This made me so curious about my own screen time; looks like I average 3 hours a day between Facebook and instagram. A lot of that is insomnia time, but more of it was during the day which surprised me. That’s for sharing this project with us!
@stace_d2 күн бұрын
I don't use tiktok, but Instagram (especially since adding Reels) does the same for me... It's my anxiety soother, but ultimately makes things worse! I zone out and lose so much time and feel extremely guilty about that afterwards. Plus all the stargazing at other people's "lives" is pretty bad for the mental health. No matter how much I tell myself, "this is someone's highlight reel" or "this is not real life for most people", it's hard to not get sucked into the comparison trap
@weeklystruggle42053 күн бұрын
loved it! hope you enjoyed your cozy time!
@cozymonica3 күн бұрын
thanks so much! 💞
@samantharose10013 күн бұрын
very cozy 💛✨
@cozymonica3 күн бұрын
🫶🫶 thank youu
@peachiesophie3 күн бұрын
i just checked my screen time and holy moly, i'm averaging 4 hours a day on my phone?? i'm always so sad i never have time to draw or read anymore... i think im gonna try a digital cleanse too 💕
@margaretsmith48224 күн бұрын
once I deleted tik tok, I never felt the need to go back because my brain focused its attention to my actual hobbies or taking care of myself! actually glad to see more people talk about this!
@cielx3334 күн бұрын
You have the best vibe! I didn’t read a lot this summer because I was really social, which was great, but it kinda put me in a really slow reading vibe and I can’t seem to go back to the way I used to read before! So I would really appreciate a video about reading tips ❤️
@Muhammad1-allah4 күн бұрын
Price
@emj30086 күн бұрын
As an autistic person I am not good with emotions so the emotional roller coaster TikTok causes is way too much for me 😂 I followed for your cosy games videos but I have also deleted socials and start reading more recently so this is great timing ❤
@tutesweet37828 күн бұрын
I appreciate your honesty. As another person with anxiety, I find TikTok a comforting brainrot space when I'm awake at 4am when the rest of the world feels blissfully asleep. But you're totally right - that compulsive "consume consume consume the content" feeling creeps back in at times when it's not welcome, and ends up gradually taking up prime hobby/interest time that could be spend on something better.
@cozymonica7 күн бұрын
yess so agree like i think it can really be helpful for quieting down my brain but i just have to be mindful of how much i reach for it
@drinkbooksandreadwine85968 күн бұрын
This vlog is so good ! Thank you for being so open about your social media usage
@StorybooksInn8 күн бұрын
really enjoyed this video and im proud of any step you take! two minutes or two hours of difference; its all worth celebrating 🤍
@cozymonica7 күн бұрын
thank you 🫶🫶
@StorybooksInn8 күн бұрын
i cant let myself have tiktok downloaded because it will consume my whole day
@sarahtotzke-marx63608 күн бұрын
I deleted all my social media except for KZbin about a month ago and I can't believe how much happier I am. I now only consume long form content and I don't do anything except for calling and texting on my phone (I made my iPhone into a dumb phone). Everything I do online now has to be done on my desktop. It's been so freeing. Highly recommend checking out the book 'Digital Minimalism' by Cal Newport.
@lilacdratini8 күн бұрын
It’s so true. Sometimes I learn things from tiktok. But it’s so fast moving that I come away and try to think of something I learnt, and even if I did at the time, it just doesn’t register properly because it’s FAST
@MichaelReads8 күн бұрын
lol. Tati on her QVC stream 🤣🤣
@cozymonica7 күн бұрын
she’s always selling something on live lately ahah
@xoxiomaraox8 күн бұрын
I deleted tiktok back in 2022 and some other social media and have put a lot of work into working on myself…I’m not trying to be judgmental, it’s more of a fact, but I’ve noticed my friends who use tiktok have worse habits than those who don’t…Sleeping, eating, even socially. My friends who I considered “so responsible” have slipped so much due to their screen addictions. Take it seriously if you notice you’re addicted to your phone. A good way to test is to put your phone down and set a timer for 30 minutes…if your anxiety goes haywire maybe it’s time for a dopamine detox.
@aenwynn9508 күн бұрын
I don't know how much more productive reading fiction is over scrolling on social media if you already have good reading skills though.
@cozymonica7 күн бұрын
the point isnt to be more productive though
@seoulologyy8 күн бұрын
This is a sign for me 😅
@Buzpud8 күн бұрын
This is why I don’t have TikTok. Instagram can distract me enough! More reading, less screen is a something I was doing ok at then we got a kitten. She’s very distracting if you are reading a physical book. Many have teeth marks now 😅
@kitschannette30528 күн бұрын
I got a Boox Palma recently and I love it! I don’t use it for anything else but reading and it’s perfect. I also feel that I read much faster on it.
@alishamarie88 күн бұрын
I always learn about books I haven’t heard talked about elsewhere when I watch your videos! Got a few new books added to my tbr
@cozymonica7 күн бұрын
aww im so glad!! 🫶🫶
@feylights1668 күн бұрын
I have never had TikTok, msotly because i never trusted its security, but two, it's just another time suck. I deleted most of my social media accounts earlier this year, and while i sometimes feel FOMO when my Discord servers (mostly anime fandoms) share Twitter/X posts, overall I don't miss it. Helped a lot with anxiety and feeling like i constantly had to check things. SM can be great, but we have a horrible relationship with it these days. The Captive Prince trilogy by CS Pacat is a good enemies to lovers series. They become lovers in the 2nd book, but they spend most of the first book hating each other lol. And while it may not be quite what you're looking for, the Chinese danmei series Husky & His White Cat Shizun is kind of an enemies (though one-sided) to lovers series. And recommended, regardless.
@xcherrykinsx8 күн бұрын
i deleted tiktok a while back and don't miss it because i HATED feeling addicted to the app. that said, i do still get sucked into instagram. the best thing for me - as someone who loves internet culture, has friends online, and generally gets a lot of positives out of the online space (not to mention literal work) - is to place a timer on the app and respect myself/my time by following through with it. so i get 2 hours a day; one hour for each of my accounts, and that's that. occasionally i'll allow myself some more time but that's mostly for, like, travel stints when i'm spending way too long in airports or something :'o)
@emily_kim8 күн бұрын
I don't mean to sound all preachy, but ever since I deleted all social media, my life has been so much better. Granted I don't get the current memes or pop culture events going on, but my attention and productivity has been a world of a difference. If I want to check something, I'll use my laptop. Much less prone to doomscrolling insta or tiktok!
@annie86988 күн бұрын
Girly this is NOT preachy!! I've done the same thing! I don't think our brains are designed to have that much input and it's so bad for your mental health, for me, in terms of comparing myself to others. Pinterest though? Love it forever ❤
@cozymonica8 күн бұрын
i think you would like the book 10 arguments for deleting social media by jason lanier! it’s one of my favorites. i love internet culture and get so much out of social media (on top of having to use it for work stuff), but finding a better balance and being more mindful of what/how im consuming is something im trying to improve 🩵
@JayGTheAwkwardBookworm9 күн бұрын
I can’t even download TikTok because I KNOW I will get sucked in 😅
@cozymonica8 күн бұрын
ahah fairr
@DahliaElizabethRose9 күн бұрын
I have to delete tiktok every time I find myself using it ALOT. my mental state and my anxiety goes down so much every time i delete it but I always end up downloading it again lol.
@cozymonica8 күн бұрын
i feel you
@Bougie_Nerd9 күн бұрын
Me: I don't need to watch stuff like this. I don't spend that much time on tiktok. Also me: Where did the last 4 hours go??
@cozymonica9 күн бұрын
so real 😭 i was shook when i saw my screen time
@taylorsinicropi57869 күн бұрын
So agree about your enemies to lovers you’re looking for! Have you read Spinning Silver by Naomi Novic? That’s one of my favorites. I genuinely thought she would murder him and she would have been right
@cozymonica9 күн бұрын
yesss i love that book so much!
@PokhrajRoy.9 күн бұрын
I tried this in August and was semi successful but then it’s September and idk if it’s better or worse lol
@cozymonica9 күн бұрын
ahah i feel you
@karenbednarz470014 күн бұрын
I have dyslexia and Palma is my favorite.
@peachbloom611422 күн бұрын
I want a full yellow joycon with white buttons just like switch lite
@EdnaFlanagan23 күн бұрын
What the blank is wrong with today's generation?! if we went by that standard everyone would have to stop reading anything by H.G. Wells or Charles Dickens, etc.. Their works are great, but they stunk as human beings.
@TomaszFala-lo2jc25 күн бұрын
Very cute.
@JDzWORLD25 күн бұрын
so beautiful
@sokmaiazz642826 күн бұрын
I think you are very cute and pretty. I really enjoy watching your style and hobbies. GBY
@GSurname28 күн бұрын
how cute you are and your room <3 <3
@mariehurtado_Ай бұрын
The libraries in my area discontinued their partnership with Libby and has switched over to cloud library. So I can’t use my kindle much. If anyone knows if it’s compatible my life is yours
@sweetieroses4 күн бұрын
The boox Palma uses the Google play store which has the cloud library app
@KamiflorVlogАй бұрын
Omg where did you get that dress?? 😍 I need it in my life!
@RaheelAzam-m5dАй бұрын
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@AllyEmReadsАй бұрын
everything about the boox seems like something I would really like--the apps, customization, etc--but I struggle with small screens so much lol. Right now I read ebooks on my iPad but I don't love how cumbersome it can be. If boox had a slightly larger e-reader I think I would like it for myself but the phone size is a liiiittle too small for me (I've been saving up for a kobo)
@yemmie11228 күн бұрын
they have bigger sized ones! I've seen a few of theirs that seem comparable to different kindle/kobold sizes
@ymz7367Ай бұрын
📚 this is my favorite book(s) emoji!
@BookishBlackwellАй бұрын
This looks like a very interesting little device! I love the idea of being able to have access to the Libby app as well as Everand (I also HATE reading on a non e-ink screen so have never fully utilized Everand's ebook catalogue as well) It's a bit out of my price range at the moment but it might go on my Christmas wish list =). Thank you for opening up about your executive dysfunction. I have ADHD too and I know exactly what you mean when you say that sometimes its hard to do stuff, even stuff you know is fun and that you enjoy. I almost wish the Palma had phone capabilities because that just sounds really refreshing. I've looked into e-ink phones before but none of them seem to be able to do what this can do. Maybe one day!
@bookishlifebytennaАй бұрын
Loved this video! I went there last year and like you said yourself, it is such a magical experience and is something every happy potter fan should experience 😍 I personally really liked the butter beer 🙈
@brisamoen5611Ай бұрын
U mentioned being scared of doing gel nails yourself, and I’ve done my gel nails for a while and I started getting those videos too lol. But I also learned that getting gel allergies are typically because of cheap gel polish, like beetle polishes or anything else from Amazon. So I’ve switched to Korean polishes because ppl have said they are the safest, also I think if it says they are hema free they are pretty safe. Hope this helps!
@amysquieАй бұрын
I tend to read physical library books or listen to audiobooks on Spotify. I like the bigger screen of a kindle but this looks so cute for those who want a smaller ereader! 🫖
@ChocolateTeapot93Ай бұрын
I like the idea of an android device with an e-ink screen because sometimes I want to read things authors put on Ream or Patreon and reading on my phone just isn't an enjoyable experience. But the price is just way too high. If Amazon has any sense they'll make their own version of this.
@cozymonicaАй бұрын
if amazon ever did make one (which tbh i doubt they would) theirs would likely be the same price if not more expensive if you look at the cost of their other premium ereaders. but also while expensive i do think the price is pretty fair for what you get especially since they’re not a huge corporation that can sell at a loss