Animus Rejection: Why Women Self Sabotage

[@C12341]

Great videos on the anima and animus, subscribed and looking forward to your videos

[@therapeuticaromatics]

Thank you!!! 🙏

[@SYNTAAX84]

The audio in this one is a little low, player. Otherwise, great work and research

[@vivvy_0]

What if I’m unable due to my life’s circumstances?

[@notapoliticalscientist]

Interestingly enough I dated someone who I now believe was in his anima rejection (not sure if I’m using this correctly), and even though I’m someone who always speaks her mind, I did find myself rejecting my animus.. and saw most of these symptoms… and I did leave the guy eventually. Don’t know if this is common, but would love to know more. Thanks for this video.

[@therapeuticaromatics]

Honestly I think it's supper common. Once the process of individuization and animus integration begins, there is no longer a desire for someone who has not worked on the same psychological or emotional process. Thanks for tuning in!

[@laloba6732]

Well explained

[@vivvy_0]

These solutions sound more like the endgoal.

[@__Nicholas__]

carl jung was on one

[@diotimamyrina]

Just found your channel and love it!!! I'm kinda struggling on this... How can I be feminine as a woman when I'm a double scorpio (12H moon and asc on same degree) and aries sun with 3 more planets in aries and only my (4x exalted) venus and (2x exalted) jupiter in pisces but they're conjunct my south node and pluto squares all 3, and mars being my final dispositor on a critical degree opposing my moon/asc. I feel deeply spiritual and womanly and playful inside but I don't like showing it cause I feel like I've already gotten there, I'm way more than that, that's not what I wanna be appreciated for, time to become something more so I love being powerful and somewhat leading at the same time and I hate when people especially men doubt me on it which makes me a little too direct and aggressive with them cause as a scorpio I'm a mirror. Also I'm very logic oriented as a personality type and I feel when I'm being feminine around others my behavior is more unconscious and there have been many times that people have manipulated me in this state but I feel more conscious and alert and aware of my actions when I'm acting more like masculine. Like I wanna be able to talk and be perceived as on the same level in any group and then when that's set I can be playful and share love, but since that never happens I default to being stiff, direct and aggressive. But I am also very pasive and can't really take charge of my life until now that I've found a cause, and I'm still struggling with it. (Most guys fall in love with my venus, there is this guy rn who's very in love with me, my venus completes his t-square/cradle, and my lilith is conjunct his asc in his 1H. We have a crazy synastry chart but not much that helps his chart (my 2 t-squares completed, my partial grand sextile completed by his cradle, a perfectly symmetrical formation of 4 interconnected hammers of thor that sit on our grand squares and the only thing in our chart that doesn't get completed is my 4/5 grand quintile, his groom is right on my asc/moon, my groom right below his dsc, and our breide are on each other's mars, my juno is in his 12H sextile his NN/mercury, his juno is in my 4H sextile my sun/saturn/pof) so he kinda made me love him back but he wants to "fix" me and make me a wife and homemaker when I want to found a certain company and co-run it with my man as the head. And he also has my dealbreaker.) So how much of it could be animus rejection/possession and how much could it be just me?

[@therapeuticaromatics]

So part of animus integration is learning to be able to set boundaries. For the most part though you seem like you on what Jung called the process of individualization, which includes integration of the animus. Honestly it sounds like he’s projecting his image of of his anima unto you and he may need to work more on anima integration (integrating his feminine aspects). As you mentioned with a Venus and Jupiter in pisces these are exalted positions and bestow blessings and good fortune. Because your sun, moon, and ascendant are in scorpio and Aries, they are ruled by planet mars, mars is your ruling planet. The Astrologers “how much is me and how much is fate” and Psychoanalysts as “how much is me and how much is my unconscious behavior “ Truly it’s hard to say how much is you and how much you’re projecting from where I’m at. But if you have ambitions like starting a company and they are given up for a romantic interest, you may become resentful of him in the future and you may have a loss of identity. Keep up the good work. I’m literally a month away from opening a coffee shop that I’ve been working so hard to get up and running.

[@diotimamyrina]

​@@therapeuticaromatics Thanks this makes sense Good luck with your coffee shop!!! Hope it goes strong and smooth!!!

[@therapeuticaromatics]

@@diotimamyrina Thank you!!!

[@DrBuffaloBalls]

Believing any of this horoscope stuff in any way defines your ability to be feminine is just completely and entirely false. You might have told yourself that those things somehow define your ability, but it is not true. Your horoscope doesn't define you, you define your horoscope.

[@AlbertBalbastreMorte]

Shouldn't the title be why some women hate men, following from the opposite video?

[@therapeuticaromatics]

Not necessarily because anima projection is different than animus projection. Animus projection tends to lead more to resentment which I guess “why some women resent their partner” would be an appropriate title as well

[@AlbertBalbastreMorte]

@@therapeuticaromatics you can tell many women resent men in general, though, and there's a big overlap of those women and how they embody male traits.

[@C12341]

@@AlbertBalbastreMorte resentment is a lot different than hate, though; women are far less likely to unalive their partners in anger, watch violin t corn like men do where women are hurt and injured for enjoyment, or SA men. Those acts are hate. They're more likely to just give up on dating and "choose the bear." What I'm getting from the video is holding men up to this White Knight standard of perfection making all the decisions and being stoic that not even the best man can live up to, and that must cause the resentment you've seen. Rejecting animus doesn't allow men to have feelings or show weakness. Fascinating videos

[@AlbertBalbastreMorte]

@@C12341 Women hate in different ways than men. You can tell because women hate each other differently men hate each other. For example, their aggression is less physical. A woman who hates men doesn't have many good chances of raping or killing him. But she can use false allegations, reputation bombing, taking his kids and money, so on. There are plenty of women committing such acts and not only that, there's plenty of women pushing and preserving legislation of services and policies that allow manhaters to hurt men with virtually no repercussions. These latter group of women, to top that off, tend to band under a banner and sometimes even openly claim they hate men. What's the Jungian take on this? Am I to believe all women who hate their masculine self sabotage and manhating comes entirely from elsewhere?

[@rwdswght4057]

Yes and despite this fact that some women hate men, they commit murder and S.A. crimes towards men significantly less, so the resentment does not process the same. There isn't as much of an interdependent desire to destroy that which they resent, but more a desire to never interact with or see again to preserve peace.

[@LivyWithWhiskey]

I like how you gave the solution 🥹