Excellent tip, thank you

I went through a devorce 2 years ago then got cancer which was really tough but I'm still here and ive got to be grateful for that

what if it was your fault?

It’s hard my brothers but I believe in everyone reading this message

Excellent advice! I’ve been separated for 8 months and only thing left to do is sign the papers after the judge signs. Hang in there my brothers, this is only temporary and time and self healing is the way. Love yourself

Good tips. Thanks! Analysis of this divorce experience had led me to see that it’s not the loss of love. Marriage for a man is foundational. Provider, protector, husband and dad. When she comes to you with divorce, she’s already processed and grieved the loss. And she actually feels empowered for self. Meanwhile, you are standing on quicksand. Your identity gone like tears in the rain. This is my 2nd divorce and I learned from the 1st; I can get over her quickly. But the kids. FK man. Dad is in the home. Sure, father is forever but father is not dad. There are no mental gymnastics to overcome that loss. Some debts cannot be paid. My advice is time. And so I’m giving it a year. My career, exercise, sleep, no booze or porn or politics or sports to numb. I’m going live in this 1br apt for one year and then look at the moon 🌙 I’ll see what I see and if I have peace and love then I made it through the storm. If not, plan B. Making a big change!

This is speaking SUCH serious facts right now, that just hearing him even talk about this stuff without trying it first is already helping me to start the healing process. It's only been 2 years of marriage for me, but this month would be our anniversary, and I just got coerced into divorce yesterday. I'll definitely be back on this video to report back on my process, but I just wanna say WE ALL GOT THIS, Y'ALL 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

It works in stages 1 the cord cutting 2 . Falling into hatred 3. Get to forgive and let go 27 years ended bitterly

Divorce is the worst pain I've ever had to endure. Acceptance of what happened, forgiveness for your ex, and faith in the future have helped me. Faith in God helps tremendously as well.

Meditation is lack of action and wasting time. Make a plan with realistic goals and use that time to work towards those goals.

Thanks for making this video. It’s obvious so many of us are in the same boat. All experiencing the same thoughts. Different reasons. I find community to be difficult but maintain my healing via workouts and any time spent with other “dads”. I find most of them won’t find time to come out due to wives controlling their time. Not to mention my X already talking with their wives. We both amicable during this divorce, yet she has gone out to all people to let them know her side of the story. She had taken away from me a moment where I could have said some things. Don’t let this happen to you. Go out there and let every one you know what has happened and how much you need their help.

I didn't realize this was for men. It helped me anyway. Thank you so much.

Maybe divorce help man to understand that it is ok to cry. For men it is easier to explore the moon than to deal with his inner feelings. Something that women are more at ease with !

Tip number one - Treat your women right.

Every man getting divorced is going to get financially destroyed. Spend time getting your money right. You are going to need help and dont get involved with a new female, she will cost you even more money.

It been 8 years... No luck...seemingly I'm better.. but not realy... I know I'm still hurting bad.

Excellent video. It is so helpful to me. Thank you!

Appreciated this video very much!

Thank you 👍👍🙏🙏 I have this what you speak of. It sucks !!!

Spoken from the heart....and true too.!

Great message. Having experienced it mysel, I couldn't agree more. Thanks for the share.

Wish my wife lots of luck navigating a single life at the age of 62. When sex is not there for 20 years why continue. I live in Vegas. Sell the house ,get my condo and my Tesla.

Keep in touch with you kids, travel ,do what makes you happy, travel and do not get into another relationship. At the age of 68 my wife and are divorcing. I am ok with it. Starting to navigate my third chapter

Go tracel

I’m a woman but I came to learn how men become heartless. This is useful information for how men become so cold and distant. Thank you I’ll be using these.

Was married for 3 years and it didnt work out. No kids, it was amicable and it sucks at times. Moving forward

Divorce is the most devastating thing in your life next to a funeral (especially with kids involved and you are the father who can’t see your kids all of the time and pay child support) God with us all ❤️🤘✝️

23 yrs of marriage. We had fertility issue for 10 years. Finally had 2 miracle kids. She got cancer and survived. I dropped dead from blood clots in my heart. And now at the age of 44 she has an affair with 29 year old and will not go to marriage therapy. I've tried everything. Im lost....

Sounds like nonsense right now

The same useless advice offered by everyone.

🙏 your words are giving lot of strength

I don't want to get over my divorce. As long as this pain is with me, part of my ex is with me as well.

This helped me so much. Thank you. 🙏🏼

This is one of the most important videos I have ever listened to. Thank you

I divorced 6 years ago... it has been a status quo none of us had moved on to anybody. Now she has moved on... and i feel like the whole shit is starting all over again. or as if without this part it has never been over, I have never been through her without this step. I fear that this will never be ove, now facing that I will be forced to watch what they will do together with my children... Its is killing me. how will I ever be over her???

Great video, so very encouraging for men. When I divorced years ago I was all shook up to my great surprise, and it was a lonely process to recover. I just thought it was just me having a hard time.

Best way to get over your divorce quicker? Do what allows YOU to get over it at pace that is best for YOU. While the suggestions in these type of videos is helpful - it is not a cure all.

Separated for a year and divorce to be concluded in a week. She wanted the divorce. I tried to get her back. No joy. Was married for 9 years no kids. Now her family have encouraged her to take me to court for 50 percent of my house, business, apartment and cars. Worked so hard my entire life. Now this is making me suicidal. It’s just too much for me to deal with. Been fighting a really tough battle with depression recently. Can’t leave the house can’t speak to my friends or family. It’s hard. Before all this I was a person people loved to be around. Now ……. Disappearing.

Your advice help. I’m seeking a support group nearby because I have no friends or family to talk to . This woman was my whole life .

Great advice. Going through it currently and having a hard time with it all but your video really helped! Thank you

I was married 9 years. It ended slow....than all of a sudden. I am using videos to cope :/

Not sure if my coping strategy is healthy. But hey it works for me!

It's the emotional attachment that causes all the gut-wrenching heartache. Throw in the fact that you have young kids together and it's a living nightmare. It feels like your being punished by God and all you want is to rewind the tape and do it right. The crazy part is, I was allowed to rewind the tape, over and over. Chance after chance and it got a little better but always deteriorated. Sometimes I think I never really loved her and that was the root of the whole thing. But the attachment is no joke. You could put supermodels around me everyday and I would still just think of her. My brain is wired. I want it all to end, but don't at the same time because ending the misery would be letting go of hope (that's how it feels at least).

I have had two Christian women dip out on me by cheating. Just got to face the facts. Women don’t love unconditionally. A piece of paper saying your married means zero to a woman. Wedding vows also mean zero to a woman. Don’t get married to these women until you have dated her 20 years.

My wife kinda lost it. 36F, married 10 years with 2 very young kids. She decided the marriage was over and had an affair for 1 month with a guy, and at the same time hooking up with our 22F babysittter who is kinda ghetto, but at least she’s in college. They listen to Toosii together, KZbin a song. Recently divorced. I found all the details on her Apple Watch b/c she forgot to change the password. Saw that they both got each others first initial tattooed on their wrists. Classy. Crazy part is my ex is a CPA making in the mid 6 figures. Educated and successful woman. Good riddance to trash. I like your videos.

Hi I just started to watch you videos. They are great- thank you! I’m in the middle of a painful divorce process and I struggle emotionally a lot. It’s a very sad time for me and your videos help. Thank you!

If all the pain and suffering can in some bring her back and make you happy.. then I’d say suck it up and push through. But constantly remind your literal and functional mind that it’s all a COMPLETE waste of energy and time grieving for her and she DOESNT DESERVE IT. Find a couple things you really enjoy and do that with all your heart or at least MAKE yourself do them and eventually the pain will go away. Just remember. Don’t make the same mistake again. Let all the bad women whore themselves out for what they need and ruin other men’s lives until they die bitter and alone. Get smarter. Understand the game. Maybe you’ll get lucky and find a good woman… just know going in that they are very rare or already married.. and women lie very very well. Practice made them perfect. Do I sound bitter? I’m being a realist not a pessimist.

My dad passed away when I was 8. I was essentially raised by my mom & 5 sisters. Because of this, I thought I had an understanding of women. But the "sugar & spice" theme came crashing down with my last relationship. I believe this is because we had children together. My ex had a plan & it wasn't hard to execute once we had kids!! I'm currently on child support & have been since my kids were 2yo. But prior to going to court my ex moved out & took the kids while I was at work. From there, she began asking me questions such as "How much do you think you should be paying me?" It was a total mind fuck as I was providing for our family the entire time (including a 9yo son she had from a previous relationship). Needless to say, I was pissed off. I ultimately asked her why she was doing this to me & she replied "You've had it too easy in life, you're about to get what you deserve... This is what you get for Fucking with a Bitch who didn't have shit!" (HER words not mine). Then I found out how crooked the family court system is. This happened almost 12years ago. It's been 12 years of painful Co-Parenting - as I watch my child support money being spent on everything but my children. The ex now drives a Tesla, has relocated to over 4 different addresses, etc. I was 39 when we met & 41 when we had children. Today I am 53yo but I feel much older as this entire ordeal has taken & continues to take a toll on me. Honestly, I don't know if I'll ever feel the same about relationships!!! I truly empathize with all good men who made the ultimate sacrifice in marriage only to see it crumble without warning. Stay strong

Thank you, brother. I am going through it now. Mentally I know it will be ok, but it hurts really bad right now.

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