinks." 😂

[@jacksonamaral329]

Good.

[@FreedomBreeze24]

Nava looks like lady gaga!

[@isaura-22]

What in the world amI listening too. lol! It all sounds so ridiculous.

[@andres_montufar]

What’s wrong with it?

[@ananyasharma2834]

men abuse just because they are bread winners, women are supposed to be humble when they are bread winners, triggering because indeed it's a shameful mindset to have while enjoying all the fruits of the women who have fought for it, shameful. pick me behavior. do better.

[@azizikode]

that part did trigger me too even though i am still a student and not yet working. as much as you want to honour your husband i think there is a line that needs to be drawn, otherwise things can get really toxic and abusive. women who work and are the 'breadwinners' should own it and not feel obligated to make it all about the husband. if your husband truly loves you he wouldn't want to claim your hard work. i feel that men that make it seem like they are the breadwinners when they are not are EXTREMELY INSECURE and end up resenting their wife. i know cause i have seen this happen way too many times even at my relatively young age. i don't know if these ladies clarified their point after cause i stopped watching the video when the one on the right made that comment.

[@andres_montufar]

Neither the man or the woman should be prideful in being the breadwinner. The Lord wants us to be humble and servile. Pride is the fall of man.

[@laylalayla6630]

@@azizikodeNow tell is the negative things women do to men. I hardly ever hear women talk about it. Its easier for us to blame men for everything and not be held accountable for the bad things we can do to them.

[@Somalimarriageassociation]

And then you said Israel 😬

[@hannahrose6366]

This was so good!!! Nava is one of my favorite ppl ever. He heart is just absolutely incredible and draws me to Jesus. And Christian! I admire how soft you are. You are an amazing listener and speak with such grace and elegance. Two powerful kingdom women I am blessed by. 🤍

[@gliziafernandes4904]

Whats Nava’s ig?