I had the same experience. Paying for another women when I am in a whole relationship with my man and looking for platonic friendship is crazyyyy. These men have been trying to tell us (specifically in the black community) for a while, that these chick's are lunatics. I hope these women are just as bold, selfish and disrespectful at their 9 to 5 and corporate jobs. If a guy expected a chick to pay we would be calling them Losers. Women can be losers too🤷🏽♀️
@thestickman10112 ай бұрын
How do I change the gender? Im a guy looking for female friends
@sarahmlyke77742 ай бұрын
I I have a bumble account. I’m using bumble friends for a friendship.
@sarahmlyke77742 ай бұрын
I am bumble friend user I am a bumble, friend, user bumble, bumble, friends, user bumble, friends
@isabellemontigny1182 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for this video. Helped me a lot through my first trial with Bumble BFF :)
@Noone-ue3bg3 ай бұрын
I just moved to a new city, and Bumble BFF could really help me. But for some reason I feel like friends that I met online aren’t “real” friends. Any suggestions on how to her rid of this feeling?
@victoriaknowsbest3 ай бұрын
I feel you! It can be that way but friendship only starts to be real when both parties put in real effort to cultivate it. Some questions that have helped me, feel free to take it or leave it: 1. What does friendship mean to you at this stage of your life. Friendship doesn't stay the same at each stage or age of your life. Highs school and adult friendship are both enriching but both look different in support and love. 2. What are the characteristics you want in a friend and need to emulate in yourself to receive it. 3. Are you being picky about friendships, because as nice as someone maybe that might not be your friend just an acquaintance and that's okay. 4. Are you you're own friend, because friendship out off loneiness or boredom can lead to bad friend choices. Enjoy your own presence just as much as you seek new friends. Balance both. 5. Are you putting yourself in offline places to gain friendship. Bumble or online should not be your main source. Don't keep online too long, meet in person right away and see who clicks.
@maliabella4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this helpful video! If we lived in the same city, I would totally be your friend! 💖
@victoriaknowsbest4 ай бұрын
Awh thank you so much! Praying you find amazing friends where you are now
@RYEANkindaAWESOME4 ай бұрын
I have social anxiety so I am so nervous to download the app. But I really want friends, I’m just scared. Since turning 25 it’s been hard making friends.
@victoriaknowsbest4 ай бұрын
It’s now or never. Don’t let fear and anxiety stop you from a new adventure. Regardless how it goes you have to put yourself out there to see what’s there for you! Plus the app isn’t the only way remember that and wishing you well on your friendship hunt!
@EnzoMujica21 күн бұрын
I relate to this a little too well 😂
@CallMeLexis5 ай бұрын
great video
@victoriaknowsbest5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@debnathan51655 ай бұрын
I'm struggling to make good friends in my 20s. I hope to find like minded people there.
@victoriaknowsbest5 ай бұрын
I found some! Don’t give up
@user-bl6yu8hh3h3 ай бұрын
Hey can we be friends?
@ashelystarxxx88915 ай бұрын
Great video ❤
@victoriaknowsbest5 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!!
@mnbvcxzlkjhgfdsam906 ай бұрын
I had bad experience with many apps the only app i had a good experience was TalkFi app
@Mistysoil7 ай бұрын
When we use bumble bff free I am not getting option to see how likes my profile
@victoriaknowsbest6 ай бұрын
It comes with the paid version
@jupiterShoezR4Me8 ай бұрын
Hi! Could I indicate on my profile that I'm not much of a texter but more of a voice message/call/chat kind of person? Like Im okay with texting but I find that I can express myself a lot better through speech rather than text. Would that seem weird or off-putting?
@victoriaknowsbest7 ай бұрын
Of course! And you should because then you can match with people who are similar to you in that way
@user-ui6pz9kr9b8 ай бұрын
What’s your instagram Victoria I just subscribed to your channel and I hope you do some asmr videos please lol
@latoya12748 ай бұрын
This was so helpful!! It would be nice to find someone in my area. Thx for sharing.
@victoriaknowsbest7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! Wishing you all the best on your adventures
@queen_j14228 ай бұрын
After one of my besties passed, I didn't realize I was unintentionally pushing away potential new friends. People would ask/offer/invite and I wouldn't go. My other besties don't live where I am nor live close. I did have 2 people not take "no" for an answer when trying to be friends but also I met them before said bestie passed. I'm trying to make a conscious effort. Not AT ALL looking for dating, JUST friend-dates. I appreciate this video, houtibe University has what you need when you ask the right questions...took some sifting through but I found this vid. I'm a bit of an introvert + awkward, so it will be odd but I want to try.
@victoriaknowsbest8 ай бұрын
Wishing you the best on your friend journey!
@justynunez19 ай бұрын
I experienced everything you mentioned and im done i give up no one is consistent
@victoriaknowsbest9 ай бұрын
If you exist there’s someone like you out there looking for you. It may not be on Bumble but don’t give up
@Umemiyas1girl9 ай бұрын
Great video! But I’ve been on bumble bff for over a year now. Seems like the girls wanna talk, hang out once and then ghost you. No one wants to actually put in the effort to continue the friendships 🤷♀️ I’ve deleted my app 😅
@victoriaknowsbest9 ай бұрын
It's like dating but for friends, it's not the only way to find friends. I hope you find some good people to make new friends with!
@user-ym7ou5rd7y7 ай бұрын
Yup
@zacharyryan4849 ай бұрын
Also, can you filter by sexuality? Like can i try to find more LGBTQ friends?
@victoriaknowsbest9 ай бұрын
Yes, but it only works if you pay for the app. Better to use an app specifically designed for this.
@zacharyryan4849 ай бұрын
A little bit of a weird question, but is there any issues with MLMs or churches spamming the app to try and recruit people??
@victoriaknowsbest9 ай бұрын
All the dating apps have this issue tbh, mainly MLMs or harmful cults pretending to be churches.
@GamerBeautyxo10 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video! I have been on it for two years and did manage to make friends and talk to a few of them to this day 😊. I was wondering how long you speak with a match before asking to hangout? And how long do you wait for them to respond before unmatching?
@victoriaknowsbest10 ай бұрын
Happy to hear from a fellow Bumble user! I'm not a big fan of talking over text with new people, so I usually try to meet in person immediately. A lot gets lost in text and some aspects of your personality are better in person. It's also a great way to weed out people who just want to text and never take things further.
@GamerBeautyxo10 ай бұрын
@@victoriaknowsbest yeah I try to do the same! But most of the women seem very off put about it . I normally give it a few days to a week to ask to meetup.
@nattyjoys11 ай бұрын
Thanks for the overview and tips!
@victoriaknowsbest9 ай бұрын
Any time!
@mosunmolasalako15411 ай бұрын
😂 It was a vibe 🥹🔥❤️.
@viktorfurer267111 ай бұрын
I'm looking for octopussies also, had any luck?
@victoriaknowsbest11 ай бұрын
Still swimming still searching haha
@firegoldluver11 ай бұрын
I’m so glad I found this video. I just downloaded the app last night and was a little apprehensive. I like what you said in the profile. I might add something something similar to mine.
@victoriaknowsbest11 ай бұрын
I hope you find your tribe or atleast one good person to laugh with!
@firegoldluver11 ай бұрын
@@victoriaknowsbest yes! Thank you!
@bubba28311 ай бұрын
@@victoriaknowsbest I'm looking for a guy, I'm just not sure where, some say grindr, since I'm a guy
@kellsvlogs793011 ай бұрын
Just saw a bubble add. And came to youtube. To get a re view. Thanks for the information.
@victoriaknowsbest11 ай бұрын
Hope it helped!
@mosunmolasalako15411 ай бұрын
🤣the first girl was acting like you trying to move to her.
@victoriaknowsbest11 ай бұрын
GURL! Don't I know it!!
@nordiawilliams7028 Жыл бұрын
Very sound advice that I needed to hear! Thanks for sharing! Would love to be a mentee of yours by the way.
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Feel free to message me via Instagram. More than happy to :)
@brittanysinghwilliams2951 Жыл бұрын
Grateful for a friend like you ❤
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Same here❤
@nordiawilliams7028 Жыл бұрын
No lie was detected in this vid. I enjoy the mature and realistic approach you take to finding, building and maintaining friendships.
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Thank you Nordia! Appreciate the feedback and love❤
@nordiawilliams7028 Жыл бұрын
@@victoriaknowsbest my pleasure!
@BrunoFIFAProClubs Жыл бұрын
Hi dear, I am Brazilian and I live in Dubai for like 6 years, and was planning to move to Canada, thanks for the heads up and keep up the good work! :)
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Happy to share! Hope that if you do you’ll enjoy it
@theresapeters2298 Жыл бұрын
A very informative vid! Love your content 🫶🏽 so thorough and very aesthetically pleasing to watch 😊… looking forward to more vids 😁
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Haha More to come :)
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
What's your Bumble BFF experience or are you thinking of trying it out yourself? Let me know your thoughts!
@brownskinmarisa482210 ай бұрын
What ur bumble name I am now joining I need a Caribbean friend like you
@nordiawilliams7028 Жыл бұрын
Really love this video! Feels like a sister giving me sound advice. I use Bumble Bff and have made a really cool friendship from it.
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Thank you, and love that your experience has been good so far! 😄
@daniiwuu Жыл бұрын
Yessss, looking forward to this! I love Bumble BFF but was wanting some resource on how to navigate "friendship dating" in this day and age.
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
I hope the video helped, and I hope you find some wonderful people one it!
@nordiawilliams7028 Жыл бұрын
Hey congratulations 🎈🎉🍾 here to support you on this journey!
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🤗
@victoriaknowsbest Жыл бұрын
Hey Beautiful People! The first video is a milestone and a journey. Excited to publish more and get to know the community in this space!
@KekePfan16 Жыл бұрын
New subbie!! ☺️♥️ 5/6/23 Before your first vid premieres! I love books! Nice to see a fellow black girl talking about them! 📚