Actually, just about all of these😊♊️

Am Taurus, but find Scorpio’s flip-flop, hiding and reappearing a red flag. They scream unreliable..and since am such a fixed sign, this makes me feel scared to have anything to do with them.

I kind of see this in how preteens and teenage girls worship pop stars and good looking tiktokers. Or obsess over fictional characters in fanfic. They overidealise what they think to be masculinity, and set themselves up for disappointment in their real relationships.

I let my animus run wild. I ended up as a mathematician.

Stop shaking your head left to right so much? Overall good video

Hey! I noticed everyone's anima is a little different. It makes sense in Jungs time that the qualities were 'logic, reason, and assertiveness' because those were things that women discouraged from. However for my friend she continually choices partners who are artistic as that was an interest she was only allowed to explore in her 20s.

the one i got smells horrible

I can go along with the description of the problem but I find the recommendations for treatment to be not male-centered. The whole "just be vulnerable bro" prescription doesn't work. Being vulnerable in an environment that lacks emotional safety will backfire and may make the problem worse. Men need to learn to find support and emotional safety before before they attempt to be vulnerable. They need to learn what they need and how to negotiate what they need so they can have emotionally healing experiences. Your steps for treatment aren't steps they are results! You didn't tell men how to achieve those results. You basically told men "just be better people"! That's not helpful. How? How do you create an environment for yourself where you can achieve those results? The current society is hostile to male expression of emotions. Where does a man go to "just be vulnerable bro"?!

I'm a Scorpio, who only craves for Earth Signs ❤

You don't know what you're talking about. And Jung was as clueless with his wacky psychological theories as Freud. So here's the real answer straight from the horse's mouth. Which is first of all, why should I, a man, return the contempt, resentment, and hate that is thrown my way, with the love, admiration, and respect they feel they are entitled to by birthrite? Why SHOULDN'T the feeling be mutual? These "anima" traits, falsely attributed as female traits, they're not female nature. Passing the blame for the negative repercussions of the things one has done. Permanently setting their "unforgivable enemy status" flag with you and forgetting everything good you have ever done in a heartbeat. Valuing you only for what you can provide. Shaming for those who won't conform to her image of what they should be. Shaming for those who have empathy for you. Solipsism towards all males, except their own sons. Trying to be seen as the embodiment of empathy, while having none, gaslighting for those who dare to think otherwise. And thinking they're god's gift to the world and that the other half doesn't matter. That's the real female nature. As for male nature, the default state of a man is to be a simp. Which isn't actually better. Being a parasite, or an enthusiastic host, which is worse? But as for the process of him becoming a misogynist, it means that it takes hard, painful lessons, burned into him by women in actual life experiences, to overcome the default simp nature, to erase his innate gynocentric bias, and it's not an internal struggle or misguided imbalance caused by him not understanding himself. It is caused by HARDSHIP from having dealt with women. This internalized anima imbalance hypothesis is as absurd as the hypothesis that diseases are caused by imbalance of bodily humours, or treating the plague with leeches. Jung's ideas don't belong in the current century or any other. I have decided on the things I have decided on through the scientific method, through observation of reality. There's no projection involved. Just painful lessons I received.

GOD IS SO GOOD I was shopping at a random store. My sister took me there. I was curious and bought some Charcoal Soap with Zero Fragrance so I was extremely excited. Background I have a CANDIDA INFECTION. So I’m cover with so much fungus around my body head to toe. When I was showering I showered with the soap and I literally felt that it began to detoxify my skin. After my shower my eczema and psoriasis just felt less irritated and I felt clean for once. I can also say I have the worse water supply living I need to move and get a water filter. Overall I’m so happy

You are so wrong about Stoicism, being detachment from your emotions. As most of the modern "live, love, laugh" mentality preachers are.

whats up with the constant cuts

No, lol, cancers. ROFL

I'm not in touch with my self emotional not because I quote hate woman because I don't, and I'm not vary emotional because every time I exposed my self like that I was ridiculed and it was by a lot of people who said I should be more in touch with my self emotionally.

Omg. I found this after watching your vid on animal rejection and misogyny. AND the background music Thais meditation is the piece of sheet music I found in a pile of music, an hour ago.. I put it aside to properly learn to play cause I only ever learnt the first page n half. Synchronicity

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i waited 5 weeks before i calledher out, telling her ill be there for her , cus she is having a rought time, but eventually after many weeks of her ghosting me i realised she just wants to keep me around as a backup. and considering ive known her for 10 years i expected better from her than to ghost me for that long. i told her that it hurts me and i find she actually thinks of me less because of mx expression of care. we live in a very weird world. and i dont know how we humans got here but its not right.

Iroh from Avatar: the last airbender

Okay😮😅😊😂😂

My brother is like this he sees me and our mother as domestic servant's not humans... i dont speak to him anymore and left home 🏡 his misogyny pretty much destroyed our family 😢

I never cared about being whatever a "man" is supposed to be. I only ever cared about being an authentic individual.

Wow, that honestly seems to make sense. First time hearing this theory though.

An update: I love using this soap and my skin has never been clearer. I definitely recommend!

Yes, all that nonsense about women supposed to be passive, w/o nerve or initiative, etc. is the institutionalization of that “animus rejection.”

I think your brain jumped to mother archetype because she's a woman. She attempts to portray herself as a mother figure through her words, but I find her to come across as very fake and superficial. This was a poor analysis in my opinion.

This is a brilliant explanation. You put into words what I have sensed but been unable to put my finger on. I have 2 sons and what I have noticed from the world at large is that since the feminist movement we are now at a place where it is more widely accepted for girls and young women to play with toys that seem geared towards “boys” (cars, trucks, dinosaurs) and their clothes while still often glittery and pink have a wider range of colors and more serious themes. We can accept girls being more “masculine” because being masculine is seen as positive and preferable. We can accept tomboys and girls that get their hands dirty. But what I see from society at large (though it is slowly changing) is that boys are still mainly encouraged to play with toys marketed toward boys. Their clothes are usually construction/dinosaur/ car/dog/lion/ bear themed. And while I try to buy them a wide range of toys such as baby dolls and cars, and encourage them to express their emotions and validate them, I can’t help but wonder what is the effect of going to the store and just being exposed to the “traditional” gender concepts. I just want to raise well-rounded humans who treat all with kindness and respect while standing up for what they believe in. It’s not an easy task in this world.

If only those so called ‘alpha male’ knew how stupid and weak they sound to anyone else…

But today odd relationships are happening all around.

Great video

You just described my stalker.

No offense, bro, but the examples you gave were terrible and wrong, in my opinion. But, typical of a leftist. By that i mean the Phil Dunphy example and the all men that are "red pilled." Example you gave. I noticed that a lot of men that suffer from the mother complex are leftist bc they tend to not come from a strong nuclear family. A lack of a strong alpha male figure and an overbearing , narcissistic or even lack of a good mother causes this. A perfect example of this is the black men that were forced into the ghetto by the government. They knew by removing the father figure from their lives would be the downfall of their strong family, morales and values they once had. That's why they have the culture with women they do and their music reflects it. Another good example is Jeff bezos. He's a workaholic, thinks he's so intelligent that everyone is beneath him with intelligence and yet, he chooses gold diggers to be with. Anyone who knows psychology can see what he's suffering from in the mother complex and the full lack there of in his anima. That's why he's arrogant as well.

The answer is to have bond with your mother which I dont. Recently I projected my mother or soul in Jungian psychology and my inner self was crazy about her, I blame her for connecting with me, I dont hate her, I wish she did not flirt with me because she woke that anima in me and it sucks, I had an ego death because of it and currently reading "Map of the Soul" My mother is masculine compare to my dad, and this girl had I like everything she was wearing, her hair style, her smile, her face mimic towards me because my face mimic would synch her mimics, they call it chemistry but I am a married man and Love my wife but this one was stronger than me, I talked to my wife all the time and she helps me get over it. Its hard and sucks. Its not sexual its emotional damn it.

Pavlovian conditioning & confirmation bias creates a self-driving road of avoidance and mistrust. I'd wager this is a bigger reason. Anima rejection as described is, as much as I find the term distasteful, a social construct of "toxic masculinity". It's a poor descriptor and a worse definition, but it works. Some small amount of men believe this crap and push it on others and while it may work in some cases is just going to cause problems to the larger portion of men that are more balanced or lean feminine. In 50 years of observation in the wilds of urban, suburban, and small town Canada, I have encountered few men that are out and out crazypants mysogynists (one worthy of note [and directly related to this video] was so pushed by an overbearing father that he had massively conflicting internal forces and was unable for a very long time to reconcile that he was still a "real man" if he was more interested in caring for his brother than fighting him. He had so ingrained this idea that he wasn't a "real man" that he acted out as a vicious, flamboyant gay which strangely both attracted women and then repulsed them, leading to some ugly break-ups. Exposure to reality and a dose of confrontation therapy and heavy introspection broke the training, and they guy finally grew up at the ripe old age of 36). A rare few men that had a serious problem with random sex and judged their whole worth on quantity. They exist, but they are a small minority in my pool of subjects. Many more men, and even some women will show more or less emotional involvement depending on situation and company. For instance, some men will mask their pain and grief over a loss so that someone else can go to pieces. I have encountered far more men that have been burned so badly or so often by women (and sadly often by mothers or grandmothers) that they don't really have any regards left beyond social niceties, and even those can be lacking. Media and modern culture has created unrealistic and unreasonable expectations of sex and relationships across the board. Humanity being one of few observable entities that has sex for fun, or even out of boredom and fewer still that wastes time and resources and reproductive opportunity on the same. And our society promotes these behaviours as not only normal, but desirable as an ideal. But this is just where technological development, urbanization, and society has outpaced biology. Psychology is rooted in biology. It is wrong to ignore it. Nature HATES being ignored. Men and women are not the same in many ways. That is something that human society has struggled with for eons. We may never figure it out entirely. Strangely, religion actually makes a strong argument in favour of biology in that men and women are neither perfect models and require the strengths of the other to fully manifest. There is wisdom in the ancient observations.

sounds like they are afraid they are gay. There are more misogynistic men in 2024 /2025 than ever before= but look at how women are portrayed.... starting with porn. We get rid of porn- we get SOME respect back. Women have come so far since being able to vote- then to be shoved back into the dark ages in a matter of a few years- and NINETY percent dont seem to care. Its despicable.

I’m sorry, but did you say women are able to handle their emotions a little bit better? LMFAO! 😅

Very interesting!!!

ON POINT!!

Please please fix your subtitles. It's not "enema", it's "anima".

Your body language is saying NO to everything you're saying.

🖤great video. From my experience. I've met men who always project feelings onto women image. Always talk down about female behaviors, against to just normal conversation about genders. And those make me feel very uncomfortable as a woman to be around this kind of energy.

How does anima Animus square with gay men and women? Are they reversed?

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How to use it for inflammation or getting rid of Toxins in the knees?

This isnt stoicism. Stoicism is actuslly masterful which these characteristics most definitely are not

A man does not develop in a vacuum. The construction of his personality and his values is responsive to what is going on in his environment, how he perceives these things, and how he evaluates these things. There are some important influences that can guide a man to decide his general orientation to women, and his connection quality with a particular woman. These influences can tend to shape a man's atmosphere and behavior in meaningful ways. 1) During his youth was the man living with a sister? In the male's experience of those early years ... what is his viewpoint about how the parents treated the sister as compared to how the parents treated him? Did he experience double standards or other unaddressed confusions? How did the man experience his sister's basic spirit and mood toward him and toward other people? 2) Did his mother try to keep "mothering" him well past the age when nature's schedule was guiding him to become more independent? Or was she letting go in a proper dance with his timing and his needs? 3) Did the young male observe respectful mood and decency from the mother toward the father and toward other people? Or was it the reverse? 4) Throughout his life, when the man was observing females talking about males in the males' absence ... and also when the females were talking directly to those males, what typical pattern did he observe from the females? Did he hear honesty, respect, and good intentions? Or did he instead hear contradictions, double-standards, disrespect, or manipulation? 5) When he was in school and/or college did he observe double-standards or disrespect toward males? 6) When he was observing or learning about other peoples' divorce experiences, domestic violence experiences, and family-court experiences ... did he observe double-standards or disrespect toward males? 7) Has he observed or experienced females lying in order to have males be harmed or be damaged? Also, nature seems to have placed a drive within most males during their youth and beyond ... it's vitally important to try to be faster, stronger, smarter while avoiding being called a loser in front of others. Females tend to ignore the importance of how their man experienced this drive, how he attempted to express it, how he continues to attempt to express it, how he regroups and heals when he fails to succeed, etc. There are many additional related questions that can illuminate how and why a male has developed a particular mood and attitude in his connection with females. Simple tactful conversations with a man about these topics can provide real freedom for him to adjust in terms of any learned contempt/prejudice toward women.

Ok but how does one do this??

Regrettably, "improving your relationship with women" is heard as manipulating more young attractive women (girls) into having sex with you. Anima-complex in a man, shows that man needs to learn to appreciate women 0-100 yo in their variety, to really get rid of his misogyny, the misogyny which makes him an immature, unhappy, miserable person behind the surface.

great

That’s why men hate women far more than women hate men. As masculine traits validated in women too we don’t feel humiliated when we labeled as masculine. But unfortunately we also hate to be women too until we mature 🤷🏻‍♀️