Loved this video! Thank you very much!! ❤

This is an amazingly helpful strategy to reframe clutter, totally remove cluutter-shame and point to a way to create systems that actually work for each individual personally. So good!

Very good information

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Trouble moving items! 🤣 I've never thought of it that way, but it really does help reframe it. Thank you!

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Wonder what you did with them in the end. Just found your channel.

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How is this not more popular

I’m going to improve my life because of this podcast. Thank you!

Fantastic insight and advice thank you ❤

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Good points

“ know you’re capable “ is key. I don’t know why it’s not a moral issue? Why is a label put on it (ADHD) to give a green flag to not keeping your word? Maybe drop the term “ follow through “ and replace it with “ keeping my word”. It gives the person more responsibility. My BFF promised me a gift ( to get a picture of my dog framed after she passed. It was like her dog too) and didn’t do it. I brought it up, was disappointed. She took “ ownership “ but never did it. But since that time of the promise. ( Nearly 2 1/2 months) she has done a LOT for herself . I’m at the end of my rope.

The problem with this advice is that it isn’t practical because some of us don’t have anyone! I don’t have family and if I asked my “friends” to help with this all there fake asses would run harder than they do if I asked for help for anything! Some people don’t have anyone and can’t afford an adhd coach! So what do we do? How do we find a way to get stuff done?

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I got a lot from this! Great idea about making characters out of false beliefs. I was struggling with this when I found this podcast in this particular episode.

Skip the ad and the 2nd grade definitions! Get to the point immediately. Don’t waste my time. I’m looking elsewhere

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Cool. Thank you for these tips!

Thanks, guys! I’ve been struggling with a bad brain day today and in this exact moment, especially when you wake up with 0 powers and you’ve “eaten” junk dopamine (KZbin shorts) you feel like there is no way your head can cleen up. But that was a small support from you ❤️ Thanks once again

Thank you Lynne found this very helpful.

Yes it causes compare and despair! Why do others with the same levels of talent succeed but I haven't, yet!

Always enjoy when I listen to your episodes and learn something to implement

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I'd love to hear your thoughts, insights and questions! Does this resonate with you? How does your "elephant" show up? How can your "Rider" get in your way? How do you manage it?

The Sun's trajectory helps me with guessing time outside.

If what you have is success then I don't want to be successful. Long story short, You're a scammer hag selling some bullshit.

Congratulations to Tara! 20 years is quite an accomplishment!

I think I have the same problem of getting distracted by new songs. Helps to lift my mood with novelty but doesn't help much to be white noise. I have always fidgeted with the texture of my jewelry. I wear a pendant with a string with some texture and also a ring with some texture. I'm only now realising that I have always been unconciously fidgeting with these when I work. On the other hand the ends of my hair touching my skin, especially my face is extremely irritating for me. If I don't braid away or put a headband to keep the hair away, it would even stop me from falling asleep because I need the ceiling fan for sleeping but it moves the baby hair to my face. I also use crunchy snacks. I buy and keep roasted lentils near my desk. I've heard that some overnight bus drivers in our state do the same to keep themselves alert. I have difficulties having meals properly, so keeping some healthy snacks kind of cover for that also. Can we use a rocking chair for proprioception? I have a rocking chair but have never tried using it while working

I feel like procrastination is just putting something off because you can/ feel like you can get away with it. Conversely, avoidance seems to be tied to the emotions & the body -- whether it's due to anxiety, perfectionism, self-efficacy beliefs, etc. I've been able to pinpoint all my lateness within the past year as "avoidance" versus "procrastination" after going through in-person therapy.

I am diagnosed with combined ADHD and I started doing tapping when I first saw it on Russell Brand’s youtube channel with Nick Ortner. Highly recommend following that video to get a quick feel for the technique:) the tapping solutions app made by Nick Ortner also has some free guided sessions I highly recommend. It’s been a game changer in regulating my nervous system <3 good luck everyone

Here's my weird thing. I am 51. I am 100% sure I have adhd. Been in denial for a long time. BUT, when I was 16 I learned how to finish projects. Really really well. Which is part of why I didn't think I have it. I definitely overcompensate for time and have extreme focus on tasks. I end up with burn out though. It is so confusing not fitting the models properly.

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I struggle with shame and its hard to ask for help because im afraid of being judged..I also have trauma from exs weaponizing every little thing against me..Though they contributed to the mess..If i had a car? A lot of junk from my house would be gone already..Sadly i have to post each thing online..Or have to wait a long time to get rid of it or carry it to the city to donate..I have clutter because its not as easy to get rid of for me..I also have to pay extra to have extra stuff thrown out..As im in Germany,you cant just throw everything in the trash..I would love to get rid of declutter but i get depressed because i cant get rid of it quick enough..It ads up as im a single mom of a special needs kid to..So my load is a lot..So decluttering is not so easy.I also lack the time and motivation and health for it..As i also have heart issues.. So things pile up..Tried to get help before..But the people helping just wanted to throw everything away or pressured me a bit and in the end it was too stressful for me..Wrong people to help..

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Great content, thanks for making it available. It may happen that reminders and the ability to transition (finish this, start that) go in opposite directions, and create stress and "dissonance". Do you have a take on that? Do you address this in some of the episodes? Happy to expand as necessary.

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Too Good 💎 Mam what do you do to tackle the feelings of Hopelessness which can grab a person into worrying.. are there any top books on Optimism that can provide insights to defeat it..

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Trying the clarity, and the procastination comes in 😢

Masking is for realsies 🎭

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