Great video! The quality of definitely improving each time. Love the animations.
@Rinn3eАй бұрын
Watching this on the side felt like you were personally talking to me
@jaylynnangelinaАй бұрын
love this <3
@AbiiBastianАй бұрын
Thank you! I looked at some of your content and WOW I LOVE IT! I'd love to chat sometime if you want <3
@chuldeАй бұрын
title matches w the slower and unfiltered theme of the video 👌
@nouragilmore264Ай бұрын
Amazing 💖💖
@AbiiBastianАй бұрын
Thank you <3
@nouragilmore264Ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian 💖💖
@LaytonObservesАй бұрын
Great video!
@AbiiBastianАй бұрын
@@LaytonObserves thank you!!
@uzgunucurtma2 ай бұрын
So, thanks for the video! As most of the people in the comments has said as well, I am also going through hard times. It is 2.30am as I'm writing this, which matches the points you've made in the video :). Your voice is also very relaxing and soothing by the way, with the soft background music it really helped me calm down a bit, and also I would also like to mention a thing is that the intro to the video was great, I can certainly say it really helped me to watch the video, gosh I can't really understand what I am typing lmao I should sleep, so THANK YOU haha!
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@uzgunucurtma you should sleep! 🤣 but I’m so happy the video helped you calm down! I hope I can continue to help 🤗🤗🩷🩷
@chulde2 ай бұрын
video quality has gotten noticeably better!
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
Thank you for noticing!! I’ve been going all in on learning to get better 😭😭
@Bing5252 ай бұрын
I feel like I’m stuck in a loop during summer :( I have a good routine with less screen time and more exercise, but I don’t feel good bc it all feels the same. What should I do?? (Btw ur underrated asf🩷🩷)
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@Bing525 I understand things feeling like we are in constant auto pilot and things are just repeating themselves. I would say check out the first video I made for the summer series, (changing your life in 60 days) I reference being spontaneous. I am going to make a video about it soon. But I think maybe adding in a day where you do something you haven’t done before or try something new. And if that’s not possible maybe try a few new hobbies? What do you think?
@Bing5252 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian tysm <3 I’ll check it out 🩷
@giahannguyen2162 ай бұрын
Ahh i love this video i thought it was just an explanation video but u gave some really good points and things to do instead!!! keep it up ure incredibly underrated 🤗❤
@giahannguyen2162 ай бұрын
also i think u are really pretty 🤭
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@giahannguyen216 aww thank you 🥺 I’m so happy you found the video helpful!! 🩷
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@giahannguyen216 aww thank you 🩷🥺
@AnthonyGonzalez-bb3rr2 ай бұрын
breathing for fun is crazy. let’s climb the highest building in the city and stargaze.
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
I love stargazing! I haven’t done it that much but I want to do it more
@TheCloudAir2 ай бұрын
For me I just have insomnia from the high heat and light being out for so long during summer
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@TheCloudAir yeah 😭😭 the heat has been killing me
@TheCloudAir2 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian worst part in my country AC isn't a common thing so melt is guaranteed
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@TheCloudAir bro whattt 😭😭 my room doesn’t get any ac because our house is annoying, so I had to buy a window ac unit
@TheCloudAir2 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian tbh, our climate usually doesn't need an ac but the past few years summers have been scorchers
@KarimaElkati2 ай бұрын
she is so sweet
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@KarimaElkati aww thank you 🥺you are even sweeter 🩷🩷
@juhiiii1012 ай бұрын
A really positive, calm and inspiring video. And impressive editing. Subscribing right away🙏🏻🙌🏻keep posting. Thank you for this!
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@juhiiii101 of course!! I’m glad you found value from it 🩷🩷🤗 welcome to the community I’m so happy to have you here 🥳🩷
@maryanyusuf65332 ай бұрын
Actually I am interesting to change of my life because this right now I’m being like to scroll on my phone all the day just look my phone and feels like that boring my school is gonna start like two months so I want change my life I wanna get good grade in this beginning another season I don’t what I shall to do
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
That is something that I struggled with too! Scrolling is a very big time consumer. I am posting a video about it this friday! hopefully it will be able to help you <3
@bastonia2 ай бұрын
Great video!! Looking forward to the next videos in the series. 🌸
@samridhimishra19462 ай бұрын
needed this! thank youuu
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
I'm glad you found it helpful ❤❤
@ashnip2 ай бұрын
your video is great, everything is really nice ....the edit and voice, but the background music is not syncing that much with the video ( just noticed this lil point, otherwise it is great and helpful ) bless up
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@ashnip thank you! I’ll take the music into more consideration 🤗 I’m glad you found it helpful
@ashnip2 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian its great to see someone from our age is trying to help everyone, after all these days pple are busy uploading trash but uh keep up the pace dude !!! 💯😄
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@ashnip aww thank you 🩷🩷 I really appreciate it
@ashnip2 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian +1 sub !!
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@ashnip 🩷🩷
@henrykamau25222 ай бұрын
So young yet so wise! Thanks for the advice!
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
😭😭 I feel so old yet so young 🤣
@eadhraa2 ай бұрын
Thank you Your style of words and calmness is beautiful
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
Of course ❤️❤️ I hope you found value in the video ☺️
@gabriellewright70022 ай бұрын
Yesss!!! I want to add, daily journaling outdoors does so much for staying motivated
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
YES 100% agree, I feel like I can disconnect much easier
@Cars24-jx2rz2 ай бұрын
My name is Abhi and u r abii wow❤
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
Do you pronounce it the same?
@Cars24-jx2rz2 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian yes and I wanna tell u ur so beautiful 😍
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@Cars24-jx2rz aww thank you 🩷🩷 and that is a really cool way to spell your name 🤗 I like it
@silversoulawakening91952 ай бұрын
Hi Abi, so happy your channel popped into my ‘choice buffet’…really inspires me to witness our youth being so amazing…keep on sharing…you truly BE a gift.
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
Aww thank you 🥺❤️ I really appreciate your kind words ☺️☺️ I am glad you found me ☺️
@WilliamTheUnkownShoutout2 ай бұрын
Hello Abii Bastian hello anyway this is indeed very heartwarming and very wonderful and very beautiful and very helpful and this brings back such great memories of when I use to be a 90s kid and an early 2000s kid and I am a new subscriber as well:).
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@WilliamTheUnkownShoutout I’m so happy you found value in the video ❤️❤️ and welcome 🤗 I’m so happy to have you here
@chulde2 ай бұрын
definitely seen the downsides to overworking 💔
@AbiiBastian2 ай бұрын
@@chulde yeah for real 😭😭I’m glad you are working on it!!
@chulde3 ай бұрын
🔥
@AbiiBastian3 ай бұрын
What challenge do you face most with your relationship food? xoxo ~ abii 💜
@TheCloudAir3 ай бұрын
eating stuff I have an intolerance to since it's tasty ;-;
@AbiiBastian3 ай бұрын
@@TheCloudAir 😭😭 I was like that too
@emlizn3 ай бұрын
binge eating when I'm "bored" and never actually sitting down to enjoy the food
@AbiiBastian3 ай бұрын
@@emlizn I used to do that as well! What are you doing to work on it? 🩷🤗
@chulde3 ай бұрын
What about a vegan hotdog eating contest
@AbiiBastian3 ай бұрын
🤣🤣 Nah I didn't even think about that
@johndoe-rq1pu3 ай бұрын
I'd settle for half a day a year.
@AbiiBastian3 ай бұрын
😭you will get there! 💪🏻😤 if you’re looking for some support in your journey you can join the discord server 🤗🤗
@Floppyz3 ай бұрын
Meditation I’ve been meaning to get into this, thanks for the reminder! I need a moment of my day to reflect and breathe. This video was something I needed today, thank you!
@AbiiBastian3 ай бұрын
Of course! I’m glad you found it helpful 😊😊
@danielcastellanos25054 ай бұрын
Nice video, I'm the person that wrote you in the Last video you posted, this is my principal account, keep fighting for your dreams, I believe that you will get a big community. I understand better your videos and I like them.
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Aww thank you!! I’m glad you like them 🤗❤️
@mancobot96904 ай бұрын
Excelent video
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️
@mancobot96904 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian Can you make a video where you give tips to wake up before 6:00 AM? If I made an error, sorry, I'm learning English, and I'm trying write without translator
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
@@mancobot9690 I will put it on my content list !! Thank you for suggesting a video ❤😄
@IGottaLoveCereal4 ай бұрын
I'm so happy I found your channel!
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Me too!! Welcome ❤️❤️❤️
@thaiczd4 ай бұрын
I relate so much to this, for context I am in year 9, next year im moving schools and for most of my years in the school I am, I always had the same 4 friends, one eventually decided to kind of leave the group, she wasnted to meet and spend time with other people, and my bestfriend before we even became a group had to change schools after year 8, so bassically I was in a trio, a trio where I felt like i wanst apreciatted by these people, constantly felt ignored and my feelings were constantly dismissed, until my last straw and I decided to block these people over a break from 1 semester to the second, all of that combined led to an argument with one of them so had broken apart, I wanted to let this person go but I was still in denial about how our future would be, I have spent almost every single day with these girls for over 5 or 6 years. At a point I had feelings for this one girl, (and I am actually still friends with the other one btw), so at first I was like "maybe its a win because it was hurting me, being her friend but also knowing I ve looked at her at a different way for 3 years". Because I had devoted my whole love to this friendship, last month i entered a world of loniless, where i felt hummiliated to some times have to be alone at school, feeling extremely anxious because my day would not go as planned. And for the record I ve always been like this, but the feeling had amplified, before I would worry about wether or not I did mondune things like. remember to bring lunch, or a specific object or clothe to school. And it might seem shalow but those little things already made me feel sooooo anxious, even when I "had" friends. Anyways as i was saying last month I was the embodiement of intense anxiety, wanting to cry every instant, couldnt study, couldnt be in class and not feel anxious, feeling like i was worthless because "what if she hated me" "she wont take me back". And she didn, even tho all I did was be honest about the way that they were treating me had hurt me, and now she avoids me , doesnt respond to texts and blocked me on instagram. Right now I am in a stage where I just flat out hate her. I hate the fact that know I want but cant seem to be able to make new friends, as much as i would not be her friend anymore if she were to come back, I still cant believe that she abondoned me, and bassically just expects the other friend (of the trio) to stay with her all of the time. I dont recognise her anymore, but that doesnt really matter. Also because of my sadness I started hyperfixated and onbsessing over a ºperson and now because they arent available to me, I am left feeling hurt (Ive never even tried talk to him, because I would b+get too nevrvous). Currently asked the one friend I have to introduce me to other people from other classes and Im going to try my best to manage my anxiety and build confidence (idk how beecause I loved so much my old friendships and I never thought that we would stop talking). I think Imk feeling a bit pressured to socialize tho because theres a trip in like two weeks where I just dont want to feel anxious and alone. and another social event after my last exam. Things are slowly looking up but its def all on the mind, nothing physically changed, I can say I learned and still am learning a lot because of losing her, and eventually I just got tired of crying because of her, feeling hopeless and miserable, and blamimg myself for whst happened or thinking that im not good enough to meet new people. thanks for the space to vent <3
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
First of all, thank you so much for sharing your story and what’s going on for you ❤️ I totally understand the loss of a close friend. It’s so hard to know which path to go down next when the person walking that path with you isn’t there anymore. The way I got through losing friends was letting myself feel all the emotions I was having about it and it seems like you are doing that, which is amazing! It is very healthy to let yourself feel everything you are feeling. My mom always told me that if you have unsaid words to say to someone who isn’t in your life anymore write them down on paper, like you are writing them a letter and then afterwards fold it up and burn it. I always imagine as the paper turns to ash and the smoke is floating away that those words and feelings and thoughts are leaving me and going out into the world so I can release them. You are absolutely so very strong for going through all of that! And keep me updated on how the upcoming social events go! If you ever have an anxiety attack or panic attack coming on try saying a statement that is true like “the sky is blue” and then a statement you want to be true like “I am safe” or you could try doing the 5 senses. What are 5 things you can see, 4 things you can hear, 3 things you can feel, 2 things you can smell, and 1 things you can taste. When I was dealing with high levels of social anxiety and regular panic attacks I would use both of those and they really helped me distract myself long enough to calm down. I hope that helps ❤️❤️ You are a beautiful soul keep your head up because things will get better
@marisaimon4 ай бұрын
This is beautiful and I’m proud of you and grateful to you for making this.💖
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️ and of course ❤️❤️
@a320nick4 ай бұрын
I lurve your glasses 🌺
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
awww thank you <3
@DivineHorseTraining4 ай бұрын
Remember when someone copy you it is the greatest form of flattery we can not see at the time and pulling the positives out of the negative experiences is what make us stronger, through adversity we win !
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Yes!!! 100% true! ❤️❤️
@Herlock074 ай бұрын
You need therapy. You first need to "get healed" lmao 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
I agree that therapy does help, but I didn’t get therapy until I was 17. I healed a lot on my own. Therapy is good for things that you can’t bring up by yourself or don’t have the tools yourself to deal with. So if you are going through a lot i definitely recommend therapy. But therapy only works if you take the initiative to heal. So starting your healing journey is the very first step in healing ☺️ thanks for pointing out therapy! I’ll have to mention it in my next video ❤️☺️
@prathamagarwal48084 ай бұрын
But how do you let go of that timeline deadlines of the goals u decided. And how you act towards them after letting go.. Any suggestions? And being honest u look pretty young like 16-17
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
I know I look young 😭 I’m actually 20 Now like I said, your journey is yours and something that worked for me might not work in the same way for you. For me letting go of my deadlines for the goals I have started with realizing that the universe has my back. I may be working towards my goals everyday but that does not mean that the timing is right. I have experienced that the universe works in mysterious ways. The thing I did was fully put my trust in that my goals will work out and be achieved in the way that I want, and to let go of worrying about when it will happen. I now put my focus in consistent action and to remind myself daily that the universe has my back, and will give me the things I’m working towards. Let me know if you have anymore questions ❤️ I might be able to help brainstorm some ways to help you let go of those deadlines. Let me know ☺️❤️
@prathamagarwal48084 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian First of all thanks for the reply. Glad I commented and came across this beautiful video. And yea I forgot a few things that pushed me towards my goals and doing it restlessly without seeing any results, again thanking you that I was reminded of my damm thing. And how it pushed me further and further and further everytime. And one more thing after commenting I went on to spend some time with my grandma. She somehow realized that I am in pain and started telling me stories of my father and grandfather. I guess that was enough to realize that universe and god has always have my back. And they will push me forward and bring solution everytime there is a problem. Thanks I came across video and went to talk with my grandma. And what are your take on pride? Self-pride? And introducing myself I am from India.. Wbu??
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
@@prathamagarwal4808 that is wonderful!! So glad that you came to that conclusion! ❤️ Great question! My take on self-pride, I would love to do a video about it! But in short I think self-pride is very important in my eyes. As a kid I would seek out approval from my friends and family. I would “need” them to say they are proud of me for me to be proud of myself for accomplishing something. I would constantly seek external validation from everyone around me and it caused my mental health to take a turn for the worse. After many years like this I told myself I would change this about myself and start seeking inward validation. I told myself I was proud of myself even if I wasn’t and after a while I didn’t need someone to be proud of me anymore. So self-pride is really important to me, it keeps me pushing myself hard and to get better! Say hi to your grandma for me ☺️ and WOW India! That’s awesome! I’m from the United States 😛
@prathamagarwal48084 ай бұрын
@@AbiiBastian Dammm....🫡🫡🫡I would love to see this more in video. At what age you started realizing all this?and rather than KZbin do you also have a job Or you are a student? It must be nice living in United States 🥹.
@roddsantos_4 ай бұрын
I'm going through a really difficult time and your video came out of nowhere - it was exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
I’m so glad it helped ❤️❤️ and that it popped up for you ☺️❤️ keep going you’ve got this!!!
@monsterrockstar904 ай бұрын
Hey your super cut darling
@mancobot96904 ай бұрын
Hablo español, y trato de aprender inglés viendo videos en inglés, y me apareció este video, y me gustó bastante tu contenido, muy buen video
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Going to be totally honest with you, I had to use google translate, BUT that is an awesome way to learn English!! I’m so happy you liked the video ❤️❤️ ☺️
@alexandraardnaxela44 ай бұрын
I've been living a rough period lately, so thank you for this shift of perspective.
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Of course! I’m so happy I could help ❤️❤️ ALSO! I’m so proud of you for pushing though ☺️ you’ve got this!
@NikiWinProd4 ай бұрын
I'm currently struggling very much. I'm meditating and journaling every day but I don't feel like it's doing much. I feel myself hopeless in life and finding social interactions is hard.
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
First, I just want to say, thank you for sharing! It’s really inspiring to me that you shared what you are going through. I understand what you are going through! I’ve done so many things at once and made sure I was consistent as well with what I was doing (meditating, being mindful, journaling, reading, skincare, etc) I didn’t understand why I wasn’t feeling my better since I was staying consistent. The one thing that I looked away from was taking a break to sit and be with myself, and to find out why I was thinking things like “I’m not good enough”, “i suck at making friends”, “I’m going to do nothing with my life”, etc. I didn’t acknowledge how I was feeling and didn’t want to try to figure out why because It didn’t make sense to. The day I decided to figure out why I was thinking and feeling those things, was the day I started to feel the change. Now it might not help you in the same way as me, but it might lead you to something that will. I’d love to see you in my discord so we could talk more there ❤️ keep going! You are absolutely amazing ☺️
@PushpendraYadav-yh3uw4 ай бұрын
Great video! .... Hit the like button and also subscribed this wonderful channel ❤
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Awe thank you so much ❤️❤️ I really appreciate your support !!
@jourgstooni4 ай бұрын
thanks for your video abii
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Of course, always here
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Always here for you ❤️☺️
@kinderbeing4 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so vulnerable and real. Your self awareness is so refreshing and your insights are valuable✨
@AbiiBastian4 ай бұрын
Of course ❤ ☺️
@AbiiBastian5 ай бұрын
Hey Everyone! On a scale from 'control freak' to 'totally zen', where are you at today? haha. I know it may feel like you are alone but you aren't <3 xoxo
@marileelouisemans24535 ай бұрын
control freak all the way, i accidentally stumbled upon this video and it was honestly such a eye opener. thank you
@AbiiBastian5 ай бұрын
@@marileelouisemans2453 I’m so glad it helped ❤️ thank you for sharing! It’s hard to open ourselves up but when we do it’s relieving ❤️❤️ if you are looking for support we would love to have you in the server ☺️ You’re awesome !!
@Rakyesweet5 ай бұрын
Such a great video! Your production keeps getting better and better:) I love your take on having a balanced approach to self improvement as opposed to pushing the typical views about how to find success. Awesome stuff!
@AbiiBastian5 ай бұрын
I love this comment ❤️🥺 thank you ❤️❤️
@clairet.82245 ай бұрын
This is so helpful, thank you for making this video
@AbiiBastian5 ай бұрын
Of course! I’m glad that you found it helpful! Keep going you’ve got this!! ❤️❤️