I’m INFP. I do text that much, but only to my family (mostly my husband and older son). My son complains and my ISTP husband, God bless him, accepts it and is so nice about it. My ex-husband was a fellow INFP and he criticized and complained about it nonstop. He was Hell on my self-esteem. With everybody else, including friends I dearly love, I tend to not respond to their texts for days, if ever. And then feel bad. And yes I do like being ordered around lol. My ISTP man hates being ordered around so he assumes I do too but I’m trying to convey that when done right it can be a turn-on, but he’s too gentle and sweet for that and I appreciate this in him as well. He’s good to me. ❤ And yes also I’ve learned, only in my 40s, that I can be turned on by being spoken “down to,” or in a lecturing way lol. My husband is good at that but usually only when he’s jealous or thinks I behaved inappropriately around some man. Or emotionally responded in a manner which was wayyy out of line (this doesn’t happen much anymore in middle age). It’s such a turn on I love it when he does although he thinks I hate it. What I actually hate is being nit-picked and criticized. I’ll eventually shut anyone out who does that. I despise it. But lecturing in this dominant or parental kind of way, when I actually did do something inappropriate or “wrong” and I know it, OR when he’s a bit possessive but not in a truly toxic way, I love that s***. 😂 If I were immature I might risk inducing situations that would make him do that, but again I’m thankfully now more mature now in my 40s and I don’t want to mess with his emotional state so I keep things calm and peaceful but on occasion when the situation naturally arises I think “ok when is he going to get to the lecturing part? I hope he does it really strong and firm and well this time.” Lololol God I love masculine strength. Sooooooo much. If I were single I might want to head out looking for some morally upright ENTJ. But man I’m so thankful for this beautiful ISTP manly-man who loves me so well. And I hope my INFP ex finds his ISTP or ENTJ or ESTP or whatever kind of woman he needs. It’s true INFPs aren’t compatible with each other like that. CS Joseph knows his stuff.

never gonna move outa this attic, sorry. can't get over the fact that i missed the train of life anyways.

This video is the equivalent of a how to rob a bank tutorial. You're either a moron or someone who is really stupid

Naa.. no point or examples I can relate. I have seen other videos that present more accurate points on INTJ & ENFJ pairing. I am INTJ with ENFJ husband, 25 yrs marriage. It works. We complement each other and each other’s best friend. Examples here don’t sound like us.

I dont care what approach i take towards life all i care is i dont want regrets.

I envy them on some degree cause they got away with terrible things they did, while I as INFJ got pushed under the bus several times for decisions everyone agreed upon initially. Now I just want to chill as passenger and let other people do the thinking and decision making, but it's hard to shut my mind and heart😂. I do things for everyone betterment yet everyone is saving their own asses. I am confused whether to reply on my heart calling or just be safe and not heartbroken anymore.

Why do so many websites have different results?

How to know our real nature when we have lost ourself for so long?

i think exfp play stupid to get what they want but enfp can get away with it more than esfp because esfp lack intuition.... ti to me is facing reality exfp avoid it, they look for way at least to avoid facing it head on with logic thus the titles of the joksters, even se dom esfp dont really face reality as estp/istp do they use their se for their fi desires they are deprave just as enfp.

Is actress Anne Hathaway an ISFP? She sounds like it

Well I learned a long time ago not to hold other people to my own standards, it's tiring though as I've to deal with the stress of it, but at least others are happy 😅

This video is beatiful

7:39 is where I decided to DNF. This is imaginary construct dribble repackaged as cognitive functions.

Is this matrix found in Jungian theory? Where can I find and learn to construct this matrix? I thought MBTI was way simpler and way less developed.

C.S.Joseph, there was a scheduled zoom meeting with you on Dec.19, 07 A.M. (japan time) and i couldnt meet you because you were absent. I sent you email to ask about it and there was no reply. Please check your email or tell me where i could to communicate to you or please get it refund.😅

elon musk is INTJ Personality type not INTP Personality type

- fairness / justice - endurance - develop skills for the sake of justice - protection of others - providing freedom and choices for others - the more you listen, the more you're wanted - do meaningful thing, not expedient thing

im an intp with an istp in a relationship, what do I do

Otay

sometimes i like inxj sometimes i dont i hate the aggression of superiority when its all blatant insecurity. like cut it out , just be genuine because i already know i can help you more than you can help me is how i see it. and why everything about sxx with this video smh

I literally used this video as a catalyst to stop a fight with my ENTJ fiance, who will be my wife day after tomorrow, and yes, there’s a prenup. If you haven’t I do hope to see you cover the assertive versus turbulent type of the 16 types as my girl was swearing I couldn’t be an INTP for weeks because I don’t fit the sad stereotypes. I’m definitely a nerd, but I was one of the most popular kids growing up. It’s like INTP is going to pick something to be an expert in and I chose social interaction. I showed her an INTP Assertive video and it made sense to her.

I used to hate the word hope when I was younger being an Ne child, cuz I don't understand what is hope it seemed stupid!

I'm struggling to connect with this video. I understand you're not speaking through a Christian lens and you're not taking into account of a matured infj. There's jealousy, coveting, and envy. It makes no sense to me to attempt to take ownership over a person and or to feel jealous. Covid brain for sure with these over generalizations like wow 😊

24:10 accurate

I started as "who's this man who talking for hours" and ended up with listening to 4 episodes a day..... INFJ fan here

I have my own attention as an Intj. I am afraid of too much of others attention. But if I don't get the attention from my favorite person it hurts me af. Also, I don't like if I too much attention get from my favorite person. I need alone time. I don't really understand it yet. 😂

So, to sum it up ... Trust is the ENTP Megadeath's song.

Oh, CS dear... I just saw the list and I shuddered. Please swap ENTJ and INTJ with ESTJ and ESTJ. ESTJ and INFJ simply have too many opposing views. With ISTJ, I kinda agree but you should now that ISTJ's *Si* will eventually clash with INFJ's Ni. ISTJs would find Ni to be impractical and INFJ's will have to over-rely on Fe to keep the situation harmonious. Not to mention ISTJs might be very disapproving toward INFJ's Ti. The presence of Ne-child with Si-inferior would make it hard for INFJs to read ISTJs, so the INFJs would just compensate it with Fe. And that if the INFJ is healthy, how if they're unhealthy? ENTJ and INTJ, on the other hand, would at least understand INFJ a lot more easily through their Ni (and vice versa). Maturity also plays a role for ENTJ, once they develop their Fi, they could be more accepting toward INFJ's Ni and Fe. It has such a beautiful potential. With mature ESTJs? I could also feel good working dynamics when the ESTJs develop their Ne and Fi, they would be more tolerant to different point-of-view, but the issue will be similar to ISTJ-INFJ: They would find it difficult to actually read each other (Si vs Ni). This is different with ENTJ-INFJ who could easily read/understand each other in the first place. And it doesn't make sense to put *the* ESFJ above INTJ, ENTJ, ENFJ, INFJ - all great people for me. Older ESFJs can be fun, but the same age? Especially E3? They can be gossipy and backstabbing. No, thanks.

Sorry, Joseph. It's almost ridiculous to put ESFJ ISFJ and even ENFP before INTJ with whom the ENTJ shares the Intuitive Intuition.

As always well said! 🙌🏻 That's exactly why I always appreciate my ESFJ father (me INTP) and the pain our relationship provides and helped me grow...

So we’re not ADHD after all?

10:08-10:15 Beautiful, raw, "out in nature" ENTP moment 😂

Awesome content man.

Cant se users wear black because they think it looks good? I m an ISTP and 90% of the time I wear only black or a mix of black and very little neon orange

ISFPs too often only use ENTJ mode to control and enslave vulnerable people covertly to others. ISFPs in domestic situations are bullies far too often

Hope is passive, hate takes action. It is possible to workup a hatred for despair. I'd rather hate that which deserves to be hated than hope it magically improves itself if I stare and think about it long enough! Disclaimer: NEVER HATE ANYONE FOR ANYTHING THEY CANNOT CHANGE ABOUT THEMSELVES!!!

We INFPs have been burned way too many times by talking about "truth." People don't wanna hear it. LAW 32 PLAY TO PEOPLE'S FANTASIES The truth is often avoided because it is ugly and unpleasant. Never appeal to truth and reality unless you are prepared for the anger that comes from disenchantment. Life is so harsh and distressing that people who can manufacture romance or conjure up fantasy are like oases in the desert: Everyone flocks to them. There is great power in tapping into the fantasies of the masses. Greene, Robert. 48 Laws of Power

My father died today. My mother isfj. Shes never been alone. Any vacay more than a 3 day weekend has been with family. Im intj. Ive spent decades alone. Im here on suicide watch currently. I figured who better to teach her how to transition to an alone lifestyle? She has her church friends and i support that group for her but when you are home alone night after night, to teach her how to self care and keep the scary loner demons at bay.

This guy lifts my soul ahahah

I dont like the sound of testing that intjs do.

Need the playlist where you explained the masculine archetypes

Si is groups/culture and its subjective.. if a Si user isn't sharing with you it doesn't find you valuable/worthy Si-Ne axis deals with resources... For example for me growing up hot water was scarce so the hot water goes to who's most important.. generally the man who goes to work... If you ever see homeless people know that whatever community or culture they came from considered them to be junk Nothing personal... just find the right Si users who value you

So in short, become a moral person that your super ego can respect, and then you won't have to fear rejection.

As an INTP woman who doesn't present herself to the world as a typical unkempt INTP, I can vouch that INTP men feel entitled to me.

Good talk mate ,, it helps

Sure, library of men in the head to compare with Si trickster 🤡🤡🤡

Shall I believe that I can potentially become smarter than all of you? 😂 I hope you are right.

I wish you add Arabic translation to your videos that would help you to reach mor followers

25:45 given that the level of degeneracy the world is in...... It seems fair to worry uh....

I wonder how much childhood trauma plays into INFJ character? And are we so rare because of Darwin’s survival of the fittest? Why do you assume the one man can satisfy all the needs of a woman? No one can supply every need of another without failing.