This kind of thing is why a lot of my friends who frequent Pattaya are looking to travel to other place this year such as Cambodia or the Phillipines. The new requirement of having to buy a rack of drinks on top of the BF and whatever the lady requests, only for her to behave like this after leaving the bar, is just putting people off bothering in the first place.

same thing happen to me really annoying. am guessing this is happening in a regular

Look forward to seeing it!

Yoo you actually made the collab, props! Looking forwars to it

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I suggest you watch this again when you're sober, and ask yourself is the best sort of man you can be? You do speak some truths, people should treat each other with respect, but respect is earnt and not given. I would guess the girls think you are a lot of work for not so much reward, and that is the main lens they view you through. Take a break from the drink, and from Pattaya, before one or both consume you. Edit: This sounded harsher than I meant it to, but nowhere near as harsh as it could be.

Having lived in Thailand previously for eight years and now being 60 years old, I feel a deeper perspective is necessary when discussing these issues. It’s crucial to recognise that many of these women working in bars are human beings, living in conditions of extreme poverty and often doing a job they neither desire nor enjoy but feel compelled to do out of financial necessity. Can we truly fathom the emotional and physical toll of working in such an environment where the demands are constant-smiling, drinking, and engaging in physical intimacy, even when it is the last thing they want to do? The man in the video claims that his recent experience with a bar girl was lacking compared to previous encounters. His words suggest an alarming level of immaturity and misunderstanding. It is clear he is seeking affection and validation from someone who, in many ways, is struggling to survive in a system that doesn’t offer her viable alternatives. For many of these women, the only choices are to continue in a difficult and often degrading line of work or to take menial jobs in places like Seven-Eleven, where the wages are scarcely enough to live on. I believe many Westerners fail to fully comprehend the depth of poverty that exists in countries like Thailand. Money is not just a necessity; it’s a lifeline, a means of survival. The lifestyle on Soi 6 may be addictive, but ultimately it leaves one feeling hollow, with nothing of true substance to show for it. If someone is genuinely looking for love, empathy, and connection, this is not the environment where they will find it. These women are not objects to be used and discarded, but individuals, with their own struggles, emotions, and humanity. During my time in Thailand, I intentionally avoided the bar scene. I sought relationships with women who worked in more typical, everyday settings, such as shopping malls-women who, like anyone, desired mutual respect and emotional connection. In my own experience, the dynamic was one of mutual respect, and my girlfriend even waited until we had been dating for three months before asking for intimacy. It is important to recognise that the person in the video is mentally and emotionally unwell, clearly lost in their own misguided desires. My advice to him would be to return home, gain some emotional clarity, and reflect on his own needs and expectations before engaging further with women in these circumstances.

l look forwards to watching this guys!

It seems to me that the if the LT girl was prepared to accept that she'd let you down and then tried to make things right with you by not accepting her fee-then she's not really a bad person but rather just a scatty teenage girl with rocks in her head like so many others. I too live in Jomtien and I'm also lonely so I understand your yearning for meaningful female company.

You have experienced how these interactions are with the ladies here and how it is a hit and miss, mostly miss, and you should not have any high expectation from the girls that work here, there are no quality women in the gutter, you need to be at another place to have a change of finding a companion ship which is normal, but also have to deal with female nature and bullshit in that arena. My message to you my dear fellow brother is focus on you, know that everything the girls say is just to please you and what you want to hear, and its all lies. For the lonlyness factor, i this we guys/men need more brotherhood and have a good time doing activitys sports and work on our money income streams and colaborate on those things and dont relay on any woman, there just a add on when you have your shit together and good freindships and not money worries, then you can have a good time once in a while, All Love to you brother and i hope you find your way and out of this suffering that these low class places provide in a bundance!

I so much enjoy your commentary. Many of us have had these very same experiences 👍

Sounds like better off away from Soi 6

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I understand what you going through , complete lack of respect and understanding by her. Unfortunately been there too. Some Thai girls do not have the same of intelligence as westerners..Just desperate for easy life and easy money

You’ve got to give up the booze and bargirls bro, both will drain you of all dignity and financially ruin you. It’s just a job to a bargirl. Save your cash and see the country. It’s cheap to travel there my brother. You have your condo to return to.

l reckon Mac would help you get that KZbin thing sorted, well done, so glad you are making money that's so cool!

You are a young single man living in a city most people only get to visit for 2 weeks every few years , you really should be having a blast the time of your life . From what you have said your lifes not been easy and i dont claim to have walked a mile in your shoes but man if your this down in Pattaya maybe you need a break from the place . No malice just an observation

You shouldn't of given her anything she used you that's it

Hey brother, another banger! Love hearing your stories in GTA

Finding a good performer who is consistent is the hard part.... It's a business and it's not a business....

Unique vlog. Interesting to hear other people's detailed account of their experiences

Great vlog Mataio. This has happened to me many times and worse. Easy for me to let go tho cos I only do 10 day millionaire holidays to pattaya so can just carry on with another girl. Bar girls are the worst. Don't ever bother bar fining them. Get them to come to you.

As a visitor to pattaya for 18 years, I have no need for giving criticism of anyone, but may I suggest you take a break from pattaya for a week or two, it is obvious to me you are a descent Guy, and certainly not stupid, trust me a break from pattaya, will refresh you and maybe give you a different mindset, the only winner in pattaya must always be you, I'm coming over in 3 weeks time, for a month can't wait lol

Unfiltered honesty. I couldn’t live in Pattaya but enjoy your story’s. Hope things pick up 4 you buddy

Try Chiangmai, maybe things are half the price.

Saw I Korean buy a drink rake 11400 and he was on the soda and look dis interested the girls also looked not interested not sure what he go out it

A bar fine is a barfine.... You're coming with me... No drinks sweetie...... I wouldn't put up with that shi.... Was there 10 days ago and I told them no.... and left with the girl... didn't pay that Drink tax crap... Word of advice: Next time wake her up with your stick....

You are living the dream. You bar fined a friend. Ticked the right boxes... sleeping beauty red flag there lol

Nice yarn. Live n Learn.

Howdy Bro

mate, Bargirls are master manipulators, keep the vlogs coming………..,

Is it time to consider a move away from Pattaya ?

Afternoon mate,good win by Pattaya united last night 1-0 great goal in the second half

Thanks for sharing

Don’t let yourself be fooled these bar girls are professional at extracting your money They don’t care about your feelings they care about money and if they can take advantage of you then they will in a heartbeat Soi 6 is a tourist trap Gentlemen’s clubs are better value for money in Pattaya