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Excelent video

I'm so happy I found your channel!

I relate so much to this, for context I am in year 9, next year im moving schools and for most of my years in the school I am, I always had the same 4 friends, one eventually decided to kind of leave the group, she wasnted to meet and spend time with other people, and my bestfriend before we even became a group had to change schools after year 8, so bassically I was in a trio, a trio where I felt like i wanst apreciatted by these people, constantly felt ignored and my feelings were constantly dismissed, until my last straw and I decided to block these people over a break from 1 semester to the second, all of that combined led to an argument with one of them so had broken apart, I wanted to let this person go but I was still in denial about how our future would be, I have spent almost every single day with these girls for over 5 or 6 years. At a point I had feelings for this one girl, (and I am actually still friends with the other one btw), so at first I was like "maybe its a win because it was hurting me, being her friend but also knowing I ve looked at her at a different way for 3 years". Because I had devoted my whole love to this friendship, last month i entered a world of loniless, where i felt hummiliated to some times have to be alone at school, feeling extremely anxious because my day would not go as planned. And for the record I ve always been like this, but the feeling had amplified, before I would worry about wether or not I did mondune things like. remember to bring lunch, or a specific object or clothe to school. And it might seem shalow but those little things already made me feel sooooo anxious, even when I "had" friends. Anyways as i was saying last month I was the embodiement of intense anxiety, wanting to cry every instant, couldnt study, couldnt be in class and not feel anxious, feeling like i was worthless because "what if she hated me" "she wont take me back". And she didn, even tho all I did was be honest about the way that they were treating me had hurt me, and now she avoids me , doesnt respond to texts and blocked me on instagram. Right now I am in a stage where I just flat out hate her. I hate the fact that know I want but cant seem to be able to make new friends, as much as i would not be her friend anymore if she were to come back, I still cant believe that she abondoned me, and bassically just expects the other friend (of the trio) to stay with her all of the time. I dont recognise her anymore, but that doesnt really matter. Also because of my sadness I started hyperfixated and onbsessing over a ºperson and now because they arent available to me, I am left feeling hurt (Ive never even tried talk to him, because I would b+get too nevrvous). Currently asked the one friend I have to introduce me to other people from other classes and Im going to try my best to manage my anxiety and build confidence (idk how beecause I loved so much my old friendships and I never thought that we would stop talking). I think Imk feeling a bit pressured to socialize tho because theres a trip in like two weeks where I just dont want to feel anxious and alone. and another social event after my last exam. Things are slowly looking up but its def all on the mind, nothing physically changed, I can say I learned and still am learning a lot because of losing her, and eventually I just got tired of crying because of her, feeling hopeless and miserable, and blamimg myself for whst happened or thinking that im not good enough to meet new people. thanks for the space to vent <3

This is beautiful and I’m proud of you and grateful to you for making this.💖

I lurve your glasses 🌺

Remember when someone copy you it is the greatest form of flattery we can not see at the time and pulling the positives out of the negative experiences is what make us stronger, through adversity we win !

You need therapy. You first need to "get healed" lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

But how do you let go of that timeline deadlines of the goals u decided. And how you act towards them after letting go.. Any suggestions? And being honest u look pretty young like 16-17

I'm going through a really difficult time and your video came out of nowhere - it was exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks

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Hablo español, y trato de aprender inglés viendo videos en inglés, y me apareció este video, y me gustó bastante tu contenido, muy buen video

I've been living a rough period lately, so thank you for this shift of perspective.

I'm currently struggling very much. I'm meditating and journaling every day but I don't feel like it's doing much. I feel myself hopeless in life and finding social interactions is hard.

Great video! .... Hit the like button and also subscribed this wonderful channel ❤

thanks for your video abii

Thank you for being so vulnerable and real. Your self awareness is so refreshing and your insights are valuable✨

Hey Everyone! On a scale from 'control freak' to 'totally zen', where are you at today? haha. I know it may feel like you are alone but you aren't <3 xoxo

Such a great video! Your production keeps getting better and better:) I love your take on having a balanced approach to self improvement as opposed to pushing the typical views about how to find success. Awesome stuff!

This is so helpful, thank you for making this video

i really needed this thank you!

(step 2 - finding hidden time ) YES doom scrolling is so terrible for me! I've been trying to lower the amount of time i do that... I wanna start adding more time for self care in my day so i gotta remove some doom scroll time to create a better atmosphere for myself to grow! (#1 mistake - lack of support) Success is only possible through support I believe because as humans we can only go so far by ourselves. Always strive to do new things with new people! just my take aways from video! good stuff you got here :)

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very helpful !!

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Great video! I needed to hear this