The pain in my heart is unbearable, my husband leaving our marriage have put a ton in my heart, I have been telling myself am strong enough but am not sure I am, I haven’t been able to get him of my mind, I just want him back.

My husband doesn't like me and baby and his family My husband calls me bazaru, pig, prostitude and bla bla bla And he wants to divorce me

He told to follow 2 things Respect and appreciation Now my man never wants to marry or have time for me on daily basis ...like not even 15mins So tell me how do I do both of these 😂😂😂😂😂😂

My EX and father of my children also always gave me the fault for everything. It was always my FAULT. So I got rid of him, good for me 😊

This is absolutely beautiful AND BRAVE. In my work with marriage reconciliation, I’ve observed three paths: one taken by both spouses (the rarest), one by men only (rare), and one by wives only (the most common). The most transformative happens when either the husband or wife changes from within-not to focus solely on becoming their 'best self,' but to truly respond to their spouse’s unique needs. Transformation rooted in serving the relationship, not just self-improvement, is what makes the difference. Men and women are fundamentally different, and if those differences aren’t acknowledged and embraced, the relationship cannot flourish to its full potential..

It’s sad that we live in a world where appreciation and respect are things that many learn in adulthood. I’m in awe of my person and there are no barriers to acknowledge the good they bring into life; I chose my man because I respect him and hold that standard. I communicate my standards and he respects me by meeting me there and appreciates me through acts of kindness. I lost a lot of friends due to the belief that men “provide” finances and that’s their worth. Like no men provide, stability, protection, and yes can add to prosperity but they are not made to serve and vice versa. Not forgetting the fact that sometimes, you can show up in respect and appreciation but depending on attachment style, trauma or mentality, and a lack of that self awareness in a counterpart; it isn’t always valued. I had an ex who I appreciated and respected and actively told so but still managed to abuse my downfalls and neglect our relationship otherwise.

8:20 “the beast, let her know that he is there outside the house. But when you’re with her, you’re a small little puppy. That’s it” ❤❤❤❤❤❤ That IS it!!!! That makes so much sense and it’s genius.

This is so good. Thank you for ‘swallowing your pride ‘ as you stated, that’s respectable and helpful to everyone, including me. 👏🙌

Feed your soul with islam and you will not be a beast but a human being giving what your heart really needs, the words of allah. Not everyone can understand you so what you do ? You turn yourself to the only one that loves you more than it your mother and understand you more than you understand yourself--> Allah ❤😢. Thank you for the video but human beings cannot feed other human beings it's not their nature, the admiration you can forge it by thanking Allah for the benefits and saying subhanallah glorifying Allah. The respect you know that you can clean your heart in prayer even if you put limits they are not always respected. Islam brings the soul at her real nature ❤

Wow! Now that I can get behind. I grown up is someone who has power, but under control. Bravo

Sooo real ❤❤❤❤

If he knew this before , he would be with his kids now… We should teach these communication skills to our sons

It makes sense how he explains it. He nailed it.

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I love this. As a wife of 11 years with my husband, I can tell you there is a lot of wisdom here. Men and women do NOT experience things the same. We have very different needs and ways to get them. Understanding and respecting this is paramount. We had to learn a lot of this together. My husband appears to be soft, but he is such a hard worker and he provides for us like a master ❤ it's so important to give him praise, respect his thoughts and choices, raise concerns tactfully. It's so strange to me that others think he's intimidating. I've never experienced that, but he's exactly what I consider to be the ideal father and husband.

Thanks for your beautiful words,I love it when he said show you beast in a right way not to your wife and daughter

We both need respect and appreciation man and woman!!! Nobody teach us how to love! Thats a problem. We find a person that we want to be with. And we think thats it. Done. And it has only started 😂😂😂😂. After 20 years in marriage I could nt believe that its so hard to understand each other from time to time. Sometimes you think, omg that is not the same person I got married to. But I want to give advice to man: woman should feel loved. If she doesnt get your attention she will seek attention from someone else. This is human nature. We all want to feel that little sparkle from time to time. 🎉🎉🎉

What a lovely interview. Many things to learn. Thank you 🙏🏻

This was very eye opening and helpful. Thank you and ya just a gorgeous man😊

My marriage also broke with the same reasons he mentioned. We divorced and we both suffer. You have defined words very beautifully. I wish he had seen this video before our separation and got some hint, on how yo value and nurture relationships, divorced wasn't needed. As I am also still in shock past my divorce even though I am the one who applied for it. Becoz he left me no room for solving things. Anyhow it's a past now. Hearing this, even I got some knowledge on how to treat a man. It was very beautifully explained and directly connecting your heart.

Respect is earned. When he lies to you hides his phone Gaslights you and makes zero effort to rebuild that trust that he lost!! Someone who wants to have his cake and eat it too, and you want me to respect that ?

Accurate

Yikes!!!!

Unmatched wisdom ! I am divorced and my ex and I are doing a stellar job helping me raise 4 boys. I hope they grow up to be responsible, masculine and gentle men who can narture and protect their wives and children. Thank you sir . I will share this with my 28 year old. There’s a lot to learn for men from this session. Thank you.

I wonder why men cheat. I’m a traditional woman, I ended up dating an American man. He ended up cheating and slowly revealing it then called me crazy and jealous when I decided to end it. Very disturbing, weak and shameful.

Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.

I love what you said about appreciation. Two simple words "thank you".

I’ve been obsessed with this idea ever since I started reading 'The Irresistible Seduction Formula.' Like, why don’t we talk about this stuff more? Girls, you NEED to check it out!

Agree 100% Hearing men like you returns my faith in men

Great video. I agree with this. Taming the lion, women's emotionally, men's needs. We both, men and women, have the work of seeing each other for what we are, and working around that to build a stronger understanding. Thank you.

Not my dad! Didn't care for his daughter.

It’s not easy but it’s quite simple. As men and women, as partners I wish we’d try to understand and compliment each other more instead of all these gender wars that’s driving our society absolutely mad and broken. It’s not man vs woman, it never was. Both are a part of nature who are suppose to work together. We’ve lost compassion for each other. It’ll kill our society absolutely mad

Gosh that is so true. Our emotions are the same as a little girl LOL. I laughed hard at that cause its truth!

Im a mirror of her behavior, so beautiful that man taking out any responsibility from him😃

The problem is men want a “wife” not a partner!

Guys I need advise my man said that always his best friend will be in 1 st please is it ok?

Guys I need advise my man said that always his best friend will be in 1 st please is it ok?

I despise that false statement that,"the 1st love of a daughter is her father and vice versa bs"! What a heinous statement dont ever say that again! Some of us little girls had a monster for a father who did all kinds of heinous things to them! MANY girls have pigs and monsters for a father like I did! Taming the beast as he called it or the EGO, is every humans job in life not just of a males. If good men stood up to evil, egoic men then there would not be sexual abuse, rape and incest in this world! But everyone turns a blind eye and carries on with their lives and good men allow evil men to continue to exist and carry on. Daughters have nothing to do with love. Its a child, no different than a boy child there to help you awaken on the journey of life!

The beast outside... puppy inside 😂. I love that ❤😊🎯💯👍

This man is very much on point for men who don’t hate their mothers. Men who have deep negative feelings towards their mother will transfer that to their wives. They will not under any circumstance allow their wives to be joined to them. They will not respond to words of admiration or gratitude. If you tell them you like something they will stop doing it. They cannot admit that they feel so strongly negative towards their mother. Often guilt in this regard is fueling even more anger. They no longer live and move out of the true self. Such as these should not marry as they are incapable of maintaining healthy relationships.

All humans want respect and appreciation. Whoever has more skills in certain areas takes the lead . The only boss is confusion . There are no subordinates in any relationship. So why more responsive to the daughter and not the wife in the first olace. When boys are told no they do not cry or express disappointment? . Look up Dr K

Stsrts 6:10

Excellent talk.....I wish every growing boy understand this

Incredible! You left me spell bounded because I hadn’t seen or heard like this before where a man has really understood that what it is to be a real man. Thank you very much! It was accurate.

I liked the interview, but couldn't stop hearing the interviewer grunt or whatever that noise he kept making was...it was really distracting.

Thankyou , I wish I can show him this ..😢😢

Thank you! Men want peace, but make the women responsible for it, which is no partnership, it is mothering. And many men want respect, but honestly do not deserve it.

💯 on point every word 👏🏼

Omg!! I m in relationship for 8 years and whatever he is saying is just so true!!

He's not saying anything new, but using the "beast" metaphor to explain a person's anger issues is highly relatable and probably more readily understood by both men and women than using the jargon of "anger management" techniques. So much more helpful.